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ifflp ftyfiroiwrCT irw vy Hr "f'Tfpffoff i rs'lTjv IVCL I IWO Betty Smith, Soon to Wed, Honored at Bridal Shower Dorothy ''Dix Letter Box POUGHKEEPSIE NEW YORKER WEDNESDAY, JULY 28. I9M Mlis Hetty Smith. Pleasant valley nicer of Mm Mildred llutrliliuoii mil Mr Pearl llouaii wn honored at mrprlie bridal shower Friday night Mrs Herbert Weaver lledell road. flKAn MISS DIX I'm niir wax limle Decoration were In tied woman, now 20 separated nl blle and for (he from my husband and hate a 4 were arrniigmi around vear.ohl lUimtilrr I ait tear nninrfin began going ateady with a very pice man A few month ago he iked ma to undertake the rate of hla Invalid mother I moved Into their home The mother nd I got along well and since my friend Iraveli. and hla mother li otherwli alone the amour ment wai highly iiircesiful (or while Naturally 1 had tin Mli Hmlth will become the bride of Ihoma II Fple Jr, aon of Mr Fple.

lledell road, and Mri Joseph Fay Houth road Aug IS The ceremony will lake place In Freedom Halm Among the Im licit gueita were the Mixes Ann Slirlro. Adel I Imiilltoii (ilxlys le Mhel l.ily Call Fspli llarel (lav Nanry fl.v Mra oi.n.i in. ii i IT Anion Wager Mn John Wrlltlit before my patient begin to find Mr. I1PH11V Mr fault wllh her llihcr daugli MfH, Ml, n.rrmr Van ier i. ion noisy or ii me "im VU(k Mr.

l(Ton, Mr. Something, at rlilldren that am ln tdwanl frequently uo.sriesuniiiiy wnen Mrs Med Tator Mr my friend la home there i no uuhard Minle Mr Itohert (lay fomplalnlng. but a anon a he Mri Charles Washburn. Mra gone, (he fault rinding begun again. My Child la gelling ner out ai a result of the constant haranguei.

I'd hate to break with my friend over tlila altua but 1 know I'd he happier I left hU home. What's your advice? MOVA T. AN8Wr.ll! You aren't using your head, Mona. In the Drat flare your are not divorced from your husband, and a separation doean't Juatlfy future wedding plana If hit fact Isn't obvious to, you I'm aure It It apparent to your friend, ho has managed to corral a housekeeper nurse for his mother at little or no financial outlay The tame service would cost him flenly if he had to pay for It at he current wage scale You are hurting yourself and your daughter, in addition to getting Into a situation that might cause considerable gossip It It bain already Your frlend'a mother Isn a helpless invalid In fact I gather that If ahe wanted to ahe could he quite capable of caring for herself So you need have no compunction about leaving the old lady. You say also you know lomebody who would care for your daughter while yau worked Bo, I suggest you get out of your present predicament, look lor an I login and Mrs Hutchinson D.

of A. Council Plans Celebration Further preparation! for the (loth anniversary celebration of Molly Pitcher council, Daughters of America, Aug 2(1, were made when the council met recently The celebration will feature a dinner at I'oughkeepale Inn, for members and guests Mrs Lurella Scott is chairman of arrangements A meeting of the anniversary committee is scheduled at tho home of Mrs Oelleltla Cain, Freedopi Plains road, Aug 0 The council also made plana for a rehearsal of Its officers and degree team, after the next meeting, Aug 13 This will be In preparation for claaa Initiation ceremonies Irt September Mlaa Ann llarrett will direct the rehearsal llefreahment were served aft er the meeting under the direc tlou of Mra Scott Miss Pacciono Engaged to Marry Announcement is made by Mra Mary Pacclone, 102 Thompson street, of the engagement of her daughter. Miss Antoinette Par clone to George Cacchionc, Htw mn.i If If outside Job. and leave your child I c.rch,ono 588 South road Mis Pacclone a graduate of In good hinds during the dav Break off with the boy friend and get your marital status straightened out Sounds like a major Job of reconstruction, but It's needed to save your health, happlnew and reputation DEAR MISS DIX For the past alx months I have been secretary In a small firm. The work Is very Interesting; my boss Is one In a million, but the flaw In this perfect Job Is that I have two coworkers who constantly hurt my feelings.

They are girls who have been here about three years and are very chummy. 1 have tried to be friendly with them, buying them small presents, etc yet they don I respond at all Perplexed ANSWEIl Since all the Important aspects of the Job are highly satisfactory, you would be very foolish to leave became of the social atmosphere Judg Ing from your long description of the situation. I'd aay you were trying too hard to cultivate the friendship of these young ladles The reason they fall to respond to some of your overtures Is that you are Interfering with their wok ana they're trying tactfully to tend you back to your own tasks. DEAlt MISS DIXi I recently went to a party with Ken, it was our first date, though we had been quite friendly In school and In crouns. However, had an argument at the party, anu ne leu aiier a very nasty display of temper I really like him very much and would like to get him back HAZEL ANSWEIl: Since Ken took you (o the party.

It was hi duty to take you home His actions were boorish, Inconsiderate and ungentlemanly He owes you a umble apology, and there's nothing you can do until you get It. (Released by The Ucll Syndicate, Inc Alicia Hart Beauty Hints PoughkeeDile High school, I em ployed by the New York Tele phone Co Mr Cacchlone, who attended Itoosevelt High school Is at present serving with the US Navy Prior to entering the service he was employed by the Merchants Preia No Immediate plana have been made for the wedding Mra. Albert Senk Honored at Party Mrs Albert Senk was guest of honor at a birthday party Saturday at her new home In 20 Manl tou avenue Hosteis wan her sis ter ln law. Mrs Phillip Kelly Mr snd Mrs Senk recently moved here from Dover Plalna Attend Ing the Joint birthday party and houscwarming were Mr Senk a mother, Mr Fmma Senk Mr and Mrs Carl Stockenberg and daughters, C'arleen and Shirley, Mr and Mr red Lotting and daughter. Jean and Mr and Mrs Ilobert Ludwig and aon Robert all of lied Hook.

Mrs Elizabeth Way, Mr and Mrs Lawrence Denton, and Mr and Mrs Frank Denson DdVer Plains. Mr. and Mrs. Hans Lenhardt, Sharon, Conn Mrs Mary Ithoades and family. Cornwall.

Mr Mary Car mlchael. Mr and Mrs. Henry Senk. Mr and Mrs William Senk. Mr.

and Mrs. George McCown and son, nobert; Mr and Mra Kelly, and Charles Miller, Pough keepsle. Mra. Anne Cabot Needlework At the first sign of a double ehln, or even If one has formed already, the mature woman ahould try some helpful exercises that will improve her rhlnllne Sometimes It's a ouestlon nf good posture. The, woman who' noias her head 'high arail times will never develop a double chin After checking your posture, try the following exercises each day for best results Don expect great Improvement Immediate Jy.

though llemember. It took several yean to develop a really prominent double chin Dut after doing these exercises for Just a few months, you'll aee a marked Improvement Just knowing that you can restore youthful contours Courage you to do the exercises V.ro$S 3tltCh faithfully each day First, stand erect with feet about IP Inches apart, abdomen flat, chest high and head up Do not tilt your chin. Place yoiir hands on your hips for greater balance. Then, without moving 'our body, turn your head sharp to the right alx tlmea, then to the left alx times. Next, turn your head so that "your chin Is over your left shoulder, stretch your head further backwards, so that your eyes look tip to the celling.

Then, turn the head so that the ehln is over the right ahoulder and repeat the exercise. Repeat alternately sis times. Finally, alt down in good Relax the head and neck muscle. Roll the head around in a circle, going' as far forward and back on. the neck as you can.

Do this onl twice ai It may cause I uip I lIs Y04 (V4l elsnV I Embroidory i In jjJtSflTMsa vSCjL7t ssViaViJBiiiiiiiH aV "SssS fVBaliiiiS BWrTHrj7 Tit PBlllH VLIifl aaHrWir 'ftii'gsH BBlllW'X vflrMaisyiBlllllM LiHsVrrt' 2saWi6SBiS HI 'f jtjH rn evvVriaiS im Sr I SI ill Personal Mentions Mr and Mrs. Alexander Guthrie Kirk, who were married July 18, have returned to their home, ijuicneas lurnnue alter a wed ding trip to Niagara Falls and Canada Mra Kirk la the former; Miss Huth Taurltsen Mrs Albert O. McOllton. 0M South road. Is receiving treat ment at Vasaaf hoipltal MIm llarbara Leicsak.

20 Win field atreet, left here recently for a week a vacation at Atlantic City, where ahe Is registered at the Madison hotel SUNDAY nitlDE was Mrs Fit A NCI 8 J. VAN NOtl STItAND, the former Ml Agnes Patricia Illedlnger. '31 South Perry street, who was married In St Mary'a church Miss Ricdingcr Becomes Bride Married Sunday in St Mary's church were Miss Agnes Patricia Illedlnger, daughter of Mr and Mra Fred Illedlnger Jr 31 South Perry atreet and rrancls Van Norstrand, son of Mr and Mr Albert Van Mont rand, Jewett avenue The Ilev James I Hearon officiated at the 2 o'clock ceremony Miss Marguerite Waters presided at the organ Church decorations) included while gladioli The bride, given In marriage by her father, was gowned In I in ported Chantllly lace and nylon tulle over slipper satin It was made with a lace bodice having a wide scoop neckline and long pointed sleeves and a full tiered skirt of tulle over satin ending In a chapel train Her fingertip veil of pure silk Illusion had a hand rolled edge and was caught to a contour cap of lace and tulle She carried a prayer book with white roses and a white orchid marker MN Clady Illedlnger. city at tended a maid of honor for her liter Her goun wai of orchid nylon net over tarfeta with strapless bodice and net iklrt over taffeta It wa worn with matching stole and flowered tiara with a noe ell She carried er low flowers In a colonial bouquet The bridesmaid! were the Misses Sally Rledlnger. Janice Green, Virglna Gaddl and Joan Welch, all of Poughkecpsle, who wore similar gowns only In Nile green They had matching stoles and headpieces and carried colonial arrangements of pink flowers Paula Van Norstrand, the flower girl, wore a frock of wnue nyion over orchid Mrs Illedlnger, wearing a dress of navv blue or on.

had while ac cessories and a corsage of white roses In powder blue nylon and orlon. the bridegroom's mother also wore white complements Her corsaso was of nlnk roses Donald Van Norstrand city, brother of the bridegroom served as best man Ushering were Allen Deragon, Keith Doughty Ralph Doelllng and Arnold Ilaratta of Poughkecpsle King bearer was Fdwln lllnzmann. Wapplngcra Fall cousin of the bride Immediately after the cere mony there was a reception at the Cornell boathouse. after which the couple left there for a wedding trip to Niagara rails. For traveling Mrs.

Van Norstrand chose a pink orlon dress with white accessories When ttiey re' turn. Mrtand Mrs Van Norstrand will live In 36 Wilmar terrace The bride, a June graduate of Poughkecpsle High school is employed by the New York Tele Dhone Co city Also a sraduate of rougnaeep le I Huh school, the bridegroom Is employed In the etching de partment of the Western Priming and Lithographing Co here Embroidered In gay gingham cross stitch, you II easily and quickly complete these cute motifs of pets In action Use them to trim a set of kitchen towels, nursely linens or the little one's clothes. Pattern No 2964 contains hot Iron transfers for 6 designs each 6 In. 7 in color chart; material requirements and stjtch illustrations. Send 23c In COINS, your name, address and the PATTERN NUMDER to ANNE CABOT, the Poughkecpsle New Yorker.

1130 Ave. Americas, New York 30, N. v. The colorful 1034 NEEDLEWORK ALDUM contains 30 pages of lovely designs, "how; to" sections on needlework, helpful room illustrations and direc tlons for 8 slit pattern. 33 cents.

Vaasar Graduate's Detrothal Announred Mr and Mrs Robert Williamson St James. I announce the engagement of Mrs Williamson's daughter Miss Mary Claire Wlllartl to Charle Illller. New York City Th i wedding I planned for September Mixs Willard Is the daughter of the late Francis Cottle Willard and grand daughter of the late Dean Thomas Rlgney Willard Knox college. Galesburg. HI Her ma ternal grandfather the late Nicholas Diddle, was special eorresponde'hf.

for the New York Herald under James Gordon Dennett She was graduated from the Cathedral School of St. Mary. Garden City, and Vassar college. Emlllo Osta Gives Plane Recitals Emlllo Osta and Mrs. Osta, the former Miss Marcejla Pag nanl, 8 Gaskln road, are guests of Mrs.

George Waldo Emerson, "Durnham by the Sea," Newport. R. f. where Mr. Osta save a piano, recital.

Last week. Mr.l Osta 'appeared as soloist and gave a lecture at Mlddlebury College, "Mlddlebury, Vt. Richard and Robert Rub, sons of Mrs Chrlitlne Hub 30 llooievelt avenue, are on the honors list for the second semester of the 1033 34 school year at Cortland State Teachers college Admitted recently to Vaisar hoipllal was Mrs James Walker, 40 Taylor avenue Mr. and Mrs. George Storm, Pleasant Valley, are spending a week at Atlantic City and Asbury Park, N.

J. Joseph J. Darrow returned to his home. 30 South Hamilton street, yesterday, from Vassar hospital, where he recently underwent an operation. Mr.

and Mrs. Bert L. Rhea, 43 Marshall street, are vacationing at Dennlsport, Cape Cod Mr. Inula O'rtall 24 Prntnert street, and children, Louis Jr and Cheryl, are visiting Mr. and Mrs Alfred Place, Pine Plains, for a week.

Mr and Mrs Vincent O'Connor, and daughters, Kathleen and Nancy. I May street have been vacationing at Lake Otsego, Cooperstown Miss Nancy A Itudd, daughter of Mrs Margaret Itudd. Vassar View road. Is on the honors list for the second semester of the ID33 34 school year at Cort land State Teachers college Mr and Mrs Paul Martin and daughter, Fvelyn and niece, Barbara nichter. 84 North Ham ilton street, are vaiatlonlng at West Yarmouth, Cape Cod Mass Mrs Anna Ladzlnskl 10 oung atreet Is a patient at assar ho pltal The Misses Fmlly 1)1 Giovanni and Mary horci, Wapplngcra Falls, are vacationing In Atlantic City, Mrs Betty Wrlglcy.

05 South Hamilton street, and Mrs Anna Frazee, 8 Fox terrace, are spend' Ing a vacatiqn at Virginia Beach Va Miss Weltha Robinson. Mill brook attended the NortMleld Conference of Religious Fduca tlon July 14 through 23 at North field Ma Mrs Julia Brown A3 Montgom erv street. Is a patient at Vassar hospital Mr Harold II Dyke man Brooklyn, and daughter Mr An tone Ozanlch and three children Sacramento Cal are spending a week with the latter's aunt Miss Bosalind Dykeman, 138 Mont gomery street Mr and Mrs William Real and children Patricia. William, and Susan. 3 May street are spending two weeks vacationing at Otsego Lake, Cooperstown, Admitted to Vassar hospital Sunday was Evelyn F.

Lansing, 132 Corlles avenue Joseph Matuk, 123 Main street. returned home Monday from St Francis' hospital Among those attending the wedding Saturday in Troy of Miss Dora Rest and Nathan Fd wards were Mr and Mrs Howard A Mussell. Merry Hill road. Mr and Mrs Lemuel Ilawver. 1 Suncrest court, Charles Bashe.

lied Oaks Mill. Mr and Mrs Harold Ross. Tree Tops lane, and Walker Thomas, here Admitted to Vassar hospital Saturday was Lois Gunsch, 22 Harrow place. Mr anil Mn Jnhn A K'jhn hate returned Ia ttiolr hnm In Rochester after spending two weens in sape mass. En route they spent a few days with Mr and Mra fTharloa lviu.W.

01 Woodland avenue, and Mr and Mrs Earl Galloway and daugh ter, nua, i wiiiow avenue Mra Etiuheth Knilliv 710 outh road I receiving treatment at Vassar hospital Mr and Mrs William fer and aon, Bruce Towmend boulevard leff hrrra (nnlau tnr a week at Lake WInnlpesaukee, ii Miss Joanne KR If ford avenue Mlis Gloria Dl Gregorlo and Ml Jane Jackson, aiso or this city, sailed from New York CltV MnnrUv nn n. of Bermuda" for Bermuda, where iney win spend 12 days Mil Charlntl Dtlr.nl.r Vassar road. left Saturday from laiewjm airport tor two weeks at San Antonio, Tex Mra Hohart Hunt Rinrrl. ville, has returned home after spending a week visiting her brothers Edward Hlnkley, Denver. Colo.

Kh mail tha Irln airplane. Mrs France Itur it t. lor avenue, Is a patient In Vassar hospital Mr. and Mrs. Matthew Mnl.

ten. 10 Kingston avenue; Mr. and Mrs. cnarica A. Walsh, 3 Kingston avenue, and Mr and Mrs Louis L.

Ratte4 Spoor avenue. have returned frt a vacation spent In Madison Beaciv Conn. I Mrs. Dorothy T. Lessor, 28A l.

rjaiiiin'iiTviiuri ai aMit St, Francis' hospital, Mr. and Mrs. Willard Self none, ot ouin unnion street. have been vacationing In Madi son ueacn, conn, wttn friends from White Plains Mr. and Mrs.

William Kin. sella and Mr. and Mra. Charles Carroll have returned to their home after vacationing In Cape Cod, Mass Mr and Mrs. Earl ODell.

224 Main street, and Mr. and Mrs lltimiiinfl Vn1l 4St 11.1m.. street, have returned home from a vacation spent In Montreal. Can and Niagara Falls. Mr.

and Mrs Raymond O'Dell are now spending a week with Mra Dell a alster in Canaan, Conn Mrs Raymond Corey, Fuller avenue, Hyde Park, Is recuperat ing In St Francis hospital where she underwent an operation last Friday BrWjBalaBaaaM BBaaBBaaBBaaBBa'jBBBaaBBi Mrs Maude Huntington, press secretary for the local Seventh day Adventlst church, was Included In local residents who attended the closing sessions of the camp meeting at Eagle Lake, over the weekend. Miss Marilyn Baker. Rower road, flew from Newark (N. airport Saturday to Fort Lauderdale, Fla where ahe will apend a two week vacation. Mrs.

Robert L. Troell. who has been visiting her mother, Mrs. John Hellman 02 Acad emy street, and her brothers. John and Wendell Hellman, also of this city, has returned to her home In Englewood, N.

J. Mr and Mrs Ernest Van Nos dall and daughters, 17 Forbus street, are vacationing at Holly wood Park. Mrs Natalie Fleck Gltln 333 Hooker avenue, who was a patient at vaar hoipltal, now Is con valescing at her home Miss Patricia Gallagher. White Plains accompanied by her aunt. Ml Rosalind Dykeman 138 Montgomery atreet, spent the weekend In Brooklyn Mrs Anthony Chlarclla Bea con is receiving treatment at Vaisar hospital Mr and Mrs Howard Rrund afe and daughter.

Thercia. Dor icy lane and Mrs Earl Horn beck, 26 Yates avenue, have returned home from a trip to Niagara Falls and Canada Mrs Dora Keller, 22 Albany street, was admitted to Vassar hospital Saturday ASSISTING AS A MEMBER of the Advisory committee for the Dutchess County Fair Flower show Aug. 31 8ept. 4, Is Mrs II. Henry Staley, Rhlnebeck.

vn. A Miss Hammarlund Wed to John Studcr At a double ring ceremony Sunday at St Joachim's church Beacon. Miss Gloria Hammar lund daughter of Mr and Mrs Gustav I Hammarlund Glen ham wa married to John Studcr ion of Mr and Mr Joseph Sluder 22 Fdgar itreet The llev William Drew officiated at the 2 nrlmk rite for which the altar wat decorated with white gladioli Miss Marguerite llavluirst was the oreanlst and Mr Paul dross city sang 'Mother Beloved' and Mother at Your Feet Is Kneel ing" Given In marriage by her father, the bride had her sister Miss Norma Hammarlund attend as maid of honor Other brides maids were Miss Helen Mac Dow ell and Miss Dolores Browne Joseph Studer served as best man for his brother Ushering were Harold Schmidt. Glenham. broth cr of the bride.

Francis Butler and Ilobert Lambert, Poughkeep sle The bride's floor length gown was designed with a Queen Anne collar, long aleeves, lace bodice, anC a full skirt of nylon tulle over satin A crown of sequin held In place her fingertip veil of nylon tulle, edged with lace, and she carried a caacade bouquet of white gladioli and stephanotls with a white orchid center ine bridal attendants were gowned in pastel blue nylon net over taffeta the strapless bo dices of which were completed by caplets Each wore a bandeau of nylon scroll motifs and artificial flowers In her hair The honor attendant carried a cre scent bouquet or rubrum lilies and pink roses The other bridesmaids carried crescent arrange ments of gladioli and yellow roses. Mrs Hammarlund attended her daughter's wedding In a black dress, trimmed with lace and white accessories Her corsage was of red roses. The bridegroom's mother wore a pale blue nylon tulle dress over lace, with mctchlng complements and a pink rose corsage After a reception at the Oak Grove Grange hall, the couple left there on a motor trip in northern New York State When leaving the bride wore a rose col ored suit white accessories and white orchid corsase Their new home in Forge Brook Meadows Fishklll. is presently under construction The bride, a registered nurse. Is a member of the surgical de art ment staff at St Francis' ospltal She was sraduated from the hospital School of nursing in ins? and is a member of Its Alumnae association Mrs Studer Is a communicant of St Joach im's church Mr Studer.

an alumnus of Poughkecpsle lllfih school. Is em ployed at the IBM plant, here. He is a member of the Musician's union and of St Peter's church, here. Mr Studer is a veteran of two years service with the U. S.

Navy. Ebeneser Ontlnx Scheduled Ssturday Members of the Ebenexer usn tist church and Sunday school are planning their annual outing Saturday to Bear Mountain park. bus will leave from the church 9 30 o'clock, Saturday morn ing. Mrs. Beatrice Williams is In charge1 pf arrangements and Robert Dixiorr if superintendent of thafSundav school.

3 Flower Shows Scheduled at Fair To assure thtt all falr goeri may Ale through aisles of fresh flowers this year, there will be three separate flower shows at the Dutchess County fair In Rhlnebeck. Aug. 31 throus Scot. 4. Two of the shows will be com petitive, with the third scheduled for arrangements on Invitation only.

Serving on the advisory board for the show this year are Ave previous lair snow chairmen in eluding among them Mrs II Hen ry Staley. Rhlnebeck. The Arst competitive show will be Judged on opening dsy and the second is slated for Thursday, Sept 2 The final show, for art istic arrangements on Invitation only. Is scheduled on doling day Saturday, Sept 4 Mrs Frederick Towmend, chairman of publicity, said the flower ihow lommlttec is Inter eited this year In having all who grow flowers exhibit their best blooms "We want to encourage the homeowner who purchased only cents worth of seeds to ex hiblt," she said And Mrs Town send emphsiized that the compet itive Horticultural and arranse ments classes are open to gardener from outside the county, as well ai Dutchess resident Mrs Townscnd, of Rhlnebeck. suggested that prospective ex hibitors may write to her or to Mrs Joseph Bruyette.

auperln tendent of entries, for a schedule of classes There will be no display by commercial growers In the flower show building this year. Instead, the flower show committee has arranged to have several profes sional gardeners, such as super Intendents of estates, display col lections ol horticulture Holy Trinity Church Scene Of Altonen Pearson Wedding Miss Carvl Pearson became the bride of Ralph Altonsn, 3 30 o'clock, Saturday afternoon, In Holy Trinity church. Arlington Tho Rev. Leo Gregg, pastor, officiated. Mrs.

Marlon Larr, organist, furnished the music. The bride Is the daughter of Mr and Mrs Frank O. Pearson. Hickory lane, Wapplngers Falls Mr. Attonen's parents are Mr.

and Mrs. Walter Altonen. also of Wapplngers Falls. Escorted by her father, the bride wore a gown of whjte lace over tulle and taffeta. It was fash ioned with a scoop neckline.

Atted bodice and a peplon of lace fall ing into a train Her finger tip veil of French Illusion was attached to a cap of lace. She car ried a nosegay of white roses and while orchid, with cascades of White ribbons and stephanotls Miss Joyce Herring, Wappln gers Falls, who attended the bride as bridesmaid, wore a floor length gown of green embroid ered organdy, and carried a nose gay of talisman roses. Mrs. Laura Soule, Wapplngers Falls, the other attendant, wore a floor length gown of pink or gandy and carried a nosegay of pink roses, I'hebe Ann Pearson, serving as Junior bridesmaid, wore a floor length dress of yellow embroidered organdy. Her nosegay was of yellow roses.

All the attendants wore while floral headpieces. Lynn Pearson and Gayle Ann Soulea. the flower girls, were dressed In orchid floor length frocks over taffeta with tulle hoop aklrts. They, loo. wore floral headpieces.

Raymond Scott was the ring bearer. Serving as best man was Anthony DIOrlo and the ushers Included Nicholas Francheie and Robert Altonen, brother of the bridegroom After a reception at Oak Grove Grange ball. Mr and Mrs Altonen left there for a wedding trip to Florida For traveling, the bride wore a suit dress of grey dacron with white accesortes The couple will live In 13 Mul downey circle Both are graduate of Wapplngers Rchools and are employed at IBM Hyde Park Exhibit Features Local Art Members of the Creative Con tempc rary Art Group of Pough kecpsle are exhibiting painting In the main gallery room of the Hyde Park playhouse for the next two weeks through Aug Works being shown Include sn olt entitled "Child's Conception Muriel Lawrence The Mature Parent One afternoon 13 year old Kay was sent to the grocery by her mother. The shopping list In cluded three psckages of lemon gelatin, but they weren't In the paper bag ahe brought home. "Where'a the gelatin?" asked her mother "Isn't it In the bagT" countered Kay.

"Then I guess Mr. Mark forgot to put It In. Mother" "Did you forget to check what he put In the bag against your list?" her Mother asked Kay didn't answer this question Instead, ahe said Irritably, 'OK, OK. What do you want me to do?" "What I want you to do about a mistake la not important," said her mother. "What you want to do about It Is." After a minute, Kay went out again.

When she returned with the gelatin, ahe wasn't nearly so grumpy as you would Imagine. "Well, there1! your aspic saUd.w she said, throwing the bag to her Mother; Catching it, her Mothrr smiled. "Yes, here With a daughter I love very much," she said Kay flushed with pleasure "I did forget to check Jhe list," ahe said "Shopping for eggs and stuff bores me. Could we note that admission of her mistake came voluntarily? Like you and me, she found It easy to acknowledge It when she was given her own power to correct It Once an old lady who Is tlear to me said this 'l very much doubt whether we ahould ever point out other people's mistakes to them unless we endow them with the power to correct them" If we could keep this In mind, we would And correction of childhood easier It a because we so often forget to draw on their (apacity In correct themselves that children develop great resentment at criticism We want mistake put right, quick one, two, three So we take over their lorrectlon We say, 'Go right back to the store and get me that gelatin Or we say, Honestly, I don know where your head Is All right Just get out of my kitchen Whether our child gets gelatin or geta out of the kitchen, ahe leaves us with a feeling. of loss of a Village "and a pastel.

"Alter The self respect that belongs to Some Discussions." by A II Chris tensen, two oils, Lights on the iliver and "Hill Village" by Eva I.annrakv lun nlla "liinl' mil her as the solver of her own problem haa been stolen from her She leaves us sullenly, strug Anne Adams Dress Patterns Sfli) 1 1. Irt TmAl vi MK 3IXQ Oil rCKtf SlrT'l Kol uRdu 1 1 f) I lSifi5i. Ibt I sVaaflrT Laporsky, two oils, "Idol" andigUng with our suggestion that "Primitive Mask," by Bea Erie ahe Is a careless, disappointing son, an oil, 'Woman with Green person Hair" and a painting of mixed And since this fear will look media, 'Urder Ihe Sea by like angry deflanre to us we will Vivian Wray two oils rrom think Dear oh dear will ome (Jreen Mansions and Mother one tell me what to do with this am. llov by Harriet Karan two girl who cant take criticism' oil rreluite and 'No 91 1M4" by Rlmal Usher, a lacquer Quake by Dorothy Serpo, a water color Milkweed by Carl Green an oil Sea Cove In Winter" by Harold I avnor an oil False Face by Fdlth rmery an oil. "Abstract" by William Helderlck and an oil, Flih," by Lol Hector 4705 12 20 What to wear? Mom to be, don't worry! Whip up a new top or skirl in a day with this sew.

easy pattern'' For casual wear. sew the checked version with or without the Peter Pan collar, For cool comfort on 90 degree days, choose the scooped neck. cone shaped top Make It in a glamour fabric too, for evening' Send now' Pattern 470 s. Misses' Maternity Sizca 12. 14 18.

IB. 20 Size 18 skirt, 2 yards 33 Inch, top with pockets 3 yards, ti yard contrast Send Thirty five tents in coins for this pattern add cents for each pattern for Ist class mail ing Send to ANNE ADAMS, care of Poughkecpsle New Yorker. Pattern Dept 243 West 17th New York 11. Print plainly NAME, AUUIIESS With ZONE, SIZE and STYLE NUMBER. No.

BUa Nazs Street Address Brooklyn Woman On Library Staff Poughkecpsle Adrlance Memorial Library's Board of Trustees reported today that Mrs Helena nosenberg. Brooklyn, has accepted a library appointment as Junior librarian Miss Helena LeFevre. library director, said Mrs Rosenberg will begin work st the library Sept IS. and will All the vacancy created by the recent promotion of Miss Hilda II Cameron to sen lor librarian She added that the new Junior librarian will make her home In Poughkecpsle Mrs Rosenberg ha Jiad exper lence In the Brooklyn Public II brary aystem She received her II A degree from Brooklyn college In June. 1932 and a MLS degree from Pratt Institute Library school In June, 1034 Ruth MiUett We, The Women Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat IT.

sun, II 2 i raWa 1 iaj" (las fj'WWtf 'saWy BBBBBBBBt Our California friend, Helen Goodrich, has thought up a delightful cooler to eat by hand. She also reminds us Western cantaloupes are at their best during the summer months as is. In salads, as appetizer and desserts. Here's the cooler (a perfect warm weather appetizer). Cantaloupe Cooler Cut wedges of chilled cantaloupe into blle slie sections.

Top each section with a plump, cold. Juicy watermelon ball held in place by a brightly colored cocktail pick Add a wedge of lemon or lime for a tangy touch and the "cooler" Is complete No silverware needed here, Just pick up each melon section on its own cocktail pick. This Is an especially good appetizer to serve in the living room before going to the table or for a patio meal. Gay In color, most refreshing California, home of lemons, has another idea for sizzling weather It's made of frozen concentrate for lemonade. Lemonade Frappe (Serves 3 4) One envelope plain gelatin.

VS cup frozen concentrate for lemonade, 1 quart chipped Ice (preferably Anel. Empty gelatine Into blender container. Add concentrate for lemonade Blend for about 0 seconds to dissolve gelatine. Add Ice. As, you mix In electric blender, use rubber spatula and work con tents vigorously to speed blending action.

When contents are a smooth snowy consistency serve tall glasses with straws. Or, the may be served In sherbet glasses; plain or with II iruit or wruppca cream. ip i Men have only themselves to blame If women have become convinced they don't have to cook to make their men happy," Edward Mceman, editor of the Memphis Prcss Sclmltar, tells me. To back up that statement, Mr Meeman points out that It was men who, through advertising, sold American women on the idea that foods prepared outside the home are Just a good or better than homemade foodi It was men. he reminds, who hammered away at the Idea that a modern woman who goes to any trouble at all to prepare meals is out of date And It was men who sold women on all the easy ways of getting a meal on the table by opening a can or a package for everything from biscuits ready to go In the oven to the main dlih that needs only to be heated.

In a saucepan Mr Meeman didn't call the men to task for another reason why women have lost Interest In real, old fashioned rooking, so I will One other reason why women have lost Interest In cooking Is because they have lost Interest In eating That's becsuse they are convinced that In order to hold their husbands through the years it's an absolute necessity to hang onto their girlish figures all their lives Sure Grandma was a wonderful cook, who dldnt mind spending hours in the kitchen on one meal because she thdught of food as something to enjoy To her. it was not something to eye with sus picion, as to how many calories each serving contained But today's wife. Intent on keeping her figure, gets no thrill out of biking hot biscuits, making cherry pie, whipping up rich gravies, etc. Such food she regards as a threat to her figure If men were willing to accept plump wives they might And women once more interested In cooking the kind of food Grsndma used to cook and eat Vassar Alumna Enraged to Wed Announcement Is made by Mr. and Mrs.

Morris MUler. New York City and Long Beach. L. I of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Barbara Ruth Miller, to Dr. Harold C.

RJehman. son of Mr. and Mrs. Emanuel M. Richman, New Britain, Conn The wedding will take place In the autumn.

Miss Miller was graduated last month from Vassar college. Bridal and Pertrair Stodlee JOHN LANE STUDIO Photography No Marking Preblasns on. Cotlegevtew Aver Phone M44 'lA vViistyhXuMmm.