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1, POUGHKEEPSIE JOURNAL PAGE. THREE 1967. Ann Solves Problems Dear Ann Landers: I would like to comment the letters from those men who a are lounging around in their wives' dresses, wearing girdles, nylons and high heels, and yet they have the nerve to say they do it for kicks and that they are perfectly normal, Most of those nuts said they were married and have children. So what? Marriage and children are not proof of normalcy. In cases they marry to gain respectability and put up a smokescreen.

Men who' get their kicks dressing up in women's clothes are not normal and it baffles me how a smart woman like you can be taken by such rubbish. Don't you know they are homosexuals? If you don't know it you have no business being a human relations counselor. I hope you will set the record straight once and for all. -NO CURLYCUES Dear Curly: not say they were normal. "They said they were normal.

Of course I am aware that something is off-kilter when a man gets a charge out of wearing his wife's underwear. And since you want to keep the record straight, I must tell you that you are wrong when you make the flat statement that these men are homosexuals. Most of them are not. They are transvestites. Any good unabridgdictionary' explains dif-ference.

Look up both words and educate yourself. Dear Ann: Reading letters from those oddballs who enjoy dressing like women gave me the downright screaming frightening. meemies. It was I'm beginning to think our civilization doomed. Although I am not an old woman I 'do not recall seeing or hearing about such behavior until after World War II, when I walked into a bar in San Francisco and the place was swarming with weirdies in beaded dresses and high heels.

Is some sort of deterioration taking place in' our society or what? Please tell NEW HAS BEEN ADDED Dear Something: Men have been dressing up like ladies for a long time. Would you believe a few thousand years? In the book of Deuteronomy, Chapter Twenty-two, Verse Five, this counsel was given: "The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God." Rummage, Bake Sale Set in Hopewell Junction Sponsored by the Women's Guild of the Church of the Resurrection, Hopewell Junction, there will be a rummage and bake sale next Friday Saturday at the church. The event will take place from 10 in the morning until 8 o'clock at night. Alice Brooks Designs 7000 Step into comfort at home, 'on vacation match boot or ballet style to slacks, robe. QUICKIE slippers-2 pieces plus soles for each.

Decorate with jumbo cross-stitch. Pattern 7000: transfer; pattern pieces; XL included. Thirty-five cents (coins) for each pattern-add, 15 cents for each pattern for first-class mailing and special' Send to Alice Brooks, 304 Needlecraft Box 163, Old Chelsea Station, New York, N.Y. 10011. Print Name, Address, Zip, Pattern Number.

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50c Bargain! Quilt Book 1-16 complete patterns. 50c. Personal Mention Miss Kathleen Hunter, 114 Boardman Road, has returned home for the summer from Mt. Ida Junior College, Newton Centre, where she is enrolled in the executive secretarial program. Mrs.

Harrell Cashin, 25, Hammersley has returned from Newtown, 'after attending the graduation of her grandson, Michael C. Cragin, from, Newton High School. He has been atcepted for admission to Allegheny College, Pa. Michael Voelker, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Donald J. Voelker, Burnt Hills, formerly of Poughkeepsie, recently was honored for his athletic achievements at Burnt Hills High School. He is the grandson of Mrs. Joseph G. Voelker and the late Mr.

Voelker and of Mr. and Mrs. Harry W. Brill, all of Poughkeepsie. Judd Studio MISS NORA LEIGH, ROBERSON, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Charles T. Roberson, Williamston, N.C., will become the September bride of Kirby Jan Ostrander, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry C.

Ostrander, Raleigh, N.C., formerly of Clinton Corpers. Calabreses Wed 25 Years Mr. and Mrs. Angelo Calabrese, Clapp Hill Road, LaGrangeville, were guests of honor at a recent party at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

Daniel Panarello, New City, given in celebration 'of their 25th wedding anniversary. They were married on June 21, 1942. Last Saturday they were the guests of honor at a surprise party given by their daughters, Linda and Ellen, at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Ed Hall, Stanfordville.

Invited guests included Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Panarello, Mrs. Louis Panarello, Mr. and and Mrs.

Mrs. Adam Calabrese, Mr. Robert Calabrese, Mr. and Mrs. Alfonse Calabrese, Miss, Mary Calabrese, Joseph Calabrese, Mrs.

Kate Galatro, Mr. and Mrs. Herbert, Gilleo, Mrs. Helen Scott. Mr.

and Mrs. Patrick Tripodi, Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Michucci, Mr. and Mrs.

Vincent Sullivan, Mr. and Julius Kramer, Mr. and Mrs. Leo Tischler, Mr. and Mrs.

Morton Nosenchuck, Miss Jeanne Gilleo, William Pine, Mr. and Mrs. John Mrs. Joseph Panarello, Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Manfredi, Ed D'Averso, Miss Diane Panarello, Daniel Panarello and Miss Eileen Hall. Set In Pawling Music at Akin Hall, Pawling, will have as its next featured artist on July 30, Phyllis Wright, harpist. Mrs. Charles Dubocq, Taber Knolls, Pawling, is in charge of tickets. Featured at Sunday's chamber music concert was the Garvanas Trio, which includes Mrs.

Alice Smiley, violin, Luis Garcia Renart, cello, and Hugette Van Ackere, piano. They are scheduled to appear in concert at the Lincoln Center for the Performing Arts in March. The program included works by Walter Piston, 20th century composer, and Haydn, Bloch and Schubert. This was Mr. Renart's only appearance in the series, as he is scheduled to depart for Europe shortly.

A protege of Casals, he also studied under Rostropovich at the Moscow Conservatory and He made his solo debut as a cellist in 1955 at the Palace of Music, Mexico Since then he has appeared in the Soviet Union, Mexico, Europe and Israel. A member of the faculty at Bard College, he is first cellist of the Hudson Valley Philharmonic. The concert committee provides child care. Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat Q- How long is it safe to keep ground meat in the refrigerator? A- -Ground meat is more 'perishable than steaks or roasts because it has been ground and more of the meat's "surface" is exposed. Therefore purchase only that amount that 'can be used in two days unless you have a freezer.

Remove the store wrappings and cover lightly with waxed paper. Store it in the coldest part of the refrigerator and use as soon as possible. For longer storage in a freezer, try freezing the ground meat in patties. For easy separation, put two layers of waxed paper, between the patties. Then wrap the patties in freezer paper or in plastic bags and freeze at zero.

The frozen patties can be stored this way from 2 to 3 months. for has a bluish red When buying, ground meat, look color, This indicates that the meat has; been freshly ground. melons are in my "market. How can I tell which ones are ripe? selecting a honeydew, note both the color and feel of the skin. It should be creamy yellow or, if grown in northern California or Latin America, sort of straw-white.

When you run your hand over the surface, it should have the feel of kidskin gloves. If it has a hard, slick exterior it was probably picked too green. Even though your honeydew is beautifully ripe by these standards, allow a day or two of conditioning at room This gives the melon time to develop juiciness. Did you know that honeydew, like cantaloupe, has bouquet when served at room temperature or just cool, rather than when cold? MISS KATHERINE WAGER Wager-Upright Troth Made Known Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs.

Harold W. Wager, Modena, of the engagement of their 'daughter, Katherine Ruth, to Pfc. Howard L. Upright. He is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Lester Upright, Miss Wager is a graduate of Wallkill Central High School. Also a graduate of Wallkill High School, the prospective bridegroom is serving with the Marine Corps in Vietnam. A spring wedding is planned. MISS HELAINE FREEDMAN Helaine Freedman Engaged to Be Wed Mr.

and Mrs. Irving B. Wolpert 19 Lori Town of Poughkeepsie, announce the engagement of Mrs. Wolpert's sister, Miss Helaine Freedman, to Joseph F. Hemingway.

He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Hemingway, Newburgh. A 1965 graduate of Roy C. Ketcham High School, the prospective bride is a junior at the Geneseo State College.

She is the daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs. Philip Freedman of Boston, Mass. maNna Newburgh Hemingway, Free a 1964 Academy, gradis a 'senior at Geneseo State College. An August, 1968, wedding is planned.

Detmer Couple Wed 25 Years Mr. and Mrs. Edward I. Detmer, 4 Daniels Court, were honored Wednesday at surprise by their daughters, Jacqueline and Marion, in celebration of their 25th wedding anniversary. It took place at the home of Mr.

Detmer's brother and his wife, Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Detmer, 417 Dutchess Turnpike. -The couple was married on June 28, 1942, at St. Peter's Church, by the Rev.

Vincent Brennan. Invited guests included Miss Regina Detmer, Betty Detmer, Mr. and Mrs. Steven. Slizewski, Mr.

and Mrs. Edward Tulacz, Mr. Mrs. Elbert Lockwood, Mr. and Stephen Marone, and George Mrs.

Kopser, Catherine Mrs. Studer. Louise Hall Art Exhibit Set at Holiday Hills There is an art exhibit at Holiday Hills, Pawling, which will continue through July 15. Area artists who are. exhibiting their works 'there are Mrs.

E. C. Bradenberg, Mrs. Margaret Bernner, Mrs. Ruth Brunstetter, Mrs.

Katherine Clinedinst, Wendel Clinedinst, Mrs. Gwen Daniels, Mrs. Julia Di Maso, Miss Barbara Goodspeed, William Hamm. Mrs. Ethel Kast, Miss Tedde Kast.

Raymond Katz, Alex Kenne, Joseph Krapowitz Mr. Krapowitz the Rev. Robert Meyer, Henry Pankowski, Mrs. Lois Rector, Dr. Jean Rizzolo, Morgan Seymour Mrs.

Elizabeth Scar de pane, Stuyvesant Van Neen, Eugene Waddell. Mrs. Christine Wagner and Albert Weber. Boys in Tree Watch Deputies Search in Canal SALT LAKE CITY. (AP) Deputy sheriffs groped chest deep.

in a canal Friday, fearful that two missing youngsters had drowned. But Douglas Biesinger, 5, and Scott. Wiseman, 6, played just 100 yards away in a tree house while. their anxious parents watched the officers. Five deputies and a neighbor were thoroughly drenched before an older brother of one discovered the boys' hideaway: One deputy said he got consolation that Douglas and Scott both received "a good scotch blessing" from their parents.

Frent Studio MISS BEATRICE JOSEPH John Lane Stat MISS WENDY HORNE Miss June Adelman, 54 Corlies is a charter member of the recently-formed Alpha Lambda chapter of Phi Gamma Nu, national professional sorority at Rochester Institute of Technology. She is its treasurer. Karl. W. 'Seitz, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Karl Seitz, 34 Manitou has been named to the Dean's Honor List at L. C. Smith College of Engineering at Syracuse University. Miss Margaret M.

Brown, Wappingers Falls, has been named to the Dean's List at the State Agricultural and Technical College at Delhi. Machinest Mate Fireman John F. Havens, son of Mr. and Mrs. Louis L.

Havens, 15 S. White is with the U.S. Sixth Fleet in the Mediterranean, serving as a aboard the attack carrier USS America: Michael Barton, son of Mr. and Mrs. Leslie E.

Barton, Pine Plains, is a new member of the Ithaca College chapter of Phi Epsilon Kappa, national physical education fraternity. Miss Alissa Capasso, daughter. of Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Capasso, 31 Horseshoe Drive, Hyde Park, has been listed among the top, ranking students at Mt.

St. Mary College. Dinner Fetes Father Graham The Rev. Gordon Graham was honored Tuesday night at a retirement dinner at Talbot's Inn, Pleasant Valley. Father Graham, who is retiring as rector of St.

Andrew's Church, began his ministry at St. Andrew's in 1951. Approximately 70 parishoners and friends attended the dinner. Donald T. Clearwater was master of ceremonies and Cannon Richard McEvoy of the Cathedral of St.

John the Divine, New York City, gave the invocation. Joseph Morgan, senior warden, made the gift presentations to Father and Mrs. Graham. Members of the dinner committee were Mrs. William Hubbard, Mrs.

Marjorie Yates, Mrs. William Moran, Mrs. Hall MacMannis, Mrs. Morgan, Mrs. Robert Kopp, Mrs.

David Wilkin and Mrs. Clearwater. The Rev. Rhys Williams, rector of Christ Church, gave the benediction. County Secretaries Conduct Installation Mrs.

Krumm of the Red Hook Central District was installed as president, at a recent meeting of the Dutchess County Association of Educational Secretaries at DeLavergne Farms Hotel. Amenia. Installing officer was Miss Florence Gray, treasthe state group. Other officers include Mrs. Terry O'Donnell, vice president, Dutchess Community College; Mrs.

Betty Jones, secretary, Beacon schools, and Mrs. Sarah Stahn, treasurer, Dover Plains School. Special guests were Miss Cheryl Anne Ten a graduate of Poughkeepsie High School, who is the recipient of the secretaries' scholarship, and her mother. Miss Ten Eyck plans to attend Dutchess Community College. Entertainment was provided by' the Troubadours, who sang folk songs.

The five boys of the group all attend Beacon High School. MRS. JOHN JOSEPH MATARAZA Jr. Paula Margaret Caunter Wed to John Mataraza Jr. -Miss -Paula Margaret Caunter.

daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William H. Caunter Hempstead, L.I., Nand John Joseph. Mataraza Windsor, Mr.

and Mrs. Mataraza, Milton, were wed this morning: The Rev. Father Foley officiated at the 11 o'clock rites writhe took place at Our Lady Lake Church, North Leominster, Mass. Miss Susan J. Caunter, Hempstead, attended her sister as maid of honor and, bridesmaids.

were the Misses Fran Wiley, Fitchburg, cousin of the bride, and Linda Marie Mataraza, Milton, sister of the bridegroom. Charles Michael Mataraza, Milton, was best man for his brother and the ushers were another brother, Michael James Mataraza, and the bride's brother, William Caunter III. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore an A-line gown of silk-faced peau de soie accented by floral motifs of Alencon and Swiss It was made with an Empire waistline, bateau neckline, elbow length sleeves and a cathedral length train. Her veil of French silk illusion was caught to an Alencon lace, cap trimmed with a silk bow, she carried a cascade arrangement of phalaenopsis and stephanotis. The attendants wore floor length A-line gowns.

of apricotcolored chiffon and their headpieces were chapel mantillas of matching lace. Each carried a cascade arrangement of white daisies and apricot roses with geranium leaves. The reception took place at The Old Mill, Westminster. Mass. The couple will live in 73-B Cedar Lane, New Windsor.

A graduate of Oneonta State College, the is a teacher the Wappingers Falls school system. Also a graduate of Oneonta State College, the bridegroom teaches in the Newburgh school system. Chester Szakmary Married in Denver Mr. and Mrs. Armin P.

Thebus Denver, announce the marriage of their daughter, Penny Lou, to Chester Jackson Szakmary. He is the son of the late Mrs. Nancy Constantino of Lafayetteville. The ceremony took place on May 28 in the Barrett Chapel of Montview Presbyterian Church, Denver. The bride, a graduate of Def ver schools, is employed by KRMA radio and television station in Denver.

The bridegroom, a 1964 alummus of Pine Plains Central School, is serving in the Army, stationed at Ft. Carson, Colo. Modern Etiquette Q. I am about to become engaged to a girl whose parents live in another city. Am I supposed to write some sort of letter to her father? A.

It would be nice to write him a nice, friendly letter, explaining your type of business, your prospects, future plans, and of course your undying love for his daughter. This always makes for better family relationships. Q. Is it proper for the "dummy" in a bridge game to make any comments on the play of the hand? A. No: he should be the "silent witness." Any advice, criticism, or applause of his partner's play shows a lack of good manners and sportsmanship.

Q. Where does the ringbearer stand during the wedding. ceremony? A. Behind and to the right of the bride. Elwood Oakleys To Mark Anniversary Mr.

and Mrs. Elwood Oakley will celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary with open house to. morrow at the Pawling Town Hall. The event will take place from 2 to 4 o'elock. William Howard Taft is the only man who served both as president and chief justice of the United States.

Wendy Horne To. Ernest T. Schroeder Miss Joseph Is Future Bride Of Frank Duda Mr. and Mrs. Charles M.

Joseph, 53 S. Randolph the engagement of their daughter, Beatrice Ann, to Frank Duda. is the son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Frank Duda of the Port Chester.

Joseph, a 1965 graduate of Poughkeepsie High School. also attended Dutchess Community College. Mr. Duda attended Port Chester High School and served four years in the receiving an honorable discharge. He now is a correction administration major at Dutchess Community College Evening Division and recently was appointed as a narcotics correction officer at Matteawan State Hospital.

A spring wedding is planned. Garden Club Has Hudson Cruise Members of the Poughkeepsie Garden Club recently cruised down the Hudson River, from Poughkeepsie to the Bear Mountain Bridge, aboard the yacht, "The Stork." owned by Dr. George T. C. Way.

The group left here at 10:30 o'clock and heard history of the river from Benjamin Frazier. They docked at Garrison at noon, had a picnic luncheon and then by launch Constitution Island, where they saw ruins of old forts, and many flowers. The women of the Constitution Island Association took the members on a tour of the Warner House. Hostesses for the event were Mrs. Hobart Hunt, Mrs.

Allendorph. Schoonmaker and Mrs. Clarence. B. Schmidt, program chairman.

The field trip will be at 3 o'clock Thursday afternoon, to next, the gardens of Mrs. Hamilton Alberts. The next regular meeting will 'be on Sept. 13 at the home of Mrs. Harold Spencer, at which time Mrs.

Alice Hazelwood will conduct an all-day workshop on flower arranging. Anne Adams Dress Patterns 4953 SIZES Sew a divided-skirt sundressnewest to be cool, move freely in house, garden, on vacation, Pleats-front and back create flattering line. Printed Pattern 4953: Half Sizes Size takes yards 35-inch. FIFTY CENTS in coins for each pattern--add cents for each pattern for first-class mailing and special handling. Send to Anne Adams, Reader Mail 138, Pattern, 243 West 17th York, N.Y.

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50c Announcement is made of the engagement of Miss Wendy Elin Horne, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William D. Horne, Davis Road, Salt Point, to Ernest T. Schroeder, 17 Reynolds.

Ave. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Ernest H. Schroeder, East Orange, An alumna of Arlington High School, Miss Horne is attending New Paltz State College.

Mr. Schroeder. an alumnus of Immaculate Conception High School, Montclair, N.J., currently is evening division student at Dutchess Community College. He is employed at the U.S. Post Office, here.

A Sept. 9 wedding is planned. Engaged Freni Studio MISS LINDA PIRTLE Linda Pirtle Is Future Bride Mr. and Mrs. Glen D.

Pirtle, 16 Manor Way, announce the engagement of their daughter, Linda, to Phillip T. Barnum. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence W.

Barnum, 4 Nassau Road. Miss Pirtle is a June graduate of Poughkeepsie High School. Mr. Barnum, a 1966 alumnus of Poughkeepsie High School, is a student at Duchess Community College. No date has been set for the wedding.

Business Club Has Annual Picnic Mrs. Peggy Garren served as chairman of the recent annual picnic of the Poughkeepsie Business and Professional Women's Club at the Red Bull Motor Inn. She was assisted by Toni Egan. Also serving on Mrs. Garren's committee were Mrs.

Louise M. Stark and Miss R. Rita Balogh, receptionists, and Mrs. Helen Urban, Mrs. Gladys Manning and Mrs.

Betty Croft, reservations. Sixty-five members and guests attended and modeled original hats. Prizes were awarded to Miss Marian Du Bois and Mrs. Vina McFarland for the most original, Mrs. Priscilla Saxton for the prettiest and to Mrs.

Marcia Zinger and Mrs. Beatrice Sheffield for the funniest. Mrs. Betty J. Fortino was commentator.

The "Gay Nineties Trio" entertained" "with vocal selections and wore appropriate costumes. They are Mrs. Marie Sharret, Mrs. Lillian V. Hanlon and Miss Agnes Van Voorhis.

Rob Davis, who also served as a hat judge, sang old and modern folk songs, ac. companied on the guitar. THE GIRLS By Franklin Folger had a marvelous vacation! It rained so much there was nothing to do but duck into the shops!" Freni Studio MISS PAULA BRANDT Brandt-Lasko Troth Announced Announcement is made of the betrothal of Miss. Paula Anne Brandt, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Ray Strever, 129 Pine to Alexander Lasko, son of Mr. and Mrs. Lasko, 42 Peckham Road. Miss Brandt attended Poughkeepsie High School and Mr. Lasko attended Arlington High School.

He now is serving the Army and just returned. from 'a tour of duty in Vietnam. The wedding will take place July 15 in the Pine Plains Presbyterian Church. Godin-Minard Rites Announced Miss Linda' Louise Minard, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

George W. Minard, 78 Spackenkill Road, and Gary Wayne Godin were married at 1 o'clock, June 17, at St. Paul's Episcopal Church. Rev. William T.

Gray, rector, officiated at the double ring ceremony. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Paul Godin, Dover Plains. Herman Tegeler was the organist and Mrs.

Rita Baird was the soloist. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by her sister, Mrs. Barbara Pagano, Flushing, as matron of, honor. Other attendants were Mrs. Rita Myott, Wappingers Falls, aunt of the bridegroom, and Miss Catherine Duncan, Poughkeepsie.

Leo Myott was best man for his nephew. Ushering were Richard Minard, brother of the bride, and Gary weiss. The bride's floor length Empire gown of silk organza had a scoop neckline and long full sleeves. It was accented by Swiss lace on the bodice, sleeve cuffs and hemline. Her bouffant cathedral length veil of silk illusion, fourtiered, fell from a crystal crown, and she carried a cascade bouquet of white carnations 'and stephanotis, centered with a cymbidium orchid.

The honor attendant wore a floor length gown of deep pink linen with a scoop neckline and cap sleeves. It was banded at the high-rise waistline with moss green velvet. Her headpiece was a bouffant veil with a crown of green velvet and linen, and she carried a cascade bouquet of light pink carnations. The other attendants wore similar gowns in light pink with matching headpieces and rose pink carnation bouquets. The reception took place at the Poughkeepsie Inn.

After a wedding trip to New York City, the couple will reside in 120 Franklin Ter. For travel, the bride chose a yellow print suit with white accessories and a white cymbidium orchid corsage. The bride attended Poughkeepsie schools and is employed at Merit's, South Road. The bridegroom, who attended schools Dover Plains, served in the Army and is employed as a mechanic at Park Electronics..