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im Dorothy Utter Box 'DEAR MIS3 DIX: I read your column always and now I have a problem, which hope "you can aotve. When I married 10 yean to, my hatband and I moved In with my widowed mother and bared her thrce and a culf room apartment. Mother owns the house and, though there la another apartment in II, she. refused to rfht this second place to us Anyway, we got along very welt until our two children arrived. Then my husband felt we should have an apartment of our own Mother's place was quite congested and there wasn't much privacy Of Unce It was my mother, 1 didn't mind much.

I am an only child so felt respon alhle tor my mother, although he foes to business. Well, we did find a plice own and my mother carriel on something awful. She tUU Karpi on Ike subject constantly although we moved about six months ago. Consequently I am very unhappy I see Mom al tnost every night but feel sorry for her wen I leave Even though the email apartment was crowded, I'd love to go back but my husband will not give up his borne now. I Just can't understand how I as talked into making the move ADELE ANSWER: Your husband has been a long suffering, patient rnan.

and I guess the reason you finally consented to the move was that you read the handwriting on the wall and saw rebellion If you continued to put Mom first It's very difficult for many' parents, and tome children, to accept the fact that when. a girl marries, her first allegiance must be switched from parent to husband. A daughter who la not prepared to put her husband first shouldn't get married. If she can't grow beyond the stage of being "my little girl" to her mother, he hadn't acquired sufficient maturity to cope with the manifold problems of matrimony. NOT TRYING Ilad your mother been the least bit Inclined to co operate, he could have rented you the other apartment in her house, which would at least have given you more room and privacy.

Her disinclination to do to was due to certainty that you would never leave her small place for one of your own. You are certainly dutiful daughter; can you make the same claim ss a wile? With the attention your mother Is receiving, she has" no complaint. If her parents continue unabated, leave her lone for a while. It may sound like cruel treatment, but she, too, must accept facts. She is no longer your sole charge, nor should she bs the chief one.

Going back to her mall apartment would be folly of the highest order. Your husband Is entitled to something besides crowded discomfort. Think of htm for a change. DEAR MISS DIX: To this day in sorry i am not need your advice. No matter how much a girl lows a boy.

If there Is friction between her and his family there are bound to be arguments between husband and wlfei My husband is completely wrapped up In his mother, father, sister and brother. He believes no matter what they do I should overlook It Does my family rate reciprocal treatment from himT No! Ills folks didn't want us to marry. I wrote and asked your advice and, because it ran contrary to my inclinations, I didn't take It I wanted to marry the guy and expected you to say o.k. Well, it turned out you were right Even our clergyman told me I would have a bard time with this family. Girls, If you don't get along with a man's family, and they don't accept you, don't, xlon't marry! Anna ANSWER: To which I can add little more than "Amen." It a boy's family Is hostile to begin with, you stand very little chance of overcoming their dislike tf i rtPQHstflstfl.

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EMMA SELFRIDGE. left soprano nad Mrs. MARION WOOD, right, contralto, will be heard as soloists for Rossini's "Stabat Mater" which will be presented in the Reformed church, Feb 12. Nearly New Shop Board Entertains Volunteer Aides Soloists Named For 'Stabat Mater Mrs. Emms Selfrldge.

soprano and Mrs. Marion Wood, contralto will be the female soloists for the presentation of Rossini's "Stabat Mater," In the Reformed church at 4 o'clock Sunday afternoon. Feb. 12. The presentation will be under the direction of Andrew J.

Balrd, AAGO, organist and choir director ot the church, who will direct the chorus from the con sole. Preceding the oratorio. Mr. Balrd will play the overture to KOMinrs last operatic work. 'Wil liam Tell." Mrs.

Selfrldge. soprano soloist of the Reformed church choir, sang the "Intlamatus." from Stabat Mater In the Reformed church last. Easter. She has been heard as soloist for various other concerts in the city including iianaers "Messiah," which was presented at the church, recently Mrs. Wood also has been heard as soloist in the perform ance of Handel's "Messiah She also appeared as, soloist for the Orpheus club and has had a wide experience in oratorio work.

She recently was heard in the per formance or stabat Maier," in Middletown. Junior Chamber Auxiliary Plsns Deeorstlnf st Home Mrs. Louis Blscardl gave a preliminary report on plans for dec orating a room at the Children's Home, at a recent meetinE of the JaynCeet, Junlon Chamber of Commerce auxiliary The session took place at Mrs. Blscardi'a home In S3 Lent street, with Mrs. Allen Jones serving as co hostess.

Mrs. Arthur Strom also reported on the group's baby sitting classes for 'teenagers, which will be started soon at the Smith Street center. Mention was made of plans for fashion show to benefit the home. Mrs. Bart Jordano Band Mrs.

Walter Jaehnert gave a report on the state Distinguished Service Award meeting which took, place recently in Brooklyn. Mrs. joraano, president, presided, with Mrs. Arthur Smith as a guest Trinity WSCS Meeting Tonight Members of the WSCS ot Trinity Methodist church will meet at 8 tonight. In the church parlor.

Mrs. Glen E. Fitzslmmons will have charge of the devotions and Mrs. Alton J. Crotty will preside for the business sessions Members of Circle will serve as hostesses.

Mrs. Carl SUber will be the guest speaker and show slides of her recent trip to Israel. Members of the, executive bpard of the Nearly New shop entertained at breakfast for all workers of the sh.op, 11 o'clock, Tuesday morning. Reginald Senior, Titusvllle road', chairman, opened her home "for the occasion Mrs George Underhfll was In charge ot arrangements, assisted by Mrs. Jamea Lumb, Mrs.

Monroe Bevler and Mrs Raymond Meagher. Other members of the executive board are Mrs. Ellison II Capers, Mrs Helen II. Finch, Mrs James T. Marring, ton, Mrs.

Guy Morehouse, Mrs. Norton I Pennock, Miss Ann M. Piatt and Mrs. Norman Polhemui. Among the volunteers are Mrs.

Lewis Aldrldge. Mrs Jessie Beardsley, Mrs William Cav anaugh, Mrs. George A Colvin, Mrs William J. Coon, Mrs John I. 'Colter, Mrs.

John It. Darrow, Mrs Raymond G. Dean Miss Effie Douglas, Miss Marguerite Du Bojs, Miss Stella A Dulcher, Miss Sara (Edwards, Mrs. Arol Ferry, Miss Emmellne Guernsey; Miss Elizabeth Hadden, Mrs J. William Harris, Mrs Hayes, Mrs.

Rex Rice, Mrs. Paul Stlnn, Mrs Harold E. Smith and Miss Louise Strachen. The Nearly New shop is sponsored by the Women's auxiliary of Vassar hospital. Homer Pearson To Be Gnest Speaker Professor Homer Pearson of Vassar college, will be the guest speaker at a meeting of the Evening Reading circle of the First Presbyterian church Monday night Mrs.

Rqnald Dickson, 20 Linden road, will be hostess to the group at her home at 8 clock. Mrs. Emll Johnson will serve as assisting hostess tfnd Mrs Robert Derthardt, leader, will preside Professor Pearson will illustrate liU lecture with recordings 9 Anne Adams Dress Patterns Donald Donohus Weds Joan Lehn Miss Joan Marie Lehn, daugh pecially If there are several of tr of Mr and Mrs. Jacob Lehn them to stick together Two people must be very self sufficient to exist In an enemy camp. Your husband is still In the hostile group regardless of afterpoon, In St PeteFs Lutheran his amorous protestations What cpurcm Port Jervls The Uev chance have youi Very little.

There a. little saying, rm marrying you not your family," which is six words of purest fable Ewery marriage Includes family Why kid yourself about If DEAR MISS DIX While dating Lou, I have given up not only 11 my boy friends but my girl friends as well We see each other week ends, since he Is attending college during the week He has a part time job Saturdays which also cuts into our dating I wouldn't mind so much, but he Just won't tell me where we stand. If I mention marriage, he says his education and financial problems won't permit it for three years. That's a long time for a girl to wait without assurance Should I keep asking him' HATTIE ANSWER Port Jervls, became tbje bride of Donald Clifford Donohue, son of Mr and Mra Clifford Donohue, Kingston, at 3 clock. Sunday Henry C.

Meyer officiated at the double ring candlelight ceremony There was a reception for 200 guests at the Hotel Park Lane, Port Jervls. The bridegroom Is a graduate of Rensselaer Pol) tech nlc Instlutc, Troy, and is employed as a senior test engineer at IBM, here After a wedding trip to Florida, the couple will live In 80 Emerson street, Kingston. Neighborhood Club mil Meet Monday Members of the Poughkcepsle Neighborhood club will meet at 8 o'clock, Monday night at the Catherine Street center Mrs. Louis Garrett, president, will preside 1 AVo v2r fltlfrA WW fit 1120 jo 4677 IVI Parish Aid Sociflr The boy wants' To Dkcusa Food bale little pleasurable relaxation over his week end and all you do is nag about getting married. I ttt one youth headed back Into circulation.

Better accept tne friendship on his terms You were foollihN to give up all your girl friends. They might be handy In an emergency. DEAR MISS DIX: Barbara has liked Kip for a long time. ca tne otner nana nu taken me out a number of times. He recently asked me to go steady and 1 accepted.

I like him a lot but when Barbara found out she be came very nostue toward me. I dont want to' break off with Kip but I don't want to lose Barbara as a friend. How 'can I make Barbara understand that one heart broken U. better than FLEUR ANSWER: Jl can't Ann mu dear. Vou loi either the or the boy.

friend. You aren't la bUme, since Kip preferred you. never unaer Und. F.urther plans for. a food sale wall be made at luncheon meeting of the Parish Aid society of St Paul's Episcopal church.

Wednesday. Menvbera will meet at 9 30 o'clock at the church to make cancer dressings snd lunch eon will be served at 12 30 o' clock in the church undercroft Reservations, In charge of Mrs Louis Schilling, close Monday night Mrs. William Stahl, presi dent, wm preside. The sale a scheduled for, March 1 at the Luckey, platt and Co. store.

Marian E. Frar Will Show Slides' Miss Marian E. Frav. executive director of the Young' Women's Christian association, will show slides on her recent EuroDean trip at tonight's Wives meet lng. The session is scheduled for 8 o'clock at the YWCA building Hostesses will be Mrs.

Richard Alexander and Mrs. Emihuel Ur baoo. The Wlves are planning a dance for Feb. 11, wtth Mrs. Arttmr Kaiser st clulrasn of arrangements.

Personal Mention George AnosDoros. IS Conklln street, is a patient at Vassar hos piraL Harold Merte. RD 3. Is receiv ing treatment at Vassar hospital Henry Paiei David SMffht Donald Gorman and Kenneth Barlght, Poughkeepsle, have re turned home after a two weeks' vacation fn Florida. Admitted to Vassar hospital Monday, was George L.

Reenan, 74 North Elm street, Beacon. Ticket, Comrhittee Named For AAUW Benefit Concert frjURSDX' FEBrUArtY Brother Eugene. A Franciscan Brother, was Prefect. Sunday, at the Chapel of Our Lady of the Angela, Half Hollow Hills, Huntington, LI II is nephew of Mrs. Catherine Schmidt, 14 Jewett' avenue, and the son of Mr.

snd Mrs John Roser, Brooklyn. Mr, and MPs JohrrScnvjnl 11 Hoffman avenue, have arrived inf. Hollywood, Fla where they plan to spend a month with their son and daughter ln Iaw, Mr and Mrs Albert Scrlvanl Mrs. Charles Brink, 21 Balding avenue, is a patient in Vassar hospital. I Mrs.

Julia ItamhM'lr. MlUnn formerly of Yates avenue, here. is In St Francis hospital undergoing Tuesday Club Conducts Programs "Women in Aviation" and "Amelia Eanhart" were the titles of two papers read by Miss Mary I all and Mrs John Mc Mhon, respectively, cecent meeting of the Tuesday club. The session took place at the Young Women's Chlrstlan association building with Mrs. Harold E.

Smith, president presiding. The papers described women from the dsrlng days of balloon ascensions in 17t)l and their problems of dress for the occlon, down to the fatal trip of Amelia Earhart At this week's meetlne Mrs Smltli and Mrs Araminta Mahoney presented papers on "Wo men in Government and Diplomacy" and Ruth Bryan Owen" Members ot the ticket com mlttee hare been made known for the arfnual, benefit being, sponsored by the schblarship feilow shlpTbmmUtee of the Poughkeepsle branch, American Association of University Women, Feb 10. Ray Mlddleton will be heard In a program entitled, "America In Song and Story," 8:19 o'clock st Poughkeepsle school. Included are Mrs. Donald M.

Allardvce, Mrs Robert Agnew, Mrs Patrick A Beeby, Mrs Ray Boedecker, Mrt Robert B. Breed, Mist Olga R. Catch pole. Mrs. John Csvo, Mrs.

David Chamberlain, Mrs. Milton Chazen, Mrs. wmiara J. uoiko, Mrs. James R.

Clarke, Mrs. Harrison S. Coday, and Miss Margaret uoie Mrs Psul M. Courtney. Mrs.

John II Darrow Mrs. Harold R. Dean, Mra. John Dederer, Mrs. Ralph DeLano Mrs J.

Thomas Dletz, Mrs J. Ernest Doo llttle, Miss Virginia Dougherty, Mrs Mllford Eisner. Mrs Philip E. Fox, Mrs William Gin dele, Mrs. John A.

Goeti, snd Mrs Lottb D. Goldberg Miss Loufee Graham. Miss Mar Jorte E. Qunther, Mrs. Leonard J.

Hackenberg, Miss. Dorothy Haight. Mrs Hamilton Hayden, Mrs rneoaore J. Lakosxi, Mrs Harold A Laynor, Mrs. Richard Lowrie, Mrs Edmund VL Mabie.

and Mrs. William L. MacMich ael. Mrs. Alfred Madsen.

Ml Eliz abeth Meade, Mrs Harold Mills. Mrs. John Mitchell. Mrs H. WilUam Nordyke Mrs Ir ving Qstrow, Mrs.

Merle II Pad dock, Mnf RUh E. Page, Mrs. Lloyd Rosenthal, Miss Kathryn Shlpman. Mrs Lelan SllUn, Mrs Richard Sweelfand. Mr.

John Teasdale, Mrs. Stephen J. Verven, Mrs, Joseph C. Warnock and Mrs Joseph J. Conner ton and Mrs Dorothy D.

Thatcher wwh airman Mrs. Andrew Mund Named Chairman Mrs. Andrew Mund Is serving i general chairman of tale of articles made by blind workers In the Albany shops, wfalch will be conducted on 24 through March in Poughkeepsle. The location will be made known at a later date. Committees representing the churches of Poughkeepsle will direct the sate for specified periods The scheduled of these committees, their chairman, and other details of the ssle also will be made known later, Lenten Services In New Hackensack Three Lenten services are be ing planned for the New Hacken sack Reformed church with the Rev.

Delmer Cooper, minister, officiating The churrh choir, under the direction of Mrs. Dorothy copper, will assist with the services. The first servirje is 4iriiiUri for Sunday, Feb, IB, at 4 o'clock. wnn mere will be Lenton Narrative" vespers, whlch were in augurated at the church, last year Vl uus service, Mr Cooper will give a dramatic reading of the Len.ten narrative, harmonizing various versions and episodes from the gospels and portraying characters involved The readings will be interspersed with anthems ancongrrgatlonal hymns The reading will close with an original epilogue of Mr. Cooper's On Palm Sunday.

March 23 also at 4 o'clock. Charles Doty, founder of the Poughkeepsle Audio society, will give a vesper program of Lenten music The program will include "The Good Friday Spell." from "ParUfal," Wagner and "The Seven Last Words," DuBols. There will be narration by Mr Cooper On Thursday night, March 2fl, at 7 45 o'clock, the annual candlelight Communion service of the church will be conducted. It will preceded by special hjmns and antnems. More To Attend ORT Birthday Dinner Additional reservations have been made known for the 'Sweet 16" birthday dinner of the I'ough atriuie cnapier, vv American OUT.

Tuesday, at Flan nery's restaurant Among those planning to attend are Mrs hra ham Aaron Mrs Albert Adler Mrs Oscar Rlrnbaum. Mrs Harold Beller, Mrs Itavmond Cantor Mrs Samuel Checker, Mrs Dorfman, Mrs Jacob Effron Mrs Kovvena raxen Mrs Paul Grauer Mrs Benjamin Click. Mrs Max Ganser Mrs Harry llaffner, Mrs Arnold Haven, Mrs Isaac Kolme Mrs Nathan Kaplan, Mrs Morris Kaplln, Mrs Benjamin Lerner, Mrs Benjamin Lipton, Mrs Benjamin Mclster Mrs lbcrt Mrs Hy Miringoff Mrs Sol Ncustat M's Leonard N'cwman, Mrs Ben Jamin l'rkarskv Mrs Theodore Rlmak Mrs Jacob Rubin, Mrs Morton Seiden Mrs Lewis Sack' Mrs Samuel Satlnsky Mrs Sidney Sldflmsjl jinH 1t II Cinch to sew this pretty "prin i Vever cess style wntn nign or low neckUne' No fitting problems II It's your favorite wrap aroundr opens flat for Jiffy ironlnjf too' loure sure to want several versions in gay summer cottons make a handv cobbler apron too' Pattern 4677 Misses' Sues 12 14 16. 18. 20.

30. 32 36. 38. 40, 42 Size 16 takes jards 35 lnch This pattern easy to use, simple to sew Is tested for fit Has complete Illustrated Instructions Send Thirty five cents in coins for this pattern Sdd cents f6V each pattern for lst class mailing. Send to ANNE ADAMS, care of 138 Pattern 243 West 17th St.

New York 11 Y. Print plainly, NAME. ADDRESS with ZONE, SIZE and STYLE NUMBER. Janice IJllderbrand Celebrates Blrtbdsy Janice Ann Hilderbrand was the guest of honor st party Saturday at her home In Hugh sonville, in celebration of her fourth birthday Refreshments were served, including a large cake. Among those attending were Patrick Cafaro, Donna Marie Cafaro, James Halpin, Donald Kane DIanne Hilderbrand, Wayne David Burnett, Carolyn Blasotti, Barbara Jo Tur co, Marlene Fredericks, Nicholas Fredericks, Mrs.

Raymond Fries, Miss Anna Fries, Mrs. Nick Caf. aro, Mrs James Halpin, Mrs. Don ajd Kane, Mrs John Blasotti. Mrs Francis Burnett, Mrs Anthony Turco, Mrs.

James Fredericks, Mrs Paul Relyea and Mrs, Raymond Hilderbrand. Ilentt' Jolly. Alls Schedule Social Night Hentz' Jolly All! will conduct a social night tomorrow at the Smith Street center, 221 Smith street The event is slated for 7.30 with Mrs. Jennie Keilerhouse and Mrs Jennie Ifpntt In charge Eleanor Roosevelt My Day NEW YORK As is my custom I went to Hyde Park very early Monday morning, January 30,. which is my husband's birthday.

President Elsenhower had ask ed the Superintendent of West Pdint Military academy, Lieutem ant General B. Bryan, to lay a wreath on my husband's crave The National Foundation for In fantile Paralysis sent up Its wreath, which was put in place by two children the polio child on clutches and the first child to be Inoculated with the Salk vaccine. Then the Hyde Park Home club laid its wreath, one of the oldest members, Moses Smith, officiating with our rector Mr Gordon Kidd. sayings a prayer The weather was kind and though the ground was wet it did not rain hard during the ceremony We managed to have 14 for lunch and then I dashed back to New York to attend an executive committee meeting for the American Association for the United Nations. NOT LONG AGO a member of Congress asked me my position on the school construction bill and the amendment making It explicit that no money should go to any segregated school.

It would seem to me. in the light of the1 Supreme cpurt decision, that no federal government money could go to a school that practiced discrimination, because it has been decided that under the Constitution segregation Is discrimination. Therefore. an amendment should be unnecessary, but I can understand the desire to make doubly sure It seems to me, as an individual not running for office and not having any responsibility except to make clear what the principles are that I believe In that I would approve the inclusion of this amendment. I would want to make It perfectly clear that the federal government must, as long as the Supreme court decision has been made, live up to it In the distribution of money for school buildings or lor school maintenance.

I CAN UNDERSTAND the position ot people, however, who feel that the school construction bill is so Important for all the children ot the country that they do not want It held up by an amend ment that would bring about a filibuster on the part of Southern Democrats In Congress And this would, of course, be encouraged by the Republicans because It would prevent much legislation Men should be passed, from get ting through. This undoubtedly would be welcomed, as the Republicans would feel that the Democrats 'the Southern Democrats) are taking the responsibility for creating a Congress in which other needed legislation is neglected and that would be bad for the Democratic party, as wll as for the country as a whole. Like so many things, this is not "ja simple question and one won ders If 11 might be possible to meet it in any other way. But I have decided that In the long run It Is more important to us as a nation to show the world that we believe In equality of opportunity, that we realize that any kind of segregation is discrimination whether it comes about because of race, eolor, or creed. that we are determined to show the world that we believe In the things we preach (Copyright.

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The' bride elect, a graduate of Royal Oak Mich High school Is employed at IBM. LMi. Besslmer was graduated from Arlington High school and now is employed at the E. Grant Co. No date has been set for the wedding.

Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat Some of Our family prefer i annea wnue aspara fjus Ruth Mniett We, The Women Couplet don't have to agree all the time In order to have a happy marriage. But If they are going to quarrel they ought to abide by a few gentlemanly, rules. One, Any quarrel should be confined to the incident that starts it. Dragging old arguments, disagreements, and disappointments into i new argument is what leaves bitter tsste and a sense of disillusionment. Two.

Traits of character shouldn't be attacked. While you may get by with telling a man you think he Is making a mlitake in a certain Instance you won't get by with telling him he has poor Judgement Three. Neither the husband or the wife should drag the other's family into a quarreL It isn't tcsy to" either forget or forgive unkind things said about ones family however true they may happen to be. Four. It It better to say exactly what you mean than to use sarcasm The sthig of sarcasm lasts much longer than plain and honestly angry reproaches.

Five. A couple should never quarrel before" a third perton. It is harder to forgive harsh words' that have been overheard by someone else Six. Neither husband nor wife should be. ashamed to say, "I'm sorry" snd try to make up a quarrel.

It doesn't matter who started it or who is In the wrong The one who calms down first should say, "I'm sorry Seven. This is, the most important rule of all Once It Is over, a quarrel should be put out of thie mind and never mentioned again. It isnt quarreling that ruins marriages but nursing grudges afterwards Whethef or not a quarrel clears the air or leaves a lasting hurt depends largely on whether or a couple follows these rules for fair fighting raVMPAFnrnllc ffth. Sfl pnmnrnTtvlsa ktt. I Win kill Wllstf viftifavaiajsft; 41 aa Dotn Kinds but of course, not at the same time.

We Just received case of California white asparagus. Here are two ways we serve it Asparagus Amandine (Makes 6 servings) One half cup butter or marga rlne, melted, Vt cup chopped blanched almonds, 2 tablespoons chopped parsley, V4 teaspoon monosodlum glutamate, 2 tablespoons lemon Juice, 2 No. 300 cans California white asparagus, salt and pepper. Combine butter or margarine, almonds, parsley, monosodlum glutamate and lemon Juice Cook over low heat 10 minutes. Meanwhile, heat asparagus separately to serving temperature.

Drain. Place on hot platter and sprinkle with salt and pepper Pour almond sauce over It. Asparagus Cheese Bake (Makes 4 servings) Four slices toast, cut In half. No. 300 can California white asparagus, drained, 2 tablespoons butter or margarine 2 tablespoons all purpose Hour, teaspoon salj, Mi teaspoon pepper, I cup milk.

i cup fine dry bread crumbs, 1 cup grated processed unecmar cheese labout 'i pound) Arrange toast In lightly greased 0x9x2 lnch baking dish top. with asparagus. Melt butler or maga rlnc, add Jlour salt and. pepper ana Diena uradually add milk Alicia Hart Beauty Hints Drooping lines maj be becoming on a willow tree, but Jhey won't do for women At the Market Babies are booming Large families seem to be back in style these days, and these babies bring big business Millions of dollars worth of farm products are channeled into baby foods each year Fruits, vegetables, meat and poultry products mak'e up most of the Ingredient' materials. Some tuna fish Is also packed as strained baby food, and milk and eggs make custards and puddings for the carriage trade.

The baby food business has grown to adult' size In the last 20 ears br so when processed baby food first appeared In grocery stores Since that time a great variety of baby foods have found their way Into homes Good news spreads fast the baby food business expanded by leaps and bounds From the original dozen In 1939 the number of processed baby foods has soared to morjf than 70 today In addition to Strained foods for babies you'll find Junior foods, usually marked "chopped" for youngsters who can manage food with a oarSer texture Among the wide nrai aril tpnrrnrr.n innir in mirror, they'd see what this dn means containing fruits help Some women stand and walk as though they'd been, left out In a hurricane. They carry too large handbags on the end of to give jour baby variety in this department. Peaches. pears applesauce, bananas and prunes, tike most vegetables, are packed both In 4 34 ounce Jars, strained DESSERTS' Custards and puddings provide time saving desserts that are mildly sweetened and fjavored The year round availability of processed baby foods makes them a favorite with many mothers Uniformity in tex. ture and flavor also makes a hit with mothers who think that this helps In teaching Baby to like new foods Try to forget your personal prejudices when you buy food for the baby The large variety of frultsvegeUbles meats, desserts and cereals on the market vhelf can help establish good eating habits for your child Read the labels carefully They list the Ingredients in the jar the amount contained and suggestions for heating and storing When you shop, ask the grocer to separate strong flavored or highly perfumed items such as cheese onions or detergents, from baby cereals Precooked cereal for Baby often comes in a "breathing" package and will easily ab sorD oaors 114 Members As the new member enrollment campaign of the local YMCA enters its final week, 114 members have been recorded towards the goal of 200, It was made known at a dinner meeting last night at the building Donald Badgley, membership chairman, presided Talks were given by Dean II Tempje, general secretary, and Frank Ley erle.

president of "the "Y's" board of directors Team captains reporting were Mr Leyerle. Alexander Goldberg, Leif Tellerfsen. Louis Santopa dre, Willard Rlvenburgh and Robert Sedgwick Mr Leyerle's team is ahead with 43 new members The enrollment campaign opened Jan 11 and Is scheduled to end at the YMCA annual meeting next Thursday Angelo Patri HelpChild Control Hand Alice Brooks Designs ii ume mature women unuM give themselves a god. unreJ 2 Lt cuy Eten i awn orivire jssnriaznn lAm, Demonstration Dept I No, I I Size Name i i in ounci turn Hn VZ m. Baby, and In 8 ounce Jars for weight t0 maSSlVe "Junior" Mixtures of fruits with Jre1 nd taplocs, and frlut pud IUC S9 they were under the weight of a i perpetual load of groceries 'l Their torsos collapse like wet I paper sacks.

I In some cases, the effect' is I completed with a Bern that's fall 'ling out or a coat that hanes down I further In the front than in back dings mys save vou the time needed to strain fruits and desserts for th'e little ones Strained orange Juice inH ounce can? Is also available. MEATS. FISH AND POULTirrfel lS35 PRODUCTS Meats available in clude beef, pork, lamb, veal, liver, esc Today's Birthday GEORGE HALAS.born Feb. 2. H9S.

in Decatur, III. Formerly ii a it StS? i mmm coach of the Chicago Bears pro football team, he retired as coach lsyed foot all under Coach Bob Zuppke at 1111. Street Address 1 viuutr um, porn, umu, veair Jbecause of the stooped posture. Kesri Vomh nn. th.

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