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a a a a a TWELVE POUGHKEEPSIE NEW YORKER FRIDAY. Miss Graham, Future Bride, Guest of Honor at Shower Joan E. Scism's Betrothal Announced Mr. and Mrs. Harry W.

Scism Barrytown, announce the engagement of their daughter, Joan Estelle, to Clarence Peter Fallon, son of Mr Mrs. Hamilton Fallon, Annandale. A September wedding Miss Scism, a graduate of Red Hook Central school and Krissler Business institute, is employed at the Hudson River State hospital. Mr. Fallon attended High school and Red Hook Central school, and served three years with the U.

S. Army, part of which was spent Korea. He is now employed by John Arborio, here. Miss Bocchino Sets Wedding Date Miss Angela Bocchino, Union street, has made known plans for her marriage to Richard Empert, also of this city. The ceremony will take place at 2:30 o'clock, July 25, in Mt.

Carmel church. The Salvatore Cantatore will officiate. Miss Bocchino is the of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Bocching, Empert's mother, Mrs.

Elise Empert, lives in East Park. Miss Anne Carbone will attend her cousin as maid of honor. Bridesmaid will be Miss' Joann Gannon, and junior bridesmaid, Miss Concetta Bocchino, also cousin of the bride-elect. Lorrie Bocchine, another cousin of the will be the flower girl. Anthony Empert, East Park, vill serve as best man.

Ushering will be Edward Letzeisen, New Hamburg, and John Bocchino, here, Miss Bocchino's cousin, will be junior usher. Donald Empert, East Park, will be the ring bearer. There will be reception at Moose club, at 4:30, after a which the couple will leave there for wedding trip Niagara Falls and Canada. They will make their home in 120 North Hamilton street. Miss Bocchino attended Nativity and Poughkeepsie High schools, and Is employed at the Beacon Leather Goods Inc.

Mr. Empert, an employe of the Daystrom Electric Roosevelt High school. Miss Anne Carbone, 2. DuRocher terrace, was hostess at her home recently at a variety shower in honor of her cousin, Miss Bocchino. Decorations, in blue and white, featured an umbrella under which the gifts were arranged, and table arrangements of red roses.

The bride-elect and her attendants received minlature dolls as favors, A. buffet luncheon was served. The guests included Mrs. Joseph Bocchino, Mrs. Elise Empert, Mrs.

Carmine Bocchino Mrs. Carmine Boochino Miss Concetta Bocchino, Mrs. Ernest J. Bocchino, Mrs. Frank Carbone, Mrs.

Michael Bocchino, Mrs. Anthony Renzo, Mrs. Michael Bogo, and Mrs. Joseph Nucci. Mrs.

George Filoia, Mrs. Calio, Mrs. Jackson, Mrs. Charles Callior Miss Josephine Louis Tignanelli, Mrs. Vincent Ochoa, Miss Rita Ochoa, Miss Irene Ochoa, Mrs.

John Hues, Mrs. Ernest Bruno, Miss Mary Bruno, and Mrs. John Flynn. Mrs. Carmine Filoia, Mrs.

seph Filoia, Mrs. Arthur Filoia, Mrs. Angelina Molinari, Mrs. Michael Molinari, Miss Angelina Molinari, Mrs. John Molinari, Mrs.

Marianna Corella, Miss Mary Corella, Miss Rose Corella, Mrs. John Regini, Mrs. Thomas Bocchino, Mrs. Adam Nowik, Mrs. Ronald Goldstein, Mrs.

Ernest G. Bocchino, and Mrs. Thomas Chiavelli. Wappingers WSCS Honors Lois Mitchell Members of the WSCS of the Wappingers Fall Methodist church entertained at a surprise bridal shower recently at the church hall in honor of Miss Lois Mitchell, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

James Mitchell, of that village. Decorations were in pink and white with garden flowers predominating. Gifts were arrangements beneath a large sprinkling can. Refreshments were served. Miss Mitchell will become the bride of Robert of Wappingers Falls, Sept.

4. Among the guests were Mrs. Edith Cosme, Mrs. Grace Olney, Mrs. John Morey, Mrs.

Norman F. M. Scofeld, Mrs. Stanley Cornell, Mrs. Vera B.

Foulkes, Mrs. Wilson Shultis, Mrs. Francis Rev. and Mrs. C.

Dibble, Mrs. Knud Clausen, Mrs. Grace Odell, Mrs. William Scofield, Mrs. Almena Odell, Mr.

and James Mitchell, Mrs. Ella Farrell, and Mrs. Charles Simmons, Mr. Mrs. Walter Montross, Robert Montross, Mr.

and Mrs. Arthur Tanner Mrs. Aimee F. Moore, Miss Isabel T. Mitchell.

Miss Jessie A. Mitchell, Mrs. Edward Garrigan, Mrs. Theodore R. Masten Miss Doris Tibbs, Mrs.

George Minard, Mr. and Mrs. Mrs. William Floyd Blank, Tilton Mrs. Arthur Fredericks, Mrs.

Robert Miss Mildred Coulter, Mrs. Gruendle, Mrs. Douglas Deppe, ter N. Hindle, Mrs. Clyde L.

Meeker, Mrs. Malcolm DuBois, Edward R. Scofeld, Mrs. John Hunt, Mrs. Frank Ferraro, Frank Ferraro Mrs.

George W. Baxter, Miss Dorothy Baxter, Mrs. Richard Wilson, Mrs. Andrew Erickson, Mr. and Mis.

Edward C. Scofleld, Mr. and Mrs. Robert -Drake, Mrs. Annie Barringer, Mrs.

Robert L. Matterstock, Mr. and Mrs. Elmer Carlson, Mrs. Vir.

gil Scofeld, Miss Holly Mott, Mrs. Ernest Mott, Mrs. Irving G. Hait, Mrs. Gladys Cusley, Mr.

and Joseph B. Holden, Mr. and Mrs. Winfield G. Baldwin, Miss Louise Pike, -Miss Joan Travis, Mrs.

Lewis Smith, Mr. and Mrs. Walter H. Travis, and Mr. and Mrs.

Raymond Pike Sr. JULY 9. 1954 Personal Mention Mrs. James F. Riley, Haviland road, is a patient at Vassar hospital.

Mr. and Mrs. Walter E. Walk- er, Clearwater, Fla. formerly of this elty, were dinner guests, Wednesday, of Mr.

and Mrs. Gerome P. Williams, Spackenkill road. Admitted to Vassar hospital Tuesday was Mrs. Jack Bunn, 548 Main street.

Gerald Fox, son of Mr. and Mrs. William A. Fox, Dutchess turnpike, received Dean's list honors for scholastic achievement at Alfred university this year. Receiving treatment at Vassar ho hospital is Feldman, 61 Worrall avenue.

Mr. and Mrs. George H. Knierim and daughter, Linda Ruth, have returned to their home in Monday. Rochester after spending 10- days in Cape Cod, Mass.

Enroute to Rochester they spent the holiday weekend with Mrs. Knierim's parents, -Mr, and Mrs. Charles P. Wiweke, 51 Woodland avenue. Admitted to Vassar hospital recently was Hazel A.

Montross, 51 Mester-avenue, Wappingers Falls. Miss, street, Katherine Wetmore, houseguests 125 Main over the Weekend," Mrs. Brooks Fisher and daughter, Carol, Canandalgua, and Mrs. Guy Smith, New York City. Mrs.

Raymond P. Ackert, 8 Chestnut street, Rhinebeck, was discharged from Vassar hospital Mrs. Robert Lapham, dietitian at Northern Dutchess Health center, Rhinebeck, is replacing the regular dietitian, Miss Mildred tion. Mrs. Lapham graduate Buck who is on a month's vacaof Delhi Technical institute and I served year's internship at New Rochelle hospital, there for six months as assistant dietitian.

Gerald Parliman, LaGrangeville, is a patient at Vassar hospital. Miss Barbara Thorley, Red Hook, will be assistant waterfront director at the Girl Scout camp, Sakajawea, Wingdale, this summer. The opening session was Sunday. John W. Totten 117 North Hamilton street, is a patient at Vassar Mrs.

Harry Teator and daughter, Marion, Red Hook, left New York City by plane for week's stay in- New receptive La. While there they were registered at the Hotel New Orleans. They visited with Airman Third of Class Red Albert Van Wagner, also Hook, who is stationed at Keefler Airforce base, Biloxi, Miss. Raymond Peet, West Pawling road. Pawling, admitted to Vassar hospital recently.

William Redder, Tivoli, left here yesterday for his fifth trip to Alaska, by motor. Mrs. Catherine Phillips, Dean avenue, Hughsonville, was admitted to Vassar hospital recently. Miss Sigrid Knobel, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Rolff Knobel, Annandale, has been elected to Alpha Iota, international honorary sorority at Albany Business college. Miss Knobel was ated from Red Hook Central school in 1953. She expects to complete the executive secretarlal course at the school this summer. Mrs. Elizabeth Sautter, 7 Chestnut street, is receiving treatment at Vassar hospital.

Henry Ostheim, son of Mr. and Mrs. Henry Osthelm, Red Hook, was graduated from the Krissler Business institute, recently, at the exercises conducted at the Howard Johnson's, here. Mr. Ostheim, an alumnus of Red Hook Central school, majored in accounting while at Krissler, and has obtained a position with the Goodyear Tire Co.

Recently admitted to Vassar hospital was Miss Alice Housman, 10 Hanscom avenue. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Illustrato and daughter, Frances Marie, 43 Crestwood boulevard, are spending a week at Myrtle Beach, Milford, Conn. Mr.

and Mrs. Hugo Goldt, Sarasota, formerly of this city, are visiting at the home of their son, Richard Martin, and family, Orchard road. Croft Corners Auxiliary Te Conduct Annual Picnic Members of the Croft Corners Fire Company auxiliary will sponsor their annual picnic Sunday at East Bend Park. Members are invited to take their families. The will take the place of the regular meeting.

and each family is asked to take their own food. Mrs. Raymond Humenick is president of the group and Mrs. Paul Linkey is in charge of publicity. Red Hook Golfers Schedule Special Event Members of the Red Hook Golf club will sponsor a special event Sunday afternoon, July 25, at the links off Route 199.

A picnic is being planned in conjunction with Scotch foursome. In charge of arrangements are Walter Bean, Gunther, James Melley, Margaret Campbell, Betty Kerley and Law Weatherwax. Friends'-Oswego Meeting Scheduled on Sunday On Sunday, the Friends-Oswego Meeting will take place at Moores Mills. There will, be meeting for business at 11 o'clock, luncheon at 12 o'clock noon, and meeting for worship 1:30 o'clock. Mrs.

Henry Wheeler, clerk, will be in charge. Lawrence The Mature Parent Miss Evelyn Graham was honored Tuesday at a bridal shower at the home of Mrs. Margaret Graham, 19 Orchard place. Cohostesses were Miss Louise Splain, Mrs. Vonda Davison, and Mrs.

Graham. Featured as the centerpiece for the table was bridal cake decorated with swans and roses. Each guest received small umbrella favor. Attending were Mrs. Ardone Nardone, Mrs.

Mary Armono, Mrs. Patrick Burdick, Mrs. EveLyn Anderson, Mrs. Minnie RInaldi, Mrs. Elizabeth Rinaldi, Mrs.

Theresa Splain, Mrs. Lucy Sisk, Mrs. Margaret Hallick, Mrs. Edith Ortliep, Mrs. Pauline Owens, Mrs.

Dorothy Waldron, Mrs. Mary Schilovette, Mrs. Guy Longbard. Mrs. Rosemary Misnick.

Mrs. Alice Davison, Mrs. Beatrice Merte, Mrs. Emma Doughty, Mrs. Robert Foster, Mrs.

Martha Ruth Wing, Mrs. Oscar Phillips, Osika, Mrs. Casmier er Osika, Mrs. Mrs. Wilma Schall, Mrs.

George Toria, Mrs. Rose Longbard, Mrs. Mrs. Stephen Wileinski, William Mohl, Mrs. Ethel O'Hern, Beatrice Mrs.

I Yank, Julia Mrs. Dorothy gent, Bogo, Mrs. Mary Nucci, Mrs. Michael Patrone, Mrs. Laurence Graham and Miss Dolores Lario.

Miss Graham will become the bride of George Edward Tario July 25. Aran Studio WED SATURDAY was Mrs. JOHN MC BREARTY, formerly Miss Marie Berthe Berengere Nadeau, 436 Dutchess turnpike. The ceremony took. place in Holy Trinity church.

Dorothy Dis Letter Box would be the best all-around approach. Two or three lines would carry. the basic information, and the ad wouldn't expensive. Second: have cards printed with your rates, approximate time available, and a few words about yourself; then ask the superinof large apartment tings in your neighborhood if you could post one on a central bulletion or at the switchboard. a small charge your local grocer or drug store will display the same card or larger Approach some members of your local P.

T. or church organization, tell them you're business, give them your telephone number, and await results. Baby sitters are so much in demand that it's necessary only to spread the news in the right quarters to make good. Most young mothers will consider that you're doing them a favor. (Released by The Bell Syndicate, Inc.) DEAR MISS I am 16 years and have almost complete freedom in choosing my friends.

My problem is that mother insists on leaving the porch light on when I come home from a date. It's very embarrassing my escort wants to walk me home or kiss me goodnight. Also, I am expected to be home from most affairs by 10:30. JENNIE Accept Parents' Restrictions ANSWER: Why not match cooperation? Your parents are quite liberal in most respects; the least you can do is accept their restrictions with good grace. Bit by bit the limitations will be removed, as you prove by choice friends, and your conduct, as well a willing acceptance of present conditions, that they aren't needed.

DEAR MISS DIX: read your recommendation that mature women could find jobs as baby sitters. Just how can woman, 52. go about getting this kind of work? MYRA G. ANSWER: You -live in large city, 50 suggestions will be gauge accordingly. An ad In the paper that circulates through your particular section of town Legion Auxiliary Lists Reservations Partial reservations have been made for a card party of the Ladies auxiliary of Lafayette post, American at the post home at 8 o'clock, Monday night.

Mrs. Eleanor Green is chairman of arrangements and is being assisted by Mrs. Doretta Cruthers, Mrs. Leona Healy and Mrs. Virgina Chickering.

Among those planning to attend, Mrs. Charlotte Barton, Mrs. Rose Wirhouski, Mrs. Louise RelMrs. Lillian Mund, Mrs.

Elyea, la Steinbach, Mrs. Anna Holmes, Mrs. Margaret Rockefeller, Mrs. Crippen, Mrs. Lila Rockefeller, Mrs.

Florence Frazler, Mrs. Josephine Harriet McManus, Schoenberger, Mrs. Betty Salzer, Mrs. Viona Hennig, Mrs. Bessie Foster, Mrs.

Helen Mestre, Mrs. Lois King, Mrs. Cruthers, Mrs. Edna Dykman, Mrs. Emma Velle, Mrs.

Healy Mrs. Anne Covert, Mrs. Catherine O'Brien, Betty Schattle, Mrs. Belle Anderson. Miss Frances Hritz, Miss Betty Malone, Mrs.

Hazel Britt, Mrs. Thelma Magurno, Mrs. Cronk, Mrs. Chickering, Mrs. Marie Colton, Miss Katherine, Wacker, Miss Marguerite Wacker, Mrs.

Evelyn Corcoran, Mrs. Viola Covert, Mrs. Cutten, Mrs. Hattie Beach, Miss Mary Quinn, Mrs. Alice Koslark and Mrs.

Green. Players will take their own. cards. Members of the auxiliary assisted with assembling the publication of United States Veterans' Administration facility, Castle Point, at the fackity, Wednesday. The group ineluded Mrs.

Louise Robinson, Mrs. Pearl Knickebocker, Mrs. Elsie Sherman and Mrs. Hennig. Dona Marie Schiba To Tour in Europe Miss Dona Maria Schiba, 77 Garden street, sailed Wednesday on the S.

S. Queen Mary, for an eight weeks' tour of Europe. While abroad, Miss Schiba plans to spend some time with Schiba. her brother Pfc. Franklin J.

He is stationed at Salzburg, Austria, with the United States Army. Mark D. Litt To Wed Miss Lasser Mr. and Mrs. Milton Lasser, Larchmont, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Judith D.

Lasser, to Mark D. Litt, son of Mr. and Mrs. Solomon Litt, New York City and Pleasant Valley. Garden Photo SUNDAY BRIDE was Mrs.

DOUGLAS JOSEPH MORRONE, the former Miss Lorraine Margaret Berinato, Wappingers Falls. The ceremony took place in St. Mary's church, Wappingers Falls. Morrone-Berinato Nuptials Announced St. Mary's church, Wappingers Falls, was the scene Sunday, of the marriage of Miss Lorraine Margaret Berinato and Douglas Morrone.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Louis Berlnato, Wappingers Falls. The bridegroom's parents are Mr: and Mrs. Nicholas Morrone, 105 East Main street, Beacon.

The Rev. John Loughlin, pastor, officiated at the double ring ceremony for which the altar was decorated with summer flowers. The Nuptial music was furnished by Miss Ann Hurley. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attired in gown. of white Imported Swiss organdy over tulle.

fashioned with fitted bodice, V-neckline, long pointed sleeves, and full skirt ending in a chapel train. Caught to her tiara of matching Swiss organdy trimmed with seed pearls, was fingertip veil of nylon net. She carried a cascade bouquet of white roses and stephanotis centered with a white orchid. In attendance Barbara, maid honor was Miss Lupparelli, Wappingers Falls. Her gown of maize nylon net and satin had strapless bodice with a matching stole and full ankle length skirt.

She wore a matching headpiece and carried a bouquet of sweet peas, roses, and delphintum. Bridesmaids were the Misses June Heater and Nancy Sammartino, Wappingers Falls; and Rose Marie Morrone, Beacon, sister of the bridegroom. Sandra Seeley, Fishkill, cousin of the bride, was a junior bridesmaid. Their gowns, like the maid of honor's, were in pink, blue, chartreuse, and yellow, respectively. They wore matching headpieces and carried bouquets of sweet peas, roses, and delphinium.

For her daughter's wedding, Mrs. Berinato chose a pink lace dress, orchid accessories, and a white orchid corsage. The bridegroom's mother wore a rose colored dress with harmonizing accessories, and a white orchid corsage. beSal man Vitanza, for Mr. Beacon, Morrone.

served Ush- as ering were Louis Verdile, Gary Beacon: Ritchie. and James Donald Policella, and Pettit, Wappingers Falls, junior usher. There was reception at Grove Grange hall after the ceremony, with Joe Eagen's orchproviding the music. The couple left there was a trip to the Adirondack Mountains. The bride wore a black cotton dress with red trim, red accessories, and a white orchid corsage.

They wIF reside, temporarily, in 23 Market street, Wappingers Falls. Mrs. Morrone attended Wappingers Central school and is employed by her father. She is a member of St. Mary's church and of the Third Order of the Franciscan Brothers at Mt.

Alvernia seminary. Mr. Morrone attended Beacon High school and employed at the Cold Spring Dyeing and FinIshing Co. He is a communicant of Joachim's church. Hyde Park Library Sponsoring Exhibit At the Hyde Park Free library, group show of Columbia county artists who are members of the Columbia County Arts and Crafts guild, is being featured.

exhibit is a selection from their recent Annual Jury show conducted in Hudson. Most of the work shown received an award in the jury showing and forms a variety of media and techniques. One of the pictures has a dramatic history associated with the homestead depicted. This home originally Martin Van Buren's, who was the first President of this country who was native born citizen. Later the homestead was owned by the paternal grandfather of Winston Churchill, and it was here that Mr.

Churchill's mother played as small girl. The library is open evenings, Monday through Friday, from 7:30 to 9:30 o'clock. Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday it opened at 3 o'clock for two hours. There is no charge to visit the show and the public is invited to attend. Included among the pictures and artists are "Shirley," William D.

Coons; "Provincetown Rooftops," Charles E. Ziesenitz; "Winter, he Dora -R. Thorne; 'Composition Number Two," Eudoxie Kennedy: "Return to Ice Age," Gordon E. Davies; "Pont Capriasca," G. Lederer; "Early Spring, Charles E.

Ziesenitz; "Painter's Fred L. Fink; "Cousin LePont." Mr. Lederer; "Pink Violet." Gertrude Kidder; "Lindenwald." (Van Buren's Home Kinderhook) Helene Glass: "Fall." Jennie Speich; "Trees," Elizabeth McNeal; "Freedom Church," H. "Still Life." Gerden E. Fannie Davies; and "Old Hay Barn," H.

McGiffert. I BRIDE JULY 2' 'In Trinity Methodist church was Mrs. HAROLD J. HASBROUCK of Mr. the former Miss Margaret Marie Lawes, daughter and Mrs.

Louis E. Lawes, 62 Lent street. Miss Lawes' Marriage 8 Solemnized in Trinity Church Trinity Methodist church, was the scene of Friday, Miss July Margaret Marie the marriage Lawes, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Louis E.

Lawes, 62 Lent street, and Harold J. Hasbrouck son of Mr. and Mrs. Hasbrouck, 585 Dutchess turnpike. The Rev.

W. Bernard Grossman, pastor, offclated at the candlelight ceremony. The wedding music was furnished by Mrs. Herbert L. Baker, church organist.

The bride chose ballerina length gown of ice blue embroidered organdy, with matching accessories, and carried a colonial bouquet of white carnations. Mrs. Edward J. McNealon was sister's only attendant. Her gown of ice pink embroidered organdy, was made similar to the bride's.

Her accessories were of Ice pink, and she carried a colonial bouquet of pink carnations. white Wearing organdy, a dress Mrs. of Lawes orchid chose and white accessories. Mrs. Hasbrouck's dress was of aqua and white, with white accessories.

Both wore corsages of white carnations. Mr. Hasbrouck's best man was James W. McLain. There was a wedding supper for the immediate families at the Knotty Pine inn, Millbrook, after which the couple went to Long Island wedding trip.

The bride traveled in a navy blue ensemble with red accessories. For the present, they will make their home in 585 Dutchess turnpike. Mrs. Hasbrouck, who attended Poughkeepsie High school. is employed by the First National bank.

The bridegroom attended Arlington High school and Syracuse university. In World War II he with the' U. S. Marine Corps, and now is employed by IBM. VFW Auxiliary Conducts Initiation Initiation of Mrs.

Phyllis Lee took place at Wednesday night's meeting of the Ladies auxiliary of Vail-Wolff post, Veterans of Foreign wars. Others who presented applications for membership were Mrs. Mary Mahar and Mrs. Mary Williams. The Investigating committee for the month includes Mrs.

Irene Knickerbocker, Miss Ruth Simpson, Mrs. Lena Lewis, Mrs. Irene McCormack, Mrs. Elsie Piteher and Mrs. Marion Cady.

Arrangements were made for members to meet at the home of Mrs. Knickerbocker, 94 Winnikee avenue, at 2 o'clock Monday afternoon, July 19, to make cancer dressings. Mrs. Margaret Oakes has charge of arrangements. Mrs.

Jean Wagner reported that 82 veterans at the Hudson River State hospital, had been entertained at a barbecue conducted there Tuesday night by Vail- Wolff post and auxiliary. Mrs. Rose Pierce, civil defense chairman of auxiliary, told of the civil defense meeting which she had recently, attended when the need watchers was made known. Members volunteered to participate in the watch program. Members also made plans to take instructions in self preservation.

Preparations were made for members to attend County council meeting Rhine at 2:30 o'clock, Sunday and to participate in the day at the United States Veterans' Administration facility, Castle Point, Sept. 19, the auxiliary will distribute baskets of fruit to resldents of Ward E-3. The members also will attend a clambake of the post, July 18. Auditing of the books -of 'the auxiliary was planned for next Tuesday at the home of Mrs. Elizabeth Thur, 18 Woodcliff avenue.

The trustees include Mrs. Knickbocker, Mrs. Pierce and Mrs. Amelia Lewis. It was planned to a doll carriage parade conjunction with the box social, Aug.

22. The program will begin at 2 o'clock with Mrs. May Holt as chairman. Mrs. Marie Sampere will have charge of the children's program, assisted by Mrs.

Mahar. All children in the community have 'been invited to participate in the parade. Mrs. Lena Lewis made known further plans for the annual picnic of the auxiliary which will be conducted Aug. 15.

The members will assemble at the bus terminal at 10 o'clock. The next meeting of the auxiliary is scheduled for Aug. 18, Why do we chronie dedance from children? I put this question to Mrs. R. who has been enduring it from her 12-year-old daughter.

She tells me that Grace can accept no. direction without attacking her. "My mother recently visited us during scene with Grace," Mrs. R. writes.

"She and my sister urged me to. spank her. Certainly as child I never dared to speak to me. the time got a my mother, as this girl speaks slap across my mouth for 'answering back' Mrs. R.

learned her lesson well, didn't she? The slaps for "backtalk" have ended all backtalk. Just as Mrs. R. used to accept the slaps to avoid more hurt and humiliation by her mother, she nOW endures insolence from her daughter to avoid them, too. Let's look back.

Does Mrs. herself believe that she deserved those slaps? Or did someone else tell her that she deserved them? For sometimes, as children, we' have not deserved slaps for "backtalk." Our motives for protest have been misunderstood by impatient parents. Because we were young and Inexperienced in knowledge of our motives, we've allowed slappers to tell us we were bad when we were actually defending our sense of justice. We could not say, "But Brother has no right to use my new school pen without asking my I permission." Our inexperience with words and motives, drove us to say, "I think you're mean and unfair to let Brother take my pen." the slappers, concerned with words instead of motives slapped us for the "backtalk." Under such treatment, we can gradually lose sight of our good motives for protest. We begin to agree with the impatient people ve have to live with.

We agree that our motives were bad -and deserved the slaps. Such submission to misjudgment took place without our knowledge. It is responsible for Mrs. acceptance of Grace's insolence. To bring herself to fully realize It won't be a pleasant task.

Sometimes we need the support of a skilled person to reassure us in our struggle to. rid ourselves of the anger we feel at those who trained us in such submission. Mrs. R. may need support in her fight to connect her youthful submission to slaps with Mrs.

Martha Crum Observes Birthday Mrs. Martha Crum, 52 South Hamilton street, who observed her birthday this week, was guest of honor at two parties in celebration the occasion at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Paul Pelaquin, 18 DuRocher terrace. On Monday, there was family dinner party with Mr.

and Mrs. Richard MYan Vlack and daughter, Gail, Mrs. Gilbert Van Vlack and daughter, Nancy, Elijah Van Vlack, Mrs. Hattie Van. Vlack, Mrs.

Dora DuRocher, Miss Edna C. Albro and Mr. and Mrs. Pelaquin, in attendance. Wednesday, there was luncheon and cards at the Pelaquin home in honor of Mrs.

Crum. The occasion also marked the birthday of Hilda Shaffer, Athol, formerly of this city. Gifts were presented the guests of honor. Attending, Mrs. Mary, Lindley, Mrs.

Winter, Edith Smith, Mrs. Eva Hunt, Mrs. Olive Wood, Mrs. Lulu Weyant, Mrs. Lillian Doremus.

Mrs. Carrie McComb, Mrs. Dorothy, McKinley, Edith Mary Van Vlack, Mrs. Du Rocher, Miss Albro, Mrs. Laura McConaghy, Mrs.

May Doughty, Mrs. Bertha Ahlers, Mrs. Gertrude Eylers, Mrs. Fanny Hennessey, Mrs. Mildred Halstead and Mrs.

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138 Pattern 243 West 17th New York 11, N. Y. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS with ZONE, SIZE and STYLE NUMBER. No. Sine Nate Street Address City Women Republicans Will Meet July 17 Supervisor and Mrs.

Lawrence B. Morris, Hyde Park. will open their home, Saturday, July 17, for summer meeting of the Women's Republican club of Dutchess county. The meeting is scheduled at 2:30 o'clock. Mrs.

Paul Peabody, Millbrook, president, will preside." Mrs. Wallace, C. Bedell, of this city, who has been living in the vicinity of Washington, D. the past two years, will tell of her "Impressions of Washington." Mrs. W.

Arthur Saltford is program chairman. The is planning its annual picnic, Aug. 20, at Baird Park. Daily Bible School Closing Sessions Closing exercises of the, Dally Vacation Bible school the Bethel Baptist church, Shenandoah, will be conducted at the church at 7:45 o'clock Sunday night. Members of the church, parents of the pupils and friends, have been invited to attend.

The school has been in session the last two weeks. The Rev. Charles S. Scott, pastor of the church, will direct the program. William Chase Host at Reunion William J.

Chase, Wing Estate, Millbrook, was host at a family reunion Sunday at his home. A barbecue supper was served and games were played. Attending were Mr. and Mrs. Fred R.

Wallwork, Mr. Mrs. Herman Schre der Jr. and sons, David and I ouald; Edward J. Chase Mr.

and M.s. Josep Chase and daughter, Judy; Mr. and Mrs. Edward Chase Jr. and son, David; and Mrs.

Norris DuRond and son, Robert; Miss Ivy Wright, and Mr. end Mrs. Rowland A. Chase. Mrs.

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Send 25c in COINS, your name, address and the PATTERN NUMBER to ANNE, CABOT, Poughkeepsie Yorker, 1150 Ave. Americas, New York 36, N. Y. The colorful 1954 NEEDLEWORK ALBUM contains 56 pages of lovely designs, "how-to" sections on needlework, room Illustrations and directions for 8 gift patterns, 25 cents. today's submission to insolence.

It will take courage see them as one and the same thing. Ruth Millett We, The Women In one of the current decorating magazines is an article entitled "Our House Is the Way We Live." It wouldn't be a bad goal for any homemaker to strive to have a house that is the way her famIly enjoys living. Some housewives satisfy the urge to "improve their homes by constant change. They are happy If the living room this year is a different color from what it was last year and the slip covers are in that "darling" new print that took their eye. Change is all important, whether or not the change in any way makes the family happier, more comfortable, or is even a real improvement in looks.

Some Housewives create homes that look a series of model rooms in a furniture store. If everything in the house goes perfectly with everything else, the housewives who create these "perfect" rooms are happy. It doesn't matter about the family's needs and interests the rooms are all-important in themselves. Some housewives dress up their houses the way they dress themselves, paying attention only to the latest fad. It costs a great deal of money to keep a house "In style." but these women have an idea that the main purpose of house is to be shown off.

But the housewives who make house a real home start with the family, its needs its interests. They gradually create the kind of shelter and background that as nearly as possible serves the family. If you can honestly say "Our. house is the way live," you've done a good job of making a house home. Julia Marie Sokol Recently Christened Julia Marie Sokol, infant daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Stephen Sokol, Salt Point road, was christened at the service in St. Paul's Episcopal church, The Pleasant Rev. Valley, Arthur A. Sunday, Bessey, July vicar.

4. officiated. Sponsors were William FOx, Miss Gloria Bacon and Miss Patricia Fox. William Fox, brother of the child recently returned to his home from the Mediterranean sea. He is with the United States Navy.

5481 Mr. and Mrs. White Hosts at Dinner Party Mr. and Mrs. Howard White, Pleasant Valley, were hosts at at a dinner party Tuesday' night at their home, in honor of Mrs.

Richard Morrison. The occasion was Mrs. Morrison's birthday. large cake was featured. Attending were Mr.

and Mrs. Morrison, and Mrs. Michael Sonsire, Mr. and Mrs. Roland Baker, and Miss Marilyn Baker.

Bridal and Portrait Studios JOHN LANE STUDIO Photography No Parking Problems Collegeview Ave. Phone 5244 CLOSED MONDATE.