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I It I (3 3 11 ft 7T "rsfw' il e.i; 'Jl. I I (' A Jaw yA" POUGHKkEPSllNEty YORKER DCAR MOS DDC: Bctort nuw rltft 1 Worked as a stenographer; after msTrtage I acceded tof par husband's wienie tad girt vp my Job. IfW'J health will not'ptr. nit Urn to was 'and; of count, ht lua contented to my returning to was glsd to do never pttlfitng what lnsurmount ablt batriert lay in tha Way. lam lafay foHte (act which ellm lnates mt front earning living.

I Would Whanpy to do anything, but aai 'not acceptable for office work, and find anything 1m 1 either. I don't look or feel old. my work hat always been satisfactory, nr character is outstanding. My ait Important my capabilities iiegiigibitv TRAINED WANTED ANSWER: Granted. Iff mora difficult for a woman In her And a Job than it la for a girl of 20.

However, U'a anything but Impossible. True, the older woman must work a good deal harJer In seeking a position, but once the hat it, her obvious advantagei are well anoreciated. In fact there are many flelda In which the more mature woman It preferred. naVe'yodJeoniutted your itate emnloynient service? These agen cies specialize In the dlfflculUo place person. The tact that you art a trained worker in a field that's always In demand is in your ftTor.

If you think your shorthand has becomarusty over the years, take a refresher course at any bus iness school to bring up your need vDont adopt a defeatist at titude: somewhere there's a Job for you though it may take a little stick te iuveness to una k. Have you considered setting up a business for yourselfr If you have any talent this Idea offers possibilities. There's a very fine book 'published by Whittlesey House in New York, called. "How Ta Make Montr At Home." The author Is Polly Webster, and the book testa 83.00. It's chock full of ideas.

Most Important of all. get over the Idea that the 40't art the no tnan'a land of business. I've known women in their K0t who started back to work so there's surely hope for you. DEAR MISS DIX: I'm very puttied about the boys my girl friend and I go with. We've known them about two years; and they art both fine, decent boys.

They are about 20 and we're 15. They take us out once or twice a' week then on week ends they're always working on cars. We know they dont go with other girls because they live near us and, we tee them working. A.H. ANSWER: There are.

three possibilities for the behavior of your friends. lA Perhtps they aren't as overwhelmingly interested in the opposite sex as you girls are. They may not have the money to take you out as often as you'd like, to go. This it the the theory I favor, they may consider can more fascinating than females. Many a tirl has Jier.

chief rival In a motor. The' attitude. is understandable, too. After all. a bey can understand a machine! Don't be boneless about the situa tion, thoush: eventually feminine wiles lure, them from the garage, to just be patient.

DEAR MISS DO; I have been writlnc to a boy in Japan tor al most a year. We dated before he left, and it wasnt "Just another date." Lately, however, he doesn't write for two or three weeks; but he doesnt write to his mother, either. He says it's because he works all day, then goet out with hit buddies at night Do you think he still cam? NAM ANSWER: Suppose yon with hold Judgment until the boy comes hameT Keen on writlnc; but don't nag him about hit negligence in that respect (Released by The Bell Syndicate, kaaaaaa alaaaaaaealaW 'VaakaaaH aaaaaWi aaaaaawaw? aaaatststsi saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaK TnnnnV 'VVm v. aaaaaaaaT veV. aaaBtHltfaV kLaaH LLLW jl aHk raaal aaaaBBBV sVtZSr BaaaVasaPT ES JtLBBBH S'bbbbbbb1 BBBKllliBBBVljBBBam'BBH aaaT').

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The Rev. Earl T. Spencer and the Rev. Dr. Philip Allen Swartz officiated.

PBRSOHALMENtlOff Mr. and Mrs. Thomas P. Michael, 48 Manitou avenue, art registered at the Berry House, at Lake Wlnnepesaukee, N. IL Theresa Contarino, Matten road.

Pleasant Valley, la a patient in Vassar hospital.1 Mr. and Mrs. George' Ellal stead, Elmtndorf drive, left vera Sunday for two weeks', tour of New England and. Canada. They will spend tome Una at Old Or chard Beach, Me.

Mist Clara Obertt 34 Sooth Perry street returned from a day vacation at Atlantic axr, n. 4, Mr. and Mrs. William T. Totter.

Ancram. and Mr. and Mrs. Edmund Ham. Rhinebeck.

spent last weekend visiting at Provlncetown, Capt Cod. Mrs. Helen Whitley and Miss Lee Miller, 88 Noxon street art vacationing at Orlando, ria. Mrs. Joseph Volnick 8 Noxon street it a patient in Vassar hospital Mrs.

Dorothy Mantt 88 Washington street is a patient In Vassar hospital where she underwent an operation yesterday. Mr. and Mrs. Richard Hart and children and Mr. and Mrs.

Wayne VanBenschoten and children, Hil da. Wayne and Georxe Traver arc vacationing for the week at Requeue Lake and Golden Beach. In the Aaironaacjcs. Miss Lockwood's Engagement To John S. Oakley Announced Miss Eastwood Becomes Bride Donna Dee Swarts Celebrates Birthday Donna Dee' Swartz, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Philip Gleason Swartz, Vassar View road, who observed her eighth birthday. Sunday, was hostess at a dinner party at her home xrom 4:30 to clock, last Saturday. There' was a program of garnet: after the dinner, when prizes were swarded. Attending, Susan Beckler, Joan and Cathy Bingham, Jeanne and Barbara Bollt Belve.

Jeanne and Lor na Caechio, Sharyn Cook, Carol Ann Dorsch, Jennie, Linda and Lorre Kllcrease, Carolyn Herri eld, Mary Lou Kerfott Viola Kondos, Margot Kovacs, Earlyn Knepka. Karen Light Susan Lockhsrt Sal ly McComb, Ann Miller. Patricia Prokupeck, Pamela' Roberts; Holly Tessdale. Rochelle Tlnkelman, Claire. Theora snd Sydney Ward and Mrs.

Ernest Amerio Swartz. "Tnaternal grandmother of theirost ess. Pleuant.Fialas Group Flaas Buffet Supper Plans have been completed by members of the Pleasant Plalna Sewing circle for a buffet sunner. 80 o'clock, Saturday night at the home of Herbert Link. Serving on the committee are Mrs.

Gladys Blake, Mrs. Anna Link. Mrs. Etvsh Welch and Mrs. Mildred Jago.

Miss Barbara Ann Eastwood. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph W. Mother.

18 School street Bea con, became the bride of Edward Cassell. son' of George Cassell. 70 Delaneld street this city, Sunday. The wedding took place at 3 o'clock in Trinity Methodist church. Beacon, with the Rev.

Wil liam Jones, pastor, officiating. The church was decorated with white gladioli and palms. "Wedding music was provided by Robert Siebert organist and Mrs. Gertrude Ahearn, this city, sang Ave Maria" and "Because." Escorted and xiven in marriage by her step father, the bride was attired In a ballerina length gown of white fashioned with a lace bo dice, manderln collar, long sleeves pointed over the wrists and a bouf fant skirt of net over satin. Her chapel length veil of nylon net tell from a lace tiara.

She carried a c.lonial bouquet of white roses and stephanotis. Mrs. James Helmlch. who at tended her sister as matron of honor, wore' an aqua strapless gown with a matching taffeta Jacket The skirt ot nylon net over taffeta; fell into tiers of ruffles. She wort a matching net tiara and carried a colonial bouquet of yel low roses.

Charles Droslntky. this city, was the best man and the ushers were Tony Marinucct this city, a cousin of the bridegroom and James Helmlch; brother in law of the bride. Mrs. Mother chose for her daughter's wedding, a navy blue dress with white accessories and a corsage of pink roses. After a reception at Moose temple, this city, the couple went to Vermont for a wedding trip.

The bride chose for trsveling, a pink nylon dress with white accessories. Her corsage was of white roses and stephanotis. The couple will reside at 82 Noxon street upon their return. The bride, who was educated in Beacon schools. Is an IBM employe and a member of the First Methodist church.

Beacon. Her husband, also' an IBM employe, was educated in local schools and la a member of Christ Episcopal He served in. the United States Uavy for seven years in World War II and in the Korean conflict He is treasurer of Pough keepsle lodge. Loyal Order of the Moose. msmmmmBm.

aVsaBtSaaMl HLli WtatitAft'iiaWN IssBT CVi aesssssssssssstjsta YHaKjaVaWl Jl ssslRrS''''V 'BKlHpflillK taHK nMasBMBWeWi. yiliaHfe 'its' HlkitH: HIPssisKfiSLni aatiHalK TTBI eBHHffiflsW1' BtHBasWcHlw' I'iyiWmtSWi 'BsaHLOFS'i a. vsaBsm'as: assstaierjassttw i "ww "srvj Tfr.it. t.ixviiij, WH9SEpXiiGBilRi rvxv 1 WEDNESDAY, 'JULY'9. Cadet William A.

Schuerman, son ot Mr. and Mrs. William Schuerman. Myers Corners road. Wap pingers Falls, a Junior at Rens selaer polytechnic institute, is one of 800 cadets who completed the six week officer training program at the ROTC summer camp.

Fort Belvolr. Mr. and Mrs. Wallace! Lockwood. Plttsford.

N. announce the en casement of their dauxhter. Geral dine, to Second Lieut John S. Oakley. He the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Mose E. Oakley, salt Pout road. The announcement was made recently at a lawn party and luncheon at the Lockwood home. Miss Lockwood Is a senior at Cornell university and a member of Alpha XI DelU sorority.

Mr. Oakley was graduated from Cornell university, class of '32, and is at present home on leave from Camp Chaffee. Arte, before leaving for. duty in the Far East He is a member of Alpha Zeta fraternity, Donald S. Herman, 20 May street and Hugh J.

Perry. 46 Manitou avenue, are vacationing In Bermuda where, they are registered at the Bermudmna hotel. Ju Srto SIMM MARRIED RECENTLY was Mrs. CHARLES L. BROWN JR, whose marriage took place July 19 in St Joseph's church.

Mill brook. She it the former Miss Virginia L. Kennedy. Virginia Kennedy Bride Of Charles Brown Jr. JuAor Members Plan Social Night Plana have.been comDleted by the Junior members of the Pough keepsle Tennis' club for a buffet supper, 9:30 Friday night at the clubhouse.

After the supper there be a business meeting, swimming and dancing. Shirley Ellis is chairman of the committee, assisted by her mother. Mrs. Walter Ellis and Alison Hor met Ann Woolf, Mlchele Levinga and Jean Mitchell. Frances Eckert Manes weaamg nans Miss Frances Ann Eckert daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Alfred Eckert Wingdale, formerly of Wapplngers Falls, has chosen Saturday as the data' lor her marriace to Lieut. Joseph ZanettL He ls the' son of Mr. and Mrs. John ZanttU, Broad Brook, Conn.

The ceremony will take place' at 10 in St Mary's church, Wapplngers Falls. There will be a reception at the Nelson House after the ceremony. Miss Eckert Is a graduate ot Wapplngers Central school and Bryant college. Providence, R. I She Is employed by IBM.

Lieut Zanettl is a graduate of Elsworth High school. Windsor Locks. Conn, and also Bryant college. Providence. R.

I. He is serving with the Chemical corps at Fort McClellan, Ala. St Joseph's church, MUlbrook. Was the scene on July 19 ot the marriage of Miss Virginia Louise Kennedy, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

James Kennedy, MUlbrook. and Charles L. Brown Jr. Mr. Brown Is the son of Mr.

and Mrs! Brown. 486 First street Newburgh. The Rev. John Caldwell officiated at the 3 o'clock ceremony. The church was decorated with baskets of white gladioli.

Miss Jo ann Marona. organist played traditional wedding music Escorted and given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a waltz length gown of ivory lace over satin. It was fashioned with a fitted bodice, high neckline, long pointed sleeves and a full skirt ending in scallops. Her fingertip veil of Ivory French illusion was csught to a cap ot lace trimmed with seed pearls and clusters of orange blossoms. She carried a cascade bouquet ot white sweet peas, pink roses and baby's breath.

Matron ot honor, Mrs. Charles Foote. Mlneola. wore a nile ereen lLf' DaalnKtttwl ktt teiK Airnnf1ir etrenlaee mtrw matat lK ter, Mildred. 34 South Perry street a matching Jacket and full ankle are svendlnc a week's vacation at lencth skirt.

She wore a headband I Atlantic City. N. J. of white daisies and carried a cas cade Douquei oi wniie oauues ana Miss Jeannlne Slmonson and Miss Lorraine Medld. city, left by plane Sunday from New York for Miami, for two weeks' vaca tlon.

They are registered at the Hotel Sboremede. They will make a plane trip to Havana. Cuba, for three days. Miss Helen GrubJ. West street Wapplngers Falls, is spending her vacation at Lake Mahopac.

Mr. and Mrs. Charles N. Carroll and family. 18 Kingston ave nue, have returned, home from a vacation at West Yarmouth.

Cape cod. Arthur F. Ryan. Clinton Hollow, bid aa his weekend cuesta his brother in law and sister, Mr. and Mrs.

Lawrence Murphy. Beacon court. Brooklyn, and Mr. and Mrs. James Williams, also ot Brooklyn.

I Mrs. Edward Bailey, Schenectady, uw iormnuAuss oi this city, was a cuest of Mrs. Esth er Hoffman, Case court on Satur day. The Misses Catherine and Anna Relnhard. 34 South Perry street are, vacationing for two weeks at Auanuc wty, J.

Mrs. Aon Cabot Needlework New FaltsAlBmns Engaged to Wed Mr. and Mrs. James F. Maddock.

West Hempstead, L. announce the engagement of their daughter. Miss Jean Elsie Maddock, to Carl Crammer Croyder. He Is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Harry Croyder. Summit N. J. An autumn wedding is planned. Miss Maddock was graduated from New Paltx State Teachers college.

Her fiance, an alumnus of Washington and Lea university, also did post crsd uate work at the University of Minnesota. Caral Xerereas Ta be Bridesmaid. Mitt Carol Norcrbss. Red Oaks Milt will be a bridesmaid Saturday foe the weddinc ot Mist Shirley Louisa MoUet, Oxford, and Paul Stephen Greenlaw also of Oxford. The wedding will take place la the First Congregational church, Oxford.

Miss Norcross, the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John H. Norcross, was a roommate of Miss Modes at Clark university. 'K CLEARANCE Unusual Lamps Tablet CfeaJra "Noxieed to' put off any longer that" fatra special iLamp, Table or Chair, la modern or traditional the oat you've always wanted the one to add that final mark of distinction to your homo la watting for you at Millman's the low.

low price on the tag maket It the Bargain at the Year, Salt ends Monday at 6 p. m. LAMPSstartat 7.50 TABLES start at 19.95 Occasional Chairs ffl'RCORATbRS IUU ftlAIIN Bl.KE.bl iLwJFfR WnsfcT iflf 5rV Vl mWto TjssssssssasssssisaKV lh wjswiarrti Si gf wjH III Ust AbisssssssssssssssssssssssVSbbW TaVaisssssssssssssssssssilssslssssssssss9BissH 9IH1I2578 Mrs. Minnie Upton. 330 Main street and daughter Betty wert guests of Mrs.

Hamilton G. Pray, vassar road, on rnoay. Miss Gertrude Ann Shaffer, Bower road. Pleasant Valley, is spending her summer vacation in Detroit at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

Oakley Teague. They recently visited relatives in this city. Mrs. Teague is a sister of Mrs. Shaffer's and a daughter of Mrs.

Harry Baker, Quaker lane. Hyde Park and the late Harry n.frr Cadet John R. Conklln hat returned to the United Statet Military academy. West Point after spending a 28 day furlough with his parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Leland T. Conklln. VanWagner road. He attended Arlington High school and entered West Point on July 1, 1832. Mr.

and Mrs. Werner Kluge. 3S0 Church" street are vacationing in new England. Mrs. BeUe Bloomer.

46 Violet avenue, is vacationing In Long Island and Brooklyn. Mrs. Alice Holsapple. 21 Cottace street has returned home after be ing a patient In Vassar hospital baby's breath. Miss Linda CroshlerrHyde Park.

1 cousin of the bride, was the Junior bridesmaid. She wore a pale lavender organdy gown, made with a fitted bodice, cap sleeves, a sweetheart neckline and a full ankle length skirt She also wore a head band of daisies and carried a cas cade bouquet ot white daisies and babya breath. For her daughter's wedding Mrs. Kennedy chose a pale blue dress with matching hat and white ac cessories. Mrs.

Brown wore a rose Ueige lace dress over rose taffeta wltn brown complements. Both wore corsages ot talisman roses. John Mitchell. Newburgh. serv ed as the best man for Mr.

Brown. Ushering were Peter Kennedy, MUlbrook. brother of the bride and John Stanley, Newburgh. cousin of the bridegroom. After a reception at the bride's parents home, the couple left there for a wedding trip to Cape Cod.

Upon their return they will reside in Pleasant Plalna." For traveling the bride chose a pink satin pique dress with white accessories and a corsage of pink and white sweet peas. Mrs. Brown la. a graduate of Roosevelt High school and New Paltz State Teachers college, clsss of '32. She is a member of the faculty at the Ralph R.

Smith school. Hyde Park. Mr. Brown, an alumnus of Newburgh Free academy, attended Champlaln college and is also a graduate of New Paltz State Teachers college. He Is employed by DeLaval Separator Co.

and served two years in the Army in World War II. Audrey Draper Wed to Alfred Wood Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Draper. 8 North White street announce the marriage of their daughter, Audrey Bernlce, to Alfred Wood.

He Is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Wood, 9 May street The cesemony took place in the parsonage of the Trinity Methodist church at 10 o'clock. Saturday raornmg. The Rev.

w. Bernard Grossman officiating. The bride, wore a blue suit with pink accessories and a corsage of pink roses. Miss Carol Draper, sister of the bride, and the maid of honor, wore a blue suit with ted accessories and corsage of red rotes. Richard Wood served as best man for his brother.

Airs. Draper chose for her daugh ter wedding a gray dress with white accessories and a corsage ot pink roses. The mother of the bridegroom wore a rose dress with black complements and a corsage of red roses. After the reception at the bride's parents home the couple left there for a wedding trip to Utlea. Upon their return they will reside at 8 May street Mr.

Wood is employed by Fargo Manufacturing fane Smith Woo io George Lyons Mr. and Mrs. James L. Smith, East Dogwood drive, announce the Sarrlage of their daughter, Jan to George E. Lyons, ton of Mr.

and Mrs. Edward Lyons, Ntlaon vllle. The ceremony took place Saturday la the First Congregational church With the. Rev. Dr.

Philip Allen Swartz officiating. Gowned In imported Florentine lace over white satin, the bride was escorted and liven in marrl age by her father. Her gown was fashioned with a fitted bodice, Peter Pan collar, long pointed sleeves and a ballerina lencth skirt with a scalloped hem. Her fingertip veil of illusion fell from a Mary Stuart lace cap edged with teed pearls. She carried a bouquet of white roses centered with a white orchid.

Miss. Anne Mae Smith attended her sister at maid of honor with Miss Lillian Slles. city, as the bridesmaid. Their. gowns of orchid tulle and net over taffeta were designed with fitted bodices, boat necklines, cap tleevet and bouffant length skirts.

They wore matching headpieces and carried bouquets of yellow and lavender gladioli. Serving at best man for Mr. Lyons was Robert Adams, Nelson ville. Acting aa ushers wert Raymond Adams and Harry Mekeel Jr. Neisonviiie.

Mrs. Smith wore for her daughter's a blue dress with navy accettoriet and a white orchid corsage. Mrs. Lyons wore a pink dress, with blue complements and an orchid corsage. After a reception at Talbot's Inn.

Pleasant Valley, the couple left there for a wedding trip South. Upon their return they will reside in Hyde Park. For traveling the bride selected a powder blue dress with navy blue accessories and a white orchid corsage. The bride, is employed by the New York Telephone Co. She is a graduate of Poughkeepsle High school.

Mr. Lyons. Is employed by IBM and is an alumnus of Haldane KhooirCold Spring. lie serv ed two years In the Army. L4' Mqrkl LawTtnct The Mature Parent V.

Bedcon Resident's Engagement Announced Mr. and Mrs. Ryland Myrick. Beacon, announce the engagement ot their daughter. Audrey, to George Nathan Johnson, Pough keepsle.

Miss Myrick. a graduate of Bea con High school, clsss ot '32. is employed by IBM. Mr. Johnson is a graduate of Poughkeepsle High school and Lincoln academy.

N. He is employed ny tne Hudson River State hospital. No date has been set for the wedding. Anna Adams Dress Patterns Mr. and Mrs.

Arthur E. Schmah and family, have moved to their new home In Verbank. Tierney Bologna Marriage Announced Announcement Is made of marriage of Miss Mary Ann the Bo Mrs. Susan Rider and aons, John loan, daushter of Mr. and Mrs.

n.U.v.sephI4BMiln strcckJisyc. Bolnrna. New Paltz. to raurnca nomv irom iicmon spent' at Myrtle Beach, Mllford, Conn. iirs jk 'k ioik.

f'VV fl A ItlMlO mimmm laiiv msftn 1 1 liv I 111 11 filler' ItI llllli 1 jM V1 30 41 Mrs. Davison To Mark Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Theodore F. Da vison.

Staataburg. who will observe their 40th' wedding anniversary Friday, have been spending a few days in New York City. The couple was married in Hyde Park 'by the late Rev. Iramett Shew. Mrs.

Davison is the former Miss Alice E. Kidney, daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs. Robert Kld neyr' Mr. and Mrs.

Dsvison are the parents of four children including Miss Beatrice ai nome. Mrs. Lawrence Graham Jr. this city. J.

Richard Davison. Rhinebeck and Theodore e. Davison, inis city. They also have: five grandchildren. Theodore.

EV Davison Jr. Donald and Sandra Graham and Cecelia and Loretta Davison, tnis city. Mr. Davison Is custodian ot the Staatsburc school. Mrs.

Davison is a put president of the Ladles auxiliary of the Hyde Park Veterans of Foreign Wars post. Is a past president of the Ladies auxiliary of Hudson Valley lodge. Ladies Auxiliary of the Brotherhood of Railroad trainmen. this city and ot the Staataburg American Legion auxiliary. Mr.

and Mrs. Davison were entertained at dinner at Anchor inn. Sunday, with their children as hosts. BarbV it nearly three. Baby Bister, much younger, requires a great deal of laundering.

One afternoon, her mother took advantage of the bright sun to spread her washing on the back lawn to bleach. Barby became fascinated by. it After her' mother left the circled; about thf, wet clothing Until she spied Baby Slater's most admired batiste cap. She reached for It and was preparing to Jump up and down on It when her father looked up from bit lawn chair. 4 a "No!" ht said disapprovingly, "iut the cap back at once.

Poor Mummy worked hard to wash It for baby sister. Put it right ttowa like a good girt" Perceptibly, Barby hesitated. Then with her eyes on her father's disapproving face, she obeyed. Still with her eyes on his face, she squatted down beside the batiste cap, patted 'it lovingly and began to croon, 'Rockabyerbabyr on the tree top Darby's father beamed. Later, with great pride, he told his wife about this example of "sisterly devotion." It did not can for pride.

It was not an example of sisterly devotion. It was an example of repres sion 01 jealously in exchange for a father's approval. It called, not for nride. but far love. It called for physical removal ci tne Datiste cap without reproach ot any kind.

It called for a hug for a struggling child and love that could say without words to her, "Here is strength so sure thst It can make nothing ot your anger at Baby Sister." Does thU Idea flU us with Impatience? Do we think, "Oh, dear, what a mountain is Mrs. Lawrence making of a molehill How can it matter it Barby it reproached for Interfering with the laundry? What's wrong about stopping Barby from Jumping up and down on Baby Sister's best cap?" Nothing was wrong about that What was wrong wss the way It was done. Not yet three. Barby has recelv. ed a distinct impression that an unpleasant feeling Is not acceptable to her father.

He is her First irw. wnat be expects of her will Influence whst she believes all men will Want of her. If he continues to show distaste for an evidence ot unpleasant feeling in Barby, she may conclude that men are people to whom she must present a perpetually "sweet" and perfect front That Is going to be very tough on Barby. It Is very hard to lovt people with whom we cannot be our real selves. We resent such people, instead of loving them.

mars why lm not making a mountain out of a molehill today. It's why fathers must not mska little girls' "sweetness the price of their smiles. (All rights reserved. NEA Service, Inc.) Ruth MHIett We, the Women il fv The Misses Joan McKenna. Shir ley Wlrhowskl and Barbara Lesc sak spent the weekend at Saratoga Lake.

Mr. and Mrs. John A. Reed and daughter, Mary Jane, Salt Point are spending a vacation at Fred Waringa Shawnee Inn and Country club in the Pocnno Mountains, George Kelley, Hopewell Junction, is a patient In Vassar hospital. ii i i.f'.flfir.l.fj Bring a touch of late Summer Into your, house wlththlsilarge frosty white butterfly act perched on your favorite upholstered cnair.

You'll find the filet fascinating 10 crochet and will want to make another set as a gift Pattern No. 2378 contains crocheting instructions; material requirements and stitch illustrations. Send 23c tn COINS, your name, address and the PATTERN NUMBER to ANNE, CABOT, the Poughkeepsle New Yorker. 1190 Ave. Americas.

New.York Presenting the NEW Anne Cabot NeedlewJrk ALBUM. Directions for puppet mittens, basic embroidery stitches and grand designs are printed in this Issue. 21 cents. 1 VAt 1 I Mr. and Mrs.

Dominic A. Cava llerlTalrvlew avenue; are spend ing a 10 day vacation at the Cavalier club. Virginia Beach, Va. when they are members. Mr.

and Mrs. Donald Swenson and children. Paul and Donna Marie, Red Oaks Mill, are visiting relatives of Mrs. Swenson's in New Haven; and "Rockland, Mr. and Mrs.

Ray PoweV, West Cheater; Pa. wbo'are enroute north for a vacation, visited friends in this city, Monday. Mr. Powell Is a former manager of the State Theater, here. 'r lira.

xErnett Anuria. PltUfleld. UWHfAJ George Tierney, son ot Mrs. George L. Tierney, Cold Spring, on Saturday.

The ceremony took place at ciocx 10 Josepn 1 cnurcn. New Paltz. with the Rev. Father McMannln officiating. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attired in a gown of nylon tulle and lace over taffeta.

Her fingertip veil of Illusion fell from a crown of seed pearls and beads and she carried a bouquet ot white aladloll and lilies of the val ley. centered with a white orchid. After a reception at the home of the bride's parents the couple left there for a wedding trip to northern New York and Canada. They will reside in their new home in River. View Village, Wapplngers Fails.

For traveling the bride selected a white and blue dress with navy, blue accessories and a white orchid corcage. Both are employed by IBM. 4604 To a classic blouse, add a skirt that buttona on one side presto! You have a smart new outnt lor work or may! Bt of aUrti and match with other separates to revive, your weary midsummer wardrobe! Pattern1 4804: Misses' Sizes 12. 14. 16.

18. 20: 30. 32. 34. 36.

38, 40, 42. Size 16 blouse. 1H yards 30 Inch; skirt 2 yards. This nattern easy to 'use. aim pie to sew.

is tested for fit Has comoleta Illustrated instructions. Send Thirty five cents In coin for this pattern add 8 cent for each pattern for ist cisss. mailing. Send to ANNE ADAMS, care of the Poughkeepsle New Yorker, .138 pattern Dept. 2U west 17m New York 11.

N. Y. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS with ZONE, size and style number. It In marriage a little strategy often gets results where nagging falls. A wife complains that her husband never wants to make even the smallest repair around the house.

That's something to complain about, for the house that isn't in repair is soon a constant exasperation to the housewife. She has to listen to the dripping faucet yank at the door with' the broken lock, struggle with the stuck win dow, risk her neck on the shaky cellar stairs. But complaining never solves a problem. So how about that stra tegy we were discussing? Ellis Morgan Marriage Announced Mrs. Doris Morgan.

8 Fountain brook avenue, became the bride of James IL Ellis 21 Pershing avenue, Sunday. July 12. The ceremony took place on the lawn of the bride's home, at 2 clock, with the Rev. Thomas, J. Jenkins, pastor of the Second Baptist church, officiating.

The bride Is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Elle Woods of Dallas. Texss and the bridegroom, the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Willis Twyman, this city. Mrs. Alveretta Green, this city, attended the bride as matron ot Willis Twyman this city, attended his brother as best The bride was attired In a. cock tall length gown of pink net and taffeta fashioned with a full skirt trimmed with rhinestones. She wore white mitts and a white hat trimmed with rhlnestonea.

She carried a cascade bouquet of gladioli. Her matron of honor was gowned in peach colored nylon tulle over taffeta, made cock tall length with a full skirt. She too, wore white mitts snd a white hat trimmed with rhinestones snd carried a cascade bouquet ot pink gladioli. The bridegroom's mother was attired in a blue print dress with matching accessories and a cor sage of red roses. A reception was held on the lawn of the bride's home.

The couple is residing at 8 Fountain brook avenue. The bridegroom is employed by the Board of Education. If No. Slse Is soendlnc several days at theh.home of her son in law and daughter. and Mrs.

Philip Glesson Swartz, Vassar. View road. Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Stratton and daughter.

Miss Emma Strat. ton; Miss Olive Conklln and Edward Brown. 26 Franklin street are spending, the week In Ocean Grove. N.J. They are registered at the Seaside hotel.

1 Max 1 IT Street Address iome wives have foufld that ea A' couraging a man to fix up a little home worksnop can quickly cnange the man who once said "Does it hsve to be done NOW?" into a man who takes pride in his ability to fix things Just. as good as new. If there isn't room for a workshop at least see to it that your husband has a place to keep his tools all together and that he has all the ordinary tools needed for making small repairs around the house. The man who has to track down a hammer and find out which of the kids had the pliers last before he can even start to tackle a Job naturally putt off repairs at long as possible. And "then don't overlook "the fact that there are now books for the' home' handyman thttrtell in detail Just how to make the com mon renalrs around a home; "Some men may stall around when asked to play handyman simply because they don't really know how to do tne ion.

nut a man never feels he can admit that kind of Ignorance. 1 So make it etsjrf oi Tour bus 1 ihand to be the. family handyman if by seeing tolt' that he has tools ai CtfArZANC eARAVC VffArW 1 I ilxoull get further than you will City i State i IA11 rignis reserved, HORWlll Midsummer Clearance it In all seltctions art ireoL.our,jretula stotkl 3 iWEA Service, iL f. "'a pi ciht uicrrv men a Completely Air Conditioned 3 rnittittiitttMitiutt UfjkMiMlasjMsi fJV'l J' FA.