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Miss Montanaro Weil, In Syracuse To R. E. Malonhv 7 LLLLLLLLLHHIK9HHiltffiiSrhci 'Famous Person' Party Planned "By Area Council The Mid Hudson Council National Women' li planning a "Come As A Famous Person Party" for area national college sorority; alumnae and uieir husbands, it will tajte place at 8:30 o'clock on Satur day at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Jack Barnard, Fox Hill Road, Wappingers Falls.

Mrs. Newton Ruffing Is in charge of. reservations, Mrs. Daniel Perry Is the chairman of the decorations committee, and Mrs. Harold Griffith is In charge of invitations.

A luncheon meeting will be conducted on Nov. 9 at the Holiday Inn. Mrs. Jack Lawrence is in charge of this event and the election of officers for the coming year will take place at una, meeting. Arnom Studio MRS.

ROBERT MALONEY Miss Anna Carmella Monta naro and Robert Edward Ma loney were married at 11 o'clock on Saturday In Our Lady Of Pompei Church, Syracuse. The Rev. James Snyder, O.F.M., of Siena College, Albany, officiated, assisted by the Rt. Rev. Msgr.

William Walsh, pastor of Our Lady of Pompei Church. The bride is 'the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank J. Montanaro, Liverpool, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr.

and Mrs. Robert J. Maloney, 4 Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Mrs. Ann Carol Speziale, Schroon Lake, her cousin, as matron of honor and Miss Anna Toscano. Liverpool, another cousin, as maid of honor.

Other attendants were the Misses Marilyn Nye, Cortland, Joan easterly, Johnstown, Ceil Roe, Rye. Peeey Montanaro and Betty Montanaro, both of Phoe nix ana cousins of the bride, Barbara Myers. Chaooaaua. and Mary Ann Montanaro, Liv erpool, a cousin of the bride. Rose Montanaro.

Liverpool, sister of the bride, was flower girl. Michael Malonev. Poutrh keepsle, served as best man lor his brother. Usherine were. Richard R.

Blasi, Long Island, John R. Metzger, Constantia, J. Chris Newtown, Massena, Andrew N. Montanaro, Liver pool, a brother of the bride, Bruce uooic, Long Island, Ed ward Coleman, Poughkeepsle, Alien Lanoue, echoes, and Ar thur D. Kneringer, Lodi, N.J., a cousin of the bridegroom A dinner reception took place at LeMoyne Liverpool, from to 9 o'clock.

Alter a wedding trip to the Grand Bahama Islands, the couple will reside at 562 West End Hew York City. The bride is a graduate of convent Hign school in Syracuse and attended Cazenovia College, She was employed by Marine'' Midland Trust Co. in Syracuse and will continue to work in a New York City orancn. A graduate of PoUghkeepsie High School, the bridegroom received his bachelor of science degree from Siena College, Albany. He was president of Big Brothers for' three years, president of Rod and Gun Club, and director of Green Circle Society, He Is employed by Marine Midland Grace Trust Co.

of New York City and is in management training. IGS KENNETH BRIG King Wefzler Arei Married If JH if i A 'jJWSHHSsPWl! Jff fj4riamyHBftjgBJflMS MRS. WILLIAM Studlo Ttn KING Civil Liberties Panel Slated Mid Hudson Chapter of the New York Civil Liberties Union will sponsor a panel, discussion on "Ripts and Civil Liberties," at 8 p.m. Wednesday at the Unitarian Fellowship, 67 S. Randolph St.

Speakers will be Neil Fabric ant, a former Queens County assistant district attorney and now legislative director for N.Y.C.L.U., Sheriff Lawrence M. i 1 a and Merwyn Reaves, vice chairman of the United Black Council. Gayhead School Program Listed GAYHEAD InyeStigator Gil Olson of the State Police and First Assistant District Attor ney Albert M. Rosenblatt wW speak at. Gayhead Elementary School at 7 p.m..

Wednesday. They will show a film i and answer Questions about law en forcement procedures, in the Dutchess County area. GAYLE LOUIS Studio of Custom Color Photography MtMoin St. 454 6755 AAUW Board Named For Year 'Mrs. Kenneth R.

Briegs, President of the Poughkeepsie Branch, American Association of University Women, has made known the board members for the 1968 69 season. They are: Mrs. Arthur Macmahon, first vice president; Mrs. Frederick Attanasio, second vice pres ident; Mrs. Samuel Strite' treasurer; Miss Monica Gosse and Mrs.

Gregg Hiatt, assistant treasurers; Mrs. L. Wallace Cross, recording secretary; and corresponding secretary, Mrs. unnor Haugh. The area representatives are: Mrs.

Bruce B.evan, cultural in terests; Miss Mary Solemita. education; Mrs. Eugene Con roy, community problems; and Mrs. Victor Morris, world prob 1 The implementation chairmen are: Mrs. Joseph Christ, politics and public edu cation; Mrs.

Monroe Weinstein, growing gap between rich and poor nations; Mrs. Richard Fein, testing values in a chang ing society; Mrs. Richard Pierce, Society's reflection In the arts, and legislation, Mrs. Harold Behr. Other board members in clude: Mrs.

Harry Greer, arts council; Mrs. Glenn George budget; Mrs. John Smith, com munity ambassador: Mrs. Irv ing Dreishpoon, American field service; Mrs: Robert MacGuin ness, fellowship scholarship; Mrs. George Luse, Branch edi tor; Mrs.

Richard Pierce, Branch co editor; Mrs. William Stepanek, book fair; Mrs. Wil liam Heyden, hospitality; Mrs. Philip Fisher, hospitality cochairman; Mrs. Martin Marcus, directory; Mrs.

Bryan Lott, rec ords; Mrs. William Harrel, name tag chairman; Mrs. Ar. tnur Hayes, publicity: Mrs. Arthur Gellert, teacher graduate study award; Mrs.

Roger Se galla and Mrs. William Clark, Mid Hudson area conference chairmen; Mrs. Reginald Burch, study group coordinator: and Mrs. Charles Carlson, study ior action project cnairman. Modern Etiquette Q.

May you always send1 flow ers to tne lunerai home as rtwr tribute to a deceased riend, or are there times when you must send a contribution to charity Instead? A. Depends. ,11 the death no tice, in the newspaper asks spe cuicaiiy tnat flowers De omit ted, you should respect this wish. And usually in this case, the notice states that in lieu of flowers contributions be sent to such and such church or char ity. O.

Is it acceptable now to type' notes of condolence, signing them of by hand? A. While most social' corres pondence may be typed, it still is considered in better taste and more indicative' of. sincere sympathy to write letters of condolence by hand. Q.h there any polite way to rinse" your fingers at the. din ner table when mere is no fin ger bowl provided? A.

Yes by tipping the water glass against a corner of your napkin, then wiping your lingers on this damp cor ner; Q. How soon after the receipt of a 'wedding Invitation should one send one's gift to the bride? A. Any time that is con venient, but usually as soon as pdssible after receiving the Invitation. Vi Ann Landers Shoring Is Not Causing Problem Miss Linda Sue Wetzler and William Lawrence King, Al bany, were married, at 2 o'clock on Saturday in the Church of the' Messiah, Rhinebeck. The Rev.

Leslie F. Prutton officiated. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs James II. Wetzler, 17 Manor Road, Rhinebeck, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr, and Mrs.

William C. King, Ma tamoras, Pa. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Mrs. Mary Ellen Carswell of Latham, as matron of honor. Other attendants were Mrs, Diane Kingston, Miss Beverly samaha, Red Hook, and Miss Mary Lou Asher, Rhinebeck.

The bride's niece, Miss Pamela Smith of Hyde Park, was flower girl. Keith Peters, Matamoras was best man. Ushering were James King, Hudson Falls, Tommy King, Matamoras, and Richard White, Schenectady. Scott and Todd Smith, nephews of the bride were ring bearers. There was a reception at the Kitchen Restaurant, Hyde Park, immediately following the ceremony.

After a wedding trip to Freeport, the Grand Bahama Islands, the couple will reside at 30 S. Main Albany. A graduate of Rhinebeck Cen tral School, the bride Is an al umna of Albany Business College. She currently is employ ed as a secretary by the Mew York State Thruway Authority, Albany. The bridegroom is an alum nus of Delaware Valley High School and also was graduated from Albany Business College where he was a member of Delta Nu Omega Fraternity.

He is employed at Johnny Evers Sporting Goods, Albany, as the retail manager. Dear Ann Landers: I am get ting sick and tired of reading letters from wives complaining about their husbands' snoring. My husband snores loud, long and every night. So what? He 4s one of the best human beings' the good Lord ever put on this earth. When the snoring starts and my sleep Is interrupted, I lie quietly and watch him get his badly needed rest.

When I read that some women tie their husbands Jaws shut with silk stockings and stramp bi cycle horns to their heads, I I get so mad I could scream Every nieht I thank God that mis wonderful man is in OUR bed snoring. We have been married 10 years and Lhope the good Lord gives us 10 more CONTENTED Dear Con: What a lovely let ter! But while you're asking ask for 40 more, not 10, dum my! fear and guilt and self hate. It can also overcome physical complaints and fatigue and de pression. I am very poor at expressing myself but I wanted to try Thanks for reading this. NANCY Dear Nancy: I shall continue to urge people to get profes sional help, although I am well aware that not all patients obtain the glowing results you describe.

And if you were able to achieve the miracle wtm your original therapist you are fortunate. Therapy can be magic for some and Nothinssville for oth ers. I recommend professional help (or individuals who are depressed, destructive, or in continual conflict with them selves and others. Therapy that produces even moaesi results beats walking around frighten ed, guilty, mad at the world and plagued by "undiagnosed aches and pains. Dear Ann Landers: Two years ago I wrote for advice.

You said. See a psychiatrist. I took your advice and it was the most difficult thing I've ever done in my life. But it was the smartest. I can't understand why person would be ashamed to admit he has a "problem he can't handle.

Does a patient have to'be dying before he goes to a doctor? Why then should tie wait till he's ready for a straitjacket before he sees a psychiatrist? Please, Ann, continue to urge your readers to stop wasting their lives, especially the young. Psychiatry can open doors to peace of mind and contentment. It can conquer Miss Orlolano Becomes Bride Monday, October 21, 1968 Pou'ghkttpste Joumot It Medical Women Luncheon. List Dance Plans The Women's Auxiliary (o the Dutchess County Medical Socl ety will meet for a Fall Lunch eon at noon on Wednesday at the Ship Lantern Inn. Milton, Plans will be completed for "Une Nult A Ferncliff" the auxiliary's benefit dinner dance on Nov.

9. Mrs. Lloyd Kest, Mrs. William Updegraff, and Mrs. S.

Robert Watsky are In charge of arrangements for the luncheon. Edwards Odessky Rites Solemnized In Minneapolis Dear Ann Landers: I am homosexual who has had psy chiatric help and I'm as well adjusted as I will ever be. A few weeks ago I was turned down for military service. I told the truth and presented medical documentation. Now people are beginning to ask why I have not been called up by my draft board.

I've been saying, "I nave a oao back." but I'm a poor liar. It shows on my face. What should I say? STUCK FOR AN ANSWER Dear Stuck: Tell them the truth. Nobody will believe it. If a few clods persist in pressing for an answer, say, "Seriously, I've tried but they don't want me." Alica Brooks Designs 7202 'yVJjjjm jBfcalJBfcBFlKWIIjWliiiiiaiMBHBMiiiiiM Poughkitptlt Photo POUGHKEEPSIE DAY NURSERY ASSOCIATION Annual "Jelly Tea" will take place at the home of Mrs.

L. H. La Motte III, left, 40 Loockerman on Thursday from to 4 o'clock. Mrs. Robert Thorpe, right, is chairman of arrangements.

Presiding at the tea table will be Mrs. John Kuhn, Mrs. Herbert Roig, Mrs. Thomas llaufe, and Mrs. Robert Hoe.

Mrs. John Finlay will be hostess at the door. Members and guests contribute jelly to be used at the nursery during the year and a toy to be given to the children at the Christmas party at the nursery. MRS. THOMAS TOMPKINS St.

Mary's Church, Wappin gers Falls, was the scene at 2 o'clock on Oct. 12 of the marriage of Miss Patricia Ann ortoiano and Thomas W. Tompkins. The Rev. Karl Bauer offici ated.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Pasquale J. Ortoiano 12 Monitor Road, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs.

Gilbert Tompkins, MacFarlane Road, Wappingers Falls Given in marriage by her fa. ther, the bride was attended by her sister, Miss Tonia Ann Ortoiano of Poughkeepsie, as maid of honor. Bridesmaids were the Misses Nancy Cer, vone of Poughkeepsie, Jolyn Abbate of Highland and the bride groom's sister, Miss Cynthia Tompkins of Wappingers Falls Miss Maureen McAllister of Poughkeepsie was junior brides maid. Richard Costa, Wappingers Falls, was best man. Usherng were John Halpin, Boston, Edward Douglas, Poughkeepsie and, Clayton North graves, Middletown, Conn.

The bride's brother, John Ortoiano, Poughkeepsie, was a junior usher. After a reception at the Poughkeepsie Tennis Club, the couple departed' on a wedding trip to New York City. They will reside at New Hackensack Road, A 1965 graduate of Roy C. Ketcham High School, the bride is employed as a secretary at tne National Grange Mutual In surance Company. The bridegroom was gradu ated from Our Lady of Lourdes High School in 1963 and is a 1967 alumnus of LaSalle Col lege, where he' received bachelor of arts degree.

He Is employed as an executive trainee for Barclay Knitwear Company, Port Ewen. Br Miss Benjinsohh Is Wed To David Joel Levine Raised texture of leaves adds interest, luxury. Everyone will admire, this afghan. Add A Stnp Leaf Afghan knit five 9 inch strips in" 3 shades of a color, all one or contrast colors. Pattern 7202: directions, color schemes.

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Congregation Schom're Israel was the scene at 1:30 o'clock on Sunday of the marriage of Miss Judith Nan Benjinshon to David Joel Levine. Rabbi Nahum M. Benathen officiated. The bride is daughter of Mr. and Mrs, H.

Benjinsohn, 78 Worrall and the bridegroom Is the son of Mr. William Levine, 33 S. Clinton and the late Mrs. Pearl Levine, Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Miss Arlene J. Carroll, PouBhk'eepsie.

Michael J. Wrobel, Pough keepsie, served as best man. William R. Aldrich, Pough keepsie. brother in law of the bride, Charles Urbano, Poughkeepsie, and Ronald Evangelista Wappingers Falls, After a reception at congre gation Schomre Israel, the cou ple departed on a wedding trip to st.

Thomas, v.i. iney wm reside at 33 Soutfl Clinton, st, A 1965 graduate of Pough keepsie Hieh, School, the bride formerly was employed as a stenographer at Central Hud son Ga and Electric Cotd. The bridegroom was gradu ated from Poughkeepsie High School in 1962. He attended St. Bonaventure Olean, from 1962 to 1966.

He is a mem ber of Obed Lodge, Free and Accepted Masons, the American Federation of Musicians, and St, Bonaventure University Alumni Association. Mr. Levine manages the Grand Union Grandway Restaurant in Clos Ab Book No. 2 Museum Quilts patterns for .12 quilts. 50c, Book No.

3 Quilts for Today's Living: New exciting collection 15 complete patterns. Rook of Prize Afghans Knit, crochet 12 afghans 60c. Chevalier Ends Stage Career PARIS (AP Maurice Chev alier bowed out of his 68 year long stage career Sunday with a rousing performance at the Theatre des Champs Elysee. A capacity audience was on hand as the 80 year oid snow man. attired in tuxedo and straw hat, sang and danced.

He showed he can keep up'to date, too: He pantomimed such moderns as Sammy Davis Jr. and donned a Beatle wig for a pop number, complete with hip movement. He received an ova tion at the end of his perform ance. In his dressing room later, Chevalier said, "I couldn't go on doing It. first class for very much longeri Now is tne time to quit, when everyone, is asking tyr me." Parade Planned In Hyde Park HYDE PARK Amercian Legion Post 1303 will sponsor Halloween parade Oct.

31, Prizes will be awarded by age groups and refreshments will be served to the entrants. Ed ward Ryan is general chair man. MRS. JACOB MACKEY Fur Show Models Listed Mrs. Daniel Colanselo has made known additional commit tee chairmen and models for the St.

Francis Hospital Chry santhemum Bridge and Fur Show at 7:30 o'clock on Oct. 24 at Holiday Inn. Fishkiil. Mrs. Jacob T.

Mackey is in charge of tickets and table res ervations and Mrs. Thomas Spellman, co chairman. Mrs Robert Zirkel is chairman of models who are Mrs. Clarence V. Costello, Mrs.

John Deyo, Mrs. Allan Kappieyea, Mrs. William Eidle. Mrs. Henry Pletchcr, Mrs.

Joseph Butler, Mrs. John Gartland, and Mrs. Lester Parker. Other committee chairmen are Mrs. Henry Fletcher, grand prize, Mrs.

Charles Springer wun Mrs. fcdward J. Coleman, co chairmen, door prizes, Mrs. Kaiph Tortorclla Jr assisted by Mrs. Maurice Starpoli, table prizes, and Mrs.

Henry Hcalv. with Mrs. James Pallazza, co cnairman, hostesses Anne Adams Patterns JSBffl fiiffMffifPi hHHHHjH Debate Slated In Schultzville CLINTON CORNERS Ju nus ituoano, Democratic can didate for Town of Clinton supervisor, says that the Republican incumbent, Leonard Kinney, has agreed to a public debate Nov. l. The two candidates will dis cuss issues which have developed in the debate to be con ducted at the Town Hall in Schultzville.

at 8 p.m. Rubano said to his knowl edge, the exchange will be the town first outside of organiza tion sponsored sessions. MRS. JOSEPH EDWARDS Miss Judith Rae Odessky and Joseph H. Edwards, Minneapolis, were married at 2 o'clock on Sunday at Adath Jeshurun Synagogue, Minnea polis, Minn.

Rabbi Kassel Abelson officiated, assisted by Cantor Da vid Silverman. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Abe Odessky, Minneapolis, and the bridegrooms parents are Mr. and Mrs.

Raymond Ed wards, 11 Helen Drive, Wappingers Falls. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Miss Marlene Bromberg, Minneapolis, as maid of honor. Miss Wllma Edwards, Wappingers Falls, a sister of the bridegroom, was a bridesmaid. Arnold Odessky, Minneapolis, a brother of the bride, served as best man. Charles Edwards, Wappingers Falls, a brother of the ush ered.

A dinner was served in the synagogue's reception hall after the ceremony. After a wedding trip to Duluth, the couple wjll reside at 400 6th S. Minneapolis, Minn. The bride is a graduate of North High School, Minneapolis, and is attending the Uni versity of Minnesota. She is employed by the physiology de partment at the university.

A graduate of Pine Plains Central School In 1961, the bridegroom received an asso ciate in applied science degree from Dutchess Community College in 1964 and a bachelor of civil engineering degree from the University of Minnesota in 1967. He Is a member of the American Water Works Association and the Water Pollution Control Federation. He current ly is a graduate student Di san itary engineering at the uni versity and Is a student engin eer at the Minneapolls St. Paul Sanitary District. French Director Changes Mind LONDON (AP) French film director Jean Luc Goddard, scheduled to lecture before 500 British fans Sunday, did not show up but sent a telegram.

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