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JANUARY 8, POUGHKEEPSIE NEW YORKER PAGE SEVEN Dorothy Dix Letter Box. Perhaps the girl will grow tired of waiting and fall in love with some other man while you are gone. Perhaps when you are away from the girl you thought you loved and the physical attraction that, drew you to her fades out, you will thank God you didn't marry her. WISER TO WAIT DEAR MISS DIX: We are 20 and 21 years of age. Both have jobs payIng small salaries, but together we could be self-supporting by both working for a while.

There are two major dimculties. The first is that he may be drafted. Also, he is attending night school in order to fit himself for advancement. Would our being martled hamper him In his studies? And also should we wait whether until he is more certain about he will be drafted? We are tired of walting. but we don't want to rush into A marriage that may be spoiled by our going into It before we are ready for It.

Are we mistaken 'in our desire to take our happiness, while we are still young. especially since in view of the world's situation the future and its possibilities are so uncertain? UNDECIDED ANSWER: I wish I knew how to answer that question, because every mail now brings me letters from other troubled young lovers who ask whether it is better to marry or not to marry when the bridegroom must go from the altar to the army. But it is beyond my poor abilities to solve that problem. It needs one with the wisdom of Solomon and the gift of prophecy and who 15, besides, a dispenser of good luck to know whether to tell these youngsters to listen to the voice of prudence or to -the cry of their own hearts. A Heavy Responsibility Prudence says: Walt, Don't load yourselves down with more and heavy responsibilities when you are entering upon a new phase of life in which you cannot foretell what is going to happen to you from day to day.

Prudence also says that the test of love is absence. Perhaps yours will not be strong enough to stand it. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: I am woman of 25; been making my own living for several years. I have been going with a man who is 28. He is attractive and I suppose I am in love with him, but he is not ambitious, has never made more than a mere living for himself.

Considering my ambition and surplus energy, do you think that I can risk depending on him for my living and happiness? He tells me continually that he could get somewhere in the world with me for an inspiration, but I ANT inclined to be doubtful: HAZEL ANSWER: You are well to be doubtful, Hazel, for if' a man hasn't enough initiative to do things for himself, he will never do them for Any woman. Every drunkard tells the woman he is in love with that if she will marry him he will never thirst for a highball again. Every gambler assures his -sweetheart that if he had her little white hand in his it would never itch for cards again. Every ne'er-do-well persuades the girl he wants marry that he only needs her to galvanize him into action. And the trouble is that because girls can belleve anything that they want to believe, they fall for this line and marry their sots and gamblers and lazybones, only find out that marriage isn't a curative agent and that the man who drank before marriage drinks afterward; that the gambler still gambles and the lazy man still sits down on the do-nothing stool.

think no marriage is more un fortunate than that between An energetic, ambitious woman and that of an unambitious man because the wife -is always trying to. prod the husband into action and the husband always balks and always regards his wife as a slave-driver and comes to hate her for It. DEAR MISS DIX: My mother makes us so. unhappy because she will take no part in the life about us, yet' she expects us to stay with her all the time. father tries so hard to get her interested in the moving pictures, but she won't do it, so goes alone.

Isn't there. anything we can do about it? R. E. ANSWER: Not unless you can make her see what an injustice she is doing to both you and your father. She has let herself get into a rut and she finds it easier to stay in it than to make the exertion of climbing out and mixing with other people.

If your mother won't go out anywhere, that's her business, but don't let her sacrifice you to her whim. Go and leave her and have a good time. Perhaps when she finds out that she is left by herself she will brace up and step out some. DOROTHY DIX cannot reply personally to readers, but will an- The Bell Syndicate, Germania Singing' Society To Meet Tomorrow swer problems of general interest through her column. (Released by There will be a meeting of the Singing society 8 o'clock tomorrow night, at Germania hall.

Plans will be made for the rebuilding of the bowling alley and for purchasing a television set. Refreshments be served. Emil Peterhansel will preside. Former Vassar Student Engaged to Marry Mr. and Mrs.

John Haydock, Plainfield, N. announce the engagement and approaching marriage of their daughter, Jean, to' Carl Selwyn Pugh New York City. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Pugh, Smithfield, C.

The wedding will take place in Plainfield, Feb. 17. Miss Haydock is former 'Vassar student. Jane Ann Rugman Celebsades Birthday Jane Ann Rugman, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Leonard H. Rugman, 2 Fox street, celebrated her fifth birthday Saturday afternoon with party at her home. Games were played and prizes Attending ere Patricia VanNostrand, Linda and Renee Bennett, Patricia Prokupeck, Catherine Nolan, Sally Barbara Koob, Suellen, Richard and Horan, Joyce Smith, Penelope Rose 'Humenick, June Washburn and Marie O'Brien. Many From This Vicinity Vacationing in Florida PERSONAL MENTION kill, celebrated her fifth birthday Wednesday, with a family party at home. Bonnie Lee Weaver, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Lloyd Weaver, Wall- Mrs. John Maguire, 88 Fulton avenue, who is a patient at Vassar hospital, '1s reported "Improved." Dr. Jerome Lehner, 5 Hooker avenue, has returned here after ing two weeks in Palm Beach, Fla. Mr.

and Mrs. Claud Riley and sons, Roger, and David, Red Oaks Mill. have returned from motor trip to Lake Charles, La. They spent the New Year's weekend with their son, Recruit Robert L. Riley, Camp Polk, who is with the 45th MedIcal 279th Infantry.

Miss Jean P. Ward, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Albert Ward, 18 Gray street, spent the holidays at a ski reSort in the Bavarian Alps, Garmish, Germany. She recently arrived in Europe and is employed at Headquarters European Command, Provost Marshal Division in Heidelberg, Germany.

The Rev. and Mrs. Gabor Osordas, South road, are observing their first wedding anniversary today. They have a son, Gabor John. Mrs.

Csordas is the former Miss Irene Nemes of this city, Mr. Csordas is pastor of the Hungarian Reformed church. Miss Joyce Buck, Salt Point, has resumed- her studies at Kings college, near Wilmington. after spending the holidays recess with her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Clifford Buck. Mrs. Lytle, Hull, "'Staatsburg. among the patronesses for the 1951 series of operalogs to be given, beginning Wednesday, in the ballroom of the Hotel Pierre, New York. Giuseppe Bamboschek, director and conductor of the Philadelphia Civic Grand Opera will be the guest artist.

Mrs. Edna VanDeusen, 36 Conklin street, is a patient in St. Francis' hospital. Roy A. Knapp, seaman recruit, USN, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Roy O. Knapp, Hopewell Junction, undergoing training At the Naval Training Center, Great Lakes, Ill. The Roger L. Douglas, 25 avenue, 1s patient in -Vassar hospital.

Mrs. Florence Benson, Dover Plaits, is Ill at her home. Mrs. Angeline Renzo, 61 Delafeld street has returned to her home after having been a patient at Vassar hospital. Miss Bernice J.

Sherow, who is betrothed to Daniel U. Delehanty, Salt Point road, is the daughter of George A. Sherow, Salt Point road, and of Mrs. Louise Sherow, 67 Academy street. It was previously stated the latter was deceased.

Social Circle To Meet at Nursery Members of the Social circle of the Reformed church will meet at the Vassar College Nursery school, Wednesday. At this time, the work of the school will be discussed and Aims of the children at work and at play will be shown. After a business session the members will adjourn to the Alumnae House for social hour. Gold Star Wives Plan Election Plans were made for election of officers at the next meeting, at session of the Gold Star Wives, Friday, 'at the American Legion home. At this time, Mrs.

Anna Baker, president, gave a report on a recent rummage sale and a Christmas party. Arrangements were made for the local group to attend the convention of the Gold Stars Wives Feb. 9 to 12, at the Park. Sheraton, Hotel, New York City. meeting -will be held Friday, Feb.

2, at the Legion home. Vassar Alumna Wed Saturday Married Saturday, in the Round Hill Community church, Greenwich, were Miss Amie Clare Bushman, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert P. Bushman, Greenwich and Dr.

William Graham Knox Jr. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Knox, Manhasset, L. I.

The bride WAS graduated from Vassar college, class of :46, and is a mathematician in the pure science department of IBM, New York City. Troth Announced Of Vassar Senior Mrs. William Payne' Thompson, Princeton, N. announces the engagement of her daughter, Miss Sandra Hebard, to Alfred Wild Gardner, Princeton, son of the late Mr. and Mrs.

Henry Burchell Gardner. Miss Hebard, daughter also of Frederick Vanuxen Hebard: Philadelphin, is a senior, at Vassar college. City Mission Society Plans Meeting Tomorrow Mrs. Fonda, new preslthe City Missionary society, will conduct the Arst meeting of the new year tomorrow. The sesston, 2:30 o'clock, will be in the Youth chapel, First Presbyterian church.

Insurance Man To Wed Saranac Girl Announcement is made of the engagement of Miss Gretchen Brakle, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Donald VanBrakle, Saranac Lake, to Edwin John Gerken, son of Mr. and Mrs. E.

N. Gerken, Cornwallon-Hudson. The bridegroom is associated with the New York Life in the Newburgh office. St. Andrew's Guild To Have Luncheon- Meeting Mrs.

Ralph Kelder, 3 Tallardy. place, will be hostess to members of the Senior guild of St. Andrew's church tomorrow. Mrs. Herman Ebeling will preside at the luncheonI meeting.

Miss Kilmer Future Bride Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Raymond H. Kilmer, 42 Winnikee avenue, of the engagement of their daughter, Edith to Russell T. Hack.

He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. George E. Hack, South Windsot, Conn. Miss Kilmer 1s graduate of Poughkeepsie High school and 18 employed by the New York Telephone Co.

Mr. Hack, an alumnus of Ellsworth, Memorial High school. South sot, attended the University of Connecticut. He spent three years with the during World War II and is associated with the Fire Insurance association, Hartford, Conn. No date has been set for the wedding.

Dr. Miller Burrows To Lecture at Vassar Department of religion at Vassar college is sponsoring a lecture to be given in Taylor Hall, 7:30 o'clock Wednesday, by Dr. Miller Burrows, professor of Biblical Theology, Yale University Divinity school on the subject "The Dead Sea Scrolls." Residents of Poughkeepsie are invited to attend. The Dead Sea Scrolls are a group of ancient parchment and leather manuscripts dating from the first two centuries before Christ which were discovered by Bedouins in 4 small cave high up on the cliffs near the northwest shore of the Dead Sea in the winter of 1946-47. Some of them came into the possession of Archbishop Athanasius Samuel, Assyrian Archbishop of Jerusalem and Transjordan, who is now in this country exhibiting them at various places.

Others came into the possession of the Hebrew university at Jerusalem. One of them Is a complete manuscript of the Book of Isaiah in an Incredibly good- state of preservation. They are regarded by scholars as the most important find ever made of Old Testament manuscripts. Professor Burrows was director of the American School of Oriental Research in Jerusalem when some of the scrolls were brought to that institution for investigation. He has been leader among scholars in their study and publication.

He is editor of Volume Dead Sea Scrolls, which was published in 1950. Immanuel Society Names Chairmen Chairmen for the year were pointed at a recent meeting of the Immanuel society of the First LuthThey are Mrs. Carl Eprenger and Miss Marguerite Wacker, sunshine; Mrs. Anthony: Juan and Miss Emma Weber, tors; Mrs. Adolph Nothnagle, planist; Miss Elsie Yetzer, program; Mrs.

Ernest L. Stoetzner, secret pal; Miss Katherine Wacker and Miss MarHegeman, cupboard Mrs. Willam A. Luckfleld, publicity. At this -time, tentative plans were made for the annual food sale in April.

Reports were given by the Junior choir and sunshine committees and donation approved for the Christmas seal campaign, A Birthday cake was featured in honor of Mrs. Samuel O. Slee, Mrs. Alexander Roettger, Mrs. Dora, Wardell, Mrs.

Ernest Beck and Frank Hegeman. Hostesses for the evening were Mrs. William Bahtet, Mrs. Ward Blass, Mrs. Roman Unterschutz, Mrs.

Frank Tessmer, Mrs. Frank Valentine and Mrs. Carolyn Tamney. Mrs. William Erts presided at the business session.

Gaynor Maddox Let's Eat Troubled about food costs? Then try. eating other foods than the ones you serve most of the time. Here's 8. fish and cheese sauce combination for a really delicious main course. Note.

how it uses nonfat dry milk in the recipe to get more protein for less money. We have a great supply of this non-fat dry milk in the country and housewives are beginning to use it more and more to put flavor and more into, their budget meals. Stuffed Fish Filets. Baked in Cheese Sauce (Makes 4 servings) Four individual fish filets, about 1 pound, 1 tablespoon finely chopped onion. cup finely chopped celery, 3 tablespoons butter, tablespoons non-fat dry milk, teaspoon salt, teaspoon thyme, dash of pepper, cups soft bread crumbs, lightly packed, 1 to 2 tablespoons water, cups cheese Wash and dry fish.

Cook onion and celery in melted butter in skillet until tender but not browned, about 10 minutes. Stir in non-fat dry milk. Combine non-fat dry milk mixture, salt, thyme, and pepper with bread crumbs; moisten with water. stufling into four portions. Place a portion on each filet.

Roll uD fillets, fasten with toothpick and place in shallow baking pan. Pour cheese sauce over all. Bake in moderate oven (350 Deg. until fish is tender, about 25 minutes Serve at once, garnishing with chopped parsley. Cheese Sauce (Makes cups) One cup water.

3 tablespoons non-tap dry milk, 2 tablespoons flour, teaspoon salt, teaspoon dry mustard, dash of pepper, tablespoons butter. pound processed American cheese, shredded. Pour water into saucepan. Combine non-fat dry milk, flour, salt, mustard and pepper: sprinkle over top of water. Beat with rotary beater until just blended: Add butter.

Cook over medfum heat, stirring constantly until thickened. Stir in cheese, and continue cooking, while erving, until cheese is melted. TOMORROW'S MENU BREAKFAST: Tangerines, puffy ham omelet, euriched toast, butter or. fortified margarine, coffee, milk. LUNCHEON: Corned beef hash, pickled beets, rye bread, butter or.

fortified margarine, orange taploca, tea, milk. DINNER: Stuffed fish Allets baked in cheese sauce, parsley potatoes, -buttered kale, en riched. bread, butter or margarine, Waldorf salad, chocolate graham cracker plea coffee, milk. Ruth Millett We, the Women Many from Poughkeepsie and vicinity are vacationing in various parts of Florida. Some made the trip early in the season, while 'others will be traveling south from time to time through March and April.

Mr. and Mrs. Charles T. Brose, 3 Dwight street, left here today for Sarasota, where they will spend the winter. They were accompanied by their daughter, Barbara, as far AR Bronxville where she is a student at Sarah Lawrence college.

During the Easter recess In March, Miss Brose plans to Join her parents in Florida, Mr. and Mrs. John P. Adriance, 117 Livingston street, plan to leave here over the weekend for Ormond Beach, where they will be winter residents. Homer M.

Chatterton, 8 Grubb street, left here yesterday for St. Petersburgh. He plans to be away about two months. Among others who are vacationing in the south are Mr. and Mrs.

William -D. Howell, Miami, Mr. and Mrs. Harry Becker, Lakeland; Mr. and Mrs.

William Knauss, St. Henry Dykeman, Jupiter: Mr. and Mrs. G. Corliss.

Badgley, Sarasota; Mr. and Mrs. William G. Shafer, Daytona Beach. Mr.

and Mrs. Robert Hoe Sr. "Riverbit," North. road, Miami Beach; Della Scutt, Hollywood; Mr. and Mrs.

Fred C. Rittenger, West Palm Bench; Mr. and Mrs. Walter E. Walker, Largo; Mrs.

William C. Dennis, Miami, and Mr. and Mrs. Frank A. W.

Shaw, Belleview, Edgar Stratton, Port Orange: Mr. and Mrs. Charles H. Kirchner, Miami; Mr. and.

Mrs. Roy Miller, Clearwater, Lloyd E. Spoor, Miami Beach. More to Attend Guild Dinner Tomorrow. Additional reservations have been made for the instillation dinner of the St.

Francis' hospital Women's guild. It will be held at 7 o'clock tomorrow night at Anchor inn. Among those planning to attend are Mrs. Edward M. Baker, Mrs.

Edward Garney, Mrs, Chris Noll, Mrs. Frank McManus, Mrs. Joseph Kenney, Mrs. Herbert Burnett, Mrs. John J.

Dugan, Mrs. John V. Hackett, Mrs. James E. Cook, Mrs.

Edward Poplawski, Mrs. Frank J. Mack, Mrs. Gladys Ciolko, Mrs. Edward J.

Rabenda, Mrs. H. Wesley Harbison, Mrs. Thomas J. Whalen, Mrs.

J. Carl Kimlin, Mrs: John Cody, MIR. Louis P. Crauer Mrs. William J.

Ciolko, Mrs. Joseph R. Lippi and Mrs. Ann Mrs. J.

Thomas Dietz, Mrs. Lewis A Trutner, Mrs. C. Peter Miller, Mrs. Arthur W.

Travis, Mrs. Joseph Murphy and the Misses Mary. Freer, Marjorie K. Schlude, Louise S. Wermuth, Julia H.

Dobler, Josephine Talbot, Agnes M. Burnes, Anne M. Roche, Elizabeth Prowell, Ann Purcell and Loretto Purcell. Bard College Alumni Become Engaged Announcement has been made by Mr. and Mrs.

William Churek, Jersey City, N. of the engagement of their daughter, Olga Vera, to Clinton Curry. Archer Jr. son of Mr. and Mrs.

Archer, Shrub Oak. Miss Churek and her fiance are graduates of Bard college, Annandale-on-theHudson. Luckey Circle To- Hear Mrs. Wallberg Mrs. John A.

Wallberg will address members of the Luckey circle, First Congregational church, tomorrow night. There will be a pot luck supper, 6:30 o'clock in Margaret chapel at the church. Mrs. Russell Hargraves 1s chairman, assisted by Mrs. August Herzfeld and Mrs.

Glendon Seaman. Mrs. Wallberg, president of the 'Society of Women, will give a report of the, Cleveland conference which she attended. Mrs. Anne Cabot Needlework 50101 This adorable cat makes an excellent household pet! It will guard new and hide soiled or worn coverings and never ask for anything in return.

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ENGAGED TO MARRY is Miss JOAN M. DLUBACH, daughter of Alderman and Mrs. James Diubach, 40 South Perry street. Her fiance Is Francis A. Oakwood boulevard.

Joan M. Dlubach Engaged to Marry Bitzko, 34 Alderman and Mrs. James Ditbach, 40 South Perry street, announce the engagement of their daughter, Joan Marie, to Francis A. Bitzko, He is the son of and Mrs. Louis Bitzko, 34 Oakwood boulevard.

The is a graduate of. Nativity school and Poughkeepste High school, class of '50, A past vice-president of Omega Epsilon sorority, she is employed in the business office of St. Francis' hospital. Mr. Bitzko 1s a graduate of local schools and is.

employed at Pederal Bearings Co. Inc. Calendar TODAY Roosevelt PTA, at the school, 8 o'clock. guild, First Baptist church, at Mrs. Frederick Lake's Violet avenue, 8' o'clock.

Evening Reading circle, First Presbyterian church, at Mrs. Vernon E. Shepherd's, 17 Rosalind road, 8 o'clock. -Ladies' auxiliary, Fairvie Fire.Co.,. at the firehouse, 8 o'clock, Rosary and Sanctuary societies, St.

Mary's church, at the school, 8 o'clock. Herbrew Progressive Ladies' Aid, Jewish Center, 8 o'clock; Syracuse Alumnae club, at Mrs. Benjamin Van Wickler's, 171 South Cherry street, 8 o'clock. Vassar hospital Alumnae association, Home One, at the hospital, 8 o'clock. TOMORROW Vassar Temple Sisterhood, at the Temple, 8 o'clock: Cora Deel circle, First Presbyterian church, and Mrs.

Matthew Neely's, 32 Kingston avenue, 2:30 o'clock. Good WIll Bible class, Washington Street Methodist church, the church, 8 o'clock. Vassar hospital Floor Assistants, Home One, Vassar hospital, 8 o'clock. Women's guild, St. Francis' hospital, Anchor inn, 7 o'clock.

Mother's guild, St. Peter's church, new social hall, 8 o'clock. Poughkeepsie Day Nursery ciation, at Mrs. Harold Rosenthal's. 71 Hooker avenue.

Lyric club, Case chapel, Reformed church, o'clock. Tuesday club; YWCA; 2:30 o'clock. Garden Study club, Work center, 1:30 o'clock. Vannentuan circle, First Presbyterian church, at Mrs. John R.

Evan's, John's parkway. Philathea Bible class, at Mrs. Alfred Bahret's, Violet avenue, 6:30 o'clock. WEDNESDAY Women's auxiliary of the Jewish center, at the center, 8 o'clock. WSCS, Washington street Methodist church, at the church, 7:30 o'clock.

Music Appreciation club, at Mrs. Casper Koenig's, 6 Roosevelt avenue, 8 o'clock. Dutchess Golf and Country club, annual meeting, Amrita club, 8 o'clock. Book Review at the First Presbyterian church, 2:30 o'clock. Poughkeepsie Council of the PTA, Krieger school, 2 o'clock.

Social circle, Reformed church, Vassar College Nursery school, 8 o'clock. Wesley circle, First Presbyterian church, at Mrs. Bert Green's, 5 Carroll street, 8 o'clock. Harriet Winslow guild, First Presbyterian church, at the church, 6:15 o'clock. SATURDAY New York State Button society, Hotel.

Campbell, St. society Mount Carmel church, dance, at the school hall. Vassar, Graduate Wed in Middlebury Mr. and Mrs. Mark Leavenworth Sperry, Middlebury, nounce the marriage of their daugnter, Miss Carolyn Campbell Sperry, to George Henry Stege III, son of Mrs.

Stege New Canaan, and the Inte Mr. Stege. The ceremony took place Saturday In the Congregational church, Middlebury, The bride was graduated from Vassar College, class of, '49. Bennett Alumna Married Saturday Dr. and Mrs.

Walter Harris Fordham, Scranton, announce the marriage of their Miss Sarah Orland Fordham, to Frank Elwell Dietrick. He is the son el Mr. and Mrs. Elwell Parrish Dietrick, also of Scranton. The ceremony took place Saturday in the Westminster Presbyterian church, Seranton.

The bride is a graduate of Bennett Junfor college, Millbrooky Bennett Alumna's Troth Announced Mr. and Mrs. John Wesley Redding, Toledo, Ohio, announce the betrothal of their daughter, Suzanne Gale, to Kenneth Sutherland. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Hollis Sutherland, New Rochelle. The prospective bride is an 'alumna of Bennett Junior college, Millbrook. Ruth' Andrus FUTURE BRIDE Is MISS JEAN MC CARTHY, daughter of Mrs. Nora McCarthy, Wappingers Falls, ANNOUNCEMENT is made of the engagement of Miss EDITH A. KILMER, 42 Winnikee avenue, to Her Nance Is John F.

Avazian, Red Russell T. Hack, South Windsor, Oaks Mill. Conn. Jean McCarthy's Betrothal To J. F.

Avazian Announced Mrs. Nora. McCarthy, 14 Clinton street, Wappingers Fails, announces the engagement "or her daughter, Jean, to John F. Avazian. He is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. John H. Avazian, Red Oaks Mill. Miss McCarthy is an alumna of St. Mary's and Wappingers Central schools.

She is a senior in the College of Saint Rose, Albany, where she is majoring in nursing. Mr. Avazian attended. Roosevelt High school and is a graduate of Wappingers. Central school.

He served in the Navy 18 months and is employed at IBM. No date has been set for the wedding. McGrath-Hughes Engagement Announced Mr. and Mrs. Edward J.

McGrath, Pawling, the engagement of. their 'daughter. Eileen, to Thomas Henry Hughes Jr. He is the son of Thomas H. Hughes, Rar-sey, N.

J. and the late Mrs. Hughes. Miss McGrath 1s an alumna of the College Mount Saint Vincent. She also attended Danbury Teachers' college.

Mr. Hughes was graduated from Admiral Farragut academy, During World War IT he attended the U.S. Merchant Marine academy and is a graduating. member of the class of '51 at Seton. Hall university.

He has been assigned to Cadet Air Training, U.S. Air Force, and will report Monday to San Angelo, Tex. Philathea Bible Class To Have Supper Members of the Philathea Bible class of- the Washington Street Methodist church will meet at 6:30 o'clock tomorrow night for a Christmas party and covered-dish supper. It will be held at the home of Mrs. Alfred Bahret, Violet avenue.

At this time, mystery pal gifts will be exchanged. Miss Etta Huntly, will be assistant hostess. Mrs. Floyd Tubbs will preside at a brief business session. Dramatic Society To Meet Tonight, Dramatic society members will meet tonight for a business -session.

It will be held 8:15 o'clock in the social hall. Plans. for the year will be made at this time. Elmer Sutka will preside. The Rt.

Rev. Monsignor Michael P. O'Shea 1s moderator. Vassar Senior Becomes Fiancee Announcement has been made by Mr. and Mrs.

Virgil Eudell Bennett, Beaver, the engagement of their daughter, Barbara Jeanne, to Robert M. Blum, New York City, A senior at Vassar college, Miss Bennett is an alumna of the Winches-Thurston school, Pittsburgh, Pa. Former Local Resident Issued Marriage License Issued 'a marriage license Saturday in New York City were James P. Morrissey, New York City, formerly of Poughkeepsie, and Miss Mary T. Murphy.

She is the daughter of Mr. Mrs. James Murphy, New York City. Mr. Morrissey, the son 1 of Mr.

and Mrs. Thomas F. Morrissey, an accountant. The wedding will take place Saturday, in the Church of the Immaculate Conception, New York City, Rinaldis Celebrate Wedding' Anniversary Mr. and Mrs.

Jacob Rinaldi, 387 Church street, were honored at a party at their home Thursday, 'to mark wedding anniversary. Their daughter, Miss Jane-Rinaldi, was hostess. Attending were Mr. and Mrs. Frank Merto and daughter, Suzanne, Mrs.

John Mr. and Mrs. John Marchese, Mrs. Jennie Rinaldi, Susan and Dennis Rinaldi and Mrs. Rose Facchine.

Mother's Guild To Meet Tomorrow There will be a meeting of St. Peter's Mother 'guild 8 o'clock tomorrow night in the social hall. Mrs. Raymond Will, president, will side. The third, grade room mothers will be hostesses at the social hour after the business session.

The Rt. Rev. Monsignor. Michael P. O'Shea is moderator.

Former City Resident To Marry Soon Clifton H. Lee, Brooklyn, formerly of this city has obtained a marriage license in Brooklyn. The son of Mr. -and Mrs. Harold Lee, he will wed Miss Margaret M.

Brooklyn, Feb. 3, in St. Michael's church, Brooklyn. A dental assistant, the bride-elect is the daughter Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Schneidecker. Vassar Club Aides Luncheon Guests Miss Juliet Thompson, New York City, gave a luncheon today 1 Sherry's in New York, for members for the committee in charge of the tioket, sale for the performance of The Magic Flute. The- opera, Feb, 10, at the Opera House, is for the benefit of the New York Vassar Club Scholarship. It some of these self-elected critics, who are always sounding off on what is wrong with American women would take a long, close look at American men they could really bang-up piece. The number one fault, they'd have to admit, is that American men are so critical of American women.

A woman may get annoyed or disgusted on critical of one man in particular -but in general American women really like men and find few faults with them as a group. But American men rarely have anything but criticism for women as A group. Number two fault of American men is their insatiable appetite for flattery. It's gotten so bad that their keep telling 1S: "Tell us we're wonderful all the time or we'll find some other woman who will." MARRIAGE 1 IS ONE- WAY STREET Number three fault is their refusal to accept a fifty-fifty responsibility for making a marriage happy and successful, They rush a girl off her feet, marry her and then stt back and dare her to, try and hold them. Whether the marriage flourishes or flounders is entirely her responsibility.

Then there is that little matter of dullness. All too often the American husband is a good fellow away from home, a genial host if there are guests, but a mighty dull companion there is no one around but the little woman. Alone with his loving spouse he can't even be bothered to make conversation, and his home manners are A sorry sight compared with his office and social manners. Any man who doesn't believe these are fairly typical faults of the American husband ought to see the letters that come to me from wives. (All rights reserved, NEA Service Elizabeth Allaire's Betrothal Made Known Mr.

and Mrs. Richard Wilson Bennet, Brookhaven, L. announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Elizabeth Allaire, to Dr. Ralph Burnady Burroughs. He is the son of Dr.

and Mrs. Harold C. Burroughs, Swift Current, Saskatchewan. from The John bride-elect Burroughs was school, graduated Clayton, and from Vassar college. While here, she was a member of the Rombout Hunt, Inc.

She is also a member of the Bridlespur Hunt of St. Louis. Dr, Burroughs received his medical degree, from the University of Manitoba, Women's American ORT To Have Party Mrs. Minna Stamm and Mrs. Cynthia Epstein are co-chairmen of the Women's American ORT party to be held 8 o'clock, Tuesday, Jan.

16. Featured will be two musical skits and three acts starring a dancer, a singer and a musical trio. Mrs. Sol Wayne is refreshments chairman. Winslow Guild To Have Supper Member of.

the Harriet Wickes Winslow guild of the First Presbyterian church will- meet 6:30 o'clock, Wednesday, at the church, for a covered dish supper. Miss Clara Duryes and Miss Antoinette Goetz will be co-hostesses. Anne Adams Dress Patterns 4855 SIZES TABBED FOR FASHION Young Cavalier collar! More dash and swagger in those big tabbed pockets, deep set sleeves! This classic is honey all one, AS shown here, or with contrast. Pattern T4855 comes in sizes 12, 14, 16, 18, 20; 30, 32, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42. Size 16 takes yds.

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N. Y. Print plainly NAME, ADDRESS with ZONE, SIZE and STYLE READY NOW! Your brand new Anne Adams Spring Pattern Book! Send Twenty cents for this collection of the smartest new -season fashions for all ages and sizes. There are -one-yard patterns, one-patternpart patterns and FREE instructions to, make double-envelope handbag! Name reet Address City State Alicia Hart Beauty Hints Those who feel bit self-conscious when wearing the dramatic mascara and eye shadow currently fancied by fashion often shun eye altogether. Preferring A "natural" look, they leave their lashes and brows untoucned, thereby robbing themselves of rightful teauty.

Its a better plan to choose.a middie path between artificiality and utter neglect. Nature often profits from a gentle nudge from mortals, If you wish to enhance your eyes Inconspicuously you'll And helpful trio of eye grooming standbys which have recently been released by their makers in new and extraconvenient form. Tweezers with scissors handles are an aid in eliminating the weedy look from the area above your eyes. These not only make your tweezers-handling more professional, but also provide maximum pressure at the pulling point. They are designed with curve in the center, which allows your hand to operate in an out-of-theway position and gives you a full and unobstructed view of your brows.

The ends of the Instrument are blunt, to prevent accidental nipping of the skin. For best results, wring out soft cloth in hot water and apply it to your brows before tweezing. Avoid jerking the hairs out at' right angles; they'll slip out easily if you pull them In the direction in which they grow. new midget tweezer of this design is available for carrying in your purse or tucking into your desk at the office. These are handy for quick clean-ups when your regular beauty routine has gone awry, or for hasty grooming before unexpected dates.

Also obtainable in both purse and standard sizes is a colorless promade for. grooming and glamorizing lashes and This multi-purpose cream adds a dewy sheen to your lids, a glistening look to your eyebrows, and depth to your lashes. When the pomade is stroked onto your lashes with your finger or a small brush, it darkens them evenly from tip to base, giving them an appearance of length and luxuriance. It you prefer the more positive accent of mascara for evening, it's recommended that -you apply the pomade to serve as a lash and eyebrow cream while you sleep. Never attempt to combine mascara with pomade: they are chemically incompatible, For a finishing touch, curl your lashes.

Only a minute is required to sweep your lashes upward where they will show to best advantage. Prepare them for curling. by smoothing on pomade, making sure you apply the cream evenly. Every hair should stand out separately. Then insert your lashes in the jaws of the curler, and count slowly to 30 while you press the scissors handles firmly together.

The pliable rubber cushion, against which your lashes are curled, may be removed for cleaning. When it shows signs of wear, it may be replaced with a snap-in refill now offered by the maker. a For Important evenings. It's good idea to carry a purse-size curler in your handbag. After quick use of this gadget in the ladies' lounge, your eyes should be especially etfective across dinner table or above your partner's shoulder as you dance.

Violet Avenue PTA To Hear Mrs. Klose Mrs. Willard Klose, Hook, will be guest speaker at a meeting of the Violet Avenue PTA 8 o'clock Wednesday tat the school. Mrs. Klose, the wife os a CBS television director and the mother of six children will speak on "Are Radio and Television a Home Problem?" Hostesses for the evening are Mrs.

Robert Poster and the third grade mothers. Society To' Meet Tomorrow There will be meeting of the WS0S of Hedding Methodist church, o'clock, tomorrow night at the church. The meeting was originally set for last week. Hostesses will be Mrs. Spencer Miller, Mrs.

J. Ephraim Miller, Mrs. Joseph Held, Mrs. Mildred Silvernall and Mrs. Harold Brownson..