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I I I I TWELVE POUGHKEEPSIE NEW YORKER MONDAY. JUNE 11. 1956. Dorothy Dis Letter Box DEAR DOROTHY DIX: My is an attractive girl of. 20, and I'm 27.

We've known each other for two years and have been engaged for one. We planned to get married last year, but because of home obl'cations 1 put It off awhile. Now it is set again for this October. We live about 100 miles apart and get to see each other twice month. On my last few visits she seemed changed.

We argue quite often, which we never did before, and she refuses to discuss plans. She says they will probably be changed again, 40 why figure on anything definite? I'm afraid she's seeing someone else now. Irving DEAR IRVING: Distance may lend enchantment to some views, but not often does it add to romantic vistas. Your fiancee's love is suffering from malnutritionto little substantial food to thrive on. She has been disappointed in a postponement of the wedding, and doesn't see you often enough to maintain hope.

Of course you miss her too, but apparently loneliness and distance are getting her down. Do you write often? Letters from you would do bolstering her morale; telephone calls would help, but most of all try to get an extra visit in during the month. Just because you're engaged, don't think you can let down on courting. Your lady must still be wooed. The wedding postponement was unfortunate.

but I'm sure if you talked your way into the engagement, you can talk your way into staying engaged. (Released by Bell Syndicate, Inc.) Women's Guild Schedules Supper Reservations have been made for buffet supper-meeting of the St. Francis' Hospital Women's guild at the pavilion the hospital grounds at 6:30 o'clock, tomorrow night. Mrs. Frank Malet is the hospitality chairman with Mrs.

Arthur Travis and Mrs. 1 Leonard Hackenberg as co-chairmen. Mrs. Joseph Kenney is the program chairman. Mrs.

Edward' Coleman will conduct the business session. Among those planning to tend, Mrs. John O'Neil, Miss Marion Gilmartin, Miss Helen Peterson, Mrs. Latin Sullivan, Mrs. James Butler, Mrs.

Herbert Burnett, Mrs. Gertrude Rappleyea, Mrs. Louis Ratte, Mrs. Raymond Coakley, Mrs. Matthew Mullen, Mrs.

Lawrence Dahowaki, Mrs. Norman Johns, Mrs. Russell Pyle, Mrs. Emory Taber. Mrs.

Dominic D'Engenis, Mrs. Eugene McCourt, Mrs. C. LeRoy Hendrickson, Mrs. E.

Francis Hanion, Mrs. Charles Walsh, Mrs. Howard Carter, Mrs. Jo- I seph McCabe, Mrs. William Cavanaugh, Mrs.

Fred Speedling, Mrs. Edward Collins, Mrs. Frank Mylod. Mrs. Ernest L.

Tinklepaugh, Mrs. Kathleen Hohl, Miss Lucy Dow, Miss Marie Degenhardt, Miss Marguerite Marconette, Miss Mary Minnihan, Mrs. Harold Gassett, Miss Jane Gassett, Mrs. Eleanor Waryas, Mrs. Anne Mulvey, Mrs.

John Quinn, 'Mrs. Joseph Cassidy, Miss Sadie Quinn, Miss Bernadine Smith. Mrs. John Mahoney, Mrs. John Brott, Mrs.

Irving Merrick, Mrs. Belle Liguori, Mrs. James Lesuer, Miss Margaret Murtaugh, Mrs. Frank Wolf, Mrs. Edward Rabenda, Mrs.

Robert L. Adams, Mrs, Dominic Lynch, Miss Josephine R. Talbot, Miss Betty Freer, Miss Margaret Russell, Mrs. Arthur Travis, Mrs. Paul" Reutershan, Miss Marjorie Gunther, Mrs.

Raymond Hammer, Mrs. John A. Reed, Mrs. Harvey Slater, Mrs. Paul Maroldt, Mrs.

Laurin Abrams, Mrs. Vincent Gaffney, Mrs. John F. Kerwan, Mrs. Edward J.

Coleman, Mrs. Frank P. Malet and Mrs. Leonard Hackenberg. Ruth Millett We, The Women woman who retires to rocking chair on reaching 65 is underestimating herself." says Mrs.

Irma Friede. In addition to being 65 herself, she is a 'member of the St. Louis Board of Education and chairman of the gerontology division of the General Federation of Women's Clubs. The woman who thinks that rocking chair comes with her 65th birthday IS underestimating herself. Or else she is letting her grown underestimate her get-up-and-go potential.

My guess is that it's more often her grown children than the woman herself who thinks that because she has reached her 65 she ought to sit down and take life easy while the world passes her by. Children often get the mistaken notion that the most they can do for mama is to see that her later years are utterly useless. They don't think of it in that way, of course. They urge mama -if she happens to be widow -to give up her, home and come to live with them so they won't have to worry about her living alone. Or they throw fit when she talks about doing something to supplement her income, like children.

sitting with "You don't have to work," they say sharply, never understanding that she might want to work just to prove to herself that she can earn money on her own or because she wants to be useful. Or they discourage her when she talks of driving cross-country by herself. "We would be frantic about you," they say, It often takes real courage and self-reliance for a woman to turn deaf ear to the efforts of her children to retire her to a rockIng. chair. -Probably more women have to fight their grown children's belief that they are finished at 65 than have to fight their own temptation to retire from life.

Miss Fincke Is Married Mr. and Mrs. Ernest F. Fincke, Pittsburgh, announce the marriage of their daughter, 1 Miss Lois Virginia Fincke of Vassar college, to Peter Austin Pardue, son of Bishop Austin Pardue of the Episcopal Diocese of Pittsburgh, and Mrs. Pardue.

The I ceremony took place June 2, in Christ church, Rochester, the Rev. Donald H. Gratiot offI ciating. The former Miss Fincke is graduate of the Eastman School of Music, Rochester, and is member of Mu Phi Epsilon. She has been a member of the music department at Vassar college since 1952, serving as acting college organist for the present academic year.

Mrs. Pardue recently received a Fulbright grant for further study in Paris, France, next year, Mr. Pardue is a graduate of Harvard university and is member of Phi Beta Kappa. He completed four years in the U. S.

Air Force as a Jet fighter pilot and will begin graduate work at the Harvard Divinity school next 1 fall. The couple wedding trip at the Pardues' summer home at Easthampton, L. and will reside in New York City this summer. Area Students To Receive Degrees Area- students who received degrees today at the 88th commencement exercises at Cornell university have teen madel known. Included are Edward Cunningham Jr.

son of Mr. and Mrs. Cunningham, North road, Beacon, bachelor of arts; Miss Rita E. Rausch, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Sol Rausch, 19. Verplanck avenue, Beacon, bachelor of science in home economics; and Alfred C. Steinhoff son of Mr. and Mrs. Steinhoff, 82 Washington avenue, Beacon, doctor of veterinary medicine.

Also, David K. Rogers, son of Mrs. Ida L. Rogers, Clinton Corners, bachelor of science in agriculture; Joan P. Cassavant, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. John Cassavant, Millbrook, bachelor of science in agriculture; Charles M. Frumerie, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Pawling and Miss Salken, doctor of veterinary, medicine; daughter of Dr.

and Mrs. Lewis Saiken, Pawling, bachelor of arts. Also, from Poughkeepsie, Miss Margaret A. Cartwright, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Walter A. Cartwright, 17 Carroll street, bachelor of selence in agriculture; Noel DeCordova DeCordova, son of and Mrs. 33 Loockerman avenue, bachelor of laws; Bruce V. Kimball, son Mr. and Mrs.

Bernard Kimball, Underhill bachelor seience in agriculture; Jack M. Quartararo, 339 Mansion street, bachelor of laws; Mrs. Janet S. Sanford, daughter cf Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph A. Storm, 47 Alda drive, Red Oaks Mill, bachelor of science In home economics; and David S. Vandewater, son of Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Vandewater, 401 Salt Point road, bachelor of science in agriculture.

Putting Contest Set for Golfers Arrangements have been made for a putting contest to take place in conjunction with the "Day at Golf" program being sponsored by the Women's division of the Dutchess Country club tomorrow. Mrs. Archie L. Neighbors and Mrs. Allan E.

Carey will be in charge. Mrs. Lewis M. Shaw is general chairman of the day's events. Registration will be In charge Mrs.

John F. Rogers and Mrs. of Freeman Pearce. Alice Brooks Designs -SHOE BAG She's a child's handy helperbig 32-inch doll to hang on wall or door. Hides laundry inside her skirt, holds shoes in pockets! Fun to make gay decoration! Pattern 7122: Embroidery transfer, directions for 32-inch "laundry-shoe-bag" doll.

Send a TWENTY-FIVE CENTS In coins for this pattern- add 5 cents for each pattern for 1st-class mailing. Send to Poughkeepsie New Yorker. 304 Household Arts P. O. Box 168, Old Chelsea Station.

New York 11, Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS. ZONE, and PATTERN NUMBER: Two PREE patterns- -printed n. the new Alice Brook's Needlecraft book for 1956 Stunning defor yourself, for your home -just for you, our readers! Doz- ens of. other designs to orderall easy. fascinating hand-work! Send 25 cents for your copy.of this wonderful bopk right away! Joseph Butler, 4 Mitchell nue, received bachelor of ence degree in commerce economies from the College Technology, University of mont, Burlington, yesterday.

Henry M. Bartlett a senior at Southern Florida college, Lakeland, will spend summer with his uncle and Mr. and Mrs. Walter A. wright, 17 Carroll street.

Cartwright's brother. Major Henry, M. Bartlett, who is tioned with the U. S. Air Force in Spain, flew here for his daughter, Sarah's graduation yesterday from Connecticut College Women, New London, joining his son and the Cartwrights.

Mrs. Kenneth' L. Thorley, Hook, was a member of yesterday's graduating class at Paltz State Teachers college. received a master's degree in mentary education. Charles V.

Mittelstaedt, man apprentice, USN, son of and Mrs. Victor Mittelstaedt, Winnikee avene, serving aboard the Atlantic fleet attack aircraft carrier, USS Lake Champlain, currently overgoing haul and repairs at the Brooklyn Navy yard. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Wacha 103 South Cherry street, are tertaining Mrs.

Emilie Hawkes and granddaughter, Erin Hawkes, Arlington, Tex. Alan MacMahon, son of and Mrs. Arthur W. MacMahon Vassar college, received a bachelor of arts degree from Reed lege, Portland, Ore, yesterday. physics major at Reed, Mr.

MacMahon has received a graduate teaching assistantship in physics at the University of California, Berkeley, to begin next He is graduate of the Putney school, Putney, and at Reed, has been active in music photography. Leon K. Duryea, electronics technician second class, USN, of Mr. and Mrs. Earl A.

Martin and husband Lorene all of 34 Thompson street, serving aboard the heavy cruiser, USS Los Angeles, which departed from Long Beach, recently for seven-month tour of duty in. the Far East, as flagship Cruiser division five. Jean and Malcolm R. Hunter, Elm avenue, Millerton, recipients of bachelor of seience degree in education and bachelor of arts degree, respectively, at the 152nd commencement exercises of the University of Vermont, Burlington, yesterday. The degrees were granted by the College of Education and Nursing and the College Liberal Arts, respectively.

Mr. and Mrs. James J. Curran, City, formerly Poughkeepsie, are spending at Fort Lauderdale and Key West, Fla. Richard Feldman, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Louts Feldman, 566 Main street, recently was seen "Macbeth," presented in the State college theater at Albany Teachers college. Mr. Felda junior, played the part. Calthness.

In addition to his work the State college theater, Mr. Feldman is a member of Dramatics and Arts council. At the beginning of the year the college also presented "Theodore MuelHer," which was written by Louis Feldman and David Levy and directed by Richard Feldman. Miss Mary Jane Winter, Mildred avenue, was graduated from the University of Vermont, Burlington, at the 152nd commencement exercises yesterday. She received a bachelor science degree in education from the College of Education and Nursing.

Richard R. Miller, machinist's mate third class, USN, son of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence A. Miller, Prospect street, aboard the destroyer, USS Theodore E.

Chand'ler, arrived in San Francisco, on Friday, for three-day visit between phases of a U.S. First feet training exercise. Miss Margaret Ann Cartwright, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter A.

Cartwright, 17 Carroll street, was graduated from Cornell university today, the recipient of a bachelor of science degree. Theodore A. Dalton, aviation boatswain's mate third class, USN, son of Mr. and Mrs. Edward Dalton, 3-H Springwdod Village, Hyde Park, and husband of the former Miss Kate Tanofsky of Liberty, is serving aboard the Atlantic fleet attack aircraft carrier, USS Lake Champlain, currently at the Brooklyn Navy yard.

Marie Liggera Honored at Shower Miss Beverly Reynolds, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Stuart Reynolds, Boardman. road, and Miss Joyce Neilson entertained at. a shower, Wednesday night in honor of Miss Marie Liggera.

Attending, the Misses Cynthia Adelaide Baright, Joan Drum, Katherine Kennedy, Mary Jane Cox, Irene Burns, Sandra Beddows. and Esther Speckenall graduates of the class of 1954 at Arlington High school. Miss Liggera will be wed this month. Rogers Point Auxiliary Plans Family Pienie Plans for family plenie were 'made at a meeting of the Rogers -Point Boating association auxiliary, Wednesday night, at the hoat club. The event, for members and their families, is scheduled for Julv 8.

at Rogers Point Mrs. Earl Travis, Mrs. Martin Sten, and Mrs. Bernard Scham: berg have been named co-chairmen of arrangements. Because of the July 4, 'the next meeting of the auxiliary will take place 5, at.

the clubhouse. avesei- and of Ver- the aunt. CartMrs. I MRS. PETER AUSTIN PARDUE, formerly Miss Lois Virginia Fincke of Vassar college, and Pittsburgh, who was wed 'on June in Christ Episcopal church, Rochester.

Miss Mangiarelli Married in City Married yesterday morning, in an 11 o'clock Nuptial Mass in Mt. Carmel church, were Miss Lidia Mangiarelli, 189 M111 street, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Luigi Mangiarelli, Sulmona, Italy, and Salvatore Clampaglione. He is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Joseph Clampaglione, 192 Mill street. The Rev. John A. Ruvo, assistant pastor, officiated.

White carnations and snapdragon were used on the altar. in marriage by her uncle, Peter Marcinelli, the bride wore full length gown of French illusion net and Venetian lace over slipper satin, fashioned with a Atted bodice, Queen Anne collar, short sleeves with matching mitts, and a bouffant skirt trimmed with inserts of the lace and terminating in chapel sweep train. Her fingertip veil of pure silk illusion was caught to pillbox hat of matching material trimmed with seed pearls and iridescent sequins. She car: ried a white prayer book arranged with white orchid, phaelaenopsis, and lily-of-the-valley. Miss Loretta Marcinelli, city, attended her cousin as maid of honor.

The bridesmaids, also cousins of the bride, were the Misses Amelia Perrini, Adeline Letteril, and Cecilia Piazza, all of Poughkeepsie. The honor attendant was gowned in pink erystalette and the bridesmaids, in blue crystalette, all fashioned with Sabrina necklines. They wore open crowns with veils to match their gowns and carried cascade arrangements of rubrum lilies. Mrs. Clampaglione wore an ice blue ensemble trimmed with rhinestones and designed with scoop neckline.

She had white accessories and a white orchid corsage. Joseph Ciampaglione here, brother of the served as best man. Ushering were Louis Evangelista and Carmen Garritta, city; and William DeLuca Providence, R. I. There was reception at 1:15 o'clock at the Covered Wagon.

Red Oaks Mill. After a wedding trip to Florida, the couple will reside at 188 Mill street. For traveling ensemble the bride and chose white a acces- navy, sories. Mrs. Ciampaglione attended schools in Her husband was graduated from Mt.

Carmel and Poughkeepsie High and served for two years with the U. S. Army. He is employed at the Vassar branch the First National bank. Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat Ever enjoy cucumbers stuffed with.

mushrooms and bread crumbs, served with a rich sauce? Delicious! We served them to our tall friend Russell Z. Eller of Los Angeles, advertising director large citrus cooperative. He demanded the recipe, saying he wanted his California friends to enjoy them, too. Those tar West-! erners are 'really generous folks. Cucumbers Stuffed With Mushrooms (Yield: 6 servings) Wash and peel 3 cucumbers.

6 to 7 inches long. Cut deep wedge the length of the cucumber and remove. (Save wedge for later use). Scoop out the center of cucumber. Saute cup finely chopped mushrooms in 2 teaspoons fresh lemon juice and tablespoon butter or margarine.

Add 1 cup soft bread crumbs, tablespoons butter or margarine. 1 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley, teaspoon salt, teaspoon ground black pepper and 1 teasoon ground savory. Mix well. Fill center of cavity of cucumber with this mixture. Replace the wedge cut from cucumber.

Place in a baking dish. Cover and bake in a preheated moderate oven (350' degrees 45 minutes until tender. Cut each cucumber in half and serve with Veloute Sauce. Sprinkle, with Parmesan cheese. Veloute Sauce- (Yield: 1 cup) Melt 2 tablespoons butter or margarine in a saucepan.

Blend to 2 tablespoons flour. Stir in cup each, chicken or, beef broth, and milk. Cook until medium thickness. Add fresh lemon juice, teaspoon ground black pepper; 1 tablespoon minced mushroom and 2 heave erase TOMORROW'S DINNER: Cold sliced ham and chicken garnished with radishes and watercress. potato chips, stuffed cucumbers with veloute saucer crusty bread, butter or margarine, cherry ple.

cheese, coffee, tea, milk. sta- for Red New She ele- MISS JUDY WILKINSON. fire- daughter of Mr. and Mrs. RobMr.

ert Wilkinson, 87 South Hamil59 ton street, was graduated from Emma Willard school, Troy, Saturday. Judy Wilkinson Completes Studies Miss Judy Wilkinson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Wil- kinson, 87 South Hamilton street. Wilwas graduated from Emma lard school, Troy, Saturday, at the.

142nd commencement of the school. While at school the last three years, Miss Wilkinson served on various committees. She was a member of the Speech chorus in her junior year, and served on stage crews for different productions such as Class day and the Senior play; also, in her senior year she was member of the decorating committee, which decorates for special functions, and has been on the art board of the "Gargoyle," the senior yearbook, Trinity WSCS Names Circle Leaders Circle leaders for the year were appointed at Thursday night's meeting of the WSCS of Trinity Methodist church. Mrs. Alton Crotty, president, presided.

Included are Circle Mrs Reinhardt Jensen; Circle Mrs. John Schoonmaker; Circle Mrs. Melvern Conner; Cirele Mrs. Ruth Kell; Circle Mrs. Edwin Rozell; Circle F.

Mrs. Wilbur L. Gillette; and Circle Miss Marian DuBois. The budget for the coming year was adopted. The annual pledge service was in charge of Miss DuBois, assisted by Mrs.

Theodore Coe, Mrs. Arthur W. Aylmer, and Mrs. Milton Erwood. Music was fur.

nished by Mrs. Max Pfleider, soloist, with Mrs. Albert Dorsey as the accompanist. A. delegate will be sent to the annual WSCS Summer School of Missions which will be conducted from July 9 to 13, at Oakwood school.

The executive committee served as hostesses for a social hour. Adams Dress Patterns 4811 SIZES 12-20 PARIS Inspired the lovely lines of this ensemble--you'll look 50 wonderful when you wear Bloused jacket buckles below the waist, adding a smart new touch to the fashionable "long look. Beneath is a simple sundressfitted and flattering. Pattern 4811: Misses' Sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Size 16 dress, yards 45-inch; jacket, 2 yards.

This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested, for fit. Has complete, Thirty-five Illustrated cents in instructions. coins for this pattern- -add 5 cents for each pattern for 1st-class mailing. Send to ANNE ADAMS, care of Poughkeepsie New Yorker, 138 Pattern 243 West 17th street, New York 11, N. Y.

Print plainly. NAME, ADDRESS with ZONE, SIZE and STYLE NUM'BER. Street Address Name cit State MISS CONSTANCE RAWSON, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edmund G.

Rawson Cedar avenue, was graduated from the University of Vermont yesterday. MISS FRANDEE TROY, daughter of Peter Franklyn Troy, 1 Dwight street, whe completed her studies at the Knox school, on Friday. She is the granddaughter of Peter H. Troy. Miss Frances Mary Gerth Wed to Charles H.

Harvey EDWARD JOSEPH BUDAI, the former Miss Florence Adela Speckenbach, 12 Manchester circle, who became bride yesterday afternoon in the Arlington Reformed a 2 o'clock ceremony, yesterday afternoon, in the Arlington Reformed church, Miss Florence Adela Speckenbach, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent Austin Speckenbach 12 Manchester circle, became the bride of Edward Joseph Budal, 13 Charles street, son of Mrs. Mary Palmiri and the late Edward Budal. The Rev.

Donald A. McCabe, minister, officiated, with Helen Snyder, Cold Spring, the soloist. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore ballerina length gown of nylon lace and net over satin, with a matching long-sleeved jacket. Her fingertip veil was attached to crown of seed pearls and she carried an orchid arranged with baby's-breath. Miss Dorothy Marie Speckenbach, Poughkeepsie, the maid of honor, was gowned in blue nylon net over satin, ballerina length.

She wore nylon picture hat and carried bouquet of daisies. The bridemaids were the Misses Esther Speckenbach and Marlene Manning, city. Their gowns were of pink nylon net over satin, ballerina length. They wore sprays' of roses in their hair and carried bouquets of daisies. The bride's mother was dressed in turquoise silk, with white accessories and wore a corsage of pink roses.

The bridegroom's mother wore navy blue print ensemble. She had white accessories and wore a corsage of red roses. James Miller, Poughkeepsie, served as best man for the bridegroom. Ushering were Donald Matuk and Richard Broadback, here. There was a reception at the Stone Chimney, Pleasant Valley.

Later, the couple left there for wedding trip to Buffalo and Niagara Falls. They will live at 12 Manchester circle. For traveling, Mrs. Budal chose light blue suit and navy blue accessories. The bride attended Arlington High school and is employed by the New York Telephone Co.

Mr. Budai, who attended Poughkeepsie High school, is employed Vassar hospital. Miss Wed In Arlington Ceremony Calendar TODAY Syracuse Alumnae club, picnicmeeting, at Mrs. Irving Faulkner's, 3 Veterans place, Wappingers Falls, 6:30 o'clock. TOMORROW Women's guild, St.

Francis' hospital, picnic-meeting, hospital pavilion, 6:30 o'clock. Primary association, Reformed church, picnic-meeting, at Mrs. W. Irving Tragle's, 100 Hooker avenue, 6:30 o'clock. Kerschner circle, First Presbyterian church, picnic-meeting, at Mr s.

Clifford Marshall's, Overocker road, 6:30 o'clock. Vanneman circle, First Presbyterian church, picnic-meeting, at Mrs. Frank J. Leyerle's summer home, Candlewood Lake. Women's division, Dutchess Golf and Country club, "Women's Day at Golf." at the club.

WEDNESDAY Poughkeepsie Garden club, dessert-meeting, at Mrs. A. AlSchoonmaker's Kingwood Park, 1 o'clock. Dutchess County Horticultural society, picnic-meeting, at Mrs. Charles Sauerweln's, "Lone Pine," Staatsburg, 6:30 o'clock.

Social circle, Reformed church, -meeting, at Mrs. Howard Wiggers' summer home, Clinton Corners. Music Appreciation club, dinner-meeting, Talbot's inn, Pleasant Valley. THURSDAY Board of Directors, CommunIty Children's Theater group, Mrs. Henry Kreckman's, 145 Academy street.

FRIDAY Altar society, St. Peter's church, annual card party, the annex, 10 North Clover street, 8 o'clock. SATURDAY Ladies' Aid society, First Lutheran church, strawberry portion supper, at the church. City council, Beta Sigma Phi sorority, annual spring formal dance. Dutchess County Philharmonic society, auditions, Skinner Recital hall, Vassar college, 2 o'clock.

Miss Frances Mary Gerth, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Michael G. Gerth 58 Lent street, and Charles Hedley Harvey, son of Mr. and Mrs.

J. Henry Harvey, Fredericton, New Brunswick, Canada; were married 2 o'clock, June 2, in the Tabernacle Baptist church. The Rev. Wayne J. Shellenberger, minister, officiated, with John Malthouse and Mrs.

Pauline Williams as the soloists. Selections included "The Lord's Prayer "The Love of God," and "Savior Like Shepherd Lead Us." Mrs. Perry Mackey presided at the organ. The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore a gown of primavera embroidered nylon tulle, fashioned with scalloped neckline and hem, short sleeves, long matching mitts, and A floor length, bouffant skirt. Her Angertip veil of white silk illusion was attached to a tiara of seed pearls and she carried a Bible arranged with a white rose corsage and streamers of roses and ivy.

Miss Ethel Gerth, Poughkeepsie, attending her sister as maid of honor, wore a floor length gown of aqua nylon lace and net over taffeta. She had a matching headpiece with small veil and -carried a bouquet of yellow pom pons with aqua ribbon. The bridesmaids were the Misses Jean F. Conway, Milford, and Betty Gerth, Rochdale, cousin of the bride. Their gowns were of yellow nylon lace and net over taffeta, floor length, with which they wore matching headpieces and carried bouquets of yellow pom pons with yellow ribbon.

June Muenzer, Hyde Park, the junior bridesmaid, wore floor length frock of yellow lace and I taffeta. She had matching headpiece and carried a bouquet of yellow pom pons with yellow ribbon. The bride's chose street length ensemble of dusty rose lace over taffeta. She wore navy blue accessories and corsage of white roses. The bridegroom's mother wore a gray suit dress, white accessories, and corsage of red roses.

Mr. George Gerth, grandmother of the bride, was dressed in black. She had white accessories and a corsage of red roses. John Keith, Boston, served as best man. Ushering were Perry Mackey, Wappingers Falls; Michael Gerth Hyde Park, brother of the bride; and Lynn Stairs, Boston, Michael Mitchell, city, was a junior usher.

After the ceremony there was reception at the Odd Fellows hall. For their wedding trip to Maine and Canada the bride selected a navy blue suit, white accessories, and a corsage of white roses. Mr. and Mrs. Harvey will reside at Beverly Farms, Mass.

Mrs. Harvey is a graduate of Poughkeepsie High school and the School of Nursing, Children's hospital, Children's Medical center, Boston. The bridegroom is a graduate of Fredericton High school and Gordon college, Boston. He is, attending Gordon Divinity school. Beverly Farms, studying for the Missionary Society To Hear Visitor's Report Members of the Women's City Missionary society will.

meet at 2:30 o'clock, tomorrow in Youth chapel of the First Presbyterian church. Mrs: Edwin Lloyd will preside, and Mrs. George Fonda will lead the devotions. Miss Elsie E. Grove, new missionary visitor who has succeeded Miss Ursula Dresser, who has retired after seven years as city missionary visitor, will make her Arst report.

Miss Grove is a- retired missionary from the Sudan, Africa, where she headed the Girls' Boarding and Day school in the North Sudan. She also started schools in the South Sudan. William Wheatons Entertain at Party Mr. and Mrs. William Wheaton, 6 Forbus street, were hosts at recent "Bon Voyage" party at Aloy's Venetian room.

in honor of their aunt, Mrs. Naomi House, San Gabriel, Cal. Mrs. House plans to make the return trip to California by plane, tomorrow, after a month's visit here, as well as in upper New York, New Jersey, and Long Island. Guests at the party ineluded Mrs.

Sarah Osterhoudt, and Mrs. Clarence Lewis, Mr. and Mrs. Osterhoudt. Mr.

and Mrs. Paul Wheaton, Me and Mrs. Robert Wheaton, Mrs Sophie Lawrence, Miss Christine Wheaton, Miss Sherry Wheaton, Wayne R. Wheaton, and Charles 1 Jaworski Jr. Constance Rawson Receives Degree Miss Constance Rawson, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Edmund G. Rawson Cedar avenue, was graduated from the University of Vermont yesterday. She ceived a bachelor of science degree in home economics. Chief Justice Warren, of the Supreme was the commencement speaker.

A graduate of Poughkeepsie High school, Miss Rawson is member of Pl Beta Phi sorority. Muriel Lawrence The Mature Parent An uncle once gave Miriam bottle of peppermints that outlasted the lollipops he gave Tom, her little brother. So inevitably came the bedtime when Tom demanded one of Miriam's peppermints. She said "No." But he refused to accept her denial and ran to report it to their Papa. Instantly, Papa withdrew fection from Miriam.

When she tried to tell him why she felt Tom's claim was unjust, he brushed her words aside fully and said sharply, "You are old enough to begin to do for others like your Alone in the kitchen with her candy bottle, Miriam was suddenly overwhelmed by a sense of uncertainty. Papa, the most trustworthy person in the world, had no respect at all for her opinion. Maybe whether she felt thing was fair or unfair didn't matter if it was going to cost her Papa's good will. Miriam gave Tom a mint. At once Papa restored affection to her.

Kissing her goodnight, he called her his "kind girl," sure that he had just taught her a fine moral lesson. He had not. Besides teaching her to falsify her he had taught her that obedience to parent is hurtful and humiliating. impression, accounts for the Miriam, now grown up, is having with her little son Nick. Nick can spend 90 minutes in stalling strategy at bedtime.

Usually he begins by insisting he must tidy his toy box. As his mother begins to reason against this is virtuous resolve, tension collects in her. For this conflict with Nick has reactivated all her undigested feelings toward another child-parent conflict-the one between Papa, and her. No wonder she has to "reason" with Nick Instead of picking him up and carrying him to bed. To Papa's daughter, enforcing child's obedience equals only two things -his hurt and humiliation.

Loving Nick, how can his mother possibly inflict them on him? Miriam's solution is to member what really. made obedience to Papa hurtful and humiliating. It was not that he made her do what he wanted. Always, it was the contemptuous way he treated what she wanted. If this can be made true for Miriam, she can solve this bedtime conflict.

Then she'll know how to make obedience acceptable to Nick by treating his opstead posing feelings with respect inof contempt. 9P 7122. I Bennett Alumna Wed In Washington Miss Julia Cadby Meyer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Matthew Meyer, Washington, D.

formerly of Scarsdale, and Garry Robert Quinn, son of Mr. and Mrs. Garrett F. Quinn, WashIngton; were married on June 2 in the Roman Catholic Shrine of the Most Blessed Sacrament, Washington. The Rev.

E. Carl Lyon officiated. Mrs. Quinn is a graduate of the National Cathedral school and Bennett Junior college, Her father is president and business manager of The Washington Daily News. No.

Winslow Guild Slates Plenie-Session Members of the Harriet Wickes Winslow guild of the First Presbertain church will conduct a pienic-meeting at 6:30 o'clock. Friday night, at the home of Miss Ruth Varian. 32 Carroll street. Mrs. Erastus B.

Relyea, Miss Jane, Bedell, and Miss Dorothy Richardson will serve as co-hostesses. It will be the final meeting until September..