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1 1 1 of a a a a I a a a SIXTEEN POUGHKEEPSIE JOURNAL FRIDAY, JULY 7, 1961 DeMarco-Kimbark Troth. Made Known at Luncheon Letter Box DEAR HELEN: I can't keep my. feet still when the band strikes up and that's my whole trouble. When wife and married was teaching in a national dance, chain studio. The job paid well and the work easy to take, it being second nature for me to put rhythm into any girl on a dance floor.

No kicks from the wife until she went Home to mother to have our second baby. While she was gone, I got transferred to another. town and she wrote if 1 wanted to see her and the children again to quit being And a real job. lanciot. dancing but I love my wife more; so 1 took what she would call a decent job.

Now she says she won't come back ever. I think her folks keep us apart. She and the chiladren are on the family farm. At one time she said she 'would never live there again. What can I do to get her and the kids DEAR R.

There are two sides to every story. Get your wife's side. If she won't come to you, go to her at once. Listen to her gripes and show, your willingness to right them, as you've already done in changing jobs, that she and the children hold Arst place in your heart and life. Make it clear that you don't intend to let anybody, not even her parents, separate you.

Be forceful. Take the aggressive! DEAR HELEN: My mother's boy friend fell in love with me and I with him. Now she hates me but I couldn't help it any more than he could. I am 18, he 38. We hope to marry in October.

-UNHAPPY DEAR UNHAPPY: Two wrongs don't make a right. This man, who is more than twice your age and far more experienced, should be strong, if you are not. Your, mother is well rid of him and you'd better be too, if you value your future happiness. Put him out of your life, even if it means leaving home. I realize this won't be easy, my dear, and you'll probably suffer more than the cradle snatcher or your mother but, in the end, you'll be the winner.

DEAR HELEN: I was raised on a farm and never went anywhere except to school. Knowing about life, I married a man with a prison record and have been paying for it ever since. He drinks and can't keep a job. We have four children, and, after 14 years, no savings. My husband worries more about his dogs and rabbits than he does, him for me.

or Is me there and any our hope WIFE DEAR WIFE: Being a convict your husband must have been on probation. Ask the parole officer who handled his case to help you get him in line again. The probation people are usually pretty understanding and just as anxious as the family to see their charges go straight. (A Bell Syndicate Feature) Mrs. Assenza Mark Anniversary Mr.

and Mrs. Salvatore Assenza, 131 Washington street, who were married July 8, 1935, are observing their 26th wedding anniversary by vacationing in Sielly and Italy, having made the trip by jet plane on July 4. The couple was married in Mt. Carmel church by the Most Rev. Joseph M.

Pernicone, auxiliary bishop of the Catholie Church of New York. Mrs. Assenza is the former Rose Caccoma, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Caccoma, 56 Dutchess avenue.

The couple, who has two sons, Carmine and Salvatore, are proprietors of Rose Assenza's Grocery store, 131 Washington street. Salvatore accompanied his parents to Italy. Bennett Graduate Engaged To 'Be Wed Mrs. Edward F. Swenson, Palm Beach, and East Hampton, L.I., announces the betrothal of Miss Louise W.

Swenson, daughter of her late husband' and of the late Mrs. Louise Dickinson- Swenson, to John R. Mahoney. He is the son of the late Judge and Mrs. Cornelius J.

Mahoney of North Andover, Mass. Miss Swenson, who was graduated from Bennett college, is member of the public relations staff of the Institute of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation of New York University Medical center. In World War II she served with the WAVES in the Naval Air Transport Mr. Mahoney, who is a partner in the New York law firm of Carey, Lane and Mittendorf, was graduated from Andover, Harvard college and Harvard Law school. He served as a captain in the Army in the Middle East in World War II and is a member of the Tuxedo club and India House.

Brian Sutcliffe. Christened DeMarco, 69 South avenue, Wappingers Falls, announce. the Miss Barbara Ann DeMarco, to engagement of A their daughter, Robert Wayne He. is the Mr. and Mrs.

Junction. Harry J. Kimbark, Hopewell The announcement was made recently at family buffet luncheon. Miss DeMarco attended Wappingers schools and will be graduated from the State University, College in of August. Education She will at teach first grade at the Vassar Road Elementary school in September.

Mr. Kimbark, who also -attended Wappingers schools: is employed by. Eberhard Builders. Inc. The wedding will take place next summer.

Mt. Carmel Group To Tour Canada Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Members of St. Rita's society of Mt.

Carmel church will leave here tomorrow morning for Canada where they will visit Montreal, Quebec and other of interest. The group, which will leave the church by at 7 o'clock, will be by the Joseph Lumia, pastor of the Church of St. Francis of Assissi, Mount Vernon, former pastor of Mt. served as moderator St. Carmel church where he.

also Rita's society. Mrs. Calio, president of the society, has been in charge of reservations for the trip. Among others planning to attend are Mrs. Fanny DeFelice, Mrs.

Jessie Calio, Mrs. Josephine Filola, Mrs. Julia Bogo, Mrs. Mary Ochoa, Mrs. Kay Ferolito, Mrs.

Gladys Pinello, Mrs. Madeleine Illustrato, Mrs. Peggy Finn, Mrs. Bella Liguori, Miss Rose Saintomas, Miss Jennie Casale, Miss Sarah Vecchio, Mrs. Regina Manieri, Mrs.

Antoinette Manieri. Mrs. Concetta Chiavelli, Mrs. Angelina Ciampi, Mrs. Theresa Caldararo, Mrs.

Mary Butti, Mrs. Phyllis LoPresti, Mrs. Isabella Stevenson, Mrs. Carrie Gallante, Mrs. Elizabeth Ryan, Mrs.

Mary Hart, Mrs. Janet Sucato. Mrs. Mary Rinaldi, Mrs Lena Cervone. Mrs.

Mary Aiena. Mrs. Josephine in Tubiola, A Mrs. Angelina Molinaro, Mrs. Nancy Daniels, Julia Long, Mrs.

Anna Ferrante and Mrs. Lena Palmieri. Henry Wheelers Hosts at Party Mr. and Mrs. Henry Wheeler.

Clinton Corners, were hosts for community party recently, given in honor of Professor Gerard DeGre and Richard Gummere and their families. Dr. DeGre Gummere will be on "leave of absence from Bard college next year, the former on sabbatical in Washnigton, D.C., where he will on a project for the government, and the latter working toward his Ph.D. degree at Columbia university. The farewell party was given by members of the Oswego Monthly Meeting, Society of Friends; the DeGres and the Gummeres attend Bulls Head Road Meeting, Clinton Corners.

Approximately 56 guests were in attendance, from Stanfordville, Milan, Pleasantville, Albany, Poughkeepsie, Liberty, Hyde Park, Barrytown, Rhinebeck and Worster, including two visitors from Nigeria and Ma: Anne Adams Dress Patterns 4515 WAIST BACK streamlined culotte panels except or goftperfection Misses yards 45- in coins 10 cents Adams, Journal, West 17th N.Y, Print with zone, show of pages, our new send 35 Sonnenberg Will Be Married in Fall Mrs. Grace M. Sonnenberg, 84 Inwood avenue, announces the engagement of her daughter, Miss Augusta Nancy Sonnenberg, to Gordon Russell Wilmot, son of Mr. and Mrs. O.

Gordon Rushford. Miss Sonnenberg, a Roosevelt High school graduate, is employed as a secretary at the IBM Development laboratory. Mr. Wilmot was graduated from Rensselaer Polytechnic institute, Troy, where he was a ternity, and served in the U.S. member of Pi Kappa Phi fraAir Force for four years.

He nay is employed as an associate engineer at the IBM Development laboratory. A fall wedding is planned. Patricia Grosso Honored at Shower Miss Patricia Grosso, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent A.

Grosso, Wappingers Falls, was the guest of honor at a bridal shower given by Mrs. and Miss Diane Sabia, a cousin of the future bride. The shower, Saturday night took place at the Hellenic Center buffet -supper was served. Table decorations were arranged -by Miss, Grosso's mother' and featured a group of bridal dolls as centerpiece. Dinner music was provided by Daniel Sabia accordionist.

Miss Grosso is to be married to Raymond DeGenova in September. Attending were Mrs. Lena Gioia, Mrs. Mert Marshall. Mrs.

Anna DeMarco, Mrs. Seiacca, Mrs. Julia McCabe, Mrs. Mary Silvestri; Mrs. Theresa Raffaele, Mrs.

Jean Nenni, Mrs. Helen Luciano, Mrs. Mary shall, Mrs. Mary Garzise, Mrs. Mary Hatala, Mrs.

Mary Lucato. Mrs. Jeana DiMeo. Mrs. Lucy DiMarco.

Mrs. Helen Barocca, Mrs. Hilda Lattanzio, Mrs. Mildred DiCambio, Mrs. Theresa Walker, Mrs.

Emma DiSantis. Miss DiSantis, Mrs. Angela Armstrong, Mrs. Grace Sidote, Sidote, Mrs. Jenny Costa, Miss Michele Luty, Mrs.

Irene Luty, Miss Geraldine Nazzaro, Mrs. Nazzaro, Mrs. Mildred Turko. Mrs. Louise Cafaro, Florence DiDomizio, Mary Inunzio.

Mrs. Mary Mrs. Mary DiGiandomenico. Mrs. Lorraine Rogers, Henry Campilii, Mrs.

Dolly, Way, Mrs. Venzie Campilii, Mrs. Clara Philips, Mrs. Mary Daniel. Mrs.

Josephine Amodeo, Mrs. Rosemarie DiRocco, Mrs. Mary Scarselli. Mrs. John Aiello, Miss Dolores Kennedy, Miss Eileen McFarland.

Miss Loretta Burrafiore, Miss Diana DiGiandomenico, Miss Joanne D'Antoni, Miss Doris D'Antoni, Miss Diane Sabia, Mrs. Jean Santilli, Mrs. Dora Sabia, Miss Rose Sabia, Mrs. Marie D'Antoni, Mrs. Lena Sabia, Mrs.

Marie Sabia, Mrs. Dea Sabia and Mrs. Mildred Muriel Lawrence The Mature Parent Dear Mrs. Lawrence: Our 14-year-old girl's Saturday morning chore is cleaning the upstairs bathroom. But it always takes such pushing and arguments to get her going at it that I've been doing it myself for the past month.

My husband says this is spoling her. But this is what you've advised, isn't I'm sure I remember your writing that we shouldn't force children to do chores they resent. ANSWER: Whoa, just a minute here. We release a child from a chore he hates, not to provide him with idleness but to provide him with a job he can enjoy. So I suggest that if you are going to continue to take on the bathroom Saturday mornings, you ask your' daughter to plan and prepare Saturday evening supper.

This seems to be the time to explain my reason for believing it wise to release a child from a chore he resents. We relieve him to the hated job to protect him against developing an undesirable attitude toward all work. All of us, adults and children, who are forced to do chores we hate week in and week out can begin to think of all work as basically unsatisfying-a meaningless activity exchanged for the right to exist. We all know grownups who think of their jobs as a boring means to their weekly salary check-a dull grind from which they expect no pleasure and demand none. Like the old galley slaves who sweated out their lives in the darkness of a ship's hold without interest in its direction or purpose, they regard work as a kind of punishment to.be endured as stoically as possible.

It is to avoid the of such a an irresponsible attitude toward work--that use of our own energies -that we refrain forcing hated chores from children. Like you and daughter needs to experience work as and adventurous if she's to accept its duller routines in a generous spirit. Of course if we're the kind of mother who can never let the ironing wait while we arrange sprays of apple. blossoms in the living room, we will be shocked by child's resistance boring chore, thinking, "Who are you to want fun out of work when I dare not ask for any in mine?" I may add that children who never experience work as, joy find making vocational choices a very diffcult thing. Cheese needs low temperatures when used in cooked dishes, or it become in a casserole foods stringy.

When cheese, is used used with it help protect it from the heat. Personal Mention Mr. and Mrs. James R. Turnbull, Auburndale, are spending a few days with the former's mother, Mrs.

Elizabeth Turnbull, 149 Montgomery street. Vincent O'Connor, 1 May street, is a patient at St. Francis' hospital. Daniel G. Lawrence 122 Wilbur 'boulevard, has been named to the Dean's list at the University of Maine at Orono.

John Thomas Walsh, 193. MIll street, was among the 1,426 Fordham university graduates who received their degrees the 116th annual commencement Richard Rose, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harold Rose, 15 Cobey will enroll as a freshman at Clarkson College of Technology, Potsdam, in September. A graduate of Roosevelt Highschool, he will study electrical engineering.

Berta Frey, Woodstock, is exhibiting -wool and material for a man's dinner jacket at the first "New York Crafts show which opened last Saturday at the Munson-WilliamsProctor institute, Utica, and will continue through Sept. 5. Mrs. Stella McCullen, a court officer, Talmadge street, is patient at St. Francis' hospital.

Mr. and Mrs. Henry Wise, Pleasant Valley, are on an ex: tended trip through the southern states and, while away, will be visiting at the home of the former's sister in Florida. Mrs. Joseph Blattler, 36.

Marple road, is a patient at Vassar hospital where she is receiving treatment for injuries received in a fall at her home. Miss Ruth B. Johnson, 13 Dutcher place, was among the 1,426 Fordham university graduates who received their degrees at the 116th annual commencement exercises. Eugene B. Hogenauer, son of and Mrs.

Howard Hogenauer, Burr road, Pawling, will enroll as a freshman at Clark College of Technology, Pots. dam, in September. A graduate of Pawling Central school, he plans to study electrical engineering. Miss Anne Kopecky, 16 North Perry street, a student at Indiana university, Bloomington, is one of 12 appointed predoctoral fellows in microbiology at the university. Mr.

and Robert M. Humphrey. Widmer road, Wappingers Falls, were recent visitors at Sarasota (Fla.) Jungle Gardens. Iona Plath, Woodstock, is exhibiting upholstery fabric at the "New York Crafts-1961" show which opened last Saturday at the Proctor institute. Utica, and will continue through Sept.

5. Mr. and Mrs. James B. Russell, Stream lane, Pleasant Valley.

recently returned home from a two-week motor trip to Virginia and Kentucky, stopping Pennsylvania, West Virginia, enroute to visit Mrs. Edith Patterson and family, Waynesburg, and the Merle Paddock family, Lexington, former Pleasant Val-' ley residents. Mrs. Alden Traver, Bedell road, is a patient at Vassar hospital. Mrs.

Elsie Scarchilli, 98 South avenue, has been admitted to St. Francis' hospital. Charles J. Palazzo, Hopewell road, Wappir.gers Falls, is receiving treatment at Vassar hospital. Mrs.

Gloria See and sons, James and Robert, have arrived here from Lexington, to spend the month with her mother, Mrs. Lucille D'Andrea, 59 Violet avenue. Mrs. John Hamilton, 14 South Parsonage street, Rhinebeck, is in Vassar hospital. Mrs.

Maude Huntington is convalescing at her home, 8 Harrison street, after a fourweek stay at Vassal hospital where she was treated for a broken arm. Mrs. Ella C. Traver, who is a patient at the Mountain View Convalescent home, Nevis, will observe her 91st birthday next Tuesday. Mrs.

Traver broke her hip in a fall a year ago. Mrs. Vivian Gardner, 73 Old Post road, is convalescing at home after having been a patient in Vassar hospital. Airman First Class and Mrs. Stuart Weiss have returned to Harlingen Air Force, Base, Harlingen, wedding trip north.

Mr. Weiss is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Weiss, 8 Mack road. The couple was married May 5.

in Edinburgh, Tex. Mrs. Weiss is the former Nary Woodroof of Texas. Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Wands, 106 North Grand and Mr. and Mrs. Ernest L. Tinklepaugh, 502 Church street, will leave from Idlewild tomorrow by jet fof Miami Beach, where they will'be registered at the Hotel Fontainebleau for 10 days. Mr.

Wands and Mr. Tinklepaugh will attend the Elks', National Convention. Mrs. Nellie Smith, West road, Pleasant Valley, who suffered a hip fracture recently, has been discharged from Vassar hospital is convalescing at the home of after a two stay and now Mrs. Hilda -Lee, also of Pleaslant Valley.

THE GIRLS By Franklin Folger, 77 "One nice thing about your virus, it cleared the shelves of all those old, half-filled medicine John Lane Studio MISS AUGUSTA NANCY SONNENBERG, 84 Inwood avenue, who will be married in the fall to Gordon Russell Wilmot, Rushford. Mills Photo MISS BARBARA" ANN DE MARCO, 69 South avenue, Wappingers Falls, who is engaged to be married to Robert Wayne Kimbark, Hopewell Junction. Hebrew Society To Sponsor Picnic Members of the Hebrew Fraternal Benevolent society of Poughkeepsie will sponsor their annual picnic, Sunday, at Hill Top lodge at a Sylvan Lake. Entertainment and music will be provided by Milton Siegel. Refreshments will be served by the entertainment committee under the direction of Herbert Grossman, first vice president.

Valley Grange Slates Program meleasant a Valley o'clock, Grange Tuesday will night, at the Grange hall, at which time William Vogel, James Sweeney and William T. Love will speak on the history of the Dutchess Area Community Chest and Council. Mr. Vogel, who is manager of the Life Insurance department of the Poughkeepsie Savings bank, is volunteer chairman of the Chest's public relations division; Mr. Sweeney is the Chest's executive director, and Mr.

Love is vice chairman of the public relations division. Master June Sherow will preside for the business session which will include reports on the strawberry festival and Community Service project. Refreshments will be served by Mr. and Mrs. John Howe and Mr.

and Mrs. Howard Hewlett. Mrs. Martin Married 23 'Years Mr. and Mrs.

William H. Martin, 5 Hammersley avenue, observed their 23rd wedding anniversary yesterday. They were married in St. Peter's church. Mrs.

Martin is the former Olga DeFrank. The couple has four children including Katherine, a cis' graduate nurse at St. Franhospital; Maureen, a student at Our Lady of Lourdes High school; Colleen, a graduate of Mary's school, class of '61, Shia Thomas, a student at St. Mary's school. Mr.

Martin is employed by the Prudential Insurance Company. To mark the occasion the Martin family will spend weekend in Washington, D. as guests of Mrs. Martin's brother and sister-in-law, Mr. and Mrs.

Frank DeFrank. Mrs. Albert Studley Honored at Shower Red Hook, was Mrs. Albert StudiereaUpper surprise "greenback" shower last week, given by the women of St. John's Reformed church, Upper Red Hook, of which the Rev.

Mr. Studley is minister. The couple has an infant son, David John, and a old daughter, Sandra Jean. four There were approximately 60 guests in attendance. The table was with a blue and white floral arrangement made by Mrs.

Herman Mandell and refreshments were served by Mrs. Robert Totman, Mrs. John H. Myers, Mrs. Arvine Bathrick, Mrs.

Herbert Petz and Mrs. Coral Allen. Mrs. Lester Donerly poured. Red Hook' Church Schedules Picnic Sponsored by St.

John's Red Reformed church. Upper Hook, the annual Sunday school picnic will be conducted tomorrow at Lake Taghkanie. Cars will leave the church at 9:30 o'clock, with Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Schiefer and Mr.

and Mrs. Bleeker Staats in charge of en al arrangements. Each family attending is asked to take its own picnic luncheon. table service and a covered dish to pass. Beverage and dessert will be furnished.

The church will again, participate in the Community Vacation Bible school, July 11. Cooperating are the Lutheran, Methodist and Reformed churches of Red Hook. Bidwell-Benschine Rites To Take Place Aug. 26 MRS. RAYMOND JOSEPH MC QUEENEY, the former Miss Jane Elizabeth Taber, Milton, who became a bride last Saturday.

a Jane E. Taber Becomes Bride Miss Jane Elizabeth Taber, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. C. Kenneth Taber, Milton, became the bride of Raymond Joseph McQueeney, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Francis R. McQueeney, Syracuse, last Saturday. Mrs. Marlene Carville was matron of honor, with the Misses Judith Wood and Joanne Trophia as bridesmaids.

Richard Mc-1 Queeney was best man for his brother Robert F. McQueeney and Robert K. Dorman ushered. Mark McQueeney, nephew of the bridegroom, served as a page. The bride wore a floor length bouffant gown of off-white silk.

fashioned with a scoop neckline. short sleeves and a scalloped skirt featuring Alencon lace appliques and a chapel train. Her veil of French illusion fell crown of matching lace trimmed' with pearls and she carried a cascade arrangement of white roses. The attendants' gowns were of turquoise silk organza over taffeta, with fitted empire bodices and bell-shaped skirts, cocktail length. They wore horsehair picture hats and carried baskets of assorted yellow flowers.

There was a lawn reception after the wedding breakfast at LeMoyne Manor. The couple will make their home in 1002- 1008 East Division street, Syracuse, upon return from a wedding trip to Cape Cod, Mass. The who was graduated from Marlboro Central school and received her bachelor of arts degree from Elmira college, has been teaching third grade in the North Syracuse school system. Mr. McQueeney was gradufated from Central High school.

Syracuse, and has been attending Syracuse university on a part-time basis. He is employed at Syracuse branch office of the Gerrity Lumber Inc. Valley Auxiliary Has Luncheon, Party Members of the of Pleasant Valley Grange conducted a luncheon-meeting last week at the home of Mrs. Burton Terhune, Main street, Pleasant Valley. After the business session, members drove to the new Dutchess County infirmary in Millbrook, where they sponsored a party for the women patients on the first floor.

Attending were Mrs. E. L. Plass, Mrs. Cecil Sherow, Mrs.

Hilda Lee, Miss Susan Smith, Mrs. A. J. Berg, Mrs. Harry Klein, Mrs.

William Schulenberg. Mrs. Harland Gill, Mrs. Chris Rossway. Mrs.

Allen Sutcliffe and Mrs. Stephen Albrecht. The July meeting of the auxiliary will in the form of a picnic at Mrs. Sherow's home. Lutheran Women Sponsoring Bazaar Members of the Ladies'.

Aid society of the First Lutheran church will conduct an apron sale and bazaar on Tuesday on the church lawn, starting at 9 o'clock. A covered dish luncheon will be served at 12:30 o'clock, according to Mrs. Mathilda Beck who is in charge of general arrangements. Hadath Couples Plan for Future Future programs -were discussed at Wednesday night's board meeting of the Couples' club of Congregation Schomre Hadath. The session took place at the home of Mr.

and Mrs. Irving Spencer, 26 Fountain place, where refreshments were served and the group welcomed Rabbi and Mrs. Manning Bleich and family. WSCS Plans Rummage -Sale Members of the WSES of the LaGrangeville Methodist church will conduct a rummage sale Tuesday and Wednesday afternoons and nights, July 11 and 12, in the parish house from 2 to 4 o'clock and 7 to 9 o'clock. Mrs.

Carl Wiseman is chairman. plain Want to doughnuts give store a glaze? Heat them in the oven and while they are still warm dip them in confectioners sugar that has been mixed until smooth with a third as much boiling, water. Add the boiling water to the sugar gradually, mixing vigor: ously as you do so. Mr. schine, Miss exander lyn.

Florence emy and Miss as a tute, will St. and Mrs. Wilbur Brooklyn, announce engagement of. their daughter, Linda Benschine, to Bidwell, also of BrookHe is son of Mrs. Bidwell, 6 West Acadstreet, Wappingers Falls, the late Alexander Bidwell.

Benschine is employed secretary at Pratt instiBrooklyn, where Mr. Bidis a student. The wedding take place on Aug. 26 at Martins' Niece Here from Germany Miss Angelika Janssen, daughter of Drs. Ernst hanna Janssen of Hamburg, Germany, has arrived here by jet for a six-week vacation and.

while in Poughkeepsie, will be staying with her uncle and aunt. Mr. and Mrs. Paul R. Martin, 33 Spy Hill.

A student at Hamburg college where she will complete her studies in January. Miss Janssen wishes to study and, therefore, plans trips throughout the country. Her recent visits have been to Tokyo, Bangkok, Singapore and Hong Kong. Vassar Alumna's Betrothal Announced Tucker, Cincinnati, The Rev. and Mrs.

Luther nounce the engagement and their daughter, Miss Mary Elizabeth Tucker, to Cameron Haskin Sanders of Mrs. Helen Ingersoll Sanders, also of Cincinnati, Tucson, and Brigadier General Sanders, Waynesville, 0. Miss Tucker was graduated from the Hillsdale school, Cincinnati, and Vassar college. She made her debut in 1952 in Cincinnati where she is a member of the Junior League. The future bride currently is a student at the New York School of Social Work.

Mr. Sanders attended Brown university and was graduated from Kenyon college where he was made a member of Psi Upsilon. An Air Force lieutenant for three years, he manager of education services with "Look" magazine and is a member of The Bachelors of Cincinnati. Alice Brooks Designs Flower garlands artfully combined with crochet lovely on towel, scarf, pillowcase. Flowers that keep forever pansies, roses, tulips in easy embroidery accented by pineap-.

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Newburgh, who will be wed to William J. Hauver 9 North Water street, on Sept. Odell-Hauver Troth Announced Announcement is made Mr. and Mrs. James H.

Odell, Little Britain road, Newburgh, of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Louise Ann Odell, to William J. Hauver son of Mr. and Mrs. Hauver, 9 North Water street. Miss Odell is graduate of Cornwall Central High school and now is a senior at the Vassar Hospital School of Nursing.

Mr. Hauver, an alumnus of Poughkeepsie High school, is employed at. Hudson River State hospital. The wedding is planned for 30. Ruth Millett 7176 We, The Women Are your laborsaving devices working you to death? They may be, if: You are a suburban housewife with a big house that you run without even the help of cleaning woman or laundress.

You have several children to chauffeur. You are keeping up with your social obligations, taking some part in community work, and trying to be good companion to your husband. A Detroit physician recently told a medical group that the "tired mother syndrome" is linked to the push button way of life in which modern women have become trapped, many of them working from 14 to 16 hours a day. used to be, he said, that families in the middle-income bracket either hired a woman to help with the washing and ironing or clothes to a laundry. Now that mama has an automatic washing machine, mama is the family laundress.

Now that mama has a of her own. she is expected to be the family chauffeur. If she has a dishwasher, then it isn't supposed be any trouble at all for her to have -20 or 30 guests in for a buffet, Ito If she has ant electric gadgetbuff floors, then isn't posed to be any trick at all for' mama' to scrub and wax and polish floors. And so it goes. With every new laborsaving gadget she acquires, the lady of the house takes on a new job or feels the compulsion to do frequently that has been made "easier" for her.

If the doctor had an answer to the problem of the "tired mother syndrome" it wasn't printed to the account of his talk. But I think women have got to find the answer for themselves. They have got to d6 some figuring on how to make their gadgets work for them instead of letting their gadgets work them to death. Nobody is going to figure out how overworked housewives can make their lives easier. Brian Alexander Suteliffe, in action son of Mr.

Mrs. Jay Allen skirt. Front Sutcliffe, Freedom Plains road, hide culotte Pleasant Valley was christened when you Sunday at the First Tailors terian church, Pleasant -Valley, cotton. The Rev. Robert Agnew offi-.

Printed elated, with Mr. and Waist Sizes Thomas Sharkey, Poughkeepsie, 32. Size 28 as godparents. The Suteliffes are the parents of another son, Send Allen. for this Parish Aid Pienle Set at Howell Home Mrs.

George A. Howell, Mountain View road, be hostess to members of the Parish Aid Society of St. Paul's Episcopal church for their annual picnie Wednesday. Reservations and transportation are in- charge of Mrs. Doris Allen, Suncrest court.

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