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of THURSDAY, MAY 27, 1948 TWENTY POUGHKEEPSIE NEW YORKER Dorothy Dis Letter Box correspondent anka: "What your opinion of the effect it would have on children growing up in home where the father never speaks to the mother because he his fallen In love with another woman?" Undoubtedly a very bad thing for children to be reared in a home where the atmosphere is poisoned by the disagreement of their father and mother, but how much they will be injured by it depends upon the wisdom and the strength of their mother. There are women who know their husbands to be unfaithful to them, whose hearts are broken by the knowledge that their husbands have ceased to care for them and whose prides are humbled into the dust the affronts. that are offered them, set who, for the sake of giving their children good home that their father can supply them and the advantages of education and soelal position that he could give them and they could not, somehow manAge to carry on and keep their homes bright and cheerful in spite of what they are personally suffering. In such cases the mother hides from the children their father's sin and weakness. Sometimes she even big enough to tench her children to respect their father, and love him, for very often a bad is good father.

But it takes a woman with the spirit of a martyr and the courage of a hero to do this. HALF SACRIFICES BAD, TOO women are big enough to make whole sacrifices. Most of them make half sacrifices. For the sake of their children they condone their husbands' infidelities to the extent of not leaving him and not breaking tip their homes. Then they revenge themselves indulging In neverending quarrels with him and by bitter and Jealotis recrimination Often a mother will even tell the children of the wrong their father has done her and make them fierce partisans of herself.

There can be no question of the harm that is done children who are brought up in a' home where there is perpetual strife and wrangling tween their parents, and where they are taught by precept and example to dishonor them both. Such family scenes sear a child's very soul in its infancy. They burn up all belief In everything good and fine. Untimely knowledge of passions for one too young to understand make It cynical and hard. Listening to the mother's charges against the father and the father's accusations against the mother slays all respect for both, and home comes to be a place, of torment and discord from which it escapes soon as it possibly can.

The effect of these unhappy homes upon the children is written. in the police records of our eities. Statistics show that from them come the great majority of the boys and girls, who go astray. (Released by The Bell Syndicate, Inc.) Eleanor Roose My Day NEW YORK- Arabs have rejected the United Nations appeal for cense-fire in Palestine. This being the case, it seems to me quite clear that they have become aggressors against the Jews.

I saw the other day that the British had declared their intention under their treaty obligations, to send arms to the Arabs until the United Nations should declare the Arabs aggressors. it that is the case, it would: seem that our embargo on shipping arms to the Near -East would help the Arabs and doom the Jews to sure defeat, for men without proper equipment cannot successfully oppose men with modern war equipment. I think the Arabs ought to weigh very carefully their next step, for it seems to me inevitable that sanctions will be imposed upon them and that our embargo on arms to the Jews will be lifted. As one watchen the efforts to work through the United Nations, one is more and more convinced that without an army the organisation 15 unable to enforce its decisions and that, with or without atomic control. it had better get an army constituted with such mechanisms as the world now knows about.

That might help the United Nations at least to gain some attention from groups such as the Arab League when a request is made. The British stand in all this seems difficult to understand. However, one thing. in the whole confused picture, da clear. There is unity and singleminded purpose among the Jewish people.

Their willingness to sacrifice for the land they have created of the desert is curiously reminiscent of all other pioneer movements where people have tried to establish themselves in new places and to flee oppression and interference elsewhere. The vast majority of Jews in Palestine seem to have this spirit. NOW THAT the primaries in Orecon are over, I think it is time to mention our reactions to the argumenta that came out of the mouths of the campaigning Republican candidates. I for one became more and more convinced that the Mundt Bill. is a bad bill.

It might help to repress few. Communists but, at the same time, it might make it impossible to create a third party at some future time and might prevent such a party from functioning. Even the Republican or the Democratic party might be outlawed if there was desire to do so. I am beginning to feel that repress sive measures that arise out of fear are not the proper motivation for legislative action. It might be well for us to clarity our thinking on democracy, and to make sure that everything that takes place fn communities conforms to the best interesta of the citizens as a whole, and is tree of any tinge of Fascism.

Communism or any other totalitarianiam. To start trying to keep down the free expression of thought is to follow the very course which We condemn in totalitarian governments. I hope the Senate will have enough faith in the people of the United States to bury the Mundt Bill and to trust to the ability of our citizens to defend democracy whenever they find it jeopardized. R. (Copyright 1846, by United Ayndicate, Inc.) Crum Elbow Club Members To Attend Bear Mt.

Meeting Five members of the Crum Elbow Garden club will attend the annual summer meeting of the Hudson River Conservation society at Bear Mountain inn, June 1, it WAS reported at a meeting of the club last night held at, the home of. Mrs. Dudley N. VanKleeck, Ruskey lane, Hyde Park. They Include Mrs.

Clifford Barker, president; Mrs. Eric Voss, Mrs. Ernest 'I. Hatfeld, Miss Emma Link and Elizabeth Ring. Plans allot were made to send representatives to the annual meeting, of the Third District of the New York State Federation of Garden' clubs, scheduled Wednesday, June 2.

in the Second Reformed church, Coxsackie. They will be Mrs. Ring and Mrs. Hatfeld. Members plan to participate in the horticultural show at the Dutchess County fair.

Rhinebeck, in August, and tentative plans were discussed for this exhibit. The club accepted an invitation from the Rhinebeck Garden club to enter an arrangement in Its annual flower show, to be held Friday, June 11, in the Town Hall, that village. The theme of the show is "Three Centuries of Rhinebeck." including the 18th. 19th and 20th. Mrs.

Marquis Morse, Mrs. Hatfeld and Mrs. Voss were appointed to create an ar-1 rangement for a small niche at this show. Yesterday, afternoon group members attended the meeting of the Rhinebeck Garden club when Mrs. M.

Cochrane Cole spoke on "Floral Color Magic." The next meeting, will be In the of hike and picnic, with 'Mrs. Eric Voss, Pleasant Plains, as hostess. The members will meet at the Voss home at 12 noon. A hike will be conducted through the woods where the various wild flowers and plants will be identifed. The members will take box lunches.

Attending the meeting were Mrs. Fred. Barker, Mrs. Clifford Barker, Mrs. Frank -Battenfleid, Mrs.

Robert Hatfleld, Mrs. Ernest I. Hatfield, Mrs. Elizabeth Ring, Mrs. David Ring.

Mrs. Charles Sauerwein, Mrs. Voss. Mrs. Morse, Mrs.

Karl Seelbach, Mrs. Lee Sampson, Mrs. Waring Mikell, Mrs. John H. Link, Miss Link and Mrs.

William Robert Wood. Miss Polk Honored At Bridal Shower Miss Lillian Conner and Mrs. Charles Glancey were co-hostesses at a personal shower given Monday night at the latter's home, 21 Roosevelt avenue, in honor of Miss Betty Polk, who will become the bride of James Gallagher May 30. Attending were Mrs. Earl F.

Spencer. Mrs. Louis Polk Mrs. Edwin Fitchett Mra. Jerome Simmons Jr.

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Joseph Vantella, 11. Mildred avenue, is in New York City, where she attended the musical production given last night at the Juilliard School of Music. Her daughter, Miss Florence Vantella, who is majoring in piano and voice, played tole in the show. Miss Minna Scott has returtled to her home, Peckham road, after visiting in Miami, as the guest of Mrs. Mary Quimby.

wife of Charles Quimby, member of the Poughkeepsie Chiefs team. Robert Birnie, Van Wagner road. is patient at St, Francis' hospital, where he underwent An operation Tuesday. Mrs. Bessie McCagg.

458 street, is ill at her home. Alderman Philip J. Amodeo attending an dinner of the Brotherhood of Railroad. Trainmen in the Interstate Harbor Territory, today at the Hotel Pennslyvania, New York. Ralph K.

Higinbotham, Moores Mitis, a student Chicago Academy of Fine Arta, will present his work In costume designing during the four day 47th annual exhibit and fashion parade 'of the school set from. June through June 6. Miss Jean Phyllis Ward, WashIngton, D. former resident of this city, will visit her parents. Mr.

and Mrs. Albert Ward, 18 Gray street, over the holiday weekend. She will have as her guest, Miss Vivian -Kelleher, Jamaica, L. I. MiAS Ward is employed by the Navy department Bureau of Ordnance.

Research and Development in Washington. Two students from this area are candidates for two-year certificates from Champlain college including Douglas Fraleigh, 124 Thompson street, who has been studying preengineering, and Robert J. Hussey, Wappingers Falls, business administration. Mrs. E.

Smith MacDougal, who has been ill at her home, 130 Hooker avenue, the last two weeks, 'is tmproving. Her daughter, Mrs. Richard Legg, Alabama, came north to be with her. Mrs. John Colucci, 52 North Bridge street.

is patient in St. Francis' hospital. Ross U. Robinson, a Junfor at Colgate university, has been initiated into Colgate's chapter of Delta Phi Alpha, national honorary German fraternity. The chapter has become reactivated after a lapse of six- years.

Mrs. Harold A. Benson. 38 Loockerman avenue, and her son-in-law and daughter, Mr. and Mrs.

William F. Sherman Brooklyn, will spend the holiday weekend at Lake Piaeco: Mr. and Mrs. Brooks Fisher and daughter, Carol Brooks. Canandalgua, were recent visitors with Mrs.

Fisher's cousin, Miss Katherine Wetmore, 125 Main street. Mrs. Fisher 1s the former Miss Catherine Carroll of this city. Mr. and Mrs.

Gifford R. Beal and family, have moved into their home at 54 South Randolph avenue. They previously resided in the South road. Mr. and Mrs.

Herman J. Trudell, 46 -Worrall avenue, entertained AS their guests the past two weeks Mr. and Mrs. Jerome Hahn, New York City, and Mrs. Olive B.

Potain, Tupper Lake. Dr. Bair to Speak At PTA Conference Dr. Frederick Bair, chief of the Bureau of Curriculum Development, Secondary division of the New York State Department of Education, will be guest speaker for the Metropolitan District, New York State Congress of Parents and Teachers, the annual spring conference scheduled June 1 at the County Center, White Plains. His topic will be "Where Are We Going?" Six hundred representatives are expected from in Dutchess, Westchester and Putnam counties.

Garden Clubs Hear Talk by Mrs. M. C. Cole Mrs. M.

Cochrane Cole was guest speaker at a meeting of the Rhinebeck Garden club held yesterday in the auditorium of Rhinebeck Town hall. The speaker Illustrated her lecture on "Floral Color Magic," with arrangements. Among the guests were members of surrounding Garden clubs, who were invited to attend. Refreshments were served after the meeting. Special arrangements featuring color, were exhibited by Mrs.

P. Palmer Hart, Mrs. Chester E. McCahan, Mrs. Walter Schrieber and Mrs.

"Gordon D. Voorhis, Red Hook, and Mrs. H. Henry Staley and Mrs. Robert F.

Gay, Rhinebeck, all exhibitors at the International Flower shows in New York City. Mrs. Edward Schoonmaker Honored at, Surprise Shower Mrs. Edward Schoonmaker was given a surprise variety shower recently by Mrs. Helen Schoonmaker, at the nome of Mrs.

Carl Wool, Dover Plains. Among those tending were Dorothy Senk, Emma Carey, Edith and Rose Wool. Theresa LaRusso, Josephine Lambasis, May Farmer, Ida Sherm, Jean Manochi, Ses Herdman, Viola Gray, Stella Houseworth, Margaret Marinon, Janet Schoonmaker and Marie Lambasia Thomas V. McGrath Jr. Baptised in 8t.

Mary's Thomas Vincent McGrath son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas V. MeGrath, was baptized Sunday in St: Mary's church. Miss Dorothy Carlock and Vincent McGrath, who attended Mr.

and Mrs. McGrath, when they were married. were sponsors for the child. A reception for 50 WAS held after the service at the home of Mr. McGrath's parenta, Mr.

and Mrs. Edward McGrath, 12 Fulton avenue. EN GAGED TO WED 18 Miss MARY DE FRAIA, 48 Taylor avenue. Her engagement to Thomas Parise. 76 North Bridge street, was made known today.

Mary DeF raia's Betrothal Made Known Mr. and Mra. Louis De Fraia, 48 Taylor, avenue, announced the gagement of their daughter, Mary, Thomas Parise, son of Mr. and Mrs. Ahmend Parise, 76 North Bridge street, on Sunday, the occasion being the 5 birthday.

Both attended local schools. Miss De Fraia is employed by Gottlieb Brothers and Mr. Parise is with the Kem Card Co. No date has been set for the wedcling. Marilyn Piester Honored at Shower Miss Marilyn Plester, 20 Virginia avenue, was guest of honor at a persona1 shower given Tuesday by Miss Beverly Sheldon, 6 Harrison- street.

The guest of honor, an employe of Western Printing and Lithographing will become Rockville the Center, bride of L. Robert Martin, I. June 27 In vited guests included Mrs. Martin Slattery, Mrs. Peter Piester, Mrs.

Douglas Hamilton, Mrs. Roy Parkton, Mrs William Piester, Mrs. George Sheldon, Mrs. James Herrman.n, Mrs. Wendell Plester, the Misses Claire Erts, Gertrude Lemock, Virginia Cooper, Winifred Briggs, Merry Frattura, Mary.

Davis, Patricia Nelson, Lonnie Bocchino, Ann Labor, Helen Bocchino. Marion VanNorstrand, Parker, Margaret Thoben, Betty Hetsler, Doris Rogers and Jeanne Piester. Shelagh Dean's Engagement Announced and Mrs. Announcement John Dean, is 9 made Morgan by Mr. avenue, of the engagement of: their daughter, Miss Shelagh Dean, to William Russo, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Carmine Russo, 4 Charles street. No date has been set for the wedding. Miss Dean attended St. Mary's school and was graduated from Poughkeepsie: High school, class of '47.

She is employed in the office of the Western Printing and Lithographing Co. Mr. Russo attended local schools and is also employed by Western Printing. He served in the Navy during the war. Ebersezer Society Te Serve Dinner Members of the Missionary society of the Ebenezer Baptist church will serve a turkey dinner tonight at the church beginning at 5:30 o'clock.

Members of the Ever Ready Chorus will give a program at 8:30 o'clock. Mrs. Pearl Robinson is president of the society and the Rev. Charles E. Bird, pastor of the church.

Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat Tongue is about the most economical meat. But give It character with herbs and almonds. Then for less money you'll have more good food. Smoked Beef Tongue With Sweet and Sour Sauce One smoked beef tongue, 1 teaspoon allspice. Soak tongue several hours or overnight.

Cover with cold water, add allspice. Simmer, covered, approxiI mately three hours or until very tender. Trim off roots and slip off all skin. Save 2 cups stock. Keep hot.

Sauce One tablespoon or goose fat (preferred), 1 tablespoon flour, 1 medium onion, chopped fine, 2 cups beef tongue stock, 1 lemon, finely sliced and quartered, cup sliced, blanched almonds, cup raisins, 2 cloves, teaspoon cinnamon, teaspoon vinegar, 1 tablespoon maple syrup. 4 tablespoons sugar (cooked over low heat until liquefed and brown), caramelized. Put fat in saucepan, stir in four, add onion and cook, stirring five minutes. Add bouillon gradually and boll five more minutes. Add lemon, almonds, cinnamon, raisins, cloves and vinegar.

Sweeten with caramelIzed sugar and maple syrup. Cook 45 minutes until sauce la well reduced. Place tongue in sauce, boil together, basting tongue for 20 minutes. Remove tongue, slice and serve covered with the sauce. Tongue Mousse One tablespoon gelatin, cup cold water, cup beef broth or bout lion, cups cooked tongue, minced (leftovers are fine), 1 tablespoons green pepper, minced, 1 teaspoon dry mustard, tablespoons onion, grated, 2 tablespoons parsley, finely chopped, tablespoons lemon juice, cup heavy cream, whipped.

Soak gelatin in cold water five minutes. Then add it to boiling beef broth, stirring unti' dissolved. Place in refrigerator until partially set. Them add tongue, dry mustard, finely chopped vegetables and lemon juice, stirring until thoroughly mixed. Fold in whipped cream.

Turn into small oblong mold that has a three-inch depth. Chill in refrigerator, Unmold. garnish with crisp salsel greens and alicec tomatocs. Serve with any mayonnaise dressing. FUTURE BRIDE is Miss INEZ EIGNOR, granddaughter of Mrs.

Rosa -Blauvelt, 57 Taylor avenue, whose engagement announced to Kenneth L. Shafer. SOON TO WED Is Miss MARY ELLEN PRATTEN, 11 Cedar street. -Het marriage to John Miss Mackey of Clintondale Betrothed to Hilton H. Thorn Mr.

and Mrs. Clayton T. Mackey, Clintondale, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Joyce Mackey, to Hilton Howard Thorn, son of Mr. and. Mrs.

Clarence Thorn, also of Clintondale. Miss Mackey is graduate Highland High school, class. of 1944; attended New Palta State Teachers college and is a graduate of the (Krissler Business institute. At present she is employed in the Plant department of the New York Telephone here. Mr.

Thorn attended Highland High school. and Oakwood school. He also served for year in the navy wheh time was spent in the Pacific. Mr. Thorn is now.

85- sociated business with his father. No date has been set for the wedding. Eignor-Shafer Engagement Announced Mrs. Rosa. Blauvelt, 57 Taylor avenue, announces the engagement granddaughter, Inez B.

Eignor, daughter of Frank Eignor. Beacon, and the late Mrs. Eignor, Doe Kenneth L. Shafer, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Kenneth B. Shafer Overlook road. The bride-to-be attended Poughkeepsie High She 18 employed by the Consolidated Cigar Co. Mr. Shafer, an alumnus of Arlington High school is in the lime business, No date has been set for the wedding.

Wesley Circle To Sponsor Delegate Members. of the circle of Trinity Methodist church will sponsor delegate for the Oakwood Youth conference. Plans to sponsor the delegate were made at a meetinig of the circle last night at the home of Mrs. Fred R. Stone, 200 Grand avenue.

Devotions were led by Mrs. Bert Green, and Mrs. Carlton Van Wagner presided. Plans were made for the next meeting, which will be a picnic at the home of Mrs. Harry J.

Engle, New Hackensack road at 6:30 o'clock June 9. Assistant hostesses will be Mrs. Howard Bird, Mrs. Alton Crotty, Mrs. Willis Morehouse, Mrs.

William Burt and Mrs. James St. Andrew. Also planned wete, family picnics to be held during July and August at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

Floyd Cook, West Dorsey lane, Mrs. Willam Freer was welcomed as member. After the meeting, there was greenback shower for Mrs. Norman Ross. Refreshments were served.

There were 26 members and one guest present. Mrs. Anne -Cabot Needlework 5728 Make these lovely pillowcase or -bureau scarf decorations for the guest room or young girl's hope The demure ruffled overskirt is worked 'in simple crochet stitches which bleat perfectly with the dainty embroidered Agure To obtain complete crocheting instructions and stitch illustrations for crocheting, hot-iron transfer for embroidery design, stitch illustrations and complete finishing ul.cotions for Charming Linens (pattern no. 5728) send, 16 cents in COIN, YOUR NAME, ADDRESS and the PATTERN NUMBER to 'ANNE CABOT, Poughkeepsie New Yorker, 1150 Avenue of the Americas, New York 19, Sherman la set for Sunday afternoon, June 13. Mary E.

Pratten Sets Wedding Date Miss Mary Ellen Pratten, daughter of Mrs. Irene A. Pratten, 11 East 1 1 Cedar street, has selected June 13 1 as the date for her marriage to Jonn Sherman, son of Mrs. Mary Sherman, 8 Rose street. The ceremony will take place in St.

Paul's Episcopal church with the Rev. Roland J. Bunten officiating. Miss Lilian Taylor, organist, will play the wedding music. The bride-elect will be given in marriage by her uncle John W.

Pratten. After the A re- ception will be held at Gibson's Colonial inn. Miss Pratten, who is graduate of Poughkeepsie High school, is employed by the Western Printing and Lithographing Co. Mr. Sherman, An alumnus of Poughkeepsie High school is employed by the New York Telephone Co.

Mrs. Florence Ary Guest of Honor Mrs. Harriet Chambers, was hostess Monday her home, Dutchess turnpike, Pleasant Valley, at surprise shower in honor of Mrs. Fiorence Ary. Decorations Ir.

pink and blue, featuring large were cake. Among those attending were Mrs. Elsie Chambers, Mrs. Wanda Kerns, Mrs. Josephine Jeanette, Mrs.

Florence Considine. Mrs. Hazel Vradenburg, Mrs. Florence Francisco, Mrs. Jessie Muckenhaupt, Mrs.

Dorothy Steen, Mrs. Gladys Parks, Mrs. Margaret Clark, Mrs. Jennie Cristaidi, Mrs. Montross, Leona Bowman, Mrs.

Peggy Mrs. Jacqueline Montross, and the Misses Cora Pennes, Margaret O'Halloran, Jean O'Halloran. Margie Palazzo and Dawn Montross. 'Dutch Treat' Dinner Planned by Rombout Preceding the annual Vassar Horse show -set for Saturday at Greenvale Farms, New Hackensack road, Dutch Treat, buffet dinner is planned at 7:30 o'clock tomorrow night at Wendover Farms. The event has been arranged for members of the Rombout Hunt and guests, and is under the co-chairmanship of Mrs.

William J. Breen and Mrs. Richard Small. Homer 'B. Gray will entertain at his home, Greenvale Farms, with cocktails before the dinner.

Mr. Gray will also be host at a luncheon Saturday for the judges, out-oftown guests and committee members. Reservations for the dinner include Mr. and Mrs. Alfred G.

Allen, Mr. and Mrs. Breen. Mr. and Mrs.

J. Adams Brown, Mr. and Mrs. ard 'M. Carver, Garrison; Miss Dorothy Fred, Middleburg, Malcolm R.

Grahame, Homer B. Gray, Mr. and Mrs. William H. Howell, Mr.

and Mrs. T. Arthur Johnson, Millbrook: Mr. and Mrs. William H.

Kay Paul V. Knoblauch, New York: M. O'Malley Knott, New York: Roger Leithead, Scarsdale; Charles R. Marshall, New York: Robert T. McGusty, New York; Mr.

and Mrs. John M. Melville, Mr. and Mrs. William B.

Mershon. Mrs. Arthur A. Parks, Mrs. N.

Otis Rock wood, Mr. and Mrs. Walter Pavitt, Mr. and Mrs. William E.

Schermerhorn, Mr. and Mrs. Edward A. Schwartz, Mr. and Mrs.

Small, Eliot Smith, York; Miss Pauline Talbott. New York; Mr. and Mrs. Stirling Tomkins, Miss Dolly Vosburgh. Miss Elizabeth June Vosburgh, Mr.

and Mrs. Milo Wiesenauer, New York: Jack Schroeder, Miss Margaret E. Grahame, P. Grosvenor Jacobs. Miss Emily Stevens, Bedminister, N.

Mr. and Mrs. John Goode, Boston, and Dr. and Mrs. Mead MacCullum, Princeton.

Mt. Carmel Auxiliary Receives Members Applications of Mrs. Grace Sammarco, Mrs. Mary Chickery and Mrs. Josephine Pichera were approved at a recent meeting of the Mt.

Carmel Catholic War Veterans Women's auxiliary, The Holy Name Journal la being sent by the group to the Veterans hospital at Brecksville. Ohio. Mrs. Angie. Fuimarello was named chairman of a family picnic in July.

and Mrs. Rose Evangelist reported on the poppy drive. Miss Regina Peluse was appointed chairman of trip to New York June 27 to visit the Rev. Ernest Broglio, St. Patrick's Old Cathedral; formerly of this city, Miss Peluse is receiving reservations.

Mrs. Elsie Dalleo, assisted by Miss Marie Sucato will have charge of the program for the next meeting. Mrs. Mildred Leone Michette received a wedding gift from the group. Refreshments were served by Mrs.

Frances Liggera, Mrs. Tina Rinaldi and Miss Peluse. There will be an executive meeting at 8 o'clock Tuesday night at the home of Mrs. Evangelist, 85 Worrall avenue. The next meeting will be the Mt.

Carmel schbol hall June 130, the final meeting of the season. Boys and girls, along about the time when they reach the third grade in school, like to belong to a club. They forth secret societies, little groups that get together in corner of the school yard and whisper to each other, ail the time regarding those who are excluded out of the corners of their eyes. They want this exclusiveness to be envied. The nttle girls' clubs are likely to end In that feeling of and the special feeling of longing that attaches to it.

After time, however, they forget about and 10 does not appear 80 strongly again until they are of high school age and form sororities- -which again mean little beyond the feeling of importance based on ness. The boys dot the same thing, but they are likely to be more active about it. They will build hut or And some secluded corner of a barnof vacant building for their meetings, which will be mostly noise. If they can manage it, they will have Are and do some cooking which they will try to eat. They're having a Ane time- -just belonging.

All children must have this feeling they are to grow happily and healthily in body and mind. longing of the greatest importance to mental health. The child who cannot have that feeling, who feels himself. closed out and aione, is likely to suffer and reflect that suffering in his failure to either work or play as healthy children should. Thoughtful teachers and parents encourage their charges to belong to some good organization like the Boy Scouts or the Campfire Girls, These associations are under good leadership, and they offer the activities and the training in them that all children need and should have.

The children should be to belong to one of them; and the leaders of such clubs should be encouraged, helped and thanked by thera and mothers and all good citizens. In these days of confusion, the children are in danger of losing their way, and special attention should be given them to see that there are ways in 'which they can belong and enjoy belonging. We should lay special stress on the fun, the good fellowship, the prestige of belonging to the Boy Scouts or the Campfire Girls, These clubs by whatever name they may be -known-are valuable educational and character- -molding forces, and merit the support of the community. Some day I hope to see the public school ning the whole year round with quarter of the year spent away from home and at camp. A group of children living together -working and playing, thinking together- can do more for each other than we can do in our best adult fashion, State Studio ANNOUNCEMENT is made of the engagement of MIRE EVELYN LITTS, Highland, above, to EDWARD PERKINS, also of High- Highland Couple Engaged to Marry Mr.

and Mrs. John S. Litta, Highland, announce the engagement of their daughter, Evelyn, to Edward Perkins Jr. son of Mr. and Mrs.

Perkins, also of Highland. Miss Litts attended New Palts High school and is employed by the Highland Garment Co. Mr. Perkins attended Highland High school and served in the Navy for two years during the war. He is now employed by the Pratt Lumber Highland.

Kathryn H. Nagy Weds in Kingston Miss Kathryn Helen Nagy, daugh- Rita ter of. Mr. and Mrs. John Nagy, Kingston, who is employed by the DeLaval Separator Co.

became the bride of Lincoln Edward Hansen, son of Mr. and Mrs. Edward Hansen, Ulster Landing, o'clock, Saturday afternoon, in St. Colman's church rectory, East Kingston. The Rev.

John D. Simmons, St. Joseph's church, Kingston, officiated at the double ring ceremony. The bride wore navy blue suit, mauve accessories and an orchid corsage. She was attended by Jean Ghee, Poughkeepsie, who was dressed in a beige suit, green accessories and a corsage of yellow roses.

Philip McCready, Mechanieville, was the best man. A reception for 60 guests was held at Ulster Landing lodge. After wedding trip to Asbury Park, N. the couple will make their home In Poughkeepsie. The bride attended Kingaton High school and the Moran Business school, Kingston.

Mr. Hansen attended Floral Park schools. He is employed by the Moran Transportation Co. Mrs. Marion McLain Hostess to Club Mra.

Marion McLain, Lent street, entertained members of the Jolly Time club for meeting last night when the birthday of Mrs. Helen Badami was observed. She recelved a gift: from the club. There were 10 members, present and refreshments were served. Reta Palladine Guest of Honor Miss Reta Palladino, Highland, wAs guest of honor at surprise shower given Saturday night at the home of Mrs.

Rae Rhodes. Highland. by the Misses Marie Errico, Eleanor Palladino and Antoinette Evangelista. She will be wed in St. Augustine's church, Highland, o'clock, June 5.

Guests included the Misses Marie Paccione, Jennie and Marie Bezzaro, Angie Constantino, Antoinette Beszaro, Josephine Rhodes, Monnie Constantino, Eleanor and Nancy Virtullo, Lee De Steno, Florence and Teresa Palladino, Angie Andreini, Josephine Pape, May Rice, and Mrs. D. Constantino, of Highland, the Misses Madeline Bozsik. Phyllis and Florence Compala and Tessie De.leo, of Poughkeepsie, Mildred Ruggeri, of Newburgh, and Peggy Hildebrand, of Kingston. Ruth Ann Schryver Notes Birthday Ruth Ann Schryver, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. John R. Schryver, Manitou avenue, observed her seventhi birthday with party Monday at her home. Favors for games wore awarded to Joan Gadjos, Bruno Virgilio, and Joan Ballien, Others present were Barbara Jean Hatt, Richard Clifford, Marlene and Loraine Yuchem, Marilyn Lacher, Janet Key, Lois Mosher, Irene Bararth. Mrs.

Clara Hatt, Mrs. Joseph Zepf, Mrs. Joseph Koopman, Mra. Marian Virgilio, Mrs. Helen King, Mra.

Freda Jane Mink and Mra. John R. Schryver, Tabernacle Fellowship Will Meet Tomorrow Members of the Tabernacle Youth Fellowship will meet at the Tabernacie Baptist church at 7:30 o'clock tomorrow night. Ethel Gerth will lead the devotional meeting. The young people will continue the study of the life of David.

Refreshments I will be served. Often parents fail to get the obedience they want from child because they start the necessary training too late. Dr. Patri gives good advice in his booklet No. 301, "Obedience," obtainable by sending 10 cents (coin preferred) and 3-cent stamp to him, care of keepsie New Yorker, Poughkeepsie, N.

Y. (Released by The Bell. Byndicate, Inc.) Ruth Millett We, the Women The pretty little blonde beauty operator talked as she worked, mostly about her husband, eran student in the university. No, she hadn't had a chance to go to. college herself.

They couldn't both live on the GI allowance--not gether, anyhow- she was ing 80 her husband could get the family's education. Let's hope it turns to education for the family. Let's hope that this ex -soldier whose wife 1s working long hours every day so that he can get an tion will never feel superior to her because of his better education, never gets to the place where he thinks his wife isn't able to "keep up with THIS CASE I8 TYPICAL There are thousands of girls in the country making the same sort of sacrifice this girl 18 making. Either they are working long hours at routine jobs or they are pushing those dream houses out of their minds while they take care of child or two in a trailer or quonset hut while their husbands spend days that add up to years getting an education. It will be all right, and worth the wife's sacrifice and struggle, 11 the education turns out to be "for the But if the education is just the husband's--if it isn't a family proj.

ect for the benefit of all the family -then it will be tragedy And that, of course, depends on one thing- on the character of the young husband. Alicia Hart Beauty Hints Every once in a while a young girl shows by her behavior that she is almost completely self Whether she knows it or not, she Is put down as "selfish" by her gang, which is a personality stigma. if a selfish girl is extremely pretty, or talented, or well-to-do, her selfishness may be tolerated' by her pals. But the chances are, unless she rids herself of this trait, that she will never win any real friends. The time for girl to curb any tendency toward selfishness is when she la Here are some typical traits which should be scotched One is a lack of thoughtfulness of people, Another 18 an unwillingness to make generous overtures to others.

A refusal to' go out of one's way to help people, of course, is another glaring indication of selfishness. Even if unselfish behavior must be worked at, the effort should be made. What is certain to happen, even if the effort is forced. is that the emotional satisfaction which comes from being generous to other people will be so rewarding that soon unselfish impulses are apt to replace the usual -centered actions,.