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JOURNAL WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 1 6.41967. ffe Solves Problems i.i DEAR ANN LANDERS: There are many theories on wo men live man men. me scientif to reason makes sense, but I would like to discuss, what I feel Is Number One: Men won't go to a doctor Most women have babies, 'which means they must see a doctor, from to time, to ihey become accustomed to doctors 'and If a woman notices' a danger, signal she will go. find out what it means. Most men are afraid of, doctors and will not go to One unless they become very sick.

Often, by that time. It is too late. My own: husband (age 45) inevcr went to a doctor in his 'life. He had a physical before be went into the Army and that iwas it. Two years ago he got it into Jhis head that he had heart trou ible.

He started to drink, lost 'Weight, couldn't sleep. He got so 'J nervous it began to affect his i Finally I dragged him to a doctor. He was checked from Head to toe and the doctor said i he was in very good physical Condition and his heart was periled, but he was run down from worrying about the heart trouble 'he didn't have. i That was three weeks ago and my husband is like a new man. He said he could kick himself for behaving like a fool.

Please 'print my letter for wives who have this problem. Maybe if they tshow this to their husbands it will get them to go to a doctor jind stave off widowhood for 10 i or 20 years. MERCED, CALIF. DEAR MERCED: Here's your letter and a very good one it is. I hope the men who recognize themselves will get going and do something about it.

Ev i cry husband owes it to his family to get an annual checkup. The time and inconvenience is a small price to pay for better health and added years of life. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I am 23. have a good job, and every one says I have good sense. Sev era! months ago I Started to date a man, who is divorced and I am pretty sure we are in fi Last week he asked me to marry him, but because vf his first bad experience he does sot ii wish to take any more chances.

He feels that should live to jj gether a few months to see how we get along under domestic cir He wants to see If 'J I am a good cook and house keeper, how I behave in the morning, and what my night habits are. says he is almost sure 1 will pass the test, but he wants Tomake certain. HI refuse to go along with his proposal, I IBIf 'BfEV IHEI wnmi. Lm mBMBuBmMJMmmBm s' Cm yt iHIHPisfl aj BBBBBBBKfe w9SSIraBBBll WSBKHtiMSSMiBSmiMM m'jHwmB33 UHIBMfSiHraB mlmmMi a S.sS:!xB BHHHK'i 1 jHHM mmmmmmmmWM mWQKBmw HbBBI i to Honor Mrs. Murrtffl Phil Striua" BARRY BUTTS Joan LeGldjr Becomes Bride Of Barry Butts Miss Joan Marie LeClair, Plymouth Hill Road, Dover Plains, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Oby D. LeClair, Ellenburg Center, was wed to, Barry Lee Butts at 11 o'clock Saturday morning. The Rev. Gerard A.

Lane officiated at the double ring rites at St. Charles Borromeo Church, Dover Plains. The bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. George Butts, Mill Street, Dover Plains.

Given in bv her brother, James D. LeClair. the bride wore a of silk) or ganza and rosepoint lace over silk taffeta, designed with a fitted Empire bodice, bateau neckline and elbow length sleeves. The. princess skirt was ac cented by.

a 'circular chapel train of pearl trimmed lace which extended from the waistline. Her bouffant veil of silk illusion, elbow length, was caught to a cluster of peau de sole. ro settes and lace petals trimmed with' pearls and 'crystals, and she carried a triangular cascade arrangement of red and white roses. Mrs. Michael Clark.

Massena. the matron of honor, was gowned in a sheath of peach colored taffeta. It had an Empire waistline trimmed with pearls and a floor length train which by bows in back. Her headpiece was a matching crown with a'pearl tnmmed double, veil; and she carried a bouquet of assorted peach colored carnations, Dimwit thxftot MRS. ALLEN KUBK MRS.

ROBERT MC FALL Dr. Robert McFaU Married in Kentucky Rites Married at 2:30 o'clock Satur day afternoon in the Church of the Good. Shepherd, Lexington, were Miss Gene Ann Carter and Dr. Robert William McFall, formerly of Poughkeepsle. The Rev.

Clarke Bloomfield officiated at the double ring ceremony and music, was furnished by Miss PriclUa Hepburn. The bride is the daughter of Dr. and Mrs, Eugene S. Carter Hazard, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs.

Robert S. McFall, Lexington. The bride, who was' escorted by her. grandfather and given in marriage by her wore. a floor length gown of white silk organza with lace and seed pearl applique.

It had a fitted bodice, Sabrina neckline, long pointed sleeves and a bouffant skirt. The back was accented by a diamond shaped cathedral train which fell from. the shoulders. Her three tiered Veil of Imported illusion, elbow length, was attached to a lace and. seed pearl 5 tiara, and she carried a white prayer book marked by phalaenopsis orchids.

The maid of honor. Miss Bon hie Clayton, Lexington, a floor length Empire gown with a mist blue crepe sheath skirt and a sleeveless bodice of contrasting blue; back trimmed with a full panel. Her headpiece was a 'small fabric bow with1 a matching face veil, and she carried i a colonial bouquet of blue marguerite daisies. The other, bridal attendants were Miss Carol Lew, LouisvtDe, 1 Vr wA IlK Tn1H Dnvtel. A ouu vvuu oiuut ujt ari Mac uonaia.

Amema ji Union, was best man for tl 3 a i.Xi lArdenSproul, Mrs. Edward R. will receive an honorary life mem bership in the Dutchess County Women's) Democratic Club on Saturday, at the club's Gay Nineties Picnic. The event is sched uled for :30 o'clock at toe home of Mr. and Mrs.

Carl Silber, Overlook Road, Town of. Pough keeoeie: Un ftirrrm will ti Ih'' rML itent of a scroll printed and de signed by Mrs. 'Eeymour uvin, frst vice president. Mrs. Frank lin D.

Roosevelt was the only previous recipient of an honorary life membership. 'That presentation was made at a garden party in June, 1961, at the Poughquag home of the Franklin Roose veil ors. Mrs. Murrow, who maintain a home in has given sup port to national, state and local Democratic figures for many years. She.

will be the guest of honor, at Saturday's Mrs. Murray Warren and Mrs. Erie Borjeson are cocbalrrnea w'res ervaUons. JUU. might lose mm.

Yet a agree be may tire of me and not marry me after all Please give me some practical advice, Ann. I want to marry this man. 2 OR NOT 2 DEAR If you want to offer 'i yourself for a 90 day free trial, like a vacuum cleaner, go ahead, but don't expect it to enhance your chances for marriage. If anything, it will diminish them. Your proposal.

is not really a proposal. It is a proposition, Dummy. 'Confidential to i A. Plenty: Put; your nose back in 4 joint, Kiddo. This country, has been pretty darned good to you.

a What have you done to improve the situation you find fault with? bridegroom. The ushers were George C. Butts, Dover Plains, brother of the bridegroom, and Michael Saun, Brewster, brother in law of the bridegroom. After a reception at the Dover Recreation' Center, the couple left there on a wedding trip to Niagara Falls. For travel, the bride chose a' rust colored Em pire dress with accessories to match.

Mr. and Mrs. Butts will make, their borne in Route 82, StanfordviUe, upon return. A 1966 graduate of Ellenburg Central the bride is em ployed as an occupational thera pist's assistant at Wassaic State School. The bridegroom; a 1961 alum nus of Dover Plains High School, is employed by Tauardy Electric, School Children i Attend Pizza Parly There was a pizza party recently at the Violet Avenue School, under the direction of Miss Gretchen Petersen.

Peter Frisenda placed first in the horseshoe tournament, with John JBahret placing second apd Lee Goss, third. Approximately 20 (children attended, Hungarian Group Schedules Picnle 4 Members of the American Hungarian Reformed Church i will conduct a summer picnic on Sunday in the church garden, beginning at 3 o'clock. Luncheon twill be served' in, the fellowship 'hall by members of the Women's Guild, under the direction of Mrs: Lidia Kalmer. Music will be provided by the "Bala ton" dance orchestra, Ja group from New Brunswick, NJ. Modern Etiquette Q.

Is it customary for a moth er to second her son's invitation to an out of town girl whom he has Invited to their home for a weekend? A. Yes. And in fact some girls' mothers would. not permit their daughters to accept such an invitation without some sort of confirmation from the boy's mother. Q.

Is it necessary to provide new cards for guests at bridge? A. Not if the present cards are spotless and shiny. One should, never be guilty of furnishing old, stained, or hard to shuffle cards. Q. When a girl, is introducing the man to whom" she is en gaged, should she refer to him as "my, fiance''? A.

Yes. Q. If two or more people give a large party are you, as a guest. indebted to both hostesses, even though you know only Strictly speaking, you are indebted only to the one you know. and flowers were identical to Miss The flower girl, Jacqueline Osborne, wore a mist blue Empire frock, and carried a basicet ot rose petals.

Nolan Freeman served as best man and Eric Freeman was ring bearer. Ushering were Robert Carter of Hazard and Donald Lambert, Ronald Sale and Edward Post, all of Lexington. The reception took place in the Regency Room of the Imperial Rouse. After a wedding trip to Canada, Dr. and Mrs.

McFall will reside in 1553 Alexandria Drive, The bride is a' graduate of the University of Kentucky. Dr. McFall, who also obtained his degree from the University of Kentucky, is an alumnus of Oak wood School. A Poughkeepsle resident for .12 years, he was a member of the first Baptist Church: Wed in Pawling Miss Arden sVrouL dauehter of Mr. and Mrs, Vincent SnrouL Easlon, was married Sat urday to Allen H.

Kubflc He is the son of Mrs. vera KubHc, Pawling, and Howard Kubfk, New York City; The Her. Ralph C. Lankier officiated at the. double ring ceremony, at 12:30 o'clock i.

in Christ Church, pawling. Earl M. Mocum was the soloist. The bride, riven in" marriaee by her father, "wore a 'floor length cage gown of white Chan tilly lace over a fitted sheath. It had a scoop neckline edged in tlnyi lace long pointed sleeves and a detachable chapel length train, also edged in lace, Which fell from the shoulders: Her fingertip veil of siHc illusion was caught to a crown cf seed, pearls, she carried a cascade of white daisies and English ivy.

The maid of honor. Miss Shel ley SproiiL sister of the bride, was gowned in willow green floor length, with a satin bow and train. Her headpiece was a cluster of white daisies and she carried a circlet ar rangement of yellow Shasta daisl les with yellow ribbon. The other bridal attendants, in identical gowns and headpieces, were Mrs. Thomas Owens and Miss Jennifer SprouL also sisters of tne bride, and Mrs.

Thomas McGrath, sister of the TbW.best man was Mr. McGrath and the ushers were Ar thur DeVore, Maynard MiHer and jere There "was a reception at the Kentucky Inn, Pawling. After, a weoxung trip to Nantucket, Mr. and Mrs. Kubik.

will in The bride is a graduate of Pawling Central School and the Bellevue' School of Nursing. The bridegroom attended Pawn ing central school and Dutchess Community. College. He; is self employed in Gavnor Maddox Lefs Eat For the Labor Day cookout or for anvtime vou to' eriB somethibg different, try this re cipe lor pprc spareribs with an apple juice, brown sugar, garlic and spice marinade. SPICf.

PARERIBS 3 to 4 pounds spareribs 1 teaspoon brown sugar ,1 teaspoon aalt IV teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 cup, apple: juice' cup pU i 1 clove garlic, minced 6 whole cloves Cut spareribs intoVi or5' 4 rib servings, Combine brown sugar, salt and Add apple juice, oil, garlic and Mix ribs and marinate 3 to 4 hours turning once marinating. Drain and reserve To coot In ovenf Place spare ribs, bone aide down, on a rack in en open roasting Bake in. a slow oven (325 degrees) 1 hour. Brush with marinade: and bake 30 minutes. Turntribs: and brush with Bake 15 minutes, brush and continue baking 15 minutes.

4 to 6 servings. To cook on grill: Place spareribsspareribs on griU 5 inches. from.heat Coot slowly, 2, hours or until meat is done. Brush ribs with during last; half ADce Brooks Republicans List Booth Committee, Mrs. James Mills.

oi! Wappinger; has made known the committee which will; prepare the Republican, booth at the Dutchess, County Fair. The committee includes volunteer carpenters, painters and Tbey are Edward S. Ne Jame, Poughkeepsle, secretary; Mrs. Richard T. Pierce, Town of LaGrange, publicity; Mrs, John B.

Tieder, Rhinebeck; Mrs, Kenneth A. Carlson, Town of La Grange, and Mrs. John Balyer, Mrs. Chester Mrs. Alfred Arkell, Walter Boileau, James J.

Mills John Brewster and Joseph Incoronato, all of, the Town of Wappinger. Staffing the booth for the six days and nights of the fair: will be volunteers from the Dutchess County, Republican Club, the Dutchess County Young Republican Club 'and women's Republicanclubs in the towns and cities. m' niMmLXXXWf 1 1 mmmmW SlJH KfTl. ittmmmmmW I m.v;' aB 'V it 1 'i MICHAEL PRESCOTT GOLDWATER, son of. 1964 Presidential candidate Barry Goldwater, will be married in December to Miss Constance 'Jean Stockert, Sausalito, Calif, Mr.

Goldwater, UPl'Tileptioio 26, 'lives in Mill Valley, and is studying the real estate business in Marin County. Miss Stockert is, stewardess for Trans Western, tit Designs Personal Mention; Miss Darina DevexuT. idaughter ot Mrs. Drew Devens, Twin HiUs, Is; completing the final week of a summer course at Robert Joffrev's Ballet Center. New.

York'; City. Miss Devens, who will be a senior at Poughkeepsle High School, this, Studies ballet withliabeth Schneider; Beacon, and is a solo ist wm uw tmicness county nauet company in, we wuiter. ArmySgt. Michael Ei O'Brien, who, is stationed to Germany, is spending a month's leave with his aunt, Mrs. Catherine Janukaj uavis su Miss Holly A.

Wooi dauEbter ot Mr. and Mrs. H. J. Robinson 13 Mansion Drive, Hyd a student at SL Lawrence University, win spend her, junior year luirope in universiry's Junior Year Abroad.

Proeram. She will: leave New York City on Saturday en' the M. S. Aurelia and will attend final orientation sessions before arriving in Vienna, Austria. Airman i.C.

Georce J. Keeler son of Mr, and Mrs. Keeler. Pine Plains, has arrived for duty at Mildehhall, Royal Air force station, England. Elmer Pawling Justice, attended the recent sixth annual summer justice training program Vat St, Lawrence Uni versity.

Marine Robert J. Nieri, son of MafaMa Nieri, 99 Bridge is supporting the National Rifle and Pistol Matches at, Camp Perry, Ohio, as; a of the Range Suppbrf 'Detachment SanFiliDDO. 18 Vernon Is a surgical patient at St, Fran cis Hospital. Ulrman 3.C..:Paul Bufalieri. son of Mr.

and Mrs.) Vincent J. BafalierL, William Street, Fish kai, has been' graduated from the Air. Force technical school Force uase, 4a i' f' wSSifSxXS iHHli'illill Nihil iMBBPlI MISSMABIEHORTOrf 7k Gorman Thresher Ktes'MqdeKhpwhi Mls: Nancy 'Taresheri WlntMnV ilaiitrtiter fif Mr. end Mrs Earl Thresher, Peacham, Vt; and Francis Joseph Gorman were married at o'clock, July 22, at St. Charles Borromeo Church, Dover.

Plains. The Rev. Gerard Lane officiated, with Frank Cutolo as the organist. The bridegroom is the 60n of Mrs. Edna Gorman, Dover rand); the, late Patrick Gorman; Given in 'marriage by her brother, 'Albert the bride attended by a y) Bullied.

Wingdale, as maid of honor, Edwin Mercay, Dover Plains, was best man for the bridegroom. The (bride's ballerina gown of Chantilly lace over. taffeta had a fitted bodice, scoop neckline, bracelet sleeves and a cage Her bouffant, veil fell from a beaded and Bhe carried a bouquet of pink: Sweet heart roses with white carna The honor wore a cage style cocktail length dress of turquoise chiffon. Her headpiece was a bouffant veil with a floral cluster, and she carried a bouquet of yellow and white daisies. The reception took, place at Rick's "Post and Rail Restaurant, Dover: Plains.

For their wedding trip to Niagara Falls, the bride chose a green jersey suit. Mrsr.36rman attended Peacham and Dover Plains schools: She is employed as a stenographer at' i Harlem Valley State Gorman, who also attended schools in Dover Plains, is employed in the maintenance department at KVSH. The couple is residingon the hospital grounds; arren Al Davis. 61 Towhsend has been named to the Dean's List at the University of Lt, Walter McGough, son of Mr1, and Mrs. G.

McGough. is on two weeks' active duty at Ft Bragg, N.C., the An operations he is assigned to the'' 361st Psychological Operations CoropanyEl Paso, Tex. Lt( McGough is married to the former Miss Peggy Mamie Hen drickson of and Is assistant credit manaeer at Sears, Roebuck and El Paso, fToniPaino Feted at Shower Miss Palnb. daughter of and Mrs. Vincent Paino 14 Mill Wapningers Falls.

was tne euest of honor at a re cent variety bridal 6hower at the home of Walter "Sellai Other hostesses were Miss Julia Masciola and Mrs. William Hend rkkson. Miss Paino will become the bride of Richard Imus, New burgn Oct 7. guests included Mrs. Paino Mrs.

Paino Mrs, R. Marshall, Dominic Mrs. VFrank Masciola. Mrs. Joseph Masciola, Mrs.

Charles' Masciola', Mrs. Helen Luciano; Mrs. Arraand Alfonso, 'red Diserto. Mary Birkenmeyer, Mrs. Mary Silves tri, Miss.

Mrs. John Silvestri; Vernon Way, Mrs. Rose Frankonis, Mrs. Hugo VonBurg, Mrs. Nickolas Catalano Mrs.

Catalano Mrs, William Diesing, Mrs. Al Marco John. Mrs. Kobert Temple. Mrs.

John Kenneth Gruhl, Mrs. Irene. DiGregoria and Miss Jeanne Hadden, of Wappingers Falls; Joseph Timm, Mrs. William Maney, Mrs. J.T Marshall and Mrs.

Dominic Areno; all i of Poughkeepsle; Mrs. Eugene Marks and Miss Susan; Marks; Red Hook; Mrs; Reno Giancarlo, Hyde Pask; Mrs; James Muscato, Fishklll, and Mrs. Shirley Miller, Nw burgh. Miss Rifenburgh, Becomes Bride Mr. and Mrs.

Delos Rifen burgh, Wappingers announce the marriage their daughter, Virginia, to Curtis Petty, Pine Plains. He is the son. of Mrs. Anna petty and the late Clayton Petty. The ceremony took place Saturday the United Church of Christ, with Burlingame officiating; The bride, was given" In mar rjage1 by.

Arthur; HotalingVv Attendants Mr. and Mrs. Archie West Cornwall, brother in law and sister of the bride. There was a reception at the 1 home of Mr; and Mrs. Cookingbam, Pine Plains.

and Mrs. Petty will make their home id Pine Plains. Mr.tMrs.Horion Married 40 jeprs Mr." and 'John Horton. Troy, were the guests of honor at a recent party in celebration oft their. 40th 'wedding JanniveR 'The" which' was given by their children took place at the OCA House, Cohoes.

Their children are Mrs. Howard Rosenberger, Wappingers Falls; Mrs. Bernard Lovole and Mrs. Frank and Mrs, Lawrence Heslin. Scotia.

The Hortons also have 13 grand cniwren. one. grandson, Bernard ijoyoM is in Teen age GXX.Pt To Assist Members of the Teen aee Re publican Club of Dutchess County lTAK3 met Tuesday night at the home of Patricia Davis, 51 Townsend Blvd." Walter Blank, president of the Dutchess County Young Republicans spoke the opportunities available in'the New York 6tate Association of Young Republican Clubs. Plans were made for the TARs to help at, the Republican booth at the Dutchess County, Fair. The next meeting will be, Sept IBM, Seniors To Have Picnic "Seniors members of the IBM Country Ckib will have a picnic at clock: tomorrow, afternoon at the 'country i grounds.

Those attending are requested' to take lunches. Joseph Kozlark is 'in charge. of rtv'tcx tinrfrin FichbiWA Uliw iiwitvii, njiiiimij j. wcomeiBMeflhMiumh Annouhcement' Is rriade by Mrs. Margaret' J.

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