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7 7 THIRTY-FOUR POUGHKEEPSIE JOURNAL WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 16, 1967 Ann Landers Solves Problems DEAR ANN LANDERS: There are many theories on why women live longer than men. The scientific reason makes sense, but I would like to discuss what I feel Number One: Men won't go to a doctor. Most women have babies, which means they must see a doctor from time to time, so they become accustomed to doctors and checkups. If a woman notices a danger signal she will go find out what it means. Most men are afraid of doctors and will not go to one unless they become very sick.

Often, by that time, it is too late. My own husband (age 45) never went to a doctor in his life. He had a physical before he went into the Army and that was it. Two years ago he got it into his head that he had heart He started to drink, lost weight, couldn't sleep. He got So nervous it began to affect his work.

Finally I dragged him to doctor. He was checked from head to toe and the doctor said the was in very good physical condition and his heart was perfect, but he was run down from worrying about the heart trouble 'he didn't have. That was three weeks ago and my husband is like a new man. He said he could kick himself for behaving like a fool. Please print my letter for wives who have this problem.

Maybe if they show this to' their husbands it will get them to go to a doctor and stave off widowhood for 10 or 20 CALIF. DEAR MERCED: Here's your is. letter, hope and the a men very who good one it recognize themselves will get going and do something about it. Every husband owes it to his family to get an annual checkup. The time and inconvenience is a small price to pay for better health and added years of life.

DEAR ANN LANDERS: I am 23, have a good job, and everyone says I have good sense. Several months ago I started to date a man who is divorced and I am pretty sure we are in love. Last week he asked me to marry him, but because of his first bad experience he does not wish to take any more chances. He feels that we should live together a few months to see how we get along under domestic circumstances. He wants to see if am a good cook and housekeeper, how I behave in the morning, and what my night habits are.

He says he is almost sure 1 will pass the test, but he wants to' make certain. If I refuse to 'go along with his proposal, I might lose him. Yet if I agree he may tire of me and not marry me after all. Please give me some practical advice, Ann. I want to marry this man, 2 OR NOT 2 DEAR If you want to offer yourself for a 90-day free trial, like a vacuum cleaner, go ahead, but don't expect it to enhance your chances for marriage.

If anything, it will diminish them. Your proposal is not really a proposal. It is a proposition, Dummy. to Miffed. A.

Plenty: Put your in joint, Kiddo. This country has been pretty darned good to you. What have you done to improve the situation you find fault with? School Children Attend Pizza Party There was a pizza party recently at the Violet Avenue School, under the direction of Miss Gretchen Petersen. Peter Frisenda placed first in the horseshoe tournament, with John Bahret placing second and Lee Goss, third. Approximately 20 children attended.

Hungarian Group Schedules Picnic Members of the AmericanHungarian Reformed Church will conduct a summer picnic on Sunday in the church garden, beginning at 3 o'clock. Luncheon will be served in the fellowship hall by members of the Women's Guild, under the direction of Mrs. Lidia Kalmer. Music will provided by the "Balaton" Hungarian dance orchestra, a group from New Brunswick, MRS. BARRY BUTTS Joan LeClair Becomes Bride Of Barry Butts Miss Joan Marie LeClair, Plymouth Hill Road, Dover Plains, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. (Oby D. LeClair, Ellenburg Center, was wed to Barry Lee Butts at 11 o'clock Saturday morning. The Rev. Gerard A.

Lane officiated at the double ring rites at St. Charles Church, Dover Plains. The bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. George Butts, Mill Street, Dover Plains.

Given in marriage by her brother, James D. LeClair, the bride wore a gown of sillo organza and rosepoint lace over silk taffeta, designed with a fitted Empire bodice, bateau neckline and elbow length sleeves. The princess style skirt was accented by. a circular chapel train of pearl-trimmed lace which extended from the waistline. Her bouffant veil of English silk illusion, elbow length, was caught to a cluster of peau de soie rosettes and lace petals trimmed with pearls and crystals, and she carried a triangular cascade arrangement of red and white roses.

Mrs. Michael Clark, Massena, the matron of honor, was gowned in a sheath of peach -colored taffeta. It had an Empire waistline trimmed with pearls and a floor length train which attached by bows in back. Her headpiece was a matching crown with a pearltrimmed double veil, and she carried a bouquet of assorted peachcolored carnations. Carl Mac Donald, Amenia Union, was best man for the bridegroom.

The ushers were George C. Butts, Dover Plains, brother of the bridegroom, and Michael Saun, Brewster, brotherin-law of the bridegroom. After a reception at the Dover Recreation Center, the couple left there on a wedding trip to Niagara Falls. For travel, the bride chose a rust-colored Empire dress with accessories to match. Mr.

and Mrs. Butts will make their home in Route 82, Stanfordville, upon return. A 1966 graduate of Ellenburg Central School, the bride is employed as an occupational therapist's assistant at Wassaic State School. The bridegroom, a 1961 alumnus of Dover Plains High School, is employed by Tallardy Electric. Modern Etiquette Q.

Is it customary for a mother to second her son's invitation to an out-of-town girl whom he has invited to their home for a weekend? A. Yes. And in fact some girls' mothers would not permit their daughters to accept such an invitation without some sort of confirmation from the boy's mother. Q. Is it necessary to provide new cards for guests at bridge? A.

Not if the present cards are spotless and shiny. One should never be guilty furnishing old, stained, or hard shuffle cards. Q. When a girl, is introducing the man to whom she is engaged, should she refer to him as "my A. Yes.

Q. If two or more people give a large party are you, as a guest, indebted to both hostesses, even though you know only one? A. Strictly speaking, you are indebted only to the one you know. MICHAEL PRESCOTT GOLDWATER, son of 1964 Presidential candidate Barry Goldwater, will be married in December to Miss Constance Stockert, Sausalito, Calif. Mr.

Goldwater, County Women Democrats To Honor Mrs. Murrow Mrs. R. Murrow will receive an honorary life membership in the Dutchess County Women's Democratic Club on Saturday, at the club's Gay Nineties Picnic. The event is scheduled for 6:30 o'clock at the home of Mr.

and Mrs. Carl Silber, Overlook Road, Town of Poughkeepsie. Mrs. Murrow will be the recifrst vice president. Mrs.

Frankpient of a scroll printed and designed by Mrs. Seymour Levin, lin D. Roosevelt was the only previous recipient of an honorary life membership. That presentation was made at a garden party in June, 1961, at the Poughquag home of the Franklin D. Roosevelt Jrs.

Mrs. Murrow, who maintains a home in Pawling, has given support to national, state and local Democratic figures for many years. She will be the guest of honor at Saturday's event, Mrs. Murray Warren and Mrs. Eric Borjeson are cochairmen of reservations.

Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat 3 cup oil 1 clove garlic, minced 6 whole cloves For the Labor Day cookout, or for anytime you want to grill something different, try this recipe for pork spareribs with an apple juice, brown sugar, garlic and spice marinade. SPICY. SPARERIBS 3 to 4 pounds spareribs 1 teaspoon brown sugar 1 teaspoon salt teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 cup apple juice Cut spareribs into 3- or 4-rib servings. Combine brown sugar, salt and cinnamon. Add apple juice, oil, garlic and cloves.

Mix well. Pour marinade over ribs and marinate 3 to 4 hours, turning once during marinating. Drain and reserve marinade. To cook in oven: Place spareribs, bone side down, on a rack an open roasting pan. Bake in a slow oven (325 degrees) hour.

Brush with marinade and bake 30 minutes. Turn ribs and brush with marinade. Bake 15 minutes, brush and continue baking 15 minutes. 4 to 6 servings. To cook on grill: Place spareribs on grill 5 inches from heat.

Cook slowly, about 2. hours or until meat is done. Brush ribs with marinade during last half hour. Gorman-Thresher Rites Made Known Miss Nancy Jane Thresher, Wingdale, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Earl Thresher, Peacham, and Francis Joseph Gorman were married at 11 o'clock, July 22, at St. Charles Borromeo Church, Dover Plains. The Rev. Gerard A. Lane officiated, with Frank Cutolo as organist.

The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Edna Gorman, Dover Plains, and the late Patrick Gorman. Given in marriage by her brother, Albert Thresher, the bride was attended by Miss Cathy Bullied, Wingdale, as maid of honor. Edwin Mercay, Dover Plains, was best man for the bridegroom. The ballerina gown of Chantilly lace over taffeta had a fitted bodice, scoop neckline, bracelet length sleeves and a cage back.

Her bouffant veil fell from a beaded crown, and she carried a bouquet of pink Sweetheart roses with white carnations. The honor attendant wore a cage style cocktail length dress of turquoise chiffon. Her headpiece was a bouffant veil with a floral cluster, and she carried a bouquet of yellow and white daisies. The reception took place at Rick's Post and Rail Restaurant, Dover Plains. For their wedding trip to Niagara Falls, the bride chose a green jersey suit.

Mrs. Gorman attended Peacham and Dover Plains schools. She is employed as a stenographer at Harlem Valley State Hospital, Wingdale. Mr. Gorman, who also attended schools in Dover Plains.

is employed in the maintenance department at HVSH. The couple is residing on the hospital grounds. Personal Mention Miss Darina Devens, daughter of Mrs. Drew Devens, Twin Hills, is completing the final week of a summer course at Robert Joffrey's Ballet Center, New York City. Miss Devens, who will be a senior at Poughkeepsie High School this year, studies ballet with Elisabeth Schneider, Beacon, and is a soloist with the Dutchess County Ballet Company in the winter.

Dumont Studios MRS. ALLEN KUBIK MRS. ROBERT MC FALL Dr. Robert W. McFall Married in Kentucky Rites Married at 2:30 o'clock Saturday afternoon in the Church of the Good Shepherd, Lexington, were Miss Gene Ann Carter and Dr.

Robert William McFall, formerly of Poughkeepsie. The Rev. Clarke Bloomfield officiated at the double ring ceremony and music was furnished by Miss Pricilla Hepburn. The bride is the daughter of Dr. and Mrs.

Eugene S. Carter Hazard, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Robert S. McFall, Lexington, The bride, who was escorted by her grandfather and given in marriage by her father, wore a floor length gown of white silk organza with lace and seed pearl applique.

It had a fitted bodice, Sabrina neckline, long pointed sleeves and a bouffant skirt. The back was accented by a diamondshaped cathedral train which fell from the shoulders. Her threetiered veil of imported illusion, elbow length, was attached to a lace and seed pearl tiara, and she carried a white prayer book marked by phalaenopsis orchids. The maid of honor, Miss Bonnie Clayton, Lexington, wore floor length Empire gown with a mist blue crepe sheath skirt and a sleeveless bodice of contrasting blue. The back was trimmed with a full panel.

Her headpiece was a small fabric bow with a matching face veil, and she carried a colonial bouquet of blue marguerite daisies. The other bridal attendants were Miss Carol Lew, Louisville, and Mrs. John Parish, Lexington. Thier gowns, headpieces and flowers were identical to Miss Clayton's. The flower girl, Jacqueline Osborne, wore a mist blue Empire frock, and carried a basket of rose petals.

Nolan Freeman served as best man and Eric Freeman was ring bearer. Ushering were Robert Carter of Hazard and Donald Lambert, Ronald Sale and Edward Post, all of Lexington. The reception took place in the Regency Room of the Imperial House. After a wedding trip to Canada, Dr. and Mrs.

McFall will reside in 1553 Alexandria Drive, Lexington. The bride is a graduate of the University of Kentucky, Dr. McFall, who also obtained his defrom the University of Kentucky, is an alumnus of Oakwood School. A Poughkeepsie resident for 12 years, he was a member of the first Baptist Church. Republicans List Booth Committee Mrs.

James J. Mills, Town of Wappinger, has made known the committee which will prepare the Republican booth at the Dutchess County Fair. The committee includes volunteer carpenters, painters and decorators. They are Mrs. Edward NeJame, Poughkeepsie, secretary; Mrs.

Richard T. Pierce, Town of LaGrange, publicity; Mrs. John B. Tieder, Rhinebeck; Mrs. Kenneth A.

Carlson, Town of LaGrange, and Mrs. John Balyer, Mrs. Chester Rose, Mrs. Alfred Arkell, Walter Boileau, James J. Mills John Brewster and Joseph Incoronato, all of the Town of Wappinger.

Staffing the booth for the six days and nights of the fair will be volunteers from the Dutchess County Women's Republican Club, the Dutchess County Young Republican Club and women's Republican clubs in the towns and cities. UPI Telephoto 26, lives in Mill Valley, and is studying the real estate business in Marin County. Miss Stockert is a stewardess for Trans Western Airlines. Army Sgt. Michael E.

O'Brien, who is stationed in Germany, is spending a month's leave with his aunt, Mrs. Catherine Janukajtis, 18 Davis St. Strauss Miss Holly A. Wood, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

H. J. Robinson 13 Mansion Drive, Hyde Park, a student at St. Lawrence University, will spend her junior year in Europe in the university's Junior Year Abroad Program. She will leave New York City on Saturday on the M.

S. Aurelia and will attend final orientation sessions before arriving in Vienna, Austria. Arden Sproul, Allen Kubik Wed in Pawling Miss Arden Sproul, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Sproul, Easton, was married Saturday to Allen H.

Kubik. He is the son of Mrs. Vera Kubik, Pawling, and Howard Kubik, New York City. The Rev. Ralph C.

Lankler officiated at the double ring ceremony at 12:30 o'clock in Christ Church, Pawling, Earl M. Slocum was the soloist. The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore a floor length cage gown of white Chantilly lace over a fitted sheath. It had a scoop neckline edged in tiny Venise lace flowers, long pointed sleeves and a detachable chapel length train, also edged in lace flowers, which fell from the shoulders. Her fingertip veil of silk illusion was caught to a crown of seed pearls, and she carried a cascade arrangement of white daisies and English ivy.

The maid of honor, Miss Shelley Sproul, sister of the bride, was gowned in willow green linen, floor length, with a satin bow and train. Her headpiece was a cluster of white daisies and she carried a circlet arrangement of yellow shasta dais. ies with yellow ribbon. The other bridal attendants, in identical gowns and headpieces, were Mrs. Thomas Owens and Miss Jennifer Sproul, also sisters of the bride, and Mrs.

Thomas McGrath, sister of the bridegroom. The best man was Mr. McGrath and the ushers were Arthur DeVore, Maynard Miller and Jere Hunt. There was a reception at the Kentucky Inn, Pawling. After a wedding trip to Nantucket, Mr.

and Mrs. Kubik will reside in Pawling. The bride is a graduate of Pawling Central School and the Bellevue School of Nursing. The bridegroom attended Pawling Central School and Dutchess Community College. He is selfemployed in Pawling.

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Keeler son of Mr. and Mrs. Keeler, Pine Plains, has arrived for duty at Mildenhall Royal Air Force Station, England. Elmer F. Doe, Justice, attended annual summer program at St.

versity. Pawling Town the recent sixth justice training Lawrence Uni- Marine Lance Cpl. Robert J. Nieri, son of Mrs. Mafalda Nieri, 99 N.

Bridge is supporting the National Rifle and Pistol Matches at Camp Perry, Ohio, as a member of the Marine Range Support Detachment. Sal SanFilippo, 18 Vernon is a surgical patient at St. Francis Hospital. Airman Paul Bufalieri, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Vincent J. Bafalieri, William Street, Fishkill, has been graduated from the Air Force technical training school at Amarillo Air Force Base, Tex. Warren Al Davis, 51 Townsend has been named to the Dean's List at the University of Notre Dame. Lt. Walter McGough, son of Mr.

and Mrs. G. J. McGough, Pawling, is on two weeks' active duty at Ft. Bragg, N.C., with the Army Reserve.

An operations officer, he is assigned to the 361st. Psychological Operations Company, El Paso, Tex. Lt. McGough is married to the former Miss Peggy Mamie Hendrickson of Ft. Sill, and is assistant credit manager at Sears, Roebuck and El Paso.

Toni Paino Feted at Shower Miss Toni Paino, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Paino 14 Mill Wappingers Falls, was the guest of honor at a recent variety bridal shower at the home of Mrs. Walter Sella. Other hostesses were Miss Julia Masciola and Mrs.

William Hendrickson, Miss Paino become the bride of Richard Imus, Newburgh, on Oct. 7. Invited guests included Mrs. Paino Mrs. Paino Mrs.

R. J. Marshall, Mrs. Dominic (Masciola, Mrs. Frank Masciola, Mrs.

Joseph Masciola, Mrs. Charles Masciola, Mrs. Helen Luciano, Mrs. Armand Alfonso, Mrs. Fred DiBerto, Mrs.

Mary Birkenmeyer, Mrs. Mary Silvestri, Miss Lucy. Domizio, Mrs. John Silvestri, Mrs. Vernon Way, Mrs.

Rose Frankonis, Mrs. Hugo VonBurg, Mrs. Nickolas Catalano Mrs. Catalano Mrs. William Diesing, Mrs.

Al Marcojohn, Mrs. Robert Temple, Mrs. John Costello, MLrs. Kenneth Gruhl, 1, Mrs. Irene DiGregoria and Miss Jeanne Hadden, all of Wappingers Falls; Mrs.

Joseph Timm, Mrs. William Maney, Mrs. R. J. Marshall and Mrs.

Dominic Areno; all of Poughkeepsie; Mrs. Eugene Marks and Miss Susan Marks, Red Hook; Mrs. Reno Giancarlo, Hyde Park; Mrs. James Muscato, Fishkil, and Mrs. Shirley Miller, burgh.

THE GIRLS By Franklin Folger I 8-16 17 7 00 if the meat loaf has kind of a funny taste, it's because in my rush I followed the newspaper recipe for it partly through glazed Announcement is made by Mrs. Margaret J. Horton, Fishkill, of the engagement of her daughter, Marie, to Walter D. Karatz, son of Dr. Morris B.

Karatz, Chicago, Ill. A graduate of Wappingers Central High School and the DeMars Legal Secretarial School, New York City, Miss Horton is Miss Rifenburgh Becomes Bride Mr. and Mrs. Delos Rifenburgh, Wappingers Falls, announce the marriage of their daughter, Virginia, to Curtis Petty, Pine Plains. He is son of Mrs.

Anna Petty and the late Clayton Petty. The ceremony took place Saturday at the United Church of Christ, Stanfordville, with the Rev. Mr. Burlingame officiating. The bride was given in marriage by Arthur Hotaling! Attendants were Mr.

and Mrs. Archie Wildman, West Cornwall, brother-in-law and sister of the bride. There was a reception at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Cookingbam, Pine Plains.

Mr. and Mrs. Petty, will make their home in Pine Plains. Mrs. Horton Married 40 Years Mr.

and Mrs. John Horton, Troy, were the guests of honor at a recent party in celebration of their 40th wedding anniversary. The event, which was given by their children, took place at the OCA House, Cohoes. Their children are Mrs. Howard Rosenberger, Wappingers Falls; Mrs.

Bernard Lovoie and Mrs. Frank Purcell, Troy, and Mrs. Lawrence Heslin, Scotia, The Hortons also have 13 grandchildren. One grandson, Bernard Lovoie is in Vietnam. Teen-age G.O.P.

To Assist at Fair Members of the Teen-age Republican Club of Dutchess County (TARs) met Tuesday night at the home of Patricia Davis, 51 Townsend Blvd. Walter Blank, president of the Dutchess County Young Republicans, spoke about the opportunities available in 'the New York State Association of Young Republican Clubs. Plans were made for the TARs to help at the Republican booth at the Dutchess County Fair. The next meeting will be Sept, 11. IBM Seniors To Have Picnic Senior members of the IBM Country Club will have re a picnic at 1 o'clock tomorrow afternoon at the country club picnic grounds.

Those attending are requested to take their lunches. Joseph Kozlark is in charge of arrangements. employed as a legal: sedretary by the firm of Debevolse, Plimpton, Lyons and Gates, New York City. Mr. Karatz, received a bachelor of science degree in accounting in 1953 from the University of Illinois at Urbana and has done graduate work in political science at New York University.

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