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fr lttl jiiijiiupijawj4'd PACE; TWELVE II taay P0UGHKEEPS1E NEW YORKER MONDAY. JUNE IK 9ii 1 'i 4 4. OonXbfrDk Letter Box DEAR DOROTHY DtXs My fUscea attractive girl of 20. and Tin 27. We've known each ther for two years and hiv been engaged (or on.

We plan nd to gtt married Uit year, but because of home obl'satlons I put off for swblle. Now it Is set tin (or Ibis October, Wo live about 100 miles apart and get to mo each other twice a month. On my last few. visits aha aeomed changed. We argue srulte often, which we never'' did before, and aha refuses to dls cuat plana.

She says they will probably be. changed again, eo wny ngure on anything oennnei I'm afraid abe'a. teeing aomeone cite now. Irving DEAR IRVINCJ; Distance may lend enchantment to aome views, but pot often does It add to romantic vistas. Your fiancee1! love la suffering from malnutrition to Uttle substantial food to thrive on.

She has been disappointed tn a postponement of the wedding, and doesn't see you often enough to maintain hope. Of course you miss her too, but apparently loneliness and distance are get ting her down. yon write often? Letters from you would do wonders In bolstering her morale; telephone calls would neip, dux most oi aii try to get an extra visit la during the month. Just because you're engaged, don't think you can let down on courting. Your lady must still be wooed.

The wedding 'postponement was unfortunate, but I'm euro If you talked your way Into the engagement. you can talk your way into staying en gaged. (Released by Bell Syndicate, Inc.) wv taxeaxeaxeaxeaxS IIbWH EHHbHRmusH SjSt tsR, IwmjlsSBHI UeSSrl LM Tfai 7 mymiWrn; jf i toifq Women's Guild, Reservations have been made for a buffet supper meeting of the St. Francis' Hospital Woman's guild at the pavilion on the hospital grounds at 6:30 o'clock, tomorrow night. Mrs.

Frank Mslet la the hospitality chairman with Mrs. Ar tnur Travis ana sirs, ivconaru Hsckenberg as co chairmen. Mrs. Joseph Xenney Is the program chairman. Mrs.

Edward Coleman will conduct the business session. Among those planning to attend, Mrs, John O'Nell, Miss Marlon Qlimarun, nusa nsien Peterson. Mrs. Latin Sullivan, Mrs. James Butler.

Mrs. Herbert Burnett. Mrs, Gertrude Rappleye a. Mrs. uuu Bene, Mrs.

stay nond Coakley. Matthew Mullen, Mrs. Lawrence Dahow aki, Mrs. Norman jonns, Mrs. Kusseil Pyie.

Mrs. Emory laoer. Mrs. Dominie D'Enaenls. Mrs, Eugene McCourt Mrs.

LaRoy Hendrlckson. Mrs. arenas Hanlon. Mrs. Charles Walsh, Mrs.

Howard Carter. Mrs. Jo aeph McCabe. Mrs. William Cava tiaugh, Mrs.

rrea speeaung, Mrs. Edward Collins, Mrs. Frank MTlod. Mrs. Ernest L.

Tlnklepaugh. Mrs. Kathleen HoM, Miss Lucy Dow, Miss Marie Degenhardt Miss Marguerite Marconette, Miss Mary Mlnnlhan. Mrs. Harold Cassett, Miss Jane Qassett.

Mrs. Eleanor Waryas. Mrs. Anne Mnlvey, Mrs. John Qulnn, Mrs.

Joseph Cassldy, Miss Sadie Qulnn. Miss Bernadlne Smith. Mrs. John Mahoney, Mrs. John Brett.

Mrs. Gua Gsllante, Mrs. Irving Merrick. Mrs. Belle Liguori.

Mrs. James Lesuer, Miss Margaret Murtaugh. Mrs. Frank Wolf. Mrs.

Edward Rabenda, Sirs. Robert L. Adams, Mrs, Dominic Lynch, Miss Josephine H. Talbot Mlu Betty Freer. Miss Margaret Russell.

Mrs. Arthur Travis. Mrs. Paul Beuteranan. Miss Marjorie Gunther, Mrs.

Raymond John A. Reed, Mrs. Harvey Slater, Mrs. Paul Maroldt, Mrs. Laurln Abrame.

Mrs. Vincent Gaffney. Sirs. John F. Kerwan.

Mrs. Edward J. Coleman. Mrs. Frank Malet and Mrs.

Leonard J. Hackenberg. MRS. PETER AUSTIN PAR DUE, formerly Mist Lots Virginia Flncke of Vassar college, and Pittsburgh, who waa wed on June 2, In Christ Episcopal church, Rochester. Ruth Mlflett We, The Women "Any woman who retires to a rocking chair on reaching 83 Is underesUmstlng herself." says Mrs.

Irma Frlede. la addition to being 63 herself, she la a member of the St. Louis Board of Education and chairman of the ger ontology division of the General Federation of Women's Clubs. The woman who thinks that a rocking chair comes with her 83th birthday IS underestimating her self, or else sue is letting oer grown children" er get up and potential. My guess Is that It's more often tier grown children then the woman herself who thinks thst because she has reached her.

03 she ought to sit down and take life easy while the world pssses her by. Children often get the mistaken notion that the most they can do for mama It to see thst her later years sre utterly useless. They oon uunt os ai in msi war. of course. They urge mama If she hsppens to be a widow to give up ber, home and come to live with them sothst they wont hsve to worry about her' living alone.

Or they throw a fit when she talks about doing something to supplement ber income, like sitting with neighbors' children. "You donl' have 4o work." they say sharply, never understanding that aha mliht want to work lost to prove to herself that she can am money on her own or be cause she wants to be useful. Or they discourage her when she talks of driving erose couotry by herself. "Wrwould be frsntle about you, wry ssy. It often tskes real courage and i fin.

a 'Mmiii la (urn a deaf ear to the1 efforts of her children retire ner to roca la hair. Probably more women ha ye to their grown caiwcnir 41 Yi.Mhat tier are flnlthed at 03 than hava tV light their own taaaptatlea ta retire from Miss Mangiarelli Married in City Married yesterday morning. In an 11 o'clock Nuptial Mass In ML Carmel church, were Mlu Lidla ManglareUL 180 Mill street, daughter "of Mr. and Mrs. Lulgl Mangiarelli.

Sulmona, Italy, and Salvatore Clampagllone. He Is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Clsmpaglione, 192 Mill street The Rev. John A.

Ruvo, assistant pastor, officiated. White carnations and snapdragon were used on the altar. Given in marriage by ber uncle, Peter MarclnelU, the bride wore a full length gown of French Illusion net and Venetian lace over slipper satin, fashioned with a fitted bodice, Queen Anne collar, abort sleeves with match' lng mitts, and a bouffant skirt trimmed with Inserts of the lace and terminating in a chapel sweep train. Her fingertip veil of pure aUkJIluslon was caught to a pillbox hat of matching ma terlal trimmed with, seed pearls end Iridescent sequins. She cart rled a white prayer book arranged with' a White orchid, phaelse nopsls, and lily of the vslley.

Mlu Loratta MarclnelU, city, attended bar cousin maid of honor. The bridesmaids, also cousins of the bride, ware the Misses Ainells PerrinL Adeline Letterii, and Cecilia Piazza, aU of Poughkeeptlt. The honor at tendant was gowned in pink crya talrtto and the In blue cryttalette, all fashioned with Sabrtna necklines. They wore open crowns with veils to match their gowns and carried cascade arrangements of rubrum lilies. Mrs.

Clampagllone wore an Ice blue ensemble trimmed with rhlnestoner and designed with a scoop neckline. She had white accessories and a white orchid corsage Joseph Clsmpaglione here, brother of the bridegroom. served best man. Ushering were Louis Evangelists and Carmen Garritta. city; and Wil liam DeLuca Jr, providence, R.

I. There was a reception at 1:13 o'clock at the Covered Wagon. Red Oaks Mill After a wedding trip to Florida, the, couple will realde at 188 Mill street For trsvellng the bride chose a navy blue ensemble and accessories. Mrs. Clampagllone attended schools In Italy.

Her husband was, graduated front ML Carmel add Poughkeepele High schools and served' for two rears with the U. 8. Army. He Is employed at the Vaster branch of the rirst National bank. MissFincke Is Married Mr.

and Mrs. Ernest F. Flncke, Pittsburgh, "announce the msrrisie of their daughter. Miss Lois Virginia Flncke of Vasssr college, to Peter Austin Perdue. son of Bitnop Autun raraue ox the 'Episcopal Diocese of Pittsburgh, and Mrs.

Perdue. The ceremony took place June 2, In Christ church. Rochester, the Rev. Donald IL Gratiot offi ciating. The former Mlu Flncke Is.

a graduate of the Eastman School of Mutle, Rochester, and Is a member of Mu Phi Epsllon. She hss been a member of the music department at Vassar college since 18S2. serving as acting col lege organist for the present academic year." Mrs. Psrdue re cently received a Fultorlght grant for further study lnTsrlt. Frsnce, nest yesr, Psrdue it graduate or Harvard university and is a member of Phi Bata Kapoa.

He completed four yesrs In the U. S. Air Force as a Jet fighter pilot and win begin graa uste work at the Harvard Divinity school next fall. The couple spent a wedding trip at the pardues summer home at Easthampton, L. and wlU reside in New York City this summer Caynor Maddox Let's Eat Area Students To Receive Degrees Area students 'who received degrees today at the, 88th commencement exercises at Cornell university have teen made known.

Included are Edward Cunningham Jr. son of Mr. and Mrs. Cunnlnghsm, North rosd, Betcon, bschelor of arts; Miss Rita E. Rausch, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Sol Rsusch, 18 Ver planck avenue. Beacon, bachelor of science in home economics; and Alfred Stelnhoff son of Mr. and Mrs. Stelnhoff.

82 Washington avenue, Bescon, doctor of veterinary medlelde. Abo. Dsvld K. Rogers, son of Mrs. Ida L.

Rogers, Clinton Cor ners, bachelor of science in agriculture; Mlis Josn P. Csissvant, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Cattavant, Millbrook, bachelor of science in sgricuiture; entries m. Frumerle.

son of Mr. snd Mrs. Charles Frumerle, Pewllng doctor of veterinary medicine; and Mlts Phyllis R. Silken, daughter of Dr. and Mrs.

Lewjs Salken, Pawling, bachelor of arts. Also, from Poughkeepile, Miss Margaret A. Cartwright, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Welter A.

Cartwright, 17 Csrroll street, bschelor of science in sgricuiture; Noel DeCordova son of Mr. and Mrs. DeCordovs. 33 Loockerman avenue, bachelor of laws; Bruce Kimball, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Bernard Kimoaii. UnderhlU road, bachelor of sci ence In sericulture: Jack M. Quartararo, 330 Manalon street. bachelor of uws; mts. Janet a.

Sanford, daughter cf Mr. and Mrs. Joseph A. Storm, 47 Aids drive, Red Oaks Mill, bschelor of science In home economics: snd Dsvld S. Vsndewater, son of lie Vffaa VjIihIs VanJawalaei 401 Sslt Point rosd, bschelor oi science In sgricuiture.

Putting Contest Set for Golfers Arrangements hsve been ma) for a putting contest Jo take place in conjunction with Vthe "Day at Golf' program being sponsored by the Women's di vision of the Dutchess Gotland Country club tomorrow. Archie L. Neighbors and Mrs. Allan E. Csrey will be In charge.

Mrs. Lewis M. Shaw la general chair man of the dars events. Reglstrstlon will be In chsrge of Mrs. John F.

Rogers and Mrs. E. Freeman Pearce. gBBBswSxeV ssssSVT.t 8r tv.f.B HXl5 sssssssVV 7 asssssw it ry Mr i iff, "AT3r 'Jr it 'iisj MRS. EDWARD JOSEPH BUDAI, the former Miss Florence Adela Speckenbacbt 12 Manchester circle, who becsma.

a bride yetterday afternoon In the Arlington Reformed church. AIU0 BfkM Designs Ever en oy cucumbers stuffed with, mushrooms and bread crumbs, served with a rich sauce? Delicious! We served them to our tall friend Russell Z. EUer of Los Angeles, advertising director of a large citrus cooperstlve. He demanded the recipe, saying he wanted his California friends to enjoy them. too.

Those far Weat erners are 'really generous folks.) Cweambera Staffed With Masb Wash snd peel 3 cucumbers. 8 1 to 7 Inches long. Cut a deep wedge the length of the cucum ber and remove. (Save wedge for later use. Scoop out the center of cucumber Saute cup finely chopped mushrooms in 2 tea spoons tresn lemon juice ana tablespoon butter or margarine.

Add 1 cup soft bread crumbs. 2 tablespoons butter or margarine. 1 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley. testpoon sslt tesspoon ground Mack pepper ana i tea aooon around savory. Mix well Fill center of cavity of cucumber with this mixture.

Rf piece the wedge cut from cucumber. Place In a baking dial), cover ana oaxe In a oreheated moderate oven 1330' degrees 43 minutes or until tender. Cut each cucumber In half and serve with Veloute Sauce. Sprinkle, with Parmessn Yeleute Saaee (Ttells 1 cap) Melt 2 ttblespoona butter or margarine la a ssucepsn. Biena ta 2 tsbletnoons flour.

Stir In ti cup esch chicken or beef broth, and milk, Cook until met dlum thickness. Ana teaspoon fresh lemon lukr'lH teaspoon ground black pepper, I tablespoon minced mushroom, snd 2 tab'" isv TOMORROW'S 'DINNER) Cold sliced ham and chicken garnished with rsdlthee snd watercress, potato stuffed, cucumbers with veloute sauceTxmitty breed, butter or margarine, cherry pie, cheese, toffee, tea, fejSbdr Air Ja ri Miss Spickenbach Wed In Arlington Ceremony In 7 o'clock ceremony, yesterday sfternoon. In the Arlington Reformed church, Mlu Florence Adela Speckenbach, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Austin Speckenbach Sr, 12 Manchester circle, became the bride of Edward Joseph BudaL 13 Charles street son oi Mrs.

Msry Palmlrl and the lata Edward BudaL The Rev. Donald A. McCabe, minister, offlclsted, with Helen Snyder. Cold Spring, as ine soioisc Given In marriage by her father, the bride wore' a ballerina length' gown of nylon lace snd net over sstin. with a match ing long sleeved jscket iter fingertip veil was attached to a crown of seed pearls and she carried an orchid arranged with babys breath, Mlu Dorothy Marie Speckenbach, Poughkeepele, the maid of honor, wu gowned in blue nylon net over satin, ballerina length.

She wore a nylon picture hat and carried a bouquet of daisies. The brtdemslda were the Misses Esther Speckenbach and Marlene Manning, city. Their gowns were of pink nylon net over satin, ballerina length. They wore sprays of roses In their hair and carried bouquets of aaisies. The bride's mother wss dressed In turquoise silk, with white accessories and wore a cortege of pink rotes.

The bridegroom's mother wore navy blue print ensemble. She had white accessories snd wore a coruge of red rotes. James Miller, Poughkeepele, served ss best man for the bridegroom. Ushering were Donald Matuk and Richard Broadback, here. There was a reception at the stone Chimney, Pleasant Valley.

PERSONAL MENTION Joseph Butler, 4 Mitchell ave nue, received bachelor of sci ence degree In commerce and economics from the College of Technology, University of Ver mont, Burlington, vt, yesterday, Henry M. Bartlett a sentor at southern Florida college, Lakeland, Fla.r will spend the summer with his undo and aunt Mr. and Mrs, Walter A. Cart wright 17 Carroll street Mrs. other, Henry.

M. Bartlett, who la stationed the U. 8. Air Force In Spain, flew here for his daugh ter, Sarah's graduation yesterday from Connecticut College for women. New bonaon.

conn. Joining his ton and tha Cart wrights. Mrs. Kenneth' L. Thorley, Red Hook, wss a member of yester day's graduating class at New Paltz state Teachers college.

She received a master's degree In ele mentary education. Charles V. MltteUtaedt fire men apprentice, usn, son of Mr. and Mrs. Victor, MltteUtaedt 80 Wlnnlkee avert, Is serving aboard the Atlsntle fleet attack aircraft carrier, USS Lake Cham Slain, currently overgoing over aul and repairs at tha Brooklyn Navy Mr.

and Mrs. Frank Wacha Sr, 103 South Cherry street are en tertaining Mrs. Emilia Hawkes and granddaughter. Erin Hawkes. Arlington, Tex.

Alan MaoMahon, son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur W. MacMahon of Vassar college, received a bachelor of aria degree from Reed college, Portland, Ore, yesterday. A physics msjor at Reed, Mr.

MacMahon has received a graduate teaching aulatantahlp In physics at the' University of California, Berkeley, CaL. to begin next fall. He la a graduate of the Putney school. Putney, Vt, and at Reed, hss been active in music and photography. Leon K.

Duryea. electronics technician second claas, USN, son of Mr. and Mrs. Earl A. Martin and husband of Mrs.

Lorene Dur yea, all of 34 Thompson street is serving aboard the heavy cruiser, USS Los Angeles, which departed from Long Beach. CaL. recently for a seven month tour of duty in. the Far East as tisgshlp of Cruiser division five. Jesn and Mslcolm R.

Hunter, Elm avenue, Mlllerton. were the recipients of a bachelor of sci ence degree in education and a bachelor of arts degree, respectively, at the 132nd commence ment exercises of the University of Vermont Burlington. Vt. yes terday. The degrees were granted by the College of Education and Nursing and the College of Liberal Arts, respectively.

Mr. and Mrs. James J. Currsn. New York City, formerly of Poughkeepile.

are spending a month's vacation at Fort Lauderdale and Key West Fla. I fafaiBlanMsKssstslsallsssMiO Jj i SHwAitm lissW 'i bVssssssssssssssssssssHsHI lefSsHssMLiMJI SSSSSWI I EHBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBWa LHR TTlKH ILxasMRNLxasssHl mfuR rSaW, 'Etaxeam nxtaBBxKf 74MBBBBBBBbhm Sa Cl M'S T.TBaaaaaaaaaaaaan I 'sxB iBxaBaf rlssasaM LxelxelxaBJ naaaaaaai iaaaaaaaaaaaBSaa tf iBBBBBBBl a 'xassBal lsalaBsSBaBsBir SBBBBBal .4 llkt'inaisflkiesalalBBBafl sssssssssssJslUlslissssssssss1 'MNX'" T'jlB BaaiaiaiaiaiaHti iVlaasssssssssssrai MjissssU' JBlaassssssssK 7LssssssssssHr' '1BaBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB, V4 I Fit t'BaSSSSsW 4' WsssssssssssssssssssssssT I I fl MISS JUDY WILKINSON, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Wilkinson. 87 South Hamilton street wss graduated from Emma Wlllard school.

Troy, Saturday. MISS CONSTANCE RAWSON, daughter of and Mrs. Edmund G. Rawaon Jr Cedar avenue, was graduated from the University of Vermont yesterday. MISS FRANDEE TROT, daughter of Peter.

Frankly n. Troy, 1 Dwrlght streeti wha completed her studies at the Knox school, on Friday. She Is tha grsnddaughter of Peter H. Troy. Judy Wilkinson Completes Studies Mlu Judy daugh ter of Mr.

and Mrs. Robert WU klnson. 87 South Hamilton street. wss graauatea irom tmma wu lard school. Troy, Saturday, at ine.

if zna commencement oi me schooL While at the school the last three yesrs, Miss Wilkinson served on various committees. She wss a member of the Speech chorus in her junior yesr, and served on stsge crews for different productions such as Class day and the Senior play; also, In her senior yesr she wu a member of the decorating committee, which decorates for special functions, and has been on the art board of the "Gar goyle," the senior yearbook. Richard Feldman, aon of Mr. and. MT t.

Louis Feldman, 368 Main street recently wss seen In "Macbeth," presented in the Stste college theater at Albany State Teachers college. Mr. Feldman a junior, played the part, of Caithness. In addition to bis work in the Stste college thester, Mr. Feldman Is a membVr of Drs mstlcs and Arts counciL At the Trinity WSCS Names Circle Leaders Circle lesders tor the yesr were appointed at Thursdsy night's meeting of the WSCS of Trinity Methodist church.

Mrs. Alton Crotty, president, pre sided. Included are Circle Mrs Relnhsrdt Jensen: Circle B. Mrs. John Schoonmaker; Circle Mrs.

Meivern Conner: Circle Ruth Kell; Circle Mrs. Edwin Rozell; Circle Mrs. Wilbur L. Gillette; and Circle Miu Marian DuBols. The budget for the coming yesr was adopt ta.

Tne annual pieage service was in charge Of Miss DuBols, sulsted by Mrs. Theodore Coe. Mrs. Arthur 'W. Aylmer, and Mrs.

Milton Erwood. Music wss furnished by Mrs. Max Pflelder, soloist, with Mrs. Albert Dorsey as the accompanist A delegste will be sent to tha annual WSCS Summer School of Missions which will be conducted from July 9 to 13, at Oakwood schooL The executive committee served as hosteues for a social hour. Wed to Charles H.

Harvey Adama Dress Patterns nf th va ritMmom Jt" ir IjI.p lh. Mini. I.n th.r. Ikr ipeouore Juuej a wedding trii. to Buffalo and i NIsmi 1 Falls.

Thv will liv. at eeiuman ana usYiaevy ana ai 12 MinchHter circle. For travel. ra Richard Feldman. lng, Mrt.

Budai chote a light blue tult and navy blue aocet sories. The bride attended Arlington LAUNDRY SHOE BAG She'a a child's handy helper a big 32 Inch doll to hang on wall or door. Hides laundry inside her skirt' holds shoes in pockets! Fun to make gar decoration! Pattern 7122; Embroidery transfer, pattern, directions for 22 lach nsundry shoe bsg dolt. Send TWENTY FIVE CENTS In coins far thli cittern add rente for each pattern for lst class mailing. Send tp Poughkeepsle New Yorker.

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our resderst Dos. cni of i other designs to order all Jitrtnatfnfi hlnit.wArk' oeno, a ri nu ior, your ropy Miss Msry Jsne Winter. 4 Mildred avenue, was graduated from the University of Vermont High achool and la employed Burlington, Vt, at the 132nd the New York Telephone Co. Mr. Budal.

who atlMdd Pouehkeeo ile High school. Is employed at Calendar TODAY 'Syracuse Alumnae club, picnic meeting, at Mrs. Irving Fsulk ner's, 3 Vetersns plsce, Wappln gers Falli, 6:30 o'clock. TOMORROW Women's guild, St Francis' hospital, picnic meeting, hospital pavilion. ciocc Primary association.

Reformed church, pknlc meetlng, st Mrs. W. Irving Tragle's. 108 Hooker avenue, 8:90 clock. Kerschner circle.

First Presby terlsn church, picnic meeting, st Mrs? Clifford Msrshsll's. 1 Overocker road, 6:30 a clock. Vanneman circle. First Presby terlsn church, picnic meeting, st Mrs. Frsnk J.

Leyerie summer home. Csndlewood Lake Women's division. Dutchess Golf and Country club. "Women's Day at Golf. at tha club.

WEDNESDAY LL. I rouziuivvpue uiiucn civvi dessert meeting, at Mrs. A. Allendorph Schoonmaker a Klngwood Park. 1 o'clock.

Dutchess' County Horticultural aociety, plcnlc meetlng, at Mrs. Chsrles Sauerweln's, "Lone Pine, Stsatsburg, 8:30 Clock. Social circle. Reformed church, nlcnlomeetine. at Mra.

Howard Wlggers' summer home, ClintonJ Corners. Music Appreciation club, dinnerdinner meeting, Talbot's Inn, Pleasant alley. Board of Directors. Commun ity Children's Thester group, at Mrs. Henry Kreckman's, 143 Academy street.

FRIDAY Altar society. St Peter's the annex, 18 North Clover street, 8 o'clock, SATURDAY Ladles' Aid society. Ftrtt Luth eran church, strswberry portion et the church. City council. Beta Sigma Phi sorority, annual spring? formal An thill utcnets County Philharmonic commencement exercises yetter day, ne receivea a bachelor of science degree in education from the College of Education and Nursing.

Richard R. Miller, machinist's mste third clsu, USN. son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence A.

Miller, 4 Prospect street aboard tha destroyer, USS Theodora E. Chandler, arrived In Sen Francisco, CaL, on Friday, for a three day visit between phases of a U.S. First fleet training exerciae. Mlu Margaret Ann Cart wright daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Waiter A.

Cartwright 17 Carroll street, was graduated from Cornell university today, the re cipient of a bachelor of science degree. Theodore A. Dalton, aviation boatawaln's mate third clau, USN. son of Mr. and Mrs.

Dalton, 3 Sprlngwdod Village. Hyde Park, and husband of the former Mlu Kate Tanofaky of Liberty, Is, serving aboard the Atlantic fleet attack aircraft carrier, USS Lake Champlain, currently at tha Brooklyn Navy yard. Maria Llggera Honored al Shower Miss Beverly Reynolds, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Stuart J.

Reynolds, Boardman road, and Miss Joyce Ncllson entertained at a shower, Wednesday night tn honor of Miss Msrle Llggers. Attending, the Misses Cynthia Jet tup. Adelaide Barigbt. Joan Drum. Katherlne Kennedy.

Mary Jane Cox, Irene Burns, Sandra Beddows. and Esther specxen bach, all trsdustes of the clsu of 1834 at Arlington High schooL Miss Llggera will oa wea wis month. Rogers Paint Auxiliary Plana Family lienle Plana for a family picnic were made at a meeting or the Rogers Point. Boating attoclatlon. auxiliary.

Wednesday night at the boat club. Tha event for, mem bers and their families. Is sched uled for Julv 8. st Rogers Point i r'V LS.I ri 7sbbbbbbbsbbbbbSWssV i. itL 0m SISBBSTSBBBBBBBV iSSSSST laxffVBx9M rs wnLmSs' 40', I iaxesslaxaBBSsl SIZES Miss Frances Msry Gerth, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Mlchsel O. Gerth 88 Lent street and Charles Hedley Harvey, son of Mr. and Mrs. J.

Henry Harvey, Fredericton, New Brunawlck, Canada; were married at 2 o'clock, June 2, in the Tabernacle Baptist church. The Rev. Wsync J. Sbellenber Jer, minister, offlclsted, with ohn Mslthouse and Mrt. Pauline Williams as the soloists.

Selections Included 'The Lord's Preyer" The Lve of God" and "Savior Like a Shepherd Lead Us." Mrs. Perry Mackey presided at tne organ. The bride. liven In marriage by her father, wore a gown of pnmavera embroidered nyion tulle, faahioned with a scsUoped neckline and hem, short sleeves, long mstchlng mitts, and a floor lencth. bouffant skirt Her finger tip veil of white silk illusion wss attached to a tiara of seed pesrls snd she carried a Bible arranged with a white rose corssge snd streamers of roses and ivy.

Miss Ethel jGerth, Poughkeepele, attending her sister as maid of honor, wore noor lengtn sown of aaua nylon laee and net over taffeta. She had a match ing headpiece with a smsll veil snd carried a bouquet of yellow pom pons with aqua nooon. Tha bridesmaids were the Misses Jean F. Conway. Milford, and Betty Gerth, Rochdale, cousin of the bride.

Their gowns were of yellow nylon lace and net over taffeta, floor length, with which they wore matching headpiece and carried bouqueta of yellow pom pons with yellow ribbon. June Muenier. Hyde Park, the junior bridesmaid, wore a floor length frock of yellow isca ana taffeta. She had a matching headpiece and carried a bouquet of yellow pom pons wKh yellow ribbon. The bride's mother chote street length ensemble of dusty rote lsce over taffeta.

Sha were navy blue accessories snd a cor sage of white roses. The bridegroom's mother wore a gray suit drett. white accessories, snd a corssze of red rotes. Mr. George Gerth, grandmother or the bride, was dressed in black.

She naa white accessories and a corsage of red roaet. John Keith, Botton, terved as best man. Ushering were Perry Mackey, Wspplngers Falls; Michael Gerth Hycje brother of tha bride; and Lynn Stairs, 'Boston. Mlchsel MltchelL city, wss a Junior usher. After.

the ceremony there wss a reception at the Odd Fellows halL For their wedding trip to Mslne snd Canada the bride selected a navy blue suit, white accessories, snd a ebrsage of white rotea. Mr. and Mrs. Harvey will reside at Beverly Farma, Mast." Mrs. Harvey Is a graduate of Poughkeepsle nigh school and the School of Nursing.

Children's hospital Children's Medical cen ter, Boston. The bridegroom is a graduate of Fredericton High achool and Gordon college, Boston. Ha Is. at tending Gordon Divinity schooL Beverly Farmi. studying for the ministryi Constance Rawson Receives Degree Mlu Constance Rawsondaugh ter of Mr.

snd Mrs. Edmund O. Rawson Cedar avenue, wu graduated from the University of Vermont yesterday. She received a bschelor of science degree in home economics. Chief Justice Warren, of the Supreme Court' waa the commencement apesker.

A graduate of Poughkeepsle High school. Miss Rawson is a member of PI Beta Phi sorority. Muriel Lawrence The Mature Parent 12 20 PARIS lnsblredthe lovely lines of this ensemble youll look so wonderful when you wesr ki Bloused Jscket buckles below the waist addlna a smart new toucn to the fashionable "long look." Beneath is a simple sundress fitted and flattering. pattern an: Aiuses' 14. 18.

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Print plainly. NAME. ADDRESS with zone, size ana otius lumber. I No. I aiM Name Mrt.

Earl Travis. Mrs. Msrtin.l laat. Sten. and Mrs.

Bernard Schanvi berg have been nemed ro ehalr men of arrangementa.Because i i oi tha July: 4. holldey. 'the next niln, tfc auxlllirv will 1. of society. sudiUona.

Skinner Recit take place JulyB, at the club 1 awaia wayna' R. this wondirtul book right away! college, 2 o'clock, houae. 'vv ViT 'wf Missionary Society To Hear Vbltor'a Report Members of the Women's City Missionary aociety will, meet at 2:30 o'clxk, tomorrow in Youth chspel of the First Presbyterisn church. Mrs; Edwin Lloyd will preside, and Mrs. George Fonda will lead the devotions.

Miss El sie E. Grove, new missionary visitor who has succeeded Miss Ur sula Dresser, who has retired after seven years as city mis slonsry vltltor. will make her flrat report. Miss Grove is a retired missionary from the Sudan, Africa, where she headed the Girls' Bosrdlng and Day school in the North euasn. sue also started schools in the South Sudsn.

William Wheatona Entertain at Party Mr. and Mrs. William Wheaton, 6 Forbus' street were hosts at a recent "Bon Voyage' party at Aloys Venetian room. In honor of their aunt Mra. Naomi House.

Sen Gabriel CaL Mrs. House plans to make tha re turn trip to California by plane. tomorrow, aner a roonms visit here, as well ss in upper New York New Jersey, and Long Island. Guests at the party In cluded Mra. saran usterneudi, Mr.

and Mra. Clarence Lewis. Mr. and Mrs. LeeOstorboudt Mr.

and Mrs, reui'wneaiou, asr and Mra. Robert Wheaton, Mra Sophia Lawrence. Mlu Christine TT 1 ZTITl" wayne n. nnfaiou, ana vneriss An uncle once gsve Miriam a bottle of peppermints that outlasted the lollipops he gsva Tom, ber Uttle brother. So Inevitably came the bedtime when Tom demanded one of Mlrlam'a peppermlnta.

She said "No." But he refused to accept her denial and ran to reoort it to their Papa. Instantly. Para withdrew af fection from Miriam. When aha tried to tell him why she felt Tom's cltlm was unjust, he bruihedher words aside scornfully and ssld sharply, "You are old enough to begin to do for others like your Mama." Alone in tha kitchen with her candy bottle, Miriam waa sud denly overwhelmed by sense of uncertainty. Papa, the most trustworthy perton In the world.

had no respect st all for her opinion. Maybe whether the felt a thing wat fair or unfair didn't matter If it wat going to cost her Papa's good will. Miriam gave Tom a pepoer mint At once Papa restored affec tion to her. Kluing her goodnight, he called her his "kind girl." sure thst he hsd Just taught her One moral lesion. He had not Bealdet teaching her to altlfy her feelings.

he had taught her that obediei.ee to a parent Is hurtful snd humillsting. This Impression accounts for the bedtime problem. Miriam, now grown up. Is having with her Uttle son Nick Nick csn spend 80 minutes in stalling strategy at bedtime. Usually he begins by insisting he must tidy his toy box.

Aa his mother begins to reason against this virtuous sounding resolve. tension collects In her. For this conflict with Nick hss reactivated all her undlgeated feelings to wsrd another; child parent conflictthe one between Paoa and her. No wonder ahe has to "reason" with Nick Instead of picking hlra up and carrying bun to bed. To Papa's dsughter, enforcing a child's obedience equala only two things his hurt snd humiliation.

Loving Nick, how can his mother possibly Inflict them on him? Miriam's solution Is to remember whst really, made obedience to Papa hurtful and humiliating. It wss not that be made ber do what he wanted. Always, It wss the contemptuous wsy he treated what she wsntcd. If this csn be msda true for Miriam, she can solve this bedtime conflict. Then she'll know how to make obedience acceptable to Nick by treating his opposing feelings with respect Instead of contempt Bsnaett Alumna Wed la Washington Mlu Julia Cadtnr Mever.

daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Matthew Meyer, Washington, D. formerly of Scarsdsle. and Garry Robert Qulnn, son of Mr.

snd MrsGsrrett F. Oulnn. Wssh lugteaj were married on June 2 In tha Roman Catholic Shrine of the Moat Blessed Sacrament, Washington. The Rev. E.

Carl Lyon officiated. Mrs. Qulnn is a graduate of the National Cathedral school and Ben. nett Junior, college. Her father is president and buslneu msnsi er of The Washington Dally news.

Window Guild blstes Ffe ale Seaalea Members of the Harriet Wlckea Wlnslow guild of the.rirst Pre. bertsln church will conduct a plc nlc meetlng at 6:30 o'clock. Friday night at the borne of Mlu Ruth varun, carrou street. Mn. Eraatus B.

Relyea, Mlu Jane, RmtimW mnA Mia tWimthv Blh. ardton Viil serve as co hoitestet. It will be the final meeting until September, i ,1 i.