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'J 1 Dorothy Dis Letter Box BY DOBOTHT DIX DEAR MISS DIX: Andy and I hiv been mirrted for tea yean nd hare three children. When we, were flnt married, my husband disapproved of drinking, but alowly he haa OTereome that prejudice to take an opposite view. For the last year or two he has been quite a heavy drinker. Ev cry "occasion' la an excuse for drinking; I Just dread family eel ebratlona and holidays since I know how they'll end. Andy claims he isnt an alcoholic, or even a heavy drinker.

He saya I Just use his "periodical' lndui. gences as a Justification for nag gin. He resents an criticism, pleading or advice. The children are beginning to observe the difference In him, and are notice ably losing respect for him. Then, he accuses me of turning them against him.

We have always been looked upon as good hosts; our home is charming I am a cood cook and we both love people and enter talnlng. I am now losing heart for all these gracious things since I know every dinner party will resuu in a drunken Husband. Some of our friends, are naturally aware of the direction In which things are drifting and they have tried warning Andy, but their efforts are as futile as mine. I dont want a divorce; I Just want to restore my husband to normalcy. M.D, A Touch Problem ANSWER: You have a hard, bitter road ahead your desire to restore Andy not only to normalcy but to self respect Two important facts must be borne in mind.

First, you cannot accom plish anything without outside help, and. second, you can do little without Andy's co opera tlon. Since any talk from you Is bound to be labeled as nagging, a friend, relative, business associate, doctor, or anyone whose opinion would carry weight with your husband, could do the talk ing lor you. It must be pointed out to Andy that his livelihood and social position depend on his future conduct Dont apologize for him when he gets Intoxicated before guests, don't cover up or lie about his condition. As he seems Indifferent to the effect of his Intemperance upon his own family, his return to proper values may come through the pitying looks cast your way.

from the recoil of fastidious friends, the disgusted glances of relatives, or the appraising expressions of his employers. Perhaps It may take a drastic atep like the promotion of a younger, leu capable but more sober employee to a coveted Job. Once your husband has awakened to the face that his drinking out of control, concrete help can be given, especially through a skilled agency such as Acohollcs Anonymous. To learn more about the problem You face, you might attend an open meeting of A. or seek further information through the Information Center of the National Committee on Alcoholism.

2 East 103rd Street, New York. Ni Y. I also recommend reading the "Primer on Alcoholism" by Marty Mann, which contains a chapter on "What to do aboutan Alcoholic." The dangers In excessive social drinking are fortunately well recognlied. and help In curbing It are available to anyone. Definitely, you are not fighting alone, and the co operationoperation open to you will, I sincerely hope, restore peace to your family.

DEAR MISS DIX: I would like to earn some extra money, but as I'm only IS there doesn't seem to be much I can do except babysitting. However, I don't know of anyone who needs a baby sitter. Can you think of a way I can get this work? My mother won let me work for anyone she doesn't know. PatC ANSWER: Your mother's restriction Is wise. Among all her friends, can't she of one person who could use a conscientious baby sitter? Your mother might help you and other teenagers by asking the pastor of your church, your principal, the leader of the Girl Scout troup, or the presldenU of any clubs, to get listings of women who need baby altters from time to time.

Annthrr Vl for VOU tO earn extra money would be by tutor ing grammar scnooi cnuoren. sou write a fine letter for a high school sophomore; your penmanship, grammar and spelling are quite exceptional. One of your former teachers In grade school might recommend you for this work. In fact, you could even help freshmen or fellow sopho mores in your nign icnooi. (Released by The Bell Syndicate.

Inc.) Patlenta at Bowne r.nHli at Ynle Part? p.timti and employes of the Samuel and Nettle Bowne hospital were guests at a Christmas party Tuesday night at the hospital. Entertainment featured selections on the piano by Dr Charles Gilbert Spross; Edwin Fltchett Jr, msglelan; and Gerald and Ronald Callahan, the "Dut chess Ramblers," with the guitar and violin. Jack Gilbert served as Santa Claus. The committees Included decorations, Mrs. Vivian Spada and Mrs.

Hattle CrUpell; entertainment. Mrs. Catherine RusseU and Miss Helen Newman, ref reshmenU, Mrs. GAtrude Carroll: and gifts for the patients, Mrs Moss. Later, refreshments were served.

lain JP SBT k'iJlSalflSafl aeeRreeeeeeeeeeeiel tfpvR9sjilH I MBS. IIEBBEBT BAKER. who haa arranged the selections for the candlelight musical service In Trinity Methodist church, tomorrow night. Day Nursery Association Entertain Children at Party PQUGHKEEPS1E NEW YOrIcER i i .1...... DECEMBER 23.

W4 Musical Service At Trinity Church selections have been arranged by Mrs. Herbert L. Baker, organist and choir direc tor, for the candlelight musical service to be conducted In Trinity Methodist church at 11 o'clock, tomorrow night The program will include organ prelude, "Vivace and Allegro." from the Christmas Concerto, Corelll; choir carol, "The Angela' Song," Loreni; greetings by the Rev. W. Bernard Grossman, minister; choir carols, "A Star Was His Candle," Del Rlego.

'The Babe In Bethlehem's Manger Laid," Buebendorf, "Christmas Carol," (Catalonlan) arranged by Erlckson, "Lo How a Rose E'er Blooming," (16th Century) Prae tonus. "Away In a Manger, (German), Luther. "Sleep Holy Child," Peery, "Nowell." Wilson and "The Three Ships." Taylor; and organ postlude, "Fantasy on 'Adeste Sergtsson. The choir Includes Herbert Berrler, Miss Bessie Brown, Miss Audrey Coons, George Cox, Alan Cox, Miss Margaret Dlllinger, Mr. and Mrs.

Melvln Doyle, Glen Fitxslmmons, William Freer, John Glass. Mrs. Ruth Gray, Mr. and Mrs. Bert Green, Mrs.

Evart Howland. Mrs. William Klppen bam. Robert McNaon, Miss Nan cy Morehouse, Albert Myers, Miss Barbara Palmatler. Mrs.

Elizabeth Patchen, Mrs. Max Pflelder, Mrs. Robert Wendover, Miss Barbara Westover, Miss Betty Westover and Mrs. Seymour Westover. St.

Peter's Church Schedules Mass la preparation for the Feast of the Nativity, confessions wIU be heard on Friday at 3.30 o'clock for the school children of St Peter's church, and from 4 to A o'clock and 7 30 to a JO o'clock for the' adults. Solemn Mass wll be sung at midnight on Christmas Eve. The celebrant of the Mass will be the Right Rev. Monslgnor Michael P. OShea pastor.

The Rev. Ken neth A. Gerathy, assistant pastor, will be the deacon, and the Rev. Anthony Keane, S. WIU be the sub deacon.

Father Keane also will preach the sermon at this Mass. The Rev. Francis Harper, assistant castor, will celebrate Midnight for the Sisters of St Peter's convent In the Convent chapeL 18 North Clover street Preceding the Mass. the church choir under the direc tion of Miss Grace organ. 1st, wll sing carols beginning at 11 o'clock.

Included will be "Gesu Bambino," a duet by Mrs. Arthur Kelly and John Kearney; Holy Night." by Mrs. Herman J. Merkel; "Virgin's Lullaby," by Mrs. Kelly, Mrs.

Charles J. Ma nerl and Mrs. Joseph Shelly; "Birthday of a King." by Hugh Carey and male quintet com posed of Frank and John Kear ney, Robert Wermuth, Joseph Germond and Edward Miller. At 11 43 o'clock, there will be a procession ol Choir boys around the church singing "Angels We Have Heard on High." Grouped around the Christmas crib, they will sing "Adeste Fi deles" and "Silent Night" The choir will alng for the Midnight Mass the Ordinary by Proper will be by Tozer. At the Offertory, "Lae tentur Coell." by Guender, S.

will be sung. At the Communion of the Mass, a male quartet will sing Adoremus Te" and "Ecce Panls." The Recessional will be "Hodle." Other members of St Peter's choir Include Mrs. James Smith, Frank Eckardt and Francis Carey. Low Masses on Christmas day will be at S43, 7. 8, 0, and 12 o'clock.

High Masses will be sung at 10 o'clock. Benediction will take place after the 12 o'clock Mass. Annroilmitelv children were guests at the annual Christ mas pany ox me rgugnseepsie Day Nursery association. Tuesday afternoon, at Wheaton Park A large decorated tree was featured. Each child received candy, a popcorn ball and a gift Members of the board of the nursery group present were Mrs.

James Eraser, president: Mrs. M. Addison Merrihew, Mrs. Harold Bailey, Mrs. Robert MacGuln new, Mrs.

Hamilton llayden and Mrs. E. Freeman Pearce. Also at tending was Mrs. Helen McLaln, a social worker.

Mrs. Hazel Terhune Auxiliary Hostess Mrs. Hazel Terhune was Hostess for the recent Christmas party of the Pleasant Valley American Legion auxiliary, at her home. At that time, plans were made to entertain the Dutchess County American Legion auxiliary for Its meeting, Jan. 8.

at the. post home. Mrs. Elsie Morey appointed the com mittee on arrangements to in clude Mrs. Terhune.

Mrs. Olive Conover, Mrs. Laura Whlteford, Mrs. Jane Felgenhelmer, Mrs. Gladys Parks, Mrs.

Shirley Teal, Mrs. Charlotte Dool and Mrs. Dorothy Gellenz. Contributions of S3 were msde to the Dutchess County Past Presidents' Parley and to the Pleasant Valley Brownie troop. It was made known that 108 gifts valued at $176, were provided for the Christmas gift shop at the United States Veterans' Administration facility.

Castle Point Members made five dozen of cancer dressings, at the meeting under the direction of Mrs. Galltnx, cancer control chairman. Refreshments were served and gifts exchanged, Mrs. Terhune was assisted by Mrs. Conover.

The next meeting Is scheduled for Thursday. Jan. 20, at the post home. At that time. Mrs.

Felgenhelmer will speak pertain ing 10 tne legislative program sor the year. Refreshments will be in charge or Mrs. uauenz ana Mrs. Morey. Personal Mention Mr.

and Mrs. Franklin Boeckel 34 College avenue, will hare as their aruests on Christmas day. Vieir son ana aacgnter in iaw, Mr. and Mrs. Kermit Boeckel, Hyde Park: Mrs.

Boeckel's uncle. James Langmore. Beacon and a sister of Mrs. Kermit Boecaei, Miss Susan Pentz, DuBols, Pa. Mr.

and Mrs. F. Harold Crls Dell, and daughter. Suzanne. Al bany.

Calif, have arrived here to spend Christmas with Mr. Crls pell's mother, Mrs. F. Harold Crlspell, 39 South Clinton street Members of the Taft school Christmas choir, conducted their 19th Christmas service In Christ church, Watertown, recently. The choir, under the direction of George H.

Morgan, presented two special services, one for the town, and one for the school. Among the members of this organization is A. Russell Heaton son of Mr. and Mrs. Heaton, 72 Wood land avenue.

He is csptaln of the Varsity Ski team. Mrs. Louise Slater. 47 Wlnnl kee svenue. Is receiving treatment at Vassar hospital Admitted to Vassar hospital Sunday was Fred W.

Cottlng, 40 Harrison street Jacob C. Mable, 10 Woodclltf avenue, has returned home from St Francis' hospital. Dr. Terwilliger To Be Preacher In Christ church, there will be a Midnight celebration of the Holy Communion beginning at 11:30 o'clock, Chris mas eve The Rev. Robert E.

Terwilliger. Ph rector, will be the celebrant with the Rev. Charles G. New bery, curate, reading the Gospel and Robert R. Raymond read ing the Epistle.

Dr. Terwilliger will preach on the subject "God Rest You Merry." At 4 o'clock. Christmas eve. there will be a children's service when the Church school will present Its Advent Mite box offering. At this servlcv, carols will be sung, the Christmas story from the Gospel according to St Luke, win be read ana Dr.

Terwilliger will give an address on "Bethle hem." After the service, there will be a procession to the Creche Evensong will be said at 9 30 o'clock and Holy Baptism will be administered to David Montague Hlnkley, after the Second Les son. On Christmas day at 10 o'clock. Mr. Newbery wIU celebrate the Holy Communion for the first time. He was ordained priest on Ember Saturday, Dec.

18 by the Bishop of Newark. The sermon will be preached at this service by Dr. Terwilliger, on the theme, "We Behold His Glory." The church choir will sing the Schop Bach chorale, "Break Forth Beauteous Heavenly Light" Morning Prayer will be said on Christmas day at S.30 o'clock and Evening Prayer at 3.30 o'clock. Service at Hedding Tomorrow Night Musical selections have been arranged for the annual candlelight choral Communion service in Hedding Methodist church at 11 clock tomorrow night The program has been arranged by Mrs. Katherlne Du Pllka.

minister of music. The Rev. William H. Austin, minister, will have for his Communion meditation, the theme, "Room for the Christ" The church and chancel decora tions will be arranged by the Chancel choir, under the direction of Earl Hand. Included In the nroeram will be prelude, "The Carolers." Hopkins, "The Shepherds and the Angels," Wilson; solo.

"The Lord's Prayer." Mallotte, by Richard Burllngame; anthem, "Sleep, Child Divine." Nolte, by the Chancel choir; carol, "Adeste Fideles;" the "Sursum Corda." Camldge; the "Sanctus;" anthem. "Hallelujah." Lorenz, the Chancel choir; carol, "Joy to the World." Handel; anthem. Holy Night," Adams by the women's quartet Including Miss Anna Du Pllka. Mrs. Amelia Banks.

Mrs. Ida Oliver and Mrs. Patricia Comeau; solo, "Come Unto Him." Raymond Du Pilka; carol. "Silent Night Holy Night" Gruber and post lude, restive uiorta. Patricia and Thomas Thompson sre spending the Christmas holidays with their parents, Mr.

and Mrs. K. Thompson. 130 North Clinton street Miss Thompson Is with the WAVES, at the Na al Air station. Jacksonville, Fla.

Her brother, with the U. S. Army. Is stationed at Fort Campbell, Ky. A guest at the Thompson home Is James Ryan, son of Dr, and Mrs.

Allen Ryan. Oak Park. 111. Serv lng with the U. S.

Navy. Mr. Ryan Is based at the Naxal Air station. Cecil Held. Fla.

Carl J. Becker, 30 Marple road. Is a patient at St Francis' hospital. Mrs. FeUca DeWltt Hyde Park, has returned home from Vassar hospital.

Vassar Student ii.mmii ai nlnner Danee Miss Molly Wheaton Paine was n.t honor at a dinner dance given Tuesday night In the Starlight roof of the Waldorf Astoria. New York City, by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Hugh E. Paine.

New York. The debutante, who was at the Junior assemblies, received with her Prebta. Cha mim BOWn OX blUSU PUK aatin. made with fitted bodice anda twist of pink satin over the shoulders, and a bouffant akirt She carried a muff of pale pink carnations. Miss Paine, Mrs.

Shaffer Note Anniversary Sergeant and Mrs. Donald P. Shaffer. Flshawauka Manor. Open Locks, are observing their third wedding anniversary today.

Mrs. Shaffer Is the former Miss Juanlta Sniffen, daughter of Arthur SnlfTen, this city. Sergeant Shaffer is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Floyd Shaffer.

Anthol. formerly of the Salt Po(nt road, this city. The couple has a son. Jeffrey. Evelyn Dimsey Becomes Bride Mr.

and Mrs. Bertram Dimsey. Fair street Highland, announce the marriage of their daughter, Mia Evelyn Dimsey, to Pfc Don ald L. Elderkln. He, Is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. William K. Elderkln 213 Smith street 'The ceremony took place at 2 o'clock; Sunday afternoon. In St Paul's Epis copal church. The ev.

wuiiam x. Gray officiated. The bride was dressed In a winter white suit with a corsage of pink roses. Her maid of honor, Miss Shirley wararne. Highland, wore a light green suit with a corsage of yellow roses.

serving as dcsi man xor me bridegroom was Herbert Balllen, Ralph Jones, city, uncle of the bridegroom, ushered. For their wedding trip the couple went to New York City. Mrs. Elderkln Is' a graduate of Highland High school, class of 1953, and la employed at IBM. Pfc.

Elderkln, an alimnus of Poughkeepsie High school '33, is serving with the U. s. Army, sta Mrs. Arm Cabot Needlework Lutherans Schedule Candlelight Service There will be a candlelight ser vice, 7:30 o'clock tomorrow night at the First Lutheran church. The Rev.

Adam Schreiber will spesk on the topic, "Glory to God In the Highest" The musical program will In' elude selections by the Junior choir, "Come Shepherds Come, Tyrolese carol, and "Gloria In Excelsls Deo," Old French carol; and "by the Senior choir, Hush Thee, Dear Jesus," Sullivan; "Holy Child." Richard Kountz; "Carol of the Bells," Ukrainian carol; and "All Hall'. This Day of Days," Kountz. There will be coronet solo, "Csntlque Noel." by William Luckfield Jr. Earle V. W.

Foote Is the organist and choir director. Members of the Senior choir are Ernest Frank, Charles Pank enler, Herman Becker, William Slewert, Ralph DoelUng. George Wagner. Donald Erts, Carol Frank. Emma Frank.

Louise iies slnger. Rose Frltsche, Emma NothnageU Marie Dexter, Mar garet liegeman, Irma Schreiber, Elsie Schreiber, Mrs. Charles Pankenler, Emma Jones, Mrs. Donald Malkemus and Evelyn Lyons. Intermediates include Alice Abromelt, Brlgltte Abromtlt, Bar bara Dexter.

Janet Helm. Joan Kaluza, Katherlne Kemmerer, Sandra King, Astrld Lamberts, Fredlyn Nothnsgel, Reet Paju, Alice Rottger and Barbara Wagner. The Junior choir consists of Carol Ann Dorscb. Brenda Kapp, Carolyn Kostrna, Erlka Krueger, Mardell Slewert. Pllvi, Vana, Carol Wagner, John Doss.

Rudolph Gfoss, Uldls Jekabson, Roger Kaelber, Stephen Kostrna and Amis Lambert Arnis Lambert and George Haynes will be the acolytes. Private Fred Kuchenmelster, 60 Montgomery street has com pleted training at Fort Dlx, N. and Is spending a 16 day leave with his wife. Mrs. Marjorle Phillips Kuchenmelster.

Mrs. E. B. Bohlinger, Rhine beck, was admitted to Vassar hospital Cunday. 5619 ffllf William Lee Taylor, a student of Georgia College of Technology, Atlanta, Is spending his holiday vacation with his parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Fred B. Taylor, Dog wood road. Peeksklll. On Sunday he visited his grandmother, Mrs.

Mary A. Taylor, Hopewell Junction. Gloria Prutinsky Bride Of Long Island Resident Miss Gloria Prutinsky. daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Morris Prutinsky, 9 North White street and Ivan J. Goch. son of Mr. and Mrs. Meyer Goch.

Cunningham Park, L. were married Sunday afternoon at Temple Beth EL Rabbi Erwln Zimet officiated at the 1 o'clock ceremony, assisted by Cantor Arele Diamond of New York City. Escorted by her parents, the bride wore a ballerina length gown of off white pure silk. It was designed with a fitted pointed bodice, cap sleeves, full skirt, and a scoop neckline trimmed with pearls and Iridescent sequins. Her fingertip veil was caught to a lace crown trimmed with seed pearls, and she carried a white Bible arranged with an orchid and streamers of steph anotls.

Attending the bride as maid of honor was Miss Ruth Boss, Poughkeepsie. Her ballerina length gown was of pink silk, with a matching headpiece, mitts. and a tulle stole. She carried a colonial bouquet of maroon car nations, For her daughter's wedding. Mrs.

Prutinsky selected a ballerina length dress, princess style, of lavender dull finish satin. It had a scoop neckline trimmed with gray pearls and rhlnestones, and waa worn with a short Jacket having a Queen Anne collar. She wore a lavender orchid corsage Mrs. Goch wore a navy blue lace dress, ballerina length, with a white hat and orchid corsage. Mrs.

Esther Ughez, grandmother of the bride, wore a purple ensemble trimmed with gold beading. She had a matching hat and an orchid corsage. Mrs. Ughez was escorted by her grandson, Keith Seymour Goch. Hlcksvllle.

L. I served as best man for his brother. Immediately after the ceremony there was a reception in the vestry room of the temple. Later, there was a dinner at the Poughkeepsie Tennis club, where Leonard Kahn a orchestra provided music for dancing. Decorations were In maroon and pink.

When Mr. and Mrs. Goch return from a wedding trip to Bermuda, they will live in Jamaica Estates, L. I. The bride, a graduate of Poughkeepsie High school, class OMB51.

attended the University or Michigan and Ithaca college where she majored In music At present she is employed by the Crowell Colller Publishing New York. An alumnus of the City Col lege of New York. School of Ac counting, the bridegroom is as sociated with Benjamin wlnlck, CPA, New York. vaaaasV' 1 fkaH eaeasalSL bsjjjV tiSvaaiaiai PBisJsssWT tA 1 i JtuthMillett We, The Women v. John Lane Studio BIBS.

IVAN J. GOCH. the former Miss Gloria Prutinsky, 3 North White street who became a bride Sunday afternoon it Temple Beth EL Albert G. Hunter Lists Program Albert C. Hunter organist and choir' director of the First Great Grandma's wisdom la frequently praised to' the modern housewife, but the woman of to dsy Is doing pretty well.

Great grandmother said: "A woman's work la never done. To day's woman takes pride not In oeng a aiave to ner lamiiy nut in being a good enough manager to have time to enjoy her family. G. G. said: "Feed the brute." The modern woman la beginning to learn that the Important thing Is to feed the brute a balanced diet G.

G. talked about "standing over a hot stove all day." The modern woman brags about getting everything for a meal out of the home freezer. G. G. was shocked when an old person refused to act his age and summed up her attitude with.

"There's no fool like an old fool." Today the most active woman la a family is likely to be the grandmother. G. G. dismissed beauty lightly with "Beauty Is only skin deep." The modern woman teaches her daughter that any girl can be pretty if she Is smart enough to make the most of the looks she was born with. G.

G. was sure that men were Just little boys grown up. The equality of the modern woman la based as much on her acceptance of men as her equal aa upon their acceptance of her aa their equal. G. G.

thought In terms of "com pany best" and kept the best of everything. Including the parlor, for use only when there was com pany. The modern woman believes the best la none too good for her own family. There are probably many things that the modern woman could learn from Great grandmother.grandmother. But there la also plenty the modern woman could have taught Q.

G. about enjoying life. Bot Sires mduated from the tloned at Fort'Lee. Va. Prior to Chapln school la ai student ai entering the service ha waa em Vassar college.

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New York HI 'V The' colorful 1854 NEEDLEWORK ALBUM contains 86 pagea of lovely deaglns, "how to" sections on needlework, helpful room illustrations and directions for 8 gift patterns. 23 cets. 8 and 40 Society Entertain Husbands Husbands of members of the 8 and 40 society were guests at the annual covered dish supper and Christmas party or the group at the American Legion home, Tuesday night There waa an exchange of gifts with the glitz being distributed by Mrs. Charlotte Bar ton and Mrs. Elsie Sherman.

Members and guests received Christmas corsages and bouton nleres made by Mrs. Hazel Closs who also was the accompanist for chorus singing. There were 30 In attendance. A program Included Christmas recitations by Mrs. Elsie Upright, Mrs.

Florence Johnson and Etlenne Marin. Mrs. Pearl Knickerbocker made known that gifts of clothing and toys will be provided for 16 needy children and that Christmas bas kets will be given two families. Members made contributions to Greer school the Salvation Army, the Dutchess County Health Association, the Recrea tion commission, the ways and means committee of the state organization and $10 to the Laiayette post child welfare fund. In behalf of the Arlington American Legion auxiliary, Mrs.

Celia Wolven, chapeau of the 8 and 40 society, presented a tahla and two chairs to Mrs. Doretta Cruthers, nurse at Vutu hospital, for use In ward four at the hospital The. next meeting waa planned tor wan. in. C.

Earl Davlej, Boardman road, Is a patient at Vassar hospital Miss Maria Amodeo, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent D. Amodeo, 34 Franklin street a student st the Crsne School of Music, Potsdam State Teachers college, la spending the holidays here. Recently, Miss Amodeo was for the Collegiate choir's two Christmas concerts at the college.

Miss Rosemarie Zehnacker and Emll Boldvay, are members of the choir of the Nativity church and will take part In the Christ mas eve service at the church. Episcopal Church Lists Services Services of the Christmas Oc tave have been planned at the Church of the Holy Comforter The Mass of Christmas eve will be celebrated at 7 30 clock, Friday morning, with the day to be one of fasting and abstinence. Hours for confession will be from 3 to 8 30, 7 to 8 and 11 to 11.30 clock. The Midnight service will be gin at 11:30 o'clock, with Advent music and procession to the manger, after which there will be the Mass of the Night, the first Masa of Christmas, at mid night Ttte Mass of the Morn, with ser mon and hymns, will be celebrated at 0 o'clock Christmas day, a day of obligation. On the Feast of St.

Stephen, Sr.nday, the regular Sunday schedule will be In effect On St John's day, Monday, Mass will be at 7.30 o'clock. On Holy Innocent's day. Dec. 26, In add! tlon to the regular Mass at 7 30 o'clock, there will be a children's Mass, offering and children's Christmas party at 9 o'clock On Saturday, Jan. 1, the Octave Day of Christmas, will be observed as the Feast of the Circumcision of Our Lord Jesus Christ, a day of obligation.

Masses will be at 8 and 9 o'clock. Mr. and Mrs. Hart Married 50 Years Mr. and Mrs.

William E. Hart Noxon road, were guests of honor at a party Tuesday night at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Henry Hart, Noxon road. The occasion marked the formers' 30th wed ding anniversary.

The couple was married Dec. 21, 1904, at the home of the bride's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Merritt Baker, Rochester. Mrs.

Hart, an alumna of Gene seo State college, formerly was a teacher. Mr. Hart for many years. was a fruit grower In Dutchess and Ulster counties. The Harts are the parents of six children.

William Hart. Edward Hart. Merrltf Hart, Henry Hart. Poughkeepsie; Mrs Augustus Reynolds, Poughqusg; and Mrs. Richard Wooden, Rensselaer.

They also have 10 grandchildren and five great grandchildren. Baptist church, has arranged the musical program for the service at the church, Sunday morning. The Drosram will include prelude. "Paean of the Nativity," Alfred Taylor and "Christmas Pastorale." Leteoure weiy; an thems. "The Russian Carol," Maltzerf.

by the High school choir and "The Ancels Song." Cecllapo. by the Chapel and Temnle choirs: offertory anthem. "Christ came to ueinienem, Davld Williams and postlude. Fantasia on "in uulcl judiio," Bach and Offertory on Christ mas carols, Gullmant Rhinebeck Pastor To Give Sermonet Carols and a sermonet will be Included In a Christmas eve candlelight service to be conducted in the Third Lutheran cnurcn, Rhinebeck, at 11 o'clock. The Rev.

Erwln J. Jaxhelmer, mlnla ter. will preach on the theme, The First Chrtstnas." Aon Adams At the Market WlUlam Neville To Observe Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. William Neville, IB.

Morgan avenue. Will observe their 29th wedding anniversary tomorrow. They were married by the late Rev. Robert Kelley for mer pastor oi ine wasmngron Street Methodist church. Attend ing the couple were the lata Miss Mary uorano ox mis city ana Gustave Wassweller, of Beacon.

The Nevilles are the parents of one daughter. Judith Ann. Mrs. Neville is the former Miss Doloretta Drury. Supervisors Visit Children's Home Seven members of the Board of Supervisors, accompanied by their wives, visited the Children's home on Tuesday and lunched with younger residents of the borne.

Later, Santa Claus distributed gifts, and the children sang Christmas under the di rection of Mrs. Wllllsm Prit chard. Also present for the luncheon snd party were Mrs. Edwin Knauss. president of the board of directors of the home; Mrs.

Dud ley N. VanKleeck a past presi dent, and eight other boara members. Luncheon wss prepared snd served by, the home staff. Mrs. Austin Race, former superintendent of the home, assisted.

Yule Services In Staatsburg Services for Christmas eve ana Christmas day have been planned for St Margaret's Episcopal rhnrrh The IIoW Communion will be celebrated at 11:13 o'clock Friday night ana on Christmas day, there will be a celebration of the Holy Communion at 10 ft dock. fl 'A, 1 i i Some like it mild, some like It sharp. Whether you're a cheese gourmet or Just a grilled cheese sandwich fancier, you may Be In terested In what gives the cheese Its character. In this country, most of the cheese. Is made from skim or whole milk.

The soft curd of the milk Is treated several ways to develop Its flavor, texture, color and shape. To make ripened cheeses, processors subject the curd to heat and pressure, sdd bacteria or mold cultures, and form the cheeses Into typical shapes. Unrlpened cheeses, like cottage cheese, do not undergo these processes. Of all the cheese Americans eat. Cheddar takes the lead.

Aft er Cheddar there are 3 other out standingly popular cheeses esten In the United States Swiss cream and the Italian types There are tome 14 other distinct types available. Exploring the de lights of new and unfamiliar cheeses is a favorite sport of the gourmet and it can be an adven ture for many families too If experimenting with cheeses is new to you and jour family, you may want to start with the mild flavored ones. The longer natural cheese Is sged, the more Intense its flavor becomes. You 11 often see 3 flavors Of Cheddar cheese on the market mild, medium sharp and sharp. Mild Cheddar is aged 6 months or less; medium sharp 9 months or less; and sharp, 10 months or more.

The sharp Ched dar usually costs a little more than the mild dors. Pasteurize! process cheese docs not age after it is manufactured. To make thlr type of cheese pro duct, processors cut the natural cheese into tmali bltsthen melt, psiturlze, and blend pieces with an emulsifying agent Pro cess cheese has no waste, and It melts easily. Process cheese foods must oe at 1 icasi nau cuccc, anviuiuft iw law. They may also contain muk atfcttla ns tatkow atlltat fhataacat foods spread more easily and melt more quickly than the regular process cheese.

They have an ex i tremely mild cheese flavor. So pick your favorite navor. Cheese gives you a high' food value for your money, and la an Interesting item to serve. Harriet Toaa Dress Patterns IW 714850 Children's Pageant In Arlington Church Members of the Church school of the Arlington Reformed church will present a Christmas program at the church at 4 o'clock, Sunday afternoon, on the theme. "What Do You See In the Manger?" Members, parents and friends are Invited to attend.

Members of the Church school Sarticlpating In the service will Bruce Ycrry, who will give the opening prayer; Carol Ol neiser, offertory prayer; Carol Plass, who will announce the hymns; Nancy King, Pamela King. Stewart Cary. William Coons readers and Karen Light Mary Lou Mowers, Richard Blalch, Hugh Elghmle, Ray Ru gar, David Jago. James Collins. Frank White Jr.

and Wlliard Myers, characters In the presen tation and Edward Vrooman, Daniel Conla William Nell son and George Rugar. ushers. The Youth choir, tinder the direction of Miss Betty Ann Yerry. will alng. "Hall King of Kings" and will lead the congre gation In the singing of Christmas carols.

The choir Carolyn Blanchard, Patricia Blanchard, Barbara Borthwlck, Janice Bush. Nancy Collins, Patricia Decker, Katnenne dooi, Beatrice French, Karen Gonla. Gail Goodrich, Paula Haines, Gloria Johnson, Ellen Jago, Lorraine Schultx, Carol Smith, Dorothy Specken bach. Patricia Turner and Dorothy Vrooman. The Beginner, Primary and Intermediate departments will sing Christmas carols at the service which will be concluded with benediction by the Rev.

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Y. Print olalnlv NAME. ADDRESS with ZONE, SIZE and STYLE NUMBER. St. Andrew's Services Set In St Andrew's Episcopal church, the first service of Christmas day will be the Mid night Mass which will be a sung celebration of the Holy Euchar 1st with Incense and which will begin at 12 01.

The music, under the direction of Miss Drusa WUker. organist, will include the Mlssa de An gelia and traditional carols. At the offertory, the choir will sing "Shepherds, Shake Off Your Drawsy Sleep." At the Communion, Christmas carols will again be sung and at the end of the service, there will be procession to the Nativity Creche which will tbe blessed for the Christmas season. Harry Miller will be master of ceremonies for the Mass and Clarence Skinner, the Junior warden, will be In charge of the ushers. The second service will be at 8 o'clock Christmas day and will be a low celebration of the Holy Eucharist The last service will be at 9 30 o'clock and will be especially for children.

The members of the Junior congregation will take gifu to the manger at this service and there will be presented at the end of the service, when there will be a procession of the congregation to the Christmas crib. The devotions will be, led by David R. Clarkson. I 11 ltax treat Address cay 4 I 'Mc VI Michael Gelensky Becomes Bar Mltsvah, Michael Benjamin Golensky. son of David Golensky, formerly of Pougakeepsie, and Mrs.

Golen sky, Mlddletown. conn, became Bar Mltxvah, Saturday, at a morning service at the Congregation Adath Israel Miaoie town. After the services. Mr, and Mrs. Golensky entertained 300 at at Ktiffatfr llltutl4An In the vestry room of the temple.

Later, they were hosU at a family dinner. Friday night Mr and Alls, uwivuaaj vi guests of the Congregation at an' Oneg Shabat and were' honored for their interest ana participation In temple and communal affairs. Attending from Poujh keepsle were Mrs. samuet cneeg er and son, Michael; Nathan GoU 1... f.l.

and Mrs. Maurice Gale: Mr. and Mrs. Morris Epstein. Morris Ef fron.

and Merrill Etiron. 11 I nl I II.