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POUGHKEEPSIE NEW YORKER THURSDAY. DECEMBER 23, 1954 Dis Letter Box BY DOROTHY DIX DEAR MISS DIX: Andy and have been married for ten years and have three children. When we, were first married, my husband disapproved of drinking, but slowly he has overcome that prejudice to take an opposite view. For the last year or two he has been quite a heavy drinker. Every "occasion" is an excuse for drinking; I just dread family celebrations and holidays since know how they'll end.

Andy claims he isn't an alcoholic, or even a heavy drinker. He says I just use his "periodical" indulgences as a justification for nagging. He resents all criticism, pleading or advice. The children are beginning to observe the difference in him, and are noticeably losing respect for him. Then, he accuses me of turning them against him.

We have always been looked upon as good hosts; our home is charming I am a good cook and we both love people and entertaining. I am now losing heart for all these gracious things since I know every dinner party will Some of our friends result in drunken husband. urally which aware of the direction in things are drifting and they have tried warning Andy, but their efforts are as futile as mine. I don't want a divorce; I just want to restore my husband to normalcy. M.

D. A Tough Problem ANSWER: You have hard, bitter road ahead, in your desire to restore Andy-not only to normalcy but to self-respect. Two Important facts must be borne in mind. First, you cannot accomplish anything without outside help, and, second, you can do little without Andy's co-operation. Since any talk from you is bound to be labeled as nagging, a friend, relative, business whose associate, doctor, or anyone opinion would carry weight with your husband, could do the talking for you.

It must be pointed out to Andy that his livelihood and social position depend on his future conduct. Don't apologize for him when he gets intoxicated before guests, don't cover lie about his condition. As he seems indifferent to the effect of his intemperance upon his own family, his return to proper values may come through the pitying looks cast your way, from the recoil of fastidious friends, the disgusted glances of relatives, or the appraising expressions of his employers. Perhaps it may take a drastic step like the promotion of younger, less capable but more sober employee to a coveted job. Once your husband has awakened to the face that his drinking is out of control, concrete help can be given, especially skilled agency such as Acoholics Anonymous.

To learn more about the problem you face, you might attend an open meeting of A. or seek further information through the Information' Center of the National Committee on Alcoholism, 2 East 103rd Street, New York, N. Y. 1 also mend reading the "Primer on Alcoholism" by Marty Mann, which contains a chapter on "What to do about an Alcoholic." The dangers In excessive social drinking are fortunately well-recognized, and help in curbing it are available to anyone. Definitely, you are not fighting alone, and the co-operation open to you will, I sincerely hope, restore peace to your famIly.

DEAR MISS DIX: I would like to earn some extra money, but as I'm only 15 there doesn't seem to be much I can do except babysitting. However, I don't know of anyone who needs a baby sitter. Can you think of a way I can get this work? My mother won't let me work for anyone she doesn't know. Pat ANSWER: Your mother's restriction is wise. Among all her friends, can't she think of one tious person baby who could sitter? Your a mother use conscienmight help you and other teenagers by asking the pastor of leader your church, your principal, the of the Girl Scout troup, or the presidents of any clubs, to get listings of women who need baby sitters from time to time.

Another way for you to earn extra money would be by tutoring grammar- children. You write letter for a highschool sophomore; your penmanship, grammar and spelling quite exceptional. One of your former teachers in grade school might recommend you could. for even this work. In fact, you help freshmen or fellow sophomores in your high school.

(Released by The Bell Syndicate, Inc.) at Bowne Guests at Yule Party Patients and employes of the Samuel and Nettie Bowne hospital were guests at a Christmas party Tuesday night at the hospital. selections on the Entertainment piano featured Charles Gilbert Spross; Fitchett magician; and Gerald and Ronald Callahan, the "Dutchess Ramblers," with the guitar and violin. Jack Gilbert served as Santa Claus. The committees included decorations, Mrs. Vivian Spada and Mrs.

Hattie Catherine Crispell; entertainment, Mrs. Russell and Miss Helen Newman; refreshments, Mrs. Carroll; and gifts for the patients, refreshMrs. Moss. Later, ments were served.

Vassar Student Honored at Dinner-Dance Miss Molly Wheaton Paine was guest of honor at a dinner-dance given Tuesday night in the Starlight roof of the Waldorf-Astoria, New York City, by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Hugh E. Paine, New York. The debutante, who was presented at the with Junior parents.

biles, received her She wore a gown of pink satin, made with a fitted bodice and a twist of pink satin over the shoulders, and a bouffant skirt. 'She carried muff of pale pink carnations. Miss Paine, who was graduated. from the Chapin school, student at Vassar college. Day Nursery Association Entertain Children at Party St.

Peter's Church Schedules Mass In preparation for the Feast I of the Nativity, confessions will be heard on Friday at 3:30 o'clock for the school children of St. Peter's church, and from to 6 o'clock and 7:30 to 9:30 o'clock for the adults. Solemn Mass will be sung at midnight on Christmas Eve. The celebrant of the Mass will be the Right Rev. Monsignor Michael P.

pastor. The 'Rev. Kenneth A. Gerathy, assistant pastor, will be the deacon, and the Rev. Anthony Keane, S.

Will be the sub-deacon. Father Keane also will preach the sermon. at this Mass. he The assistant Rev. pastor, Francis will X.

celebrate Harper, Midnight Mass for the Sisters of St. Peter's convent in the Convent chapel, 18 North Clover street. Preceding the Mass, the church choir under the direction Miss Grace Ward, organist, wil sing carols beginning at 11 o'clock. Included will be "Gesu a duet by Mrs. Arthur Kelly and John Kearney; Holy Night," by Mrs.

Herman J. Merkel; "Virgin's Lullaby," by Mrs. Kelly, Mrs. Charles J. Maneri and Mrs.

Joseph Shelly; "Birthday of a by Hugh Carey and male quintet composed of Frank and John Kearney, Robert Wermuth, Joseph Germond and Edward Miller. At 11:45 o'clock, there will be procession of Choir boys around the church singing "Angels We Have Heard on High." Grouped around the Christmas crib, they will sing "Adeste FiI deles" and "Silent Night." The choir will sing for the Midnight Mass Ordinary by Kumin; the Proper will be by Tozer. At the Offertory, "Laetentur Coeli," by Guender, will be sung. At the Communion of the Mass, a male, quartet sing "Adoremus and "Ecce Panis." The Recessional will be "Hodie." Other members of St. Peter's choir include Mrs.

James Smith, Frank Eckardt, and Francis Carey. Low Masses on Christmas day will be at 5:45, 7, 8, 9, and 12 o'clock. High Masses will be sung at 10 o'clock. Benediction will take place after the 12 o'clock Mass. Service at Hedding Tomorrow Night Musical selections have been arranged for the annual candlelight choral Communion service in Hedding Methodist church at 11 o'clock tomorrow night The program has been arranged by Mrs.

Katherine Du Pilka, minister of music. The Rev. William H. Austin, minister, will have for his Communion meditation, the theme, "Room for the Christ." The church and chancel decorations will be arranged ed by the Chancel choir, under the direction of Earl Hand. Included program will be prelude, Carolers," Hopkins, Shepherds and the Angels," Wilson; solo, "The Lord's Prayer," Mallotte, Richard Burlingame; anthem, "Sleep, Child Divine," Nolte, by the Chancel choir; carol, "Adeste Fideles;" the "Sursum Corda," Camidge; the "Sanctus;" anthem, "Hallelujah," Lorenz, the he Chancel choir; carol, "Joy to the World," Handel; anthem, Holy Night," Adams by the women's quartet including Miss Anna Du Pilka, Mrs.

Amelia Banks, Mrs. Ida Oliver and Mrs. Patricia Comeau; "Come Unto Him," Raymond Du Pilka; "Silent Night, Night," Gruber and postlude, "Festive Gloria." Mrs. Anne Cabot Needlework Otto Sizes 38.40-42 5619 The makes simplicity so of this lovely vest 4t easy to crochet in your favorite, color, and SO nice to wear under a coat to ward off chilly breezes. Pattern No.

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25 cents. I Mr. and Mrs. Franklin Boeckel, 34 College avenue, will have as their guests on Christmas day, their son and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs.

Kermit Boeckel, Hyde Park; Mrs. Boeckel's uncle, James Langmore, Beacon and sister of Mrs. Kermit Boeckel, Miss Susan Pentz, DuBois, Pa. Mr. and Mrs.

F. Harold Crispell, and daughter, Suzanne, Albany, have arrived here to spend Christmas with. Mr. Crispell's mother, Mrs. F.

Harold Crispell, 59 South Clinton street. Members of the Taft school Christmas choir, conducted their 19th Christmas service in Christ church, Watertown, recently. The choir, under the direction of George H. Morgan, presented two special services, one for the town, and one for the school. Among the members of this organization is A.

Russell Heaton son Mr. and Mrs. Heaton, 72 Woodland avenue. He is captain of the Varsity Ski team. Mrs.

Louise Slater, 47. Winnikee avenue, is' receiving treatment at Vassar hospital. Personal Mention Admitted to Vassar hospital Sunday was Fred W. Cotting, 40 Harrison street. Jacob C.

Mabie, 10 Woodcliff avenue, has returned home from St. Francis' hospital. Patricia and Thomas Thompson are spending the Christmas holldays with their parents, Mr. and Mrs. E.

K. Thompson, 130 North Clinton street. Miss Thompson is with the WAVES, at the Naval Air station, Jacksonvilie, Fla. Her brother, with the U. Army, is stationed at Fort Campbell, Ky.

A guest at the home is James Ryan, son of Dr. and Mrs. Allen Ryan, Oak Park, Ill. ServIng with the U. S.

Navy, Mr. Ryan is based at the Naval Air station, Cecil field, Fla. pital. Mrs. Felica De Witt, Hyde Park, has returned home from Vassar hospital.

Carl J. Becker, 30 Marple road, is a patient at St. Francis' hos- Private Fred Kuchenmeister, 60 Montgomery street, has com pleted training at Fort Dix, N. and is spending a 16-day leave with his wife, Mrs. Marjorie Phillips Kuchenmeister.

Mrs. E. B. Bohlinger, Rhipebeck, was admitted to Vassar hospital Sunday. William Lee Taylor, a student of Georgia College of Technology, Atlanta, is spending his holiday vacation with his parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Fred B. Taylor, Dogwood road, Peekskill. On Sunday he visited his grandmother, Mrs. Mary A.

Hopewell Junction. C. Earl Davies, Boardman road, is a patient at Vassar hospital Miss Maria Amodeo, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent D.

Amodeo, 34 Franklin street, a student at the Crane School of Music, Potsdam State Teachers college, is spending, the holidays here. Recently, Miss Amodeo was soloist for the Collegiate choir's two Christmas concerts at the college. Miss Rosemarie Zehnacker and Emil Boldvay, are members of the choir of the Nativity church and will take part in the Christmas eve service at the church. Episcopal Church. Lists Services Services of the Christmas Octave have been planned at the of the Holy Comforter.

The Mass of Christmas eve will be celebrated at 7:30 o'clock, Friday morning, with the day to one of fasting and abstinence. Hours for confession will be from 5 to 5:30, 7 to 8 and 11 to 11:30 o'clock. The Midnight service will begin at 11:30 o'clock, with Advent music and procession to the manger, after which there will be the Mass of the Night, the first Mass of Christmas, at midnight. The Mass of the Morn, with sermon and hymns, will be at 9 o'clock Christmas day, a day of obligation. On the Feast of St.

Stephen, Sunday, the regular Sunday St. John's day, Monday, Mass schedule will bee in effect. On will be at 7:30 o'clock. On Holy Innocent's day, Dec. 26, in addition to the regular Mass at 7:30 o'clock, there will be a Mass, offering and children's Christmas party at 9 o'clock.

On Saturday, Jan. the Octave Day of Christmas, will be observed as the Feast of the Circumcision of Our obligation. Lord Jesus Masses Christ, will a be day at 8 and 9 o'clock. Supervisors Visit Children's Home Seven members of the Board of Supervisors, accompanied by their wives, visited the Children's home on Tuesday and lunched with younger residents of the home, Later, Santa Claus distributed gifts, and the children sang Christmas under the direction of Mrs. William Prit chard.

Also present for the luncheon and party were Mrs. Edwin S. Knauss, president of the board of directors of the home; Dudley N. VanKleeck a 'past president, and eight other boara members. Luncheon was prepared and served by the home staff.

Mrs. Austin Race, former superintendent of the home, assisted. Yule Services In Staatsburg Services for Christmas eve and Christmas day have been planned for St. Margaret's Episcopal church, Staatsburg. The Holy, Communion will be celebrated at 11:15 delock Friday night and on Christmas day, there will celebration of the Holy Communion at 10 o'clock.

Prutinsky Bride Of Long Island Resident Miss Gloria Prutinsky, ter of Mr. and Mrs. Morris Prutinsky, 5 North White street, and Ivan J. Goch, son of. Mr.

and Mrs. Meyer Goch, Cunningham Park, L. were married Sunday afternoon at Temple Beth-El. Rabbi Erwin Zimet officiated at the 1 o'clock ceremony, assisted by Cantor Arele Diamond of New York City. Escorted by her parents, the bride wore ballerina length gown of off-white pure silk.

It was designed with a fitted pointed bodice, cap sleeves, full skirt, and neckline trimmed with pearls' and iridescent sequins. Her fingertip veil was caught to crown trimmed with seed pearls, and she carried a white Bible streamers arranged with an orchid and of stephanotis. Attending the bride: as maid of honor was Miss Boss, Poughkeepsie. Her ballerina Ruth, length gown was of pink silk, with a matching headpiece, mitts, and a tulle stole. She carried colonial bouquet of maroon carnations.

For her daughter's wedding, Mrs. Prutinsky selected a ballerina length dress, princess style, of lavender dull-finish satin. It had a scoop neckline trimmed with gray pearls and rhinestones, and was worn with a short jacket having a Queen Anne collar. She wore a lavender orchid corsage. Mrs.

Goch wore a navy blue lace dress, ballerina length, with white hat and orchid corsage. Mrs. Esther Ughez, grandmother of the bride, wore purple ensemble trimmed match- with gold hat beading. and She had a ing an corsage. Mrs.

Ughez was escorted by her grandson, Keith Seymour Goch, Hicksville, served as best man for his brother. Immediately after the ceremony there a reception in the vestry room of the temple. Later, there was a dinner at the Poughkeepsie Tennis club, where Leonard Kahn's orchestra provided music for dancing. Decorations were in maroon and pink. When Mr.

and Mrs. Goch return from a wedding trip to Bermuda, they will live in Jamaica Estates, L. I. The bride, graduate of Poughkeepsie High school, class of -1951, attended the University of Michigan and Ithaca college where she majored in music. At present she is employed by the Crowell-Collier Publishing New York.

An alumnus of the City College of New York, School of Accounting, the bridegroom is associated with Benjamin, Botwinick, CPA, New York. Mr. and Mrs. Hart Married 50 Years Mr. and Mrs.

William E. Hart, Noxon road, were guests of honor at party Tuesday night at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Henry Hart, Noxon road. The occasion marked the formers' 50th wedding anniversary.

The couple was married Dec. 21, 1904, at the home of the bride's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Merritt Baker, Rochester. Mrs.

Hart, an alumna of Geneseo State college, formerly was teacher. Mr. Hart, for many years, was a fruit grower in Dutchess and Ulster counties. The Harts are the of children, William Hart, Edward Hart, Merritt Hart, Henry Hart, Poughkeepsie; Mrs. Augustus Reynolds, Poughquag; and Mrs.

Richard Wooden, Rensselaer. They also have 10 grandchildren and five great grandchildren. At the Market Some like it mild, some like it sharp. Whether you're a cheese gourmet or just a grilled cheese sandwich fancier, you may be interested in what gives the cheese its character. In this country, most of the cheese, is made from skim or whole milk.

The soft curd of the milk is treated several ways to develop its flavor, texture, color and shape. To make ripened cheeses, processors subject the curd to heat and pressure, add bacteria or mold cultures, and form the cheeses into typical shapes. Unripened cheeses, like cottage cheese, do not undergo these processes. Of all the cheese Americans eat, Cheddar takes the lead. After Cheddar there are 3 other outstandingly popular cheeses eaten in the United States -Swiss, cream and the Italian types.

There are some 14 other distinct types available. Exploring the delights of new and' unfamiliar cheeses is a favorite sport of the gourmet, and it can be an adventure for many families too. If experimenting with cheeses is new to you and your family, you may want to start with the mildflavored ones. The longer natural cheese 1s aged, the more intense its flavor becomes. You'll often see 3 vors of Cheddar cheese on the mild, medium-sharp and sharp.

Mild Cheddar is aged 6 months or less; medium-sharp 9 months or less; and sharp, 10 months or more. The sharp Cheddar usually costs' little more than the mild does. Pasteurized process cheese docs not age after it is manufactured. To make this type of cheese product, processors cut the natural cheese into small. bits, then melt, pasturize, and blend the pieces with an emulsifying Process cheese has no waste, and it melts easily.

Process cheese foods must oe at least half cheese, according to law. They may also contain milk solids or whey solids. Cheese foods spread more easily and melt more quickly than the regular process mild cheese. cheese They have an ex tremely flavor. So pick your favorite 'flavor.

Cheese gives you high food value for your money, and is an interesting item to serve. Harriet Toan Ruth Millett We, The Women Approximately 55 children were guests at annual Christmas party of the Poughkeepsie Day Nursery association, Tuesday afternoon, at Wheaton Park A large decorated tree was featured. Each child received candy, a popcorn ball and a gift. Members of the board of the pursers, Fraser, group present president: were Mrs. Mrs.

M. Addison Merrihew, Mrs. Harold Bailey, Mrs. Robert MacGuinness, Mrs. Hamilton Hayden and Mrs.

E. Freeman Pearce. Also attending was Mrs. Helen McLain, social worker. MRS.

HERBERT L. BAKER. who has arranged the selections for the candlelight musical service in Trinity Methodist -church, tomorrow night. Musical Service At Trinity Church Musical selections have been arranged by Mrs. Herbert L.

Baker, organist and choir director, for the candlelight musical 1 service to be conducted in TrinIty Methodist church at 11 o'clock, tomorrow night. The program will include organ prelude, "Vivace and Allegro," from the Christmas Concerto, Corelli; choir carol, "The Angels' Song," Lorenz; greetings by the Rev. W. Bernard Grossman, minister; choir carols, "A Star Was His Candle," Del Riego, "The Babe Laid." Buebendorf, "Christmas in Bethlehem's Manger Carol," (Catalonian) arranged by Erickson, "Lo How a Rose E'er Blooming," (16th Century) Praetorius, "Away in (German), Luther, "Sleep Holy Child," Peery, "Nowell," and "The Three Ships," Taylor; and organ postlude, "Fantasy on Sergisson. The choir includes Herbert Berrier, Miss Bessie Brown, Miss Audrey Coons, George Cox, Alan Cox, Miss Margaret Dillinger, Mr.

and Mrs. Melvin Doyle, Glen Fitzsimmons, William Freer, John Glass, Mrs. Ruth Gray, Mr. and Mrs. Bert Green, Mrs.

Evart Howland, Mrs. William Kippenham, Robert McNabb, Miss Nancy Morehouse, Albert Myers, Miss Barbara Palmatier, Mrs. Elizabeth Patchen, Mrs. Max Pfleider, Mrs. Robert Wendover, Miss Barbara Westover, Miss Betty Westover and Mrs.

Seymour Westover. Dr. Terwilliger To Be Preacher In Christ church, there will be Midnight celebration of the Holy. Communion beginning at 11:30 o'clock, mas eve. The Rev.

Robert E. Terwilliger, Ph. rector, will be the celebrant with the Rev. Charles G. Newbery, curate, reading the Gospel and Robert R.

Raymond reading ep Epistle. Dr. Terwilliger will preach on the subject, "God Rest You Merry." At 4 o'clock, Christmas eve, there will be a children's service when the Church school will present its Advent Mite box offering. At this service, carols be sung, the Christmas story, from the Gospel according to Luke. will be read and Dr.

Terwilliger will give an address on After the service, there will be a procession Creche Evensong will be said at- 5:30 o'clock and Holy Baptism will be administered to David Montague Hinkley, after the Second Lesson. On Christmas day at 10 o'clock, Mr. Newbery will celebrate the Holy Communion for the first time. He was ordained priest on Ember Saturday, Dec. 18 by the Bishop' of Newark.

The sermon will be preached at this service by Dr. Terwilliger, on the theme, "We Behold His The church choir will sing the SchopBach chorale, "Break Forth Beauteous Heavenly Light." Morning Prayer will be said on Christmas day at 9:30 o'clock and Evening Prayer at 5:30 o'clock. Mrs. Shaffer Note Anniversary Sergeant and Mrs. Donald P.

Shaffer, Fishawauka Manor, Open Locks, are observing their third wedding anpiversary today. Mrs. Shaffer is the former Miss Juanita Sniffen, daughter of Arthur Sniffen, this city. Sergeant Shaffer is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Floyd Shaffer, Anthol, formerly of the Salt Point road, this city. couple has a son, Jeffrey. Evelyn Dimsey Becomes Mr. and Mrs. Bertram Dimsey, Fair street, Highland, announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Evelyn Dimsey, to Pfc.

Donald L. Elderkin. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. William F.

Elderkin 213 Smith street. The ceremony took place at 2 Sunday afternoon, in St. Paul's church. The Rev. William T.

Gray officiated. The bride was dressed in a winter white suit with a corsage of pink roses. Her maid. of honor, Miss Shirley Nardene, Highland, wore a light green suit with corsage of yellow roses. Serving as 'best man for, the bridegroom was Herbert Ballien, here.

Ralph Jones, city, uncle of the bridegroom, ushered. For their wedding trip the couple went to New York City. Mrs. Elderkin is a graduate of Highland High school, class 1953, and is employed at IBM. Pic.

Elderkin, an alamnus of Poughkeepsie High school. '53, is serving with the U. S. Army, stationed at Fort Lee, Va. Prior to entering the service he was employed at IBM.

Mrs. Hazel Terhune Auxiliary Hostess Mrs. Hazel Terhune was hostess for recent Christmas party of the Pleasant Valley American Legion auxiliary, at her home. At that plans were made to entertain" the Dutchess County American Legion auxiliary for its meeting, Jan. 8, at the, post home.

Mrs. Elsie Morey appointed the committee on arrangements to include Mrs. Terhune, Olive Conover, Mrs. Laura Whiteford, Mrs. Jane Feigenheimer, Mrs.

Gladys Parks, Mrs. Shirley Teal, Mrs. Charlotte Dool 'and Mrs. Dorothy Gallenz. Contributions of $5 were made to the Dutchess County Past Presidents' Parley and to the Pleasant Valley Brownie troop.

It was made known that 106 gifts valued at $176, were provided for the Christmas gift shop at the United States Veterans' Administration facility, Castle Point. Members made five dozen of cancer dressings, at the meeting, under the direction of Mrs. Gallenz, cancer control chairman. Refreshments were gifts exchanged. Mrs.

Terhune was assisted by Mrs. Conover. The next meeting is scheduled for Thursday, Jan. 20, at the post home. At that time, Mrs.

Feigenheimer will speak pertainwilling to the legislative program for the year. Refreshments will be in charge of Mrs. Gallenz and Mrs. Morey. Lutherans Schedule Candlelight Service There will be a candlelight ser: vice, 7:30 o'clock tomorrow night, at the First Lutheran church.

The Rev. Adam Schreiber will speak on the topic, "Glory to God in the Highest." The musical program will include selections by the Junior choir, "Come Shepherds Come," Tyrolese carol, and "Gloria in Excelsis Deo," Old French carol; and by the Senior choir, Thee, Dear Jesus," Sullivan; "Holy Child," Richard Kountz; "Carol of the Bells," Ukrainian carol; and "All Hall'. This Day of Days," Kountz. There will be coronet solo, "Cantique Noel," by William Luckfield Jr. Earle V.

W. Foote is the organist and choir director. Members of the Senior choir are Ernest Frank, Charles Pankenier, Herman Becker, William Siewert, Ralph' Doelling, George Wagner, Donald Erts, Carol Frank, Emma Frank, Louise Hessinger, Rose Fritsche, Emma Nothnagel, Marie Dexter, Margaret Hegeman, Irma, Schreiber, Elsie Schreiber, Charles Pankenier, Emma Jones, Mrs. Donald Malkemus and Evelyn Lyons. Intermediates include Alice Abromelt, Brigitte Abromeit, Barbara Dexter, Janet Heim, Joan Kaluza, Katherine Sandra King, Astrid Lamberts, Fredlyn Nothnagel, Reet Paju, Alice Rottger and Barbara Wagner.

The Junior choir consists of Carol Ann Dorsch, Brenda Kapp, Carolyn Kostrna, Erika Krueger, Mardell Siewert, Pilvi Vana; Carol Wagner, John Doss, Rudolph Gross, Uldis Jekabson, Roger Kaelber, Stephen Kostrna and Arnis Lambert. Arnis Lambert and George Haynes will be the acolytes. one 8 and 40 Society Entertain Husbands Husbands of members of the 8 and 40 society were guests at the annual covered dish supper and Christmas party of the group at the American Legion home, Tuesday night. There was an exchange of gifts with the gifts being distributed by Mrs. Charlotte Barton and Mrs.

Elsie Sherman. Members and guests received Christmas corsages and boutonnieres made by Mrs. Hazel Closs who also was the accompanist for chorus singing. There were in attendance. A program included Christmas recitations by Mrs.

Elsie Upright, Mrs. Florence Johnson and Etienne Marin. Mrs. Pearl Knickerbocker made known that gifts of clothing and toys will be provided for 16 needy children and that Christmas baskets will be given two families. Members made contributions to Greer school, the Salvation Army, the Dutchess County Health Association, the Recreation commission, the ways and means committee of the state organization a and $10 to the Lafayette post child welfare fund.

In behalf of the American Legion auxiliary, Mrs. Celia Wolven, chapeau of the 8 and 40 society, presented a table and two chairs to Mrs. Doretta Cruthers, nurse at Vassar hospital, for use in ward four at the hospital. The next meeting was for Jan. 18.

William Nevilles To Observe Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. William Neville, 19. Morgan. avenue, will observe their 29th wedding anniversary tomorrow.

They were married by the late Rev. Robert Kelley, former pastor of the Washington Street Methodist church. Attending the couple were the late Miss Mary Morano of this' city and Gustave Wassweller, of Beacon. The Nevilles are the parents of one daughter, Judith Ann. Mrs.

Neville is the former Miss Do. I loretta Drury. Great-Grandma's wisdom frequently praised to the modern housewife, but the woman today is doing pretty well. Great-grandmother said: "A woman's work is never done." Today's woman takes pride not beng a slave to her family but in being good enough manager to have time to enjoy her family. G.

G. said: "Feed the brute." The modern woman is beginning to learn that the important thing is to feed the brute balanced diet. G. G. talked about "standing over a hot stove all day." The modern woman brags about getting everything for a meal out of the home freezer, G.

G. was shocked when an old person refused to act his age and summed up her attitude with, "There's no fool like an old Today the most active woman in a family is likely to be the grandmother. G. G. dismissed beauty lightly with "Beauty is only skin deep." The modern woman teaches her daughter that any girl -can be pretty if she is smart enough to make the most of the looks she was born with.

G. G. was sure that men were just little boys grown up. The equality of the modern woman is based as much on her acceptance of men as her equal as upon their acceptance of her as their equal. G.

G. thought in terms of "company best" and kept best of everything, including the parlor, for use only when there was company. The modern woman believes the best is none too good for her own family. There are probably many things that the modern woman could learn from there is also plenty the modern woman could have taught G. G.

about enjoying life. -John Lane Studio MRS. IVAN J. GOCH, the former Miss Gloria Prutinsky, 5 North White street, who became a bride Sunday afternoon at Temple Beth-El. Albert G.

Hunter Lists Program and Albert choir G. director Hunter of organist Baptist musical church, has for the arranged service the program church, Sunday morning. "The program will: include prelude, "Paean of the Nativity," Alfred Taylor and "Christmas Pastorale," Lefebure-Wely: anthems, "The Russian Carol," Maltzeff, by the High School choir and "The Angels Song." Cecilapo, by the Chapel and Temple choirs; offertory anthem, "Christ Came to Bethlehem," David Williams and postlude, Fantasia on "In Dulci Bach and Offertory on Christmas carols, Guilmant. Rhinebeck Pastor To Give Sermonet and a sermonet will be included in a Christmas eve candelight service to be conducted in the Third Lutheran church, Rhinebeck, at 11, o'clock. The Rev.

Erwin J. Jaxheimer, minister, will preach on the theme, "The First Christrias." Anne Adams Dress Patterns 4850 Half-sizers! Crisp 'contrast of collar and cuffs set 'off the figure-flattering lines of new basic style! If you're shorter, to look slimmer and taller' choose narrow vertical stripe for this. Simple to sew. Pattern 4850: Half Sizes Size takes yards 35-inch fabric; This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions.

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No. Street City Children's Pageant In Arlington Church Members of the Church school of the Arlington Reformed church will present a Christmas program at the church at o'clock, Sunday afternoon, on theme, "What Do You See in the Manger?" Members, parents and friends are invited to attend. Members of the Church school participating in the service will be Bruce Yerry, who will give the opening prayer; Carol O1- heiser, offertory prayer; Carol Plass, who will announce the hymns; Nancy King, Pamela King, Stewart Cary, William Coons readers and Karen Light, Mary Lou Mowers, Richard Blaich, Hugh Eighmie, Ray Rugar, David Jago, James Collins, Frank White Jr. and Willard Myers, characters in the tation and Edward Vrooman, Daniel Gonia William Neilson and George Rugar, ushers. The Youth choir, under the direction of Miss Betty Ann Yerwill sing, "Hall King of Kings" and will lead the congregation in the singing of Christmas carols.

The choirs thefudes Carolyn Blanchard, Patricia Blanchard, Barbara Borthwick, Janice Bush, Nancy Collins, Patricia Decker, Katherine Dool, Beatrice French, Karen Gail Goodrich, Paula Haines, Gloria Johnson, Ellen Jago, Lorraine Schultz, Carol Smith, Dorothy Speckenbach, Patricia Turner and Dorothy Vrooman. The Beginner, Primary and Intermediate departments will sing Christmas carols at the service which will be concluded benediction by the Rev. Donald A. McCabe, minister. After the service, Santa Claus will distribute gifts to members of the Church school.

St. Andrew's Services Set In Andrew's Episcopal church, the first service of Christmas day' will be the Midnight Mass which will be a sung celebration of the Holy Eucharist with incense and which will begin at 12:01. The music, under the direction of Miss Drusa Wilker, organist, will include the Missa de Angelis and traditional carols. At the offertory, the choir will sing "Shepherds, Shake Off Your Drawsy Sleep." At the Communion, Christmas carols will again be sung and at the end of the service, there will be a.procession to the Nativity Creche which will (be blessed for the Christmas season. Harry Miller will be master of ceremonies for the Mass and Clarence Skinner, the junior warden, will be in charge of the ushers.

The second service will be at 8 o'clock Christmas day and will be a low celebration of the Holy Eucharist. The last service will be at 9:30 o'clock and will be especially for children. The members of the Junior congregation will take gifts to the manger at this service and there will be presented at the end of the service, when there will be procession of the congregation. to the Christmas crib. The devotions will be, led by David R.

Clarkson. Michael Golensky Becomes Bar Mitzvah Michael Benjamin Golensky, son of David Golensky, formerly of Poughkeepsie, and Mrs. Golensky, Middletown, Conn, became Bar Mitzvah, Saturday, at a morning service at the Congregation Adath Israel Middletown. After the services, Mr. and Mrs.

Golensky entertained 300 guests at a buffet luncheon in the vestry room of the temple. Later, they were hosts at a family dinner. Friday night, Mr. and Mrs. Golensky and Michael were guests of the Congregation at an Oneg Shabat and honored for their interest and participation in temple and communal affairs.

Attending from Poughkeepsie were Mrs. Samuel Cheeger and son, Michael; Nathan Golensky and daughter, Martha; Mr. and Mrs. Maurice Gale, Mr. and Mrs.

Morris Epstein, Morris ElI fron, and Merrill R. Effron..